Taurus sun, Venus in Gemini, moon in libra

That seems like a lot of trouble doesn't it? I'm hesitant about this guy. We hit it off so well after just two dates, he's been texting me everyday, and not that I'm trying hard to get but I'm afraid of getting hurt so I'm having is guard up as I'm scared because I realized how much I like him in such a short amount of time. He's so outgoing and has no problems talking to people (exactly like me). He said he's not a player but well, don't they all say so! Lol. Any thoughts? I'm a Pisces with Venus in Capricorn and moon in Taurus.

Posted by busyeyes88
Don't worry. Just take your time getting to know him. He will respect your wishes. I have been dealing with a taurus sun, sag moon and VIG for 7 months. There is sexual attraction but we are platonic friends for now as I need to take my time and "suss" him out! 😉 He is a gentleman and respects my wishes. Just tell taurus you want to take it slow. Try not to get sexual with him until you have developed a sound foundation of friendship. Just observe him. They get bored of people real quick the VIG so know a wide variety of topics and subjects. They are attracted to intelligence in a woman. They would like variety in bed.

Look also to his Mars for his actions on how he get his love.
Venus is what he is attracted to.

A woman's venus is what she uses to attract the man she wants.

So always look to a man's Mars and a woman's venus! Enjoy is company. Take your time! Have fun! 😄

HIs mars is in aquarius and everything points to him being the detached kind. I don't plan on getting intimate with him anytime soon, at least until I know where I stand with him, and feel confident about where it might go, just to protect myself from heartbreak. This astrology stuff has me taken back a bit after what I read about Venus in Gemini. But then again I don't want to rule him out just because I have read that. Lol. Such a dilemma. I agree though that I should just have fun and enjoy it for what it is right now. It's only been 2 dates. I don't even know this guy yet. Lol!

you're a genius, haha. And what! 7 months and you and your taurus still haven't been intimate? How do you do that? He must really like you!

Do you not want to be with him? As in having a relationship with him? What holds you back?

I also just read this about VIG. "The Gemini lover is never a permanent lover; they will leave you. Gemini is the first air sign and, like air, comes and goes as it pleases. It’s not that they don’t love you. It’s simply that their need for variety and constant new stimuli inhibits their chances for a lasting relationship or for intimate bonding. If you provide enough freedom, mental stimulation, and forgiveness, your Gemini lover will always return to you after flying off for a bit. You must ask yourself if your nerves can handle that."
OUCH!

so said he might have to take a rain check on our 3rd date, reason being he needs to fix his truck that's been dead at his dads house for 2 weeks. He's the one that asked me to hang out. Do u think he's still interested or what's going on here? I'm pissed, but i kept it cool with him and told him it was no problem

I have no intention of contacting him, as I think if he wants to see me he would reach out. If not, his loss, I'll just move on. But I wonder what has changed? he was so eager and asked me on Thursday to hang Friday (we saw each other tuesday), but because I had plans i suggested sunday. He then said "Maybe I have to take a rain check. Maybe", I said "OK". He then said "Hopefully see you tomorrow". And I sent a wink emoji. But that was our convo. He hasn't texted me as of now. It is now 5pm Sunday. I told myself if i didn't hear anything from him before 3 we're not going on this date.

Is he still interested??

thank you for your advice. I haven't heard from him at all, so I'm a little uneasy, but in the end if i dont hear from him, oh well, time to move on.

so he did contact me. At 6pm! He said he was dealing with his truck. Well, I always think this is a lame excuse, but whatever, I like him enough to give him another chance if he wants it. After a couple texts he asked me what I'm doing tmrw. I said I would be busy, and asked him why he asked me that. He said "I will be in the city" (I live in the city). So anyhow, I'm kind of annoyed by the pattern here as to how he's been just casually asking me what Im doing tmrw instead of properly setting the date, you see the reason why I told him i was busy. I want him to step up and start scheduling dates in advance. I honestly have no idea what his deal is, and whether or not he is genuinely interested in me