Taurus man, I thought he would ask me out (Page 2)

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Inana,

I would have given the same genuine advice to a 20 year old Baby Bull.

Why?

I was her age once.

You have the power to lead her into a more positive direction and cohesive relationship with this Bull,

But instead, you opt to advise her on taking the salty way out instead.

The OP hasn't offered not one sensible proof that this Bull was a player.

Not one.

Just hearsay and innuendos.

Clearly stemming from her own insecurities.

She's already young and impressionable, so she will take your advice.

Unfortunately she will learn nothing from the advice that she was given from this board.

It's not both their losses, it's her loss.

Pride lives alone, and the OP will BE alone.

Everybody has a bit of pride, clearly. This post kind of reeks of it.

My advice?

Focus on your exams OP. Good luck btw.

Move on...He's been seen with someone else.

Trust your gut.

Find someone more compatible...If you decide to look.

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Posted by lnana04

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Inana,

I would have given the same genuine advice to a 20 year old Baby Bull.

Why?

I was her age once.

You have the power to lead her into a more positive direction and cohesive relationship with this Bull,

But instead, you opt to advise her on taking the salty way out instead.

The OP hasn't offered not one sensible proof that this Bull was a player.

Not one.

Just hearsay and innuendos.

Clearly stemming from her own insecurities.

She's already young and impressionable, so she will take your advice.

Unfortunately she will learn nothing from the advice that she was given from this board.

It's not both their losses, it's her loss.

Pride lives alone, and the OP will BE alone.

Everybody has a bit of pride, clearly. This post kind of reeks of it.

My advice?

Focus on your exams OP. Good luck btw.

Move on...He's been seen with someone else.

Trust your gut.

Find someone more compatible...If you decide to look.

U project too much and bring it too the forums.... Yr salty attitude has left you still on these boards projecting your rejection from a Taurus bull you couldn't get even after trying for 4 years... U are still not over it and leading the young women in the wrong direction....

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You told her she's been friendzoned and that he is long gone. That if he gets with her he'll be in the wrong hands. Called her sneaky and hypocritical etc. You have the same negative view of her that she may have of him.

Yet me telling her to move on is projection? Me initially telling her that he'll be back around if he really liked her is an issue. Okay busy. I'm not going to engage you the way you want because you can't let go.

Btw, by telling her to stay salty, that's my way of saying don't open up until she is proven she can. Her attitude isn't salty. She is just mistrustful and rightfully so.

Inana,

This was the best advice given from a Cap perspective.

Posted by Capri__unicorn
Poor caps, always trying to put up fake barriers while simultaneously wanting the Taurus to break them down. Do you want him or not girl? If you want something then stop trying to protect yourself by being standoffish. Either he will see right through it and start to manipulate you as pay back or back off completely if he thinks it's not worth it to figure you out. However, if you're authentic and real about your intentions he'll appreciate it. Take it from a cap

This advice can actually redeem her.

Mineral clearly likes this Taurus guy.

Next time she sees him, she can actually start by saying 'hello.'

One date over ice cream isn't going to kill her.

I guarantee you she sees a much softer side of him

Contrary to the false bravado a Taurus may give off, they're extremely shy in nature.

Unfortunately for Mineral, she never gave him that chance.

UPDATE:

Today he arrived home. This evening while having a conversation with a friend I see him passing by. He smiles to me and raised his hand, I saluted him back. A couple of minutes after he took a friend and they sat in the table in front of us.

They left after 1 hour but be continued chatting. I don't know if it menas anything..



Still Im like 99% sure he is a fuckboy, thus not my ideal crush but i am addicted to his smile.

@Mineral,

I really don't understand why you insist on keeping this thread going.

You sought no real legitimate advice on this thread that could have been beneficial to you.

Instead you choose to be 'wrong and strong' taking no accountability while you continue to sit and wait until to see how high this Bull will fly to kiss your booty.

The mature thing to do would have been to walk up to him and initiate a conversation, since he was nice enough to continue to say 'hello' after your high and mighty ignoring tactics.

Grow up!

And learn to communicate like a lady!

You're not 5 years of age, you're not even 16. Stop acting like a spoiled child!

Try this...

Ask him how his day is going. Crack a joke. Laugh at his joke. Anything. But please...DO something!

....While you're still in his good grace.

Damn!

99% sure?

1)Tell us...How many girlfriends does he have...10, 11, 12?

If you're trying to pursue a man who is currently involved with someone, what does that make you?

2) Has he asked you if he could sleep with you?

You stated nothing here that alluded to that assumption.

3) There are many women pursuing him? How many women that you know for a fact that he pursued?

Give us a number Ms Know-it-all...since you're 99% sure.

4. Has he even asked for your phone number?

Every 'seasoned' player gets the phone number. Is this correct?

Well, there was no occasion where we would see each other alone, only the time when he come to talk to me and then left wothout asking my number. Whenever I see him we are both in the company of friends. It would have been awkward if i let my friend and than run after him.

Why is that you guys have the impression that I am misbehaving? I ignored him in one or teo occasions because i was offended/mad he didn't asked me out/ask my number whe in fact we had a nice and interesting conversation. It was never boring talking to ech other.

I forogot to mention this guy is from my country, we are originally from the balkans but living in western europe. And in our parts is the boy who does the move, who insist and girl showing clear interest usually is considerated a bad thing. I don't know if you are in contact with the balkan culture.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
99% sure?

1)Tell us...How many girlfriends does he have...10, 11, 12?

If you're trying to pursue a man who is currently involved with someone, what does that make you?

2) Has he asked you if he could sleep with you?

You stated nothing here that alluded to that assumption.

3) There are many women pursuing him? How many women that you know for a fact that he pursued?

Give us a number Ms Know-it-all...since you're 99% sure.

4. Has he even asked for your phone number?

Every 'seasoned' player gets the phone number. Is this correct?

He is single

If he was an other girl's man I would not even consider him. It's not in my nature and it wont be. We have two common friends(girls) and they told me he has had a lot of experneces. In his instagram you will find photos of him with 4 different girlfriends, he never deleted them. Something he mentioned when be heard my name is Anastasia is "Anastasia, what a becautoful name. ONE OF my girls was called like that, may the furst one that i kissed" I was like WTF what did e even have to say that

So in other words....you have 0 proof that he's a player.

You're just running your 99% mouth.

Is ignoring a guy when he shows interest a part of your culture too?

Is lying about a young man that you know nothing about, is that a part of your culture too?

All the women that are pursuing him (your words), are they 'shaming' their culture, too?

Don't try to patronize grown ass women, youngin'

Take the advice or go home.

Girl, Bye!

Posted by Mineral
He is single

If he was an other girl's man I would not even consider him. It's not in my nature and it wont be. We have two common friends(girls) and they told me he has had a lot of experneces. In his instagram you will find photos of him with 4 different ex girlfriends, he never deleted them. Something he mentioned when be heard my name is Anastasia is "Anastasia, what a becautoful name. ONE OF my girls was called like that, may the furst one that i kissed" I was like WTF what did e even have to say that

I corrected it for you and added the ex in front of the girlfriend.

If you're going to stalk, get your facts straight.

Posted by Mineral
Well, there was no occasion where we would see each other alone, only the time when he come to talk to me and then left wothout asking my number. Whenever I see him we are both in the company of friends. It would have been awkward if i let my friend and than run after him.

Why is that you guys have the impression that I am misbehaving? I ignored him in one or teo occasions because i was offended/mad he didn't asked me out/ask my number whe in fact we had a nice and interesting conversation. It was never boring talking to ech other.

I forogot to mention this guy is from my country, we are originally from the balkans but living in western europe. And in our parts is the boy who does the move, who insist and girl showing clear interest usually is considerated a bad thing. I don't know if you are in contact with the balkan culture.

Having read through this entire thread, I think you need to take this as an opportunity to learn about yourself, men, dating and how to interact with others.

I think it's unlikely this partnership is going anywhere. You're only 20 with still a lot to learn. Don't let this be about trying to get the guy, let it be about learning more about your beliefs, your behaviour when in certain situations, what you contribute to interactions.

be critical. Is it correct to believe x? Why? Why not? When I do y, what effect does it have? Is that the outcome that I desire? What should I do to get what I want? What attributes do I admire in a person (future partner)? Do I show those qualities? What do I expect from other people? Are those expectations fair and reasonable?

What has happened is not a bad thing, it's just a vehicle to learn. The things you learn today will help you in the future. You're beginning to walk in this kind of thing - you're going to make mistakes, learn the correct way and adjust your behaviour to be successful.

Today the boy gently kissed my hand in front of his friends and sat next to me and flirted.

Posted by Mineral
I'm Capriorn(20) and he is Taurus.(26)

This guy saw he, started to ask me little questions every time he would notice my presence, asked my how are my exams going when i left the elevator and he took it, asked my city of origin while walking in the other direction.Then he started to say hello to me, giving me huge smiles. It was awkward but I liked it. Little by little I started to like his attention.

He even come to seat in the table where me and my friend were drinking coffee, me and him talked for 2-3 hours, he told me a lot about himself and so did I. In the beginning he mentioned going out at the end of the weekend and I did not said anything but ''OH.. Maybe, it could be''. He can have any girl he likes and I don't want to be easy. After all he is a model, a dancer. After this conversation I remained confused, he did not asked for my number, why? Maybe I was too cold? But I open myself to him. When hours passed he started looking at his watch time to time, I told him It's better for me to leave. He said that he has to go too. But we had eyes contact for 6-7 seconds and then I got up from the chair, so did hi after me. He told me that he is glad he talked to me. That was it we said goodbye we left, to appointment left.

Few days after, i took a book and sat in the same place. He saw me, sat in front of me and started to ask what i was studying, he said he was good at that in school, and after 3 minutes of superficial chat he said: ''Well, Anastasia, I'm going to let you study now''. He sat in the other table with his friend. I was shocked, wasn't he supposed to ask for my number? Didn't he wanted to go out with me this weekend?



I was him again the following days, I ignored him and it seems he did ignored me back when he saw I did not wanted to talk. I was talking with a friend and he passed buy, we saw each other for 1 second and I behaved like he is a stranger. He did not said anything either.

The other day in our favorite coffee shop I was there with friends, he come to seat in the table next to us because his group of friends were already there. We were in front of each other, but nothing. Until I got up to get an other coffee, had to pass by and at the same moment I told him ''Hey, what's up'', he said ''Anastasia, how are you'' he touched my arm while i was leaving and he was looking into my eyes. That was it, nothing else. My friend noticed he was talking in a high pitched voice, she said maybe he wanted my attention.

Few days ago, a friend of mine had seen him in the park with a girl, a romantic walk in the park. Hmm..

What is this all about? I thought he liked me, In fact i was sure about it.... Now I'm disappointed and confused.

Anyone that would help me understand his behavior? Thank you.

Sounds like he a homosexual.

I was married to a cap for 10 years and I did all the assertive moves. I selected him from the crowd, and approached him. I then proceeded to get the digits and called. He didn't initiate anything even calls. After 4 months I got flustered! I said "Look! Get with DAMN program and call and take me out!" He laughed, told me he didn't chase women and needed to be sure I wanted him.

He then became proactive in our relationship and we started to date, moved together 6 months later, got married.

Hey guys, for those of you who would like how this story evolved 🙂

He finally asked for my number and I didn't gave him. I went in a 1 week trip and we saw each other in the bus station, he would be touching me all the time and totally ignored his friends. I'm being friendly with him but distant. It's been two months and he did not asked me to spend time together, date or anything. He only asked for my number two months later, I won't be one more whatsapp contact for him. At his birthday he want in vocations with an other girl.

When I come back in the city, I figured out I was just attracted by his appearance and not by his personality. Since that day I see him around in daily basis and when we salute each other I can perceive that he would say ''Ahhh Anastasia hello'' ironically. Sometimes I don't even pay importance to his presence and my friends would hell me that pisses him off. Today he was watching me all the time at the coffee shop and even changed the position of his chair to have a better view of me.

Had he asked for my number earlier and not gone in vocation with this girl for his 26th birthday I might have given it a try. I'm happy it was just a crush, nothing more.



- Apart from this Taurus guy, I really was attracted by a guy at my University. Last week he approached me, such a quallity boy confident and nice, intelligent. I think he is perfect. At the end he asked my number and asked me out and we had such an interesting conversation. He told me he liked me from the first day he saw me...🙂 I feel that I found an amazing guy.

Posted by Aznnation
^lol you seem like the kind who wanna control the frame from the start and nah taureans will hardly play your game.

What game? OP seems like a nice girl. I think the first guy might've come across as more of a player than she was comfortable with. She was flattered by his attention, but he wasn't her type.

Posted by Aznnation
^lol you seem like the kind who wanna control the frame from the start and nah taureans will hardly play your game.

If he needed two months to ask my number, letting me confused and made me wonder why is he appearing interested and talks to me but don't take any essential move then I'm sorry but I will move on. I lost two months of my life, time is a big deal when you are 20 year old.

Once we meet in the supermarket and I went close to him, he started asking me stupid questions just to make me stay and also make me know he was sick. That time there was a huge tension between us, you would feel it in the air. I thought about making some hot tea and knocking at his door but then I decided he is not get the real meaning of it (i care about you) ready for that he might think I went there for fucking. So I didn't.

Sometimes I want to go and ask him what he is really about. Not that I will change my mind on my preference between the two men but I think I will feel better if I know.

^ You are not obligated to answer to my posts, you can continue attacking the capricorn for not being the Tauru's next victim.

Today he asked me if I'm into somebody and I told him I like this guy that I'm dating and he tried to be cool with it. I'm probably the first girl who refused him in his life. But being handsome is not everything especially for guys is like a positive thing but not a reason to be with somebody.

Good Luck to you and the new guy that you met.

Posted by Mineral
Today he asked me if I'm into somebody and I told him I like this guy that I'm dating and he tried to be cool with it. I'm probably the first girl who refused him in his life. But being handsome is not everything especially for guys is like a positive thing but not a reason to be with somebody.

Since you're blissfully happy and content with your new partner, inquring about the Bull or posting updates should no longer be necessary.😉

Put this thread to rest.

Posted by Mineral
Sometimes I want to go and ask him what he is really about. Not that I will change my mind on my preference between the two men but I think I will feel better if I know.

You have already pre-labeled him and made your own assumptions (ie, he's a player, untrustworthy), and your actions coincided with your prejudgements.

You found someone else.

So really, it shouldn't matter.