Taurus-Leo

I met a Taurus guy about 4 months ago things heated up quickly then he moved to a new city about 1.5 hours ago from me. We were in contact .mostly text. It slowed down a little since both of us started new jobs and I was trying to be understanding with him. He came home the first weekend he could we had sex and hung out. Then he left and barely any communication. Well I got pissed which I know was wrong but I was angry. I told him he had bad communication skills and was selfish. I got word vomit and told him I hope he finds happiness then regretted what I said later. A week later I text to mail him things I had gotten him for his allergies prior to all of this and I told him I was sorry. He told me maybe I don't speak his love language and I broke up with him and hurt him. First of all I didn't know we were together but I guess it was unspoken since we had gotten so close. Now we are back talking and it's not the same. I know he talks to others I see him on dating apps and he says he is barely on there. I really want to move on but its so hard. We connected on such a deep level. I tell meself I'm not talking to him anymore at the most I'll go 2 days then poof he text after not texting or when I text prior he takes forever to respond. I keep wondering if he is manipulating me? Deep down I feel like it but I dont want to believe it. Do I have build up trust again or should I trust my instincts and just really move the heck on??

This one's easy. Move on. Look, you slept with each other and then because he didn't respond in the way you think he should have you got the arsehole about it. If you can't handle sex outside of a committed, exclusive relationship with someone who is not your boyfriend then don't have sex with guys who are not your boyfriend. It was your decision. It happened. Maybe it was good sex, maybe it wasn't. He's miles away now and there's no point worrying about it. Just chalk it up to experience and take time out to just enjoy life.

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