Taurus man barely talks to me

we are long distance and he barely talks to me once we go back to our respective homes. the thing is: in person, it's like we know we should get married right then and there. i just got out of a very deep relationship with a cancer, so my patience has already been put through the ringer when it comes to communication. so i'm not throwing fits and cursing him out because of this. not yet at least lol. i'm now reading about how non-communicative taurus men can be and i throw my hands up lol. i could easily marry this guy, he is worth the wait and understanding. that saying: "when you know, you know" is SO true with him. he knows that i love him deeply, but long distance has him so hesitant. should i just wait this out for him to also *know* i am someone that special to him, or move on. i'm focused on closing the distance gap between us and i'm really not trying to mess this up with him...but he gives me little to no line of communication on the phone. it's like he's ghosted me, but obviously he comes back around eventually like he didn't cmpletely ignore my last message to him. he is extremely busy and stressed for trying to find a job...pressure is on for the both of us. am i just a more enjoyable, beloved hookup for him or is this normal mode for getting serious with a taurus? i don't have much experience with men, but in his defense, he says if I lived close to him he'd "bother me all the time" obviously I think he's worth it, but I just want to know if this is normal unevolved taurus male fuckery?

normal mode for getting serious with a taurus is you can't get rid of them.

Right Taurus women are really boring in the texting department also unless it the just getting to know phase. In person they are another person.

Posted by jeane
normal mode for getting serious with a taurus is you can't get rid of them.

For real tho I still have one that pops up all the time the matter what i do.

Posted by Xclipsiko
we are long distance and he barely talks to me once we go back to our respective homes. the thing is: in person, it's like we know we should get married right then and there. i just got out of a very deep relationship with a cancer, so my patience has already been put through the ringer when it comes to communication. so i'm not throwing fits and cursing him out because of this. not yet at least lol. i'm now reading about how non-communicative taurus men can be and i throw my hands up lol. i could easily marry this guy, he is worth the wait and understanding. that saying: "when you know, you know" is SO true with him. he knows that i love him deeply, but long distance has him so hesitant. should i just wait this out for him to also *know* i am someone that special to him, or move on. i'm focused on closing the distance gap between us and i'm really not trying to mess this up with him...but he gives me little to no line of communication on the phone. it's like he's ghosted me, but obviously he comes back around eventually like he didn't cmpletely ignore my last message to him. he is extremely busy and stressed for trying to find a job...pressure is on for the both of us. am i just a more enjoyable, beloved hookup for him or is this normal mode for getting serious with a taurus? i don't have much experience with men, but in his defense, he says if I lived close to him he'd "bother me all the time" obviously I think he's worth it, but I just want to know if this is normal unevolved taurus male fuckery?

Taureans are sensual/sensors. Out of sight, out of mind. If he's making an effort to contact you at all in between visits, he's doing really good. This is normal. Here's a for instance with my Taurus guy. Today, it was 89 degrees with 80% humidity. He needed to go out shopping for a pair of sunglasses. I literally did not hear from him all day until he got home. When I asked him what happened he actually said he couldn't message because it was so hot, and the crowds of people, and selecting the right sunglasses, the sweating from the humidity were all stressing him out. Yes...you heard that correctly. He couldn't message back because he was stressed by the weather and a social outing. Weeeee! And there you have it...Taurus behavior in a nutshell. He probably only wants to bring his happiness to you, not his stress. He will deal with that all alone so that you are protected. You could simply say something like, "I really love it when we message during the day. I don't care what it's about, but if it's from you, it just makes my day" See where that leads...

I guess he should talk to you more. When in an ldr, I wouldn't usually get time but then yeah, I would initiate calling my guy and texting him out of the blue here and there. And keep a few weekends just for him, to talk or video call.

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Posted by Xclipsiko
we are long distance and he barely talks to me once we go back to our respective homes. the thing is: in person, it's like we know we should get married right then and there. i just got out of a very deep relationship with a cancer, so my patience has already been put through the ringer when it comes to communication. so i'm not throwing fits and cursing him out because of this. not yet at least lol. i'm now reading about how non-communicative taurus men can be and i throw my hands up lol. i could easily marry this guy, he is worth the wait and understanding. that saying: "when you know, you know" is SO true with him. he knows that i love him deeply, but long distance has him so hesitant. should i just wait this out for him to also *know* i am someone that special to him, or move on. i'm focused on closing the distance gap between us and i'm really not trying to mess this up with him...but he gives me little to no line of communication on the phone. it's like he's ghosted me, but obviously he comes back around eventually like he didn't cmpletely ignore my last message to him. he is extremely busy and stressed for trying to find a job...pressure is on for the both of us. am i just a more enjoyable, beloved hookup for him or is this normal mode for getting serious with a taurus? i don't have much experience with men, but in his defense, he says if I lived close to him he'd "bother me all the time" obviously I think he's worth it, but I just want to know if this is normal unevolved taurus male fuckery?

Taureans are sensual/sensors. Out of sight, out of mind. If he's making an effort to contact you at all in between visits, he's doing really good. This is normal. Here's a for instance with my Taurus guy. Today, it was 89 degrees with 80% humidity. He needed to go out shopping for a pair of sunglasses. I literally did not hear from him all day until he got home. When I asked him what happened he actually said he couldn't message because it was so hot, and the crowds of people, and selecting the right sunglasses, the sweating from the humidity were all stressing him out. Yes...you heard that correctly. He couldn't message back because he was stressed by the weather and a social outing. Weeeee! And there you have it...Taurus behavior in a nutshell. He probably only wants to bring his happiness to you, not his stress. He will deal with that all alone so that you are protected. You could simply say something like, "I really love it when we message during the day. I don't care what it's about, but if it's from you, it just makes my day" See where that leads...

Hahahahahaha! Sincerely 'the heat of the sun"stopped him from messaging you! Hahahahahah Never heard of that before!

How long have you been with your Taurus if you don't mind me asking? Do you live with your Taurus?

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Hahahahahaha...yes literally. It was so consuming his senses that he couldn't focus on any kind of positive interaction with me and he didn't want to complain to me. It is actually genuinely cute and endearing though. I love that he only wants to bring me his absolute best. That's not really reality in relationships though.

We've just hit the one year mark and got engaged last month. In the beginning the contact was a bit infrequent, but as time passes it gains in frequency. We message constantly throughout the day and it's everyday. Almost obsessive at this point, which I hear can be common with Taurus Scorpio combinations. I'm a Scorpio moon and a Leo sun, so my sun really appreciates the attention and my turbulent moon is calmed by his steady consistent nature.

He lives 7500 miles away and we have a long distance relationship. We're making plans to be together so we don't currently live together. I do spend as much time with him as I can when we travel and visit one another.

I find that making subtle hints doesn't really work, but to get a Taurus to engage more deeply, you could try saying something about how you feel. Then at some point in the conversation, cut it short, and say "You know what, it's ok...I'll just handle it myself." I've found that he doesn't let that settle or fester for long. He feels the "NEED" to take of whatever it is and all of a sudden paying very close attention so he can fix it.