
Astrobyn
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Posted by tcta
but I had already pondered that point and my perception is that I don't care what other people think - I never did - wasn't born that way ... I can achieve my ultimate goal myself and if I need or want help I know how to get it along the way ... I don't want to play the game - I hate games -
I won't be a lemming where the entire herd goes over the cliff because the first one did it ...
if you turn that around, perhaps we are trend setters and not introverts - and besides, no one that truly knows me says I'm introverted - they think I'm extrovert because of the tendency to say what is on my mind but I'm really somewhere in between ...
however if this is something you wish to aspire too - how can we help ?




Posted by tcta
a lot of credit for what - knowing myself ?

Posted by mrpepperidge
the taurus board can't even get along. just how i like it coz i don't like some of you. JK! 😆

Posted by mrpepperidge
the taurus board can't even get along. just how i like it coz i don't like some of you. JK! 😆


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Posted by tctaMy daughter is a Taurus and I only understand her because of my placement in communication. This is exactly how I'd describe her @tcta and I've also taught her it takes too much energy to hate or fight with someone, yet she's constantly attacked because she's perceived one way and she's not. She's the most independent free thinker and I love her to bits!
but I had already pondered that point and my perception is that I don't care what other people think - I never did - wasn't born that way ... I can achieve my ultimate goal myself and if I need or want help I know how to get it along the way ... I don't want to play the game - I hate games -
I won't be a lemming where the entire herd goes over the cliff because the first one did it ...
if you turn that around, perhaps we are trend setters and not introverts - and besides, no one that truly knows me says I'm introverted - they think I'm extrovert because of the tendency to say what is on my mind but I'm really somewhere in between ...
however if this is something you wish to aspire too - how can we help ?







Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
What happened to the other one?

Posted by TaurusinTexas
I'm guilty of this. I feel like I'm giving up on something and I have this deep perseverance, that says never give up and never give up on love, so I can take a while to really face the facts and walk away. You have to do something directly to me, that forces my hand, otherwise I move glacially slow.

Posted by AstrobynYES! Exactly!!!Posted by TaurusinTexas
I'm guilty of this. I feel like I'm giving up on something and I have this deep perseverance, that says never give up and never give up on love, so I can take a while to really face the facts and walk away. You have to do something directly to me, that forces my hand, otherwise I move glacially slow.
"if i just figure out how to do this in a better way, I'm sure i can make it work, i know i can!"click to expand

Posted by TaurusinTexasPosted by AstrobynYES! Exactly!!!Posted by TaurusinTexas
I'm guilty of this. I feel like I'm giving up on something and I have this deep perseverance, that says never give up and never give up on love, so I can take a while to really face the facts and walk away. You have to do something directly to me, that forces my hand, otherwise I move glacially slow.
"if i just figure out how to do this in a better way, I'm sure i can make it work, i know i can!"click to expand

Posted by AstrobynI agree with this A LOT as of late and try to work on this more. It's a constant process and it needs a lot of work. But I know for a fact that it will benefit me long term 🙂 I feel a lot of miscommunication is actually the root of the problem with most of my relationships as a taurus and not necessarily that we just "didn't get along".
Well i think the point is to ponder whether or not we should be taking more responsibility into what perception we give.
What benefits would we might actually receive towards our ultimate goals, needs and desires, if we actually just started participating more to play the game.
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“One of the risks of being quiet is that the other people can fill your silence with their own interpretation: You’re bored. You’re depressed. You’re shy. You’re stuck up. You’re judgmental. When others can’t read us, they write their own story—not always one we choose or that’s true to who we are.”
”• Sophia Dembling, The Introvert's Way: Living a Quiet Life in a Noisy World