Mineral
@Mineral
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Taurus man, I thought he would ask me out
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Posted by lavaliquidPosted by Mineral
In the beginning he mentioned going out at the end of the weekend and I did not said anything but ''OH.. Maybe, it could be''.
I was him again the following days, I ignored him and it seems he did ignored me back when he saw I did not wanted to talk. I was talking with a friend and he passed buy, we saw each other for 1 second and I behaved like he is a stranger. He did not said anything either.
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This.
You told him you weren't interested.
@Mineral,
We you interested in him, or did you just like the attention he was giving you?
I didn't get the vibe that there was interest on your part....
Did I misinterpret anything?
We you interested in him, or did you just like the attention he was giving you?
I didn't get the vibe that there was interest on your part....
Did I misinterpret anything?
You done missed your opportunity. He did ask you out you know?
I don't see anything you done wrong. Saying maybe is not saying no. Also, it's best to take your time with Caps. A Scorpio invited me somewhere after talking maybe twice...things like that are just too early for us. Don't worry about it and don't sweat it. If he likes you he'll be back around
Posted by lnana04I think it depends how much he likes her. The issue is they are shy, they are cautious and no one likes to be rejected. If he gets a sense that it's a lost cause then there is little chance he is going to try again.
I don't see anything you done wrong. Saying maybe is not saying no. Also, it's best to take your time with Caps. A Scorpio invited me somewhere after talking maybe twice...things like that are just too early for us. Don't worry about it and don't sweat it. If he likes you he'll be back around
Redbull's comments sound to be very likely what this guy is thinking/feeling/perceiving.
Posted by CapzBasically.
There is no mind game, she's not an easy girl, it's all
I've never said "sure" to a guy asking me out anywhere after days of knowing him...Not even after weeks. It takes time.
The ignoring part. I run hot and cold with everyone on a daily basis and it has nothing to do with games. We just don't always feel like talking. That's typical hot/cold Cap.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by lnana04It depends on how "desperate" he is...
I don't see anything you done wrong. Saying maybe is not saying no. Also, it's best to take your time with Caps. A Scorpio invited me somewhere after talking maybe twice...things like that are just too early for us. Don't worry about it and don't sweat it. If he likes you he'll be back around
He asked her out, she point blank turned him down... Then she starts to ignore him... What kind of crap is that!
Taurus is reactionary! People that are fake and play silly games is not for a Taurus. We don't have the patience for mind game.. Board games and bedroom games 😉 yeah... Mind games, nah!
What she could have done was say "sure why not" and show some form of "positivity /interest" but she gives a half assed answer then proceeds to ignore him in a hope that that would show interest??! That just dumb.
If he is a good looking, fit, sound, popular Taurus, he will not bat an eyelid at her again... Tauruses like this are very popular with the female population.. He will have tooooooooo much "game" and a pick of choices...
"snooze and you lose"....
I personally feel that really only people who have managed to ensnare a Taurus and managed to hold on them, should really be the people giving advice on this forum...
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That's cute you got out what you personally feel.
Posted by CapzIm not a Taurus but why not? People who meet over tinder have had much less face to face time.Posted by Feral_doeso if i ask a taurus girl out after 20 minute of convo she said yes ?Posted by CapzI understand what you're saying. But that's not the case here.Posted by Feral_doeNot really, if a girl sending me mixing signal for me she's indirectly saying that "you can have me but, you have to conquer me". In short she want to be in couple and you wont fuck her until one week or one night, you'll have to work for thatPosted by CapzI disagree. That's sending mixed signals.
There is no mind game, she's not an easy girl, it's all
Her wants and actions completely contradict one another. That's not even playing hard to get. Not in a way that leaves him wanting more, but in one that screams 'don't bother wanting me'.
As a taurus, that's how I see it. As a cap, you most likely see it as a challenge.
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Posted by CapzMy point is it depends context. If you met someone online or through tinder than 20 minutes is not long before asking someone out. This is different though. It's not 20 minutes. It's several conversations over several days.Posted by jeane? i'm doing auction for winning da bookPosted by CapzIm not a Taurus but why not? People who meet over tinder have had much less face to face time.Posted by Feral_doeso if i ask a taurus girl out after 20 minute of convo she said yes ?Posted by CapzI understand what you're saying. But that's not the case here.Posted by Feral_doeNot really, if a girl sending me mixing signal for me she's indirectly saying that "you can have me but, you have to conquer me". In short she want to be in couple and you wont fuck her until one week or one night, you'll have to work for thatPosted by CapzI disagree. That's sending mixed signals.
There is no mind game, she's not an easy girl, it's all
Her wants and actions completely contradict one another. That's not even playing hard to get. Not in a way that leaves him wanting more, but in one that screams 'don't bother wanting me'.
As a taurus, that's how I see it. As a cap, you most likely see it as a challenge.
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Both people had their own way of dealing with things. No one is right or wrong, they just are. The problem is that in this circumstance these approaches are incompatible.
Posted by RedbullYou sound just like my partner.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeAnd one more thing. Im not usually the fast reckless type. There is generally a long feeling out process and Im not saying dont be patient or cautious. Im just saying If I put myself out there and extend an invitation, which is very rare and usually quite awkward feeling, Im not going to continue playing myself. All I need is a reason to see that is not the move there. Then thats the end of that. "uh no tiger this isnt for you" oh ok, my bad haha. Try not to be embarrassed and leave that alone keeping my dignity.Posted by Redbullthat's stupid, so the other person can't feel insecure and feel you out before you're gone like its nothing, you know some people would like to know they're just not a NUMBER
Ah the old second thought thing. I know on the rare occasion I try anything like that, my suggestion not being accepted is all I would need. At least I would know no hard feelings but thats a no go. Im moving on and thats the end of that. Its go my own way or strictly friend zone because I know where I stand there. No confusion or going back and forth thats a time to make up my mind and be free. Best of both worlds. And yes I have experienced the she now wants to hook up after the fact thing but too late then. I already figured it out and I dont like to go backwards because I have seen where its not the move and probably how its supposed to go/for the best.
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Clarification:
When he came to talk to me, I was drinking coffee with my roommate and he was talking in the phone, after the call he did came to us, my friend knew I liked him told him ''Hey, why not take a seat with us''. Just in the first 5 minutes he started to talk about going out. WHAT? His instagram is full of girls, 60% of his photos are with other girls who either dance with him or he as a tourist. Shall I be one more photo on his insta collection? No thanks... He did not asked me out, he asked me and my friend to go out.. and I did not refused I was like...''maybe'' It was not a no.
He also asked me something very weird ''Do you want to be famous?''. I answered honestly, no I don't drem fame. He told me he does. Is that a normal thing to ask?
My friend says he for sure know I like him because every time I see him my cheeks get pink. The other friend of me says, that I am so cold. I don't know what to believe...
Girls do go after him, he has it all expect from money... but I guess it's just about time. I'm already jealous of him being right now in Germany and following 3 new girls he meet in his last trip and you know nothing happen between us.
Honestly, I want him to try a bit more to get me.
It's getting serious guys, I'm thinking of him more and more... and I know It ain't good. 😢
When he came to talk to me, I was drinking coffee with my roommate and he was talking in the phone, after the call he did came to us, my friend knew I liked him told him ''Hey, why not take a seat with us''. Just in the first 5 minutes he started to talk about going out. WHAT? His instagram is full of girls, 60% of his photos are with other girls who either dance with him or he as a tourist. Shall I be one more photo on his insta collection? No thanks... He did not asked me out, he asked me and my friend to go out.. and I did not refused I was like...''maybe'' It was not a no.
He also asked me something very weird ''Do you want to be famous?''. I answered honestly, no I don't drem fame. He told me he does. Is that a normal thing to ask?
My friend says he for sure know I like him because every time I see him my cheeks get pink. The other friend of me says, that I am so cold. I don't know what to believe...
Girls do go after him, he has it all expect from money... but I guess it's just about time. I'm already jealous of him being right now in Germany and following 3 new girls he meet in his last trip and you know nothing happen between us.
Honestly, I want him to try a bit more to get me.
It's getting serious guys, I'm thinking of him more and more... and I know It ain't good. 😢
+ When I said ''Maybe'' he did said ''let's see..! this weekend!''. That very weekend I was home watching south american soap opera and eating popcorn...
Here is my assessment of this situation.
She's 20 and this Bull is 26 years of age.
She's insecure and quite intimidated by his physical appearance that she has already concluded and wrote him off as being a player, superficial, and probably conceited, thus, already putting her guards up.
This of course is stemmed from her own insecurities.
I'm pretty sure if this Bull was unattractive, the conversation would have played out a little more differently. The Cap would have been more proactive, and all these silly little assumptions would have never played out in her head.
Funny, people are penalizing the Bull for not seeing past her insecurities.
Keep in mind, they're in their twenties. It's not his job to analyze her head. He's not Dr. Phil. He's a young, handsome man who happened to take an interest in a certain female and was rejected. End of story. No big mystery here.
He may have seen her as being 'standoffish, a 'b&tch, disinterested, or playing mind games.'
For most Bulls, a spade is a spade.
If anyone knows a Bull, playing games?....Nah, we're not about that life.
Play "Woe is Me"....and a Bull will pull a disappearing act faster than your head will spin.
When this happens, getting closer to him will take MUCH MUCH longer.
Good Luck to the posters penalizing the Bull and defending the Cap.
She's 20 and this Bull is 26 years of age.
She's insecure and quite intimidated by his physical appearance that she has already concluded and wrote him off as being a player, superficial, and probably conceited, thus, already putting her guards up.
This of course is stemmed from her own insecurities.
I'm pretty sure if this Bull was unattractive, the conversation would have played out a little more differently. The Cap would have been more proactive, and all these silly little assumptions would have never played out in her head.
Funny, people are penalizing the Bull for not seeing past her insecurities.
Keep in mind, they're in their twenties. It's not his job to analyze her head. He's not Dr. Phil. He's a young, handsome man who happened to take an interest in a certain female and was rejected. End of story. No big mystery here.
He may have seen her as being 'standoffish, a 'b&tch, disinterested, or playing mind games.'
For most Bulls, a spade is a spade.
If anyone knows a Bull, playing games?....Nah, we're not about that life.
Play "Woe is Me"....and a Bull will pull a disappearing act faster than your head will spin.
When this happens, getting closer to him will take MUCH MUCH longer.
Good Luck to the posters penalizing the Bull and defending the Cap.
Posted by Mineral
I'm Capriorn(20) and he is Taurus.(26)
This guy saw he, started to ask me little questions every time he would notice my presence, asked my how are my exams going when i left the elevator and he took it, asked my city of origin while walking in the other direction.Then he started to say hello to me, giving me huge smiles. It was awkward but I liked it. Little by little I started to like his attention.
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He even come to seat in the table where me and my friend were drinking coffee, me and him talked for 2-3 hours, he told me a lot about himself and so did I. In the beginning he mentioned going out at the end of the weekend and I did not said anything but ''OH.. Maybe, it could be''.
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Few days after, i took a book and sat in the same place. He saw me, sat in front of me and started to ask what i was studying, he said he was good at that in school, and after 3 minutes of superficial chat he said: ''Well, Anastasia, I'm going to let you study now''. He sat in the other table with his friend. I was shocked, wasn't he supposed to ask for my number? Didn't he wanted to go out with me this weekend?
Posted by Mineral
I was him again the following days, I ignored him and it seems he did ignored me back when he saw I did not wanted to talk. I was talking with a friend and he passed buy, we saw each other for 1 second and I behaved like he is a stranger. He did not said anything either.click to expand
Just in case anyone was under the impression my assessment was biased.
Please read her quotes.
She was standoffish on MORE than ONE occasions
Please read her quotes.
She was standoffish on MORE than ONE occasions
Posted by TaurusBull1977I heard him saying that girls go after him, bragging about that like a 14 year old teen. He is 26!
Just in case anyone was under the impression my assessment was biased.
Please read her quotes.
She was standoffish on MORE than ONE occasions
Posted by MineralYou want him to try more to get you? Why? It sounds like you don't even like him. like tb77 said, it sounds like you just enjoy the attention.Posted by TaurusBull1977I heard him saying that girls go after him, bragging about that like a 14 year old teen. He is 26!
Just in case anyone was under the impression my assessment was biased.
Please read her quotes.
She was standoffish on MORE than ONE occasions
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You are right, I know. It ain't worth it.Posted by MineralThen leave him alone!!!Posted by TaurusBull1977I heard him saying that girls go after him, bragging about that like a 14 year old teen. He is 26!
Just in case anyone was under the impression my assessment was biased.
Please read her quotes.
She was standoffish on MORE than ONE occasions
What's your game plan?!! To bring him down a peg or two
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by MineralAnd the bull knows you are not worth it that's why he didn't waste any more time than he had to..Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You are right, I know. It ain't worth it.Posted by MineralThen leave him alone!!!Posted by TaurusBull1977I heard him saying that girls go after him, bragging about that like a 14 year old teen. He is 26!
Just in case anyone was under the impression my assessment was biased.
Please read her quotes.
She was standoffish on MORE than ONE occasions
What's your game plan?!! To bring him down a peg or two
Be gone!
Now you can see from his fb or whatever that he is having the time of his life with other females. He doesn't need you and is proving it....click to expand
Why are you overreacting?
Posted by MineralLies = Not present to defend himself.
I heard him saying that girls go after him, bragging about that like a 14 year old teen. He is 26!
Posted by MineralYour quote = The TRUTH!
I'm Capriorn(20) and he is Taurus.(26)
He can have any girl he likes and I don't want to be easy. After all he is a model, a dancer.
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He didn't have to market himself to you....
Your assessment of him said EVERYTHING!
@Mineral,
She's not overreacting here.
She asked you a straightforward question.
What is your game plan?
What are you looking for?
Can you please help us to help you...We're not Cappies,lol.
She's not overreacting here.
She asked you a straightforward question.
What is your game plan?
What are you looking for?
Can you please help us to help you...We're not Cappies,lol.
Posted by TaurusBull1977He is handsome, we all know it. The problem is bragging about it.Posted by MineralLies = Not present to defend himself.
I heard him saying that girls go after him, bragging about that like a 14 year old teen. He is 26!
Posted by MineralYour quote = The TRUTH!
I'm Capriorn(20) and he is Taurus.(26)
He can have any girl he likes and I don't want to be easy. After all he is a model, a dancer.
He didn't have to market himself to you....
Your assessment of him said EVERYTHING!
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Posted by TaurusBull1977She already said it partly
@Mineral,
She's not overreacting here.
She asked you a straightforward question.
What is your game plan?
What are you looking for?
Can you please help us to help you...We're not Cappies,lol.
Posted by Mineral
Honestly, I want him to try a bit more to get me.
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Who cares who is with who. She's a cap, and I am as well. I'm letting her know she did nothing wrong, just in case she may feel that she did, especially after reading the comments. I understand her behavior and actions.Posted by lnana04At least I'm a Taurus with a Taurus. Jeane, capri_corn are with tauruses. We speak from that perspective. The rest of you on here is giving advice based on a cap. The OP is interested in a TAURUS not a CAP. So those of you giving advice from the point of view of a cap is not helping the OP whatsoever!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by lnana04It depends on how "desperate" he is...
I don't see anything you done wrong. Saying maybe is not saying no. Also, it's best to take your time with Caps. A Scorpio invited me somewhere after talking maybe twice...things like that are just too early for us. Don't worry about it and don't sweat it. If he likes you he'll be back around
He asked her out, she point blank turned him down... Then she starts to ignore him... What kind of crap is that!
Taurus is reactionary! People that are fake and play silly games is not for a Taurus. We don't have the patience for mind game.. Board games and bedroom games 😉 yeah... Mind games, nah!
What she could have done was say "sure why not" and show some form of "positivity /interest" but she gives a half assed answer then proceeds to ignore him in a hope that that would show interest??! That just dumb.
If he is a good looking, fit, sound, popular Taurus, he will not bat an eyelid at her again... Tauruses like this are very popular with the female population.. He will have tooooooooo much "game" and a pick of choices...
"snooze and you lose"....
I personally feel that really only people who have managed to ensnare a Taurus and managed to hold on them, should really be the people giving advice on this forum...
Not misleading nonsense....
That's cute you got out what you personally feel.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Mineral,
She's not overreacting here.
She asked you a straightforward question.
What is your game plan?
What are you looking for?
Can you please help us to help you...We're not Cappies,lol.
Don't have a game plan. I am traditional, guy get the girl. I won't go after him even if I like him.
Every time he smiles to me It makes me happy 😄 , I can't understand why... he is not the kind of guy I'm usually attracted to.
@Jeane,
Is this what it is?
LMAO.
She wants to be chased?
By a man she claims is immature and childish and full of himself?
Funny, she conveniently left that out in the first two initial posts.
Her pseudo-arrogance is masking her insecurities.
And now she's trying to take his credibility down a notch to make her premise appear a little more believable.
If the Bull was as self-absorbed and full of himself as she claimed he was, it would have been nothing for him to ask her for her phone number, or to keep pursuing.
The real truth?
He is none of those things that she described. He's no longer interested in pursuing her, and she's 'salty' because of it.
A player keeps pursuing.
A true gentleman makes a graceful exit.
Mineral isn't fooling anyone.
Is this what it is?
LMAO.
She wants to be chased?
By a man she claims is immature and childish and full of himself?
Funny, she conveniently left that out in the first two initial posts.
Her pseudo-arrogance is masking her insecurities.
And now she's trying to take his credibility down a notch to make her premise appear a little more believable.
If the Bull was as self-absorbed and full of himself as she claimed he was, it would have been nothing for him to ask her for her phone number, or to keep pursuing.
The real truth?
He is none of those things that she described. He's no longer interested in pursuing her, and she's 'salty' because of it.
A player keeps pursuing.
A true gentleman makes a graceful exit.
Mineral isn't fooling anyone.
@Mineral
Traditional girls don't play games are hard to get.
They get courted.
"2. The Man Pursues The Woman
While this practice varies from community to community, most groups that favor courtship also favor a more traditional method of wooing. The man initiates the friendship, the "talk", and even approaches his and the woman's parents for their blessing.
Apply this: If you're a woman eager to let the man take the lead, by all means, let him! For those who prefer an equal-opportunity approach to dating, try letting him pay now and then (or at least hold the door for you) without being deeply offended. Many men like to feel they're leading the way, even if you know you secretly have the upper-hand".
Source
http://www.yourtango.com/201066112/courtship-primer
Traditional girls don't play games are hard to get.
They get courted.
"2. The Man Pursues The Woman
While this practice varies from community to community, most groups that favor courtship also favor a more traditional method of wooing. The man initiates the friendship, the "talk", and even approaches his and the woman's parents for their blessing.
Apply this: If you're a woman eager to let the man take the lead, by all means, let him! For those who prefer an equal-opportunity approach to dating, try letting him pay now and then (or at least hold the door for you) without being deeply offended. Many men like to feel they're leading the way, even if you know you secretly have the upper-hand".
Source
http://www.yourtango.com/201066112/courtship-primer
Learn the difference.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100From my perspective, and I don't have to be a Taurus to tell her she did nothing wrong. I'm not clueless on anything.Posted by lnana04"she did nothing wrong" but from whose perspective? You are not a Taurus.. U are clueless as to how to keep one (the same "game playing" as the OP no doubt), yet you think you can give advice regarding one...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Who cares who is with who. She's a cap, and I am as well. I'm letting her know she did nothing wrong, just in case she may feel that she did, especially after reading the comments. I understand her behavior and actions.Posted by lnana04At least I'm a Taurus with a Taurus. Jeane, capri_corn are with tauruses. We speak from that perspective. The rest of you on here is giving advice based on a cap. The OP is interested in a TAURUS not a CAP. So those of you giving advice from the point of view of a cap is not helping the OP whatsoever!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by lnana04It depends on how "desperate" he is...
I don't see anything you done wrong. Saying maybe is not saying no. Also, it's best to take your time with Caps. A Scorpio invited me somewhere after talking maybe twice...things like that are just too early for us. Don't worry about it and don't sweat it. If he likes you he'll be back around
He asked her out, she point blank turned him down... Then she starts to ignore him... What kind of crap is that!
Taurus is reactionary! People that are fake and play silly games is not for a Taurus. We don't have the patience for mind game.. Board games and bedroom games 😉 yeah... Mind games, nah!
What she could have done was say "sure why not" and show some form of "positivity /interest" but she gives a half assed answer then proceeds to ignore him in a hope that that would show interest??! That just dumb.
If he is a good looking, fit, sound, popular Taurus, he will not bat an eyelid at her again... Tauruses like this are very popular with the female population.. He will have tooooooooo much "game" and a pick of choices...
"snooze and you lose"....
I personally feel that really only people who have managed to ensnare a Taurus and managed to hold on them, should really be the people giving advice on this forum...
Not misleading nonsense....
That's cute you got out what you personally feel.
You caps are too much....click to expand
I'm totally shocked by some of the answers, it seems like taurus members dislike capricorns with a passion.... wow
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I'm not leading the OP anywhere, but thanks for feeling I have that much power.Posted by lnana04According to the "proper" relevant information on here from people who deal with tauruses, who are Taurus and who are in a relationship with tauruses, you are on the wrong track and you are leading the OP up the garden path...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100From my perspective, and I don't have to be a Taurus to tell her she did nothing wrong. I'm not clueless on anything.Posted by lnana04"she did nothing wrong" but from whose perspective? You are not a Taurus.. U are clueless as to how to keep one (the same "game playing" as the OP no doubt), yet you think you can give advice regarding one...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Who cares who is with who. She's a cap, and I am as well. I'm letting her know she did nothing wrong, just in case she may feel that she did, especially after reading the comments. I understand her behavior and actions.Posted by lnana04At least I'm a Taurus with a Taurus. Jeane, capri_corn are with tauruses. We speak from that perspective. The rest of you on here is giving advice based on a cap. The OP is interested in a TAURUS not a CAP. So those of you giving advice from the point of view of a cap is not helping the OP whatsoever!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by lnana04It depends on how "desperate" he is...
I don't see anything you done wrong. Saying maybe is not saying no. Also, it's best to take your time with Caps. A Scorpio invited me somewhere after talking maybe twice...things like that are just too early for us. Don't worry about it and don't sweat it. If he likes you he'll be back around
He asked her out, she point blank turned him down... Then she starts to ignore him... What kind of crap is that!
Taurus is reactionary! People that are fake and play silly games is not for a Taurus. We don't have the patience for mind game.. Board games and bedroom games 😉 yeah... Mind games, nah!
What she could have done was say "sure why not" and show some form of "positivity /interest" but she gives a half assed answer then proceeds to ignore him in a hope that that would show interest??! That just dumb.
If he is a good looking, fit, sound, popular Taurus, he will not bat an eyelid at her again... Tauruses like this are very popular with the female population.. He will have tooooooooo much "game" and a pick of choices...
"snooze and you lose"....
I personally feel that really only people who have managed to ensnare a Taurus and managed to hold on them, should really be the people giving advice on this forum...
Not misleading nonsense....
That's cute you got out what you personally feel.
You caps are too much....
Although her days are numbered anyway... Caps like to play too many games...
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You are one of the most annoying people on dxp, how dare you really?
But keep talking. I'm starting to realize where your issues are stemming from.
@CapriUnicorn,
I like your statement.
Hopefully you can give her some advice on how to proceed.
Her game plan certainly isn't working...🙂
I like your statement.
Hopefully you can give her some advice on how to proceed.
Her game plan certainly isn't working...🙂
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Again, I see you, and you don't have to be on the Cap board talking nonsense...A board that you've been on multiple times before speaking as if you were a Cap man...because you are here doing it.Posted by lnana04I'm merely talking fact.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I'm not leading the OP anywhere, but thanks for feeling I have that much power.Posted by lnana04According to the "proper" relevant information on here from people who deal with tauruses, who are Taurus and who are in a relationship with tauruses, you are on the wrong track and you are leading the OP up the garden path...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100From my perspective, and I don't have to be a Taurus to tell her she did nothing wrong. I'm not clueless on anything.Posted by lnana04"she did nothing wrong" but from whose perspective? You are not a Taurus.. U are clueless as to how to keep one (the same "game playing" as the OP no doubt), yet you think you can give advice regarding one...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Who cares who is with who. She's a cap, and I am as well. I'm letting her know she did nothing wrong, just in case she may feel that she did, especially after reading the comments. I understand her behavior and actions.Posted by lnana04At least I'm a Taurus with a Taurus. Jeane, capri_corn are with tauruses. We speak from that perspective. The rest of you on here is giving advice based on a cap. The OP is interested in a TAURUS not a CAP. So those of you giving advice from the point of view of a cap is not helping the OP whatsoever!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by lnana04It depends on how "desperate" he is...
I don't see anything you done wrong. Saying maybe is not saying no. Also, it's best to take your time with Caps. A Scorpio invited me somewhere after talking maybe twice...things like that are just too early for us. Don't worry about it and don't sweat it. If he likes you he'll be back around
He asked her out, she point blank turned him down... Then she starts to ignore him... What kind of crap is that!
Taurus is reactionary! People that are fake and play silly games is not for a Taurus. We don't have the patience for mind game.. Board games and bedroom games 😉 yeah... Mind games, nah!
What she could have done was say "sure why not" and show some form of "positivity /interest" but she gives a half assed answer then proceeds to ignore him in a hope that that would show interest??! That just dumb.
If he is a good looking, fit, sound, popular Taurus, he will not bat an eyelid at her again... Tauruses like this are very popular with the female population.. He will have tooooooooo much "game" and a pick of choices...
"snooze and you lose"....
I personally feel that really only people who have managed to ensnare a Taurus and managed to hold on them, should really be the people giving advice on this forum...
Not misleading nonsense....
That's cute you got out what you personally feel.
You caps are too much....
Although her days are numbered anyway... Caps like to play too many games...
In fact cap women seem annoying in the first instance....
You are one of the most annoying people on dxp, how dare you really?
But keep talking. I'm starting to realize where your issues are stemming from.
You don't see me on the cap board talking nonsense....
At least give advice from a genuine perspective...
I'm saying as I see it and I don't care whether you like it or not....click to expand
You've blown my comments completely out of proportion to satisfy your own agenda. You don't speak facts at all. The advice you give and the places it comes from is not genuine, it's biased as heck and I know why. That's your personal internal issues though. Once you sort that out maybe I'll hear a fact or two.
@Capricunicorn,
An individual doesn't have to be 'cheap and easy' to be cordial.
My gut instinct tells me the Bull already knows she's not that type, which is why his approach to her was genuine.
Saying "Hello" isn't going to kill her or imply that she's some cheap wantin slut." LOL.
If the OP is as traditional as she claims, she really needs to understand the art of courtship.
Let him call you....answer the phone when he does.
Let him ask you out.....say 'yes' when he does.
Let him take you out for ice cream.....get to know him when he does.
She can wait to kiss him, hug him on the 3rd, 4th date, who cares.
However, at least she would have established a pattern of interest on her part, and he would have established a pattern of building trust, and respect for her...on his part.
Remember with Bulls, we move linear, predictable and in a pattern of consistency.
Flightiness is a total deal breaker for us.
An individual doesn't have to be 'cheap and easy' to be cordial.
My gut instinct tells me the Bull already knows she's not that type, which is why his approach to her was genuine.
Saying "Hello" isn't going to kill her or imply that she's some cheap wantin slut." LOL.
If the OP is as traditional as she claims, she really needs to understand the art of courtship.
Let him call you....answer the phone when he does.
Let him ask you out.....say 'yes' when he does.
Let him take you out for ice cream.....get to know him when he does.
She can wait to kiss him, hug him on the 3rd, 4th date, who cares.
However, at least she would have established a pattern of interest on her part, and he would have established a pattern of building trust, and respect for her...on his part.
Remember with Bulls, we move linear, predictable and in a pattern of consistency.
Flightiness is a total deal breaker for us.
Posted by Capri__unicornAnd there it is!
Now that the OP has shared more info I can kind of see both perspectives. There is something endearing about him and half of her wants to pursue but the other half is assessing him and his behaviors to also see if HE is worth the potential risk. His behavior can come off as a red flag...had she dated him and came on here sharing this info after the fact I think people would attack her for not seeing the signs that he was a player. Maybe he is trying to impress her by being flashy because he really likes her? Cap women and Taurus men have a weird dynamic. Both of them can be testy, manipulative, and confusing...usually because they really want each other but don't want to get hurt...I think it's because the connection can be so strong that you honestly don't know whether to jump all in or run and hide
Gotta get to a place where there's comfort and trust. Until then...
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100That's my point. If the world is too big the bull don't care enough. So the capricorn did well ignoring the player.Posted by lnana04Oh wise one! How would the cap expect to get to that level if she shows disinterest one minute and then ignoring him the next? Who on earth has got time for that?!! Not a handsome bull... The world is tooooo big...Posted by Capri__unicornAnd there it is!
Now that the OP has shared more info I can kind of see both perspectives. There is something endearing about him and half of her wants to pursue but the other half is assessing him and his behaviors to also see if HE is worth the potential risk. His behavior can come off as a red flag...had she dated him and came on here sharing this info after the fact I think people would attack her for not seeing the signs that he was a player. Maybe he is trying to impress her by being flashy because he really likes her? Cap women and Taurus men have a weird dynamic. Both of them can be testy, manipulative, and confusing...usually because they really want each other but don't want to get hurt...I think it's because the connection can be so strong that you honestly don't know whether to jump all in or run and hide
Gotta get to a place where there's comfort and trust. Until then...
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Capriunicorn....
The Cap was pushing him away....
Lets be real...😉
As I stated earlier....
The Cap was pushing him away....
Lets be real...😉
As I stated earlier....
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Capricunicorn,
An individual doesn't have to be 'cheap and easy' to be cordial.
My gut instinct tells me the Bull already knows she's not that type, which is why his approach to her was genuine.
Saying "Hello" isn't going to kill her or imply that she's some cheap wantin slut." LOL.
If the OP is as traditional as she claims, she really needs to understand the art of courtship.
Let him call you....answer the phone when he does.
Let him ask you out.....say 'yes' when he does.
Let him take you out for ice cream.....get to know him when he does.
She can wait to kiss him, hug him on the 3rd, 4th date, who cares.
However, at least she would have established a pattern of interest on her part, and he would have established a pattern of building trust, and respect for her...on his part.
Remember with Bulls, we move linear, predictable and in a pattern of consistency.
Flightiness is a total deal breaker for us.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Like I said, keep talking and exposing your agenda, angle, and your REAL issue...And to say you speak facts yet got my personal business all wrong makes you even more of a joke.Posted by lnana04Don't get it twisted...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Again, I see you, and you don't have to be on the Cap board talking nonsense...A board that you've been on multiple times before speaking as if you were a Cap man...because you are here doing it.Posted by lnana04I'm merely talking fact.Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I'm not leading the OP anywhere, but thanks for feeling I have that much power.Posted by lnana04According to the "proper" relevant information on here from people who deal with tauruses, who are Taurus and who are in a relationship with tauruses, you are on the wrong track and you are leading the OP up the garden path...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100From my perspective, and I don't have to be a Taurus to tell her she did nothing wrong. I'm not clueless on anything.Posted by lnana04"she did nothing wrong" but from whose perspective? You are not a Taurus.. U are clueless as to how to keep one (the same "game playing" as the OP no doubt), yet you think you can give advice regarding one...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Who cares who is with who. She's a cap, and I am as well. I'm letting her know she did nothing wrong, just in case she may feel that she did, especially after reading the comments. I understand her behavior and actions.Posted by lnana04At least I'm a Taurus with a Taurus. Jeane, capri_corn are with tauruses. We speak from that perspective. The rest of you on here is giving advice based on a cap. The OP is interested in a TAURUS not a CAP. So those of you giving advice from the point of view of a cap is not helping the OP whatsoever!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by lnana04It depends on how "desperate" he is...
I don't see anything you done wrong. Saying maybe is not saying no. Also, it's best to take your time with Caps. A Scorpio invited me somewhere after talking maybe twice...things like that are just too early for us. Don't worry about it and don't sweat it. If he likes you he'll be back around
He asked her out, she point blank turned him down... Then she starts to ignore him... What kind of crap is that!
Taurus is reactionary! People that are fake and play silly games is not for a Taurus. We don't have the patience for mind game.. Board games and bedroom games 😉 yeah... Mind games, nah!
What she could have done was say "sure why not" and show some form of "positivity /interest" but she gives a half assed answer then proceeds to ignore him in a hope that that would show interest??! That just dumb.
If he is a good looking, fit, sound, popular Taurus, he will not bat an eyelid at her again... Tauruses like this are very popular with the female population.. He will have tooooooooo much "game" and a pick of choices...
"snooze and you lose"....
I personally feel that really only people who have managed to ensnare a Taurus and managed to hold on them, should really be the people giving advice on this forum...
Not misleading nonsense....
That's cute you got out what you personally feel.
You caps are too much....
Although her days are numbered anyway... Caps like to play too many games...
In fact cap women seem annoying in the first instance....
You are one of the most annoying people on dxp, how dare you really?
But keep talking. I'm starting to realize where your issues are stemming from.
You don't see me on the cap board talking nonsense....
At least give advice from a genuine perspective...
I'm saying as I see it and I don't care whether you like it or not....
You've blown my comments completely out of proportion to satisfy your own agenda. You don't speak facts at all. The advice you give and the places it comes from is not genuine, it's biased as heck and I know why. That's your personal internal issues though. Once you sort that out maybe I'll hear a fact or two.
We know you spent FOUR years trying to lock down a Taurus and here you are thinking your advice works..
Get real..
Some of you cap women are really sneaky...
I give genuine advice. I know about caps as 8 used to have a relationship with a cap in my 20s. I am a Taurus and am with a Taurus and have 4 Taurus friends...
Where's your experience in all this?
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You keep poking, wanting me to go places with you but I won't sweety, however do me a favor and ask yourself why you have an interest in me going there.
I don't care to know the answer, just do it for yourself.
@Mineral,
Please don't use your age as an excuse.
Learn rather than critique this thread.
Bulls have offered you some interesting insight on this thread....
And yet, you're ignoring it.
You're only commenting when you're being co-signed.
Keep this up, and I guarantee you...You will LOSE him!
If you haven't so already.
Do you want advice, or validation for your 'immature' actions?
Please don't waste our time.
Please don't use your age as an excuse.
Learn rather than critique this thread.
Bulls have offered you some interesting insight on this thread....
And yet, you're ignoring it.
You're only commenting when you're being co-signed.
Keep this up, and I guarantee you...You will LOSE him!
If you haven't so already.
Do you want advice, or validation for your 'immature' actions?
Please don't waste our time.
She should definitely continue her salty attitude.
I see absolutely no reason why she should even consider this, especially not if he's moved on to someone else.
He's given up and it was easy for him to do so...Next!
Really...Next!
I don't think this is how guys act when they are locked in on someone, or really interested.
I see absolutely no reason why she should even consider this, especially not if he's moved on to someone else.
He's given up and it was easy for him to do so...Next!
Really...Next!
I don't think this is how guys act when they are locked in on someone, or really interested.
@Inana,
Wrong answer.
Salty =False Pride =Alone
This will help her better....Please read this quote.
Wrong answer.
Salty =False Pride =Alone
This will help her better....Please read this quote.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Capricunicorn,
An individual doesn't have to be 'cheap and easy' to be cordial.
My gut instinct tells me the Bull already knows she's not that type, which is why his approach to her was genuine.
Saying "Hello" isn't going to kill her or imply that she's some cheap wantin slut." LOL.
If the OP is as traditional as she claims, she really needs to understand the art of courtship.
Let him call you....answer the phone when he does.
Let him ask you out.....say 'yes' when he does.
Let him take you out for ice cream.....get to know him when he does.
She can wait to kiss him, hug him on the 3rd, 4th date, who cares.
However, at least she would have established a pattern of interest on her part, and he would have established a pattern of building trust, and respect for her...on his part.
Remember with Bulls, we move linear, predictable and in a pattern of consistency.
Flightiness is a total deal breaker for us.
Salty won't leave her to be alone, just maybe not with him.
I think the comment about being reactionary is the issue. We don't need to be mirrored. We need people to be themselves and go hard after what they want.
There's walls that have to be broken down, and being reactionary then moving on to the next just probably isn't compatible.
I think the comment about being reactionary is the issue. We don't need to be mirrored. We need people to be themselves and go hard after what they want.
There's walls that have to be broken down, and being reactionary then moving on to the next just probably isn't compatible.
Posted by Saggi212Seems she doesn't know enough yet to want him. She's interested but doesn't know why. So far, she likes the attention.
She doesnt want him probably.. End of topic as smn said...
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Thats fine, which is why I say possibly not compatible.Posted by lnana04
Salty won't leave her to be alone, just maybe not with him.
I think the comment about being reactionary is the issue. We don't need to be mirrored. We need people to be themselves and go hard after what they want.
There's walls that have to be broken down, and being reactionary then moving on to the next just probably isn't compatible.
As astrology points out clearly.. Taurus is reactionary...
People mirror each other all the time... A Taurus never likes to feel unwanted or a burden...
Every action has a reaction.. Simple.
Well you tell that to the OP... Afterall she showed disinterest more than a few times...
All you are doing is projecting the same hurt and attitude you suffered at the hands of a bull..
4 years later... You learnt nothing and still giving bad advice..click to expand
You are obsessed girly.
Posted by lnana04Mineral will be alone...OR....she will eventually settle for someone she's not in love with just to avoid being alone.
Salty won't leave her to be alone, just maybe not with him.
I think the comment about being reactionary is the issue. We don't need to be mirrored. We need people to be themselves and go hard after what they want.
There's walls that have to be broken down, and being reactionary then moving on to the next just probably isn't compatible.
Part of getting older is learning from your mistakes and evolving.
This process can not take place if the OP is refusing to take any accountability.
And this "Keep kissing my ass while I continue to spit in your face" as a sign of genuine interest and loyalty is a VERY distorted thought process.
It's mean and vindictive.
The Taurus was being himself, and he did go after what he wanted, he just didn't care for the games that she was playing.
Her loss.
Not his.
Posted by TaurusBull1977She will not be alone or settle. I won't even speak that on her future just because she didn't feel like talking or said "maybe" to an invite.Posted by lnana04Mineral will be alone...OR....she will eventually settle for someone she's not in love with just to avoid being alone.
Salty won't leave her to be alone, just maybe not with him.
I think the comment about being reactionary is the issue. We don't need to be mirrored. We need people to be themselves and go hard after what they want.
There's walls that have to be broken down, and being reactionary then moving on to the next just probably isn't compatible.
Part of getting older is learning from your mistakes and evolving.
This process can not take place if the OP is refusing to take any accountability.
And this "Keep kissing my ass while I continue to spit in your face" as a sign of genuine interest and loyalty is a VERY distorted thought process.
It's mean and vindictive.
The Taurus was being himself, and he did go after what he wanted, he just didn't care for the games that she was playing.
Her loss.
Not his.
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It could be neither of their loss, or both. Really, I don't see where he fits the description of a king just how she may not a queen right now. I also don't see feelings of love anywhere in this as we are still trying to see if the girl really liked him.
These are two young people, that like/d each other and it's gone no where. Okay, that happens all the time.. life goes on.
Thanks for the comments guys, even thought I'm more disoriented than ever. I will focus in my exams, if it's meant to be it will be. In case anything happens I will let you know. 😄 Especially the bullies
Good night all.
Good night all.
@Inana,
I would have given the same genuine advice to a 20 year old Baby Bull.
Why?
I was her age once.
You have the power to lead her into a more positive direction and cohesive relationship with this Bull,
But instead, you opt to advise her on taking the salty way out instead.
The OP hasn't offered not one sensible proof that this Bull was a player.
Not one.
Just hearsay and innuendos.
Clearly stemming from her own insecurities.
She's already young and impressionable, so she will take your advice.
Unfortunately she will learn nothing from the advice that she was given from this board.
It's not both their losses, it's her loss.
Pride lives alone, and the OP will BE alone.
I would have given the same genuine advice to a 20 year old Baby Bull.
Why?
I was her age once.
You have the power to lead her into a more positive direction and cohesive relationship with this Bull,
But instead, you opt to advise her on taking the salty way out instead.
The OP hasn't offered not one sensible proof that this Bull was a player.
Not one.
Just hearsay and innuendos.
Clearly stemming from her own insecurities.
She's already young and impressionable, so she will take your advice.
Unfortunately she will learn nothing from the advice that she was given from this board.
It's not both their losses, it's her loss.
Pride lives alone, and the OP will BE alone.
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