Tibby
@Tibby
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Taurus men - silence/alpha male
Ugh you and I are on the saaaame boat. My bf pushed me away a lot during this time of bereavement. I felt like he didn't wanna be with me anymore because of this but when I asked he said he did. I came on here a couple of times to vent, and everyone told me to just have patience. I'm glad I listened to everyone because my emotions were just taking over. It seems like now the relationship is starting to get back to normal (I really don't wanna jinx this). He's finally reaching out to me to hang out, and I see him more often than I did before. Sometimes I wouldn't see him for 3 weeks straight... we always kept in contact though. Just have patience. I'm sure he'll come around. My Taurus withdraws when he's stressed/depressed and it seems like your Taurus is the same way.
I see. Thanks. I'm glad things have worked out for you. Yes. This was the first time I've ever had to have so much patience with someone. He's never said I don't want to be with you because I don't like/care about you. It's always been about why me being around him and all the "mess" isn't something I need to put up with. Not sure what will happen but thanks.
Posted by TibbySame this is my first time as well. I'm used to being the one who's grieving m... Dealing with a bereaved SO is a true test of patience; something I lack. im hoping things stay this way but who knows? It's only been 3 months since his bro died, so I expect him to have good and bad days. It's like someone here told me; Taurus men are strong, and like to come off as very strong, so maybe it just bothers him to have weak moments in front of you. You being there is greatly appreciated. Don't give up hope, I'm sure you two will be fine. Patience is key
I see. Thanks. I'm glad things have worked out for you. Yes. This was the first time I've ever had to have so much patience with someone. He's never said I don't want to be with you because I don't like/care about you. It's always been about why me being around him and all the "mess" isn't something I need to put up with. Not sure what will happen but thanks.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusGrief is a bitch for any sign but patience is great advice. I'm sorry for the losses...Posted by TibbySame this is my first time as well. I'm used to being the one who's grieving m... Dealing with a bereaved SO is a true test of patience; something I lack. im hoping things stay this way but who knows? It's only been 3 months since his bro died, so I expect him to have good and bad days. It's like someone here told me; Taurus men are strong, and like to come off as very strong, so maybe it just bothers him to have weak moments in front of you. You being there is greatly appreciated. Don't give up hope, I'm sure you two will be fine. Patience is key
I see. Thanks. I'm glad things have worked out for you. Yes. This was the first time I've ever had to have so much patience with someone. He's never said I don't want to be with you because I don't like/care about you. It's always been about why me being around him and all the "mess" isn't something I need to put up with. Not sure what will happen but thanks.click to expand
Posted by AbbyNormalOh yeah definitely, it sucks for everyone. Making threads on here helped me realize that I needed to be patient, because all my friends told me to just leave... having patience is tough, but it's really the key like I saidPosted by thecrazyariestaurusGrief is a bitch for any sign but patience is great advice. I'm sorry for the losses...Posted by TibbySame this is my first time as well. I'm used to being the one who's grieving m... Dealing with a bereaved SO is a true test of patience; something I lack. im hoping things stay this way but who knows? It's only been 3 months since his bro died, so I expect him to have good and bad days. It's like someone here told me; Taurus men are strong, and like to come off as very strong, so maybe it just bothers him to have weak moments in front of you. You being there is greatly appreciated. Don't give up hope, I'm sure you two will be fine. Patience is key
I see. Thanks. I'm glad things have worked out for you. Yes. This was the first time I've ever had to have so much patience with someone. He's never said I don't want to be with you because I don't like/care about you. It's always been about why me being around him and all the "mess" isn't something I need to put up with. Not sure what will happen but thanks.click to expand
Posted by thecrazyariestauruslove is patience lolPosted by AbbyNormalOh yeah definitely, it sucks for everyone. Making threads on here helped me realize that I needed to be patient, because all my friends told me to just leave... having patience is tough, but it's really the key like I saidPosted by thecrazyariestaurusGrief is a bitch for any sign but patience is great advice. I'm sorry for the losses...Posted by TibbySame this is my first time as well. I'm used to being the one who's grieving m... Dealing with a bereaved SO is a true test of patience; something I lack. im hoping things stay this way but who knows? It's only been 3 months since his bro died, so I expect him to have good and bad days. It's like someone here told me; Taurus men are strong, and like to come off as very strong, so maybe it just bothers him to have weak moments in front of you. You being there is greatly appreciated. Don't give up hope, I'm sure you two will be fine. Patience is key
I see. Thanks. I'm glad things have worked out for you. Yes. This was the first time I've ever had to have so much patience with someone. He's never said I don't want to be with you because I don't like/care about you. It's always been about why me being around him and all the "mess" isn't something I need to put up with. Not sure what will happen but thanks.click to expand
I learned a new word today. "bereaveament".
Thank you.
Thank you.
Posted by tizianiAww thanks tiz! 🙂 I'm hoping everything turns out wellPosted by thecrazyariestaurusThat's great news. I'm very happy to read this, I was rooting for you both and this post made my morning.
Ugh you and I are on the saaaame boat. My bf pushed me away a lot during this time of bereavement. I felt like he didn't wanna be with me anymore because of this but when I asked he said he did. I came on here a couple of times to vent, and everyone told me to just have patience. I'm glad I listened to everyone because my emotions were just taking over. It seems like now the relationship is starting to get back to normal (I really don't wanna jinx this). He's finally reaching out to me to hang out, and I see him more often than I did before. Sometimes I wouldn't see him for 3 weeks straight... we always kept in contact though. Just have patience. I'm sure he'll come around. My Taurus withdraws when he's stressed/depressed and it seems like your Taurus is the same way.
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I agree with the above posts. I feel terrible when I can't provide what I have typically been providing due to some other sort of stress related factors. And it does affect the relationship but I can't help it. If I lose it, then it wasn't / isn't worth it. We are all different but we are all human.
And it does get back to normal or some semblance of normal - actually it's a period of growth as well so coming out of something like that just makes one even stronger for going through it and sticking it out and not giving up.
Show him you are in support mode and be optimistic that he will resolve stress / issues and take care of yourself in the interim.
And it does get back to normal or some semblance of normal - actually it's a period of growth as well so coming out of something like that just makes one even stronger for going through it and sticking it out and not giving up.
Show him you are in support mode and be optimistic that he will resolve stress / issues and take care of yourself in the interim.
My ex broke up with me during his crisis 😢
It was hard to understand (still is)... I'm unsure why going through a rough time financially impacts his state of being so much. Its life, we all go through ups and downs. But I've stuck by him, its been hard because I'm not with him and at times, I feel I'm fighting for us when he is not (hard to tell) but anyway he knows that I am here and as time progresses its to me clear that he sees it. But I do see him retreat when something goes wrong, especially financially. Patience is key... But how much patience is too much patience?
It was hard to understand (still is)... I'm unsure why going through a rough time financially impacts his state of being so much. Its life, we all go through ups and downs. But I've stuck by him, its been hard because I'm not with him and at times, I feel I'm fighting for us when he is not (hard to tell) but anyway he knows that I am here and as time progresses its to me clear that he sees it. But I do see him retreat when something goes wrong, especially financially. Patience is key... But how much patience is too much patience?
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusOkay, here goes...I met a Taurean (seven weeks ago); he's divorced; twice (like moi), he said, "I feel like a loser" I said, "Why is that?" He said, "Because my wives took everything; I have nothing". I said, "Baby steps, you cannot take it with you when you go to heaven. You will start from scratch and work for all you want" He said, "You're right" (mind you, he lives w/his room mate, he's paying for the wedding bands; he filed for a divorce w/his 2nd wife via online (he was married to her only two months!); and she wanted a $ 5k ring; so he's paying for wedding bands, cell phones (he has a 17 yr old), and his truck/insurance payment + rent. My mom told me he's probably broke and never asked me out on an official date (even though he came over for pizza, beer, and met my son 11; going on 21 and 2nd time he came over "just to see me" no SEX); his texts became sparingly. I was the one initiating the good mornings/good nights/I am gone for the day, etc. Yeah, he would text me real quick, but I felt as if I was "bothering" him. Last text was telling him I was going to the club w/girlfriends and he said, "Be careful". I thanked him, texted him at 1:35 am telling him I was home and at 9:45 am texting him good morning. Nothing. Nada. Zilch; and STILL zilch today (14 Sep 17). I'm done!
Ugh you and I are on the saaaame boat. My bf pushed me away a lot during this time of bereavement. I felt like he didn't wanna be with me anymore because of this but when I asked he said he did. I came on here a couple of times to vent, and everyone told me to just have patience. I'm glad I listened to everyone because my emotions were just taking over. It seems like now the relationship is starting to get back to normal (I really don't wanna jinx this). He's finally reaching out to me to hang out, and I see him more often than I did before. Sometimes I wouldn't see him for 3 weeks straight... we always kept in contact though. Just have patience. I'm sure he'll come around. My Taurus withdraws when he's stressed/depressed and it seems like your Taurus is the same way.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: We met on POF. My question is, "If he wasn't financially stable why the HELL go to POF and indicate 'ready for a relationship?" He's FOOLING himself, but not me. It's such a WASTE of my PRECIOUS time! 😡
Posted by EvatheDivaWOW its amazing how similar these Taurus men are!! Puts things into perspective. Its not you, its him LOL Patience girl, patience. Their financial standing seems to really define themPosted by thecrazyariestaurusOkay, here goes...I met a Taurean (seven weeks ago); he's divorced; twice (like moi), he said, "I feel like a loser" I said, "Why is that?" He said, "Because my wives took everything; I have nothing". I said, "Baby steps, you cannot take it with you when you go to heaven. You will start from scratch and work for all you want" He said, "You're right" (mind you, he lives w/his room mate, he's paying for the wedding bands; he filed for a divorce w/his 2nd wife via online (he was married to her only two months!); and she wanted a $ 5k ring; so he's paying for wedding bands, cell phones (he has a 17 yr old), and his truck/insurance payment + rent. My mom told me he's probably broke and never asked me out on an official date (even though he came over for pizza, beer, and met my son 11; going on 21 and 2nd time he came over "just to see me" no SEX); his texts became sparingly. I was the one initiating the good mornings/good nights/I am gone for the day, etc. Yeah, he would text me real quick, but I felt as if I was "bothering" him. Last text was telling him I was going to the club w/girlfriends and he said, "Be careful". I thanked him, texted him at 1:35 am telling him I was home and at 9:45 am texting him good morning. Nothing. Nada. Zilch; and STILL zilch today (14 Sep 17). I'm done!
Ugh you and I are on the saaaame boat. My bf pushed me away a lot during this time of bereavement. I felt like he didn't wanna be with me anymore because of this but when I asked he said he did. I came on here a couple of times to vent, and everyone told me to just have patience. I'm glad I listened to everyone because my emotions were just taking over. It seems like now the relationship is starting to get back to normal (I really don't wanna jinx this). He's finally reaching out to me to hang out, and I see him more often than I did before. Sometimes I wouldn't see him for 3 weeks straight... we always kept in contact though. Just have patience. I'm sure he'll come around. My Taurus withdraws when he's stressed/depressed and it seems like your Taurus is the same way.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: We met on POF. My question is, "If he wasn't financially stable why the HELL go to POF and indicate 'ready for a relationship?" He's FOOLING himself, but not me. It's such a WASTE of my PRECIOUS time! 😡
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Posted by EvatheDivaAww. Maybe he thought he was ready but then realized he wasn't?Posted by thecrazyariestaurusOkay, here goes...I met a Taurean (seven weeks ago); he's divorced; twice (like moi), he said, "I feel like a loser" I said, "Why is that?" He said, "Because my wives took everything; I have nothing". I said, "Baby steps, you cannot take it with you when you go to heaven. You will start from scratch and work for all you want" He said, "You're right" (mind you, he lives w/his room mate, he's paying for the wedding bands; he filed for a divorce w/his 2nd wife via online (he was married to her only two months!); and she wanted a $ 5k ring; so he's paying for wedding bands, cell phones (he has a 17 yr old), and his truck/insurance payment + rent. My mom told me he's probably broke and never asked me out on an official date (even though he came over for pizza, beer, and met my son 11; going on 21 and 2nd time he came over "just to see me" no SEX); his texts became sparingly. I was the one initiating the good mornings/good nights/I am gone for the day, etc. Yeah, he would text me real quick, but I felt as if I was "bothering" him. Last text was telling him I was going to the club w/girlfriends and he said, "Be careful". I thanked him, texted him at 1:35 am telling him I was home and at 9:45 am texting him good morning. Nothing. Nada. Zilch; and STILL zilch today (14 Sep 17). I'm done!
Ugh you and I are on the saaaame boat. My bf pushed me away a lot during this time of bereavement. I felt like he didn't wanna be with me anymore because of this but when I asked he said he did. I came on here a couple of times to vent, and everyone told me to just have patience. I'm glad I listened to everyone because my emotions were just taking over. It seems like now the relationship is starting to get back to normal (I really don't wanna jinx this). He's finally reaching out to me to hang out, and I see him more often than I did before. Sometimes I wouldn't see him for 3 weeks straight... we always kept in contact though. Just have patience. I'm sure he'll come around. My Taurus withdraws when he's stressed/depressed and it seems like your Taurus is the same way.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: We met on POF. My question is, "If he wasn't financially stable why the HELL go to POF and indicate 'ready for a relationship?" He's FOOLING himself, but not me. It's such a WASTE of my PRECIOUS time! 😡
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The whole not texting thing sounds familiar. I know when my bull is stressed he pulls shit like this. He won't text as often, and he won't initiate things, and I won't see him as much. Once he feels better then things go back to normal where he initiates pretty much everything. I get like this too at times but with friends. I withdraw from everyone except my bf when I'm depressed or stressed out. Like when his brother died, I didn't speak to my friends for a while. I just kind of disappeared
Posted by wildflowerPosted by EvatheDivaTheir financial standing seems to really define themPosted by thecrazyariestaurusOkay, here goes...I met a Taurean (seven weeks ago); he's divorced; twice (like moi), he said, "I feel like a loser" I said, "Why is that?" He said, "Because my wives took everything; I have nothing". I said, "Baby steps, you cannot take it with you when you go to heaven. You will start from scratch and work for all you want" He said, "You're right" (mind you, he lives w/his room mate, he's paying for the wedding bands; he filed for a divorce w/his 2nd wife via online (he was married to her only two months!); and she wanted a $ 5k ring; so he's paying for wedding bands, cell phones (he has a 17 yr old), and his truck/insurance payment + rent. My mom told me he's probably broke and never asked me out on an official date (even though he came over for pizza, beer, and met my son 11; going on 21 and 2nd time he came over "just to see me" no SEX); his texts became sparingly. I was the one initiating the good mornings/good nights/I am gone for the day, etc. Yeah, he would text me real quick, but I felt as if I was "bothering" him. Last text was telling him I was going to the club w/girlfriends and he said, "Be careful". I thanked him, texted him at 1:35 am telling him I was home and at 9:45 am texting him good morning. Nothing. Nada. Zilch; and STILL zilch today (14 Sep 17). I'm done!
Ugh you and I are on the saaaame boat. My bf pushed me away a lot during this time of bereavement. I felt like he didn't wanna be with me anymore because of this but when I asked he said he did. I came on here a couple of times to vent, and everyone told me to just have patience. I'm glad I listened to everyone because my emotions were just taking over. It seems like now the relationship is starting to get back to normal (I really don't wanna jinx this). He's finally reaching out to me to hang out, and I see him more often than I did before. Sometimes I wouldn't see him for 3 weeks straight... we always kept in contact though. Just have patience. I'm sure he'll come around. My Taurus withdraws when he's stressed/depressed and it seems like your Taurus is the same way.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: We met on POF. My question is, "If he wasn't financially stable why the HELL go to POF and indicate 'ready for a relationship?" He's FOOLING himself, but not me. It's such a WASTE of my PRECIOUS time! 😡
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YES!!!
Posted by wildflower
My ex broke up with me during his crisis 😢
It was hard to understand (still is)... I'm unsure why going through a rough time financially impacts his state of being so much. Its life, we all go through ups and downs. But I've stuck by him, its been hard because I'm not with him and at times, I feel I'm fighting for us when he is not (hard to tell) but anyway he knows that I am here and as time progresses its to me clear that he sees it. But I do see him retreat when something goes wrong, especially financially. Patience is key... But how much patience is too much patience?
See this is what I wonder to myself all the time "how much patience is too much patience?" I don't know! Curious to see what others think. I know all my friends think I have way too much patience... I just try not to listen to them anymore lol
Thanks all. It's pretty silent at the minute which isn't unusually. Just not sure if that's if, or of hell come round to recognising I'm there for him as opposed to pushing me away.
Posted by wildflowerI REALLY, really appreciate this Doll....I did post that I was "making excuses for him" and that I was tired of trying so hard (I BEND over backwards for this guy!). My ex takes kiddo 1st, 3rd, and 5th of the month and the other weekends kiddo stayed home w/me. I COULD have hired a baby sitter (or asked my mom to watch kiddo) so I could go out w/girlfriends; BUT, BUT I stayed home like a HERMIT (EVEN when kiddo went w/his dad!!!). I feel like a DEFLATED balloon! I did post I had a dream I was driving his black truck, ran into the left side of the wall, and on the right was a car blocking expressway w/people and I yelled at them to move outta my way! In my dream I was afraid 'cause I had hit his truck and knew Taurean would get mad. Well, interpretation means that I am thinking of "petty" things too much. Maybe he ISN'T mad (why should he be? not his g/f and since we had not sex, we were moving as slow as SLUGS) me, but it could be financially w/him. Again, I'm making excuses for him since it's CHEAP to have a date (at a park, blanket, bring both dogs....that would have been an official date, but no!) 😡 Maybe he thinks I can do better....I CAN!Posted by EvatheDivaWOW its amazing how similar these Taurus men are!! Puts things into perspective. Its not you, its him LOL Patience girl, patience. Their financial standing seems to really define themPosted by thecrazyariestaurusOkay, here goes...I met a Taurean (seven weeks ago); he's divorced; twice (like moi), he said, "I feel like a loser" I said, "Why is that?" He said, "Because my wives took everything; I have nothing". I said, "Baby steps, you cannot take it with you when you go to heaven. You will start from scratch and work for all you want" He said, "You're right" (mind you, he lives w/his room mate, he's paying for the wedding bands; he filed for a divorce w/his 2nd wife via online (he was married to her only two months!); and she wanted a $ 5k ring; so he's paying for wedding bands, cell phones (he has a 17 yr old), and his truck/insurance payment + rent. My mom told me he's probably broke and never asked me out on an official date (even though he came over for pizza, beer, and met my son 11; going on 21 and 2nd time he came over "just to see me" no SEX); his texts became sparingly. I was the one initiating the good mornings/good nights/I am gone for the day, etc. Yeah, he would text me real quick, but I felt as if I was "bothering" him. Last text was telling him I was going to the club w/girlfriends and he said, "Be careful". I thanked him, texted him at 1:35 am telling him I was home and at 9:45 am texting him good morning. Nothing. Nada. Zilch; and STILL zilch today (14 Sep 17). I'm done!
Ugh you and I are on the saaaame boat. My bf pushed me away a lot during this time of bereavement. I felt like he didn't wanna be with me anymore because of this but when I asked he said he did. I came on here a couple of times to vent, and everyone told me to just have patience. I'm glad I listened to everyone because my emotions were just taking over. It seems like now the relationship is starting to get back to normal (I really don't wanna jinx this). He's finally reaching out to me to hang out, and I see him more often than I did before. Sometimes I wouldn't see him for 3 weeks straight... we always kept in contact though. Just have patience. I'm sure he'll come around. My Taurus withdraws when he's stressed/depressed and it seems like your Taurus is the same way.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: We met on POF. My question is, "If he wasn't financially stable why the HELL go to POF and indicate 'ready for a relationship?" He's FOOLING himself, but not me. It's such a WASTE of my PRECIOUS time! 😡
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🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by TibbyHow long has it been since you spoke?
Thanks all. It's pretty silent at the minute which isn't unusually. Just not sure if that's if, or of hell come round to recognising I'm there for him as opposed to pushing me away.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusPosted by wildflower
My ex broke up with me during his crisis 😢
It was hard to understand (still is)... I'm unsure why going through a rough time financially impacts his state of being so much. Its life, we all go through ups and downs. But I've stuck by him, its been hard because I'm not with him and at times, I feel I'm fighting for us when he is not (hard to tell) but anyway he knows that I am here and as time progresses its to me clear that he sees it. But I do see him retreat when something goes wrong, especially financially. Patience is key... But how much patience is too much patience?
See this is what I wonder to myself all the time "how much patience is too much patience?" I don't know! Curious to see what others think. I know all my friends think I have way too much patience... I just try not to listen to them anymore lol
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Give as much time as you are prepared to lose.
Posted by thecrazyariestaurusMy three STRONG signs are: Piscean, Scorpio, and Taurus. Remember, I'm Pisces, so I pick up on 11 other zodiac signs. I have empathy and sympathy, but also, I'm a sign that, "Doesn't stay where she's not wanted". I courtesy y'all women who are STRONG to take so much s*hit from Taurean men! MAYBE I would be in the same club as y'all IF, IF I would have slept w/him (Eva shrugs shoulders).Posted by EvatheDivaAww. Maybe he thought he was ready but then realized he wasn't?Posted by thecrazyariestaurusOkay, here goes...I met a Taurean (seven weeks ago); he's divorced; twice (like moi), he said, "I feel like a loser" I said, "Why is that?" He said, "Because my wives took everything; I have nothing". I said, "Baby steps, you cannot take it with you when you go to heaven. You will start from scratch and work for all you want" He said, "You're right" (mind you, he lives w/his room mate, he's paying for the wedding bands; he filed for a divorce w/his 2nd wife via online (he was married to her only two months!); and she wanted a $ 5k ring; so he's paying for wedding bands, cell phones (he has a 17 yr old), and his truck/insurance payment + rent. My mom told me he's probably broke and never asked me out on an official date (even though he came over for pizza, beer, and met my son 11; going on 21 and 2nd time he came over "just to see me" no SEX); his texts became sparingly. I was the one initiating the good mornings/good nights/I am gone for the day, etc. Yeah, he would text me real quick, but I felt as if I was "bothering" him. Last text was telling him I was going to the club w/girlfriends and he said, "Be careful". I thanked him, texted him at 1:35 am telling him I was home and at 9:45 am texting him good morning. Nothing. Nada. Zilch; and STILL zilch today (14 Sep 17). I'm done!
Ugh you and I are on the saaaame boat. My bf pushed me away a lot during this time of bereavement. I felt like he didn't wanna be with me anymore because of this but when I asked he said he did. I came on here a couple of times to vent, and everyone told me to just have patience. I'm glad I listened to everyone because my emotions were just taking over. It seems like now the relationship is starting to get back to normal (I really don't wanna jinx this). He's finally reaching out to me to hang out, and I see him more often than I did before. Sometimes I wouldn't see him for 3 weeks straight... we always kept in contact though. Just have patience. I'm sure he'll come around. My Taurus withdraws when he's stressed/depressed and it seems like your Taurus is the same way.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: We met on POF. My question is, "If he wasn't financially stable why the HELL go to POF and indicate 'ready for a relationship?" He's FOOLING himself, but not me. It's such a WASTE of my PRECIOUS time! 😡
The whole not texting thing sounds familiar. I know when my bull is stressed he pulls shit like this. He won't text as often, and he won't initiate things, and I won't see him as much. Once he feels better then things go back to normal where he initiates pretty much everything. I get like this too at times but with friends. I withdraw from everyone except my bf when I'm depressed or stressed out. Like when his brother died, I didn't speak to my friends for a while. I just kind of disappearedclick to expand
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Forgot to mention I went to POF to "try again" (created my profile again on 4 Sep 17) and Taurean was there. I was the one that DEACTIVATED my profile (showed him email from POF on or before 7 Aug 17) and well, that says it all!!!!
Had very brief call yesterday. He refused to delete or block my number which I said I needed to avoid contacting/closure. I decided to just bite bullet and see him. If he's still resolute then that's where things will be left.
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I understand the basics of a taurus, but would be more interested in your personal experiences in dealing with a taurus. Especi
TL;DR-- Bipolar Taurus bf (LDR) is drowning and I don't know the best way to support him.
My Taurus boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and he is struggling right now. He has bipolar disorder and his life has thrown him one curveball af
Hey everyone!
I recently met a Taurus male. Before I go any further, I should mention that this individual is someone that I have been admiring from afar for five months. I would see him out and about all the time, and I was drawn to him immediately an
Me and my taurus guy has been going on 8 months. We fight and argue i broke it off with him multiple times cause i feel like we aren't on the same level. We hardly communicate which is the number one prob. But every time i say Im done he comes back the ne
Well I've had the pleasure of catching an amazing Taurus man! He's the absolute best at everything! Better than I even knew a man could love a women. I'm deeper in love than I ever thought possible considering I'm a libra and I thought I had lived in the
He doesn't text or calls.. but if I text he responds and since I don't chase I rarely text so it could be days if not a week before I reach out. I only see him at the club which he works.
He allows me to touch him (like in very intimate ways) and he do
We met 3 months ago, we have mutual friends and he came to me and introduced himself and was very friendly. Next time I saw him he didn't seemed as friendly and it took a few weeks before he started to come and say hello to me and not just a "hi" from fa
Wanna hear everyone's take and experiences.
Thanks.
I am currently seeing a taurus (I am one too) Ive been seeing him for nearly 4 months until we had a fall out last night.. (I am not sure where this is going now) It is an LDR but we managed to meet up and spent days together. I am in love with him alread
We were never officially boyfriend and girlfriend but we talked constantly; everyday.
I began feeling depressed and started asking him why he wasn't hanging out with me (he would hardly hangout with me but would constantly text me and Snapchat me). He
Since this bereavement however there have been ongoing family conflict/mood swings understandably.
The culmination of all of this was their admittance that me having to take all this on hasn't been fair and that I'm a good person so don't feel I should continue to be around them.
They often took a long while to open up which made handling things at times difficult.
They've also suggested that the things they think I want out deserve eg going out/making big plans as a couple they haven't been able to give me for a while (I don't want this this is what they assume) and I believe they feel less of a "man" because of this and their ongoing problems.
I'm more than happy to continue through it as I know things will get better over time for them.
Not really sure how to proceed but I genuinely care alot for him but feel their pushing me away because of things he thinks he owes me. He doesn't. Im a pretty loyal person to people who I think deserve it. He does.