Met a Taurus few months ago. We hit it off and went on several dates. It seemed as though he was super into me as he would hold my hand, open doors for me, insist on paying for everything. Would try to squeeze in time to see me as he and I have super busy work schedules. He was very affectionate in ways that I would think are intimate. And then out of nowhere didn't hear from him for a week. He's not the best texter to begin with, but a whole week was pretty odd. We spoke briefly after I reached out but no plans to see each other was made. Then two days later he reached out, he asked me what my schedule was like - but still no plans were made. Our last message, he asked me (again) what my schedule was like for the following day and when I responded he never wrote back. Haven't heard from him since then and its going on 2 weeks. Do you think he lost interest? I mean he could've fooled me - i honestly thought he was pretty into me. Is it safe to say this Taurus is ghosting me?
Taurus man done for good?

it sounds like he is interested but just busy.
just don't put yourself on the shelf for him. keep dating. if he wants to go out, he knows where to find you.
just don't put yourself on the shelf for him. keep dating. if he wants to go out, he knows where to find you.

Posted by heir68It's very safe to say he's ghosting you. Do what us Aquas do best and not care a s--t
Met a Taurus few months ago. We hit it off and went on several dates. It seemed as though he was super into me as he would hold my hand, open doors for me, insist on paying for everything. Would try to squeeze in time to see me as he and I have super busy work schedules. He was very affectionate in ways that I would think are intimate. And then out of nowhere didn't hear from him for a week. He's not the best texter to begin with, but a whole week was pretty odd. We spoke briefly after I reached out but no plans to see each other was made. Then two days later he reached out, he asked me what my schedule was like - but still no plans were made. Our last message, he asked me (again) what my schedule was like for the following day and when I responded he never wrote back. Haven't heard from him since then and its going on 2 weeks. Do you think he lost interest? I mean he could've fooled me - i honestly thought he was pretty into me. Is it safe to say this Taurus is ghosting me?

I think you should reach out.
Taurus man can seem very confident but they are definitely in there own head a lot
im sure he isn't sure what you are thinking, if you are wanting to see him or is its just meaningless casual dating.
I feel like he might be thinking he has proved himself with all the gentlemen gestures and that he is wanting you take the next move. if you like him, and you want to continue to get to know him. then you should call, or send him a voice message and let him know your thinking about him and would like to see him again.
there should be no reason that you can sit back and expect him to make all the moves.
I say this from personal experience, I have been with my Taurus for a year and a half and I have to say that he treated me with so much affection and respect at the start that when he started to pull away there was no way was going to let him go that easy. and for me, it just took some balls on my end to be more secure with myself and reach out more. I would text him good morning, I would let him know when I was thinking about him, send him links to music and I wouldn't be afraid to ask him there was something wrong. granted he never told me in the begianing that he was insecure about what I was doing with him (he though I was just stringing him along like a boytoy he told me) but later on in the comfort of what evolved to be he told me that he was crazy about me and he had no idea how I felt so he pulled away a little, and that he need more confirmation or reassurance because he doesn't know what to think (in his head).
so if you like him, don't be afraid to let him know, to speak your mind and chase him a little.
this is probably the one and only sign that these choices are expectable, they like to feel wanted just like us.
good luck.
love my Taurus man
Taurus man can seem very confident but they are definitely in there own head a lot
im sure he isn't sure what you are thinking, if you are wanting to see him or is its just meaningless casual dating.
I feel like he might be thinking he has proved himself with all the gentlemen gestures and that he is wanting you take the next move. if you like him, and you want to continue to get to know him. then you should call, or send him a voice message and let him know your thinking about him and would like to see him again.
there should be no reason that you can sit back and expect him to make all the moves.
I say this from personal experience, I have been with my Taurus for a year and a half and I have to say that he treated me with so much affection and respect at the start that when he started to pull away there was no way was going to let him go that easy. and for me, it just took some balls on my end to be more secure with myself and reach out more. I would text him good morning, I would let him know when I was thinking about him, send him links to music and I wouldn't be afraid to ask him there was something wrong. granted he never told me in the begianing that he was insecure about what I was doing with him (he though I was just stringing him along like a boytoy he told me) but later on in the comfort of what evolved to be he told me that he was crazy about me and he had no idea how I felt so he pulled away a little, and that he need more confirmation or reassurance because he doesn't know what to think (in his head).
so if you like him, don't be afraid to let him know, to speak your mind and chase him a little.
this is probably the one and only sign that these choices are expectable, they like to feel wanted just like us.
good luck.
love my Taurus man
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