I'm a Virgo male, she was a Taurus woman. Now I don't mean to offend any Taureans out there, but from what I have read, witnessed, and experienced, Taurus people absolutely love sex. In the beginning, it all started off like any other relationship. We talked on the phone for hours on end every day, were constantly texting, etc. We couldn't get enough of each other! I honestly believed she may have been my twin flame! But then she stopped talking to me out of nowhere. We still talked, but our communication nearly died compared to what it was before. Eventually, she started treating me like a dog. And then she would go a day here and there totally ignoring me. I discovered that she had been seeing another guy and had gotten engaged to him. She tried to tell me she was pregnant with twins, but she sent me an ultrasound that she got off the web. From my speculation, she is further along than she says, and it happened before we ever slept together. When I confronted her about it, she continued to deny it and lie to me. So after a heated argument, I told her to forget about me. It normally takes me about 2-3 days to get over a woman after I break it off with them. But it's been over two weeks and I STILL can't stop thinking of her! I want her back so badly, but I know she will only hurt me again. I'm a freaking Virgo for crying out loud! We normally have total control of our emotions! But this woman had a way with my heart and soul that no other woman ever did. I am broken over her, it's so pathetic. I even tried dating another woman that I've liked for the longest time, but that only makes me forget her temporarily. I have finally come across the one that I can't seem to move on from, and I hate it so much. I just want to move on with my life and be happy again. Any sound advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Taurus woman cheated
Just keep trying to forget about her. She toyed with your heart and mind, and not just about little things. Besides, unless I read incorrectly, you said she was engaged to another man? Giant red flab there. Do your best. We often feel that because one person treats us the perfect way we like to be treated doesn't mean no one else is capable of doing so.

Agreed. Youre no pathetic. Pain is pain.

Poor baby ๐ข im sorry. Thats awful. People suck.

You dodged a bullet. Deception at its best. She was looking for a husband (**sucker**) to take care of her and her unborn babies. She probably doesnt even know who the father is. She got her proposal from another guy and bounced. Gain another perspective and be grateful she is out of your life.
Oh yea.. she didn't cheat. She had you on the side as a back up plan.
Oh yea.. she didn't cheat. She had you on the side as a back up plan.

Title should be
----Taurus woman Deceived Me.
----Taurus woman Deceived Me.
Wow CreativeCap...that's a very good way to put it. And I honestly wouldn't put it past her either. And I totally agree on the title there! Lol. And evalani29, thank you for that ๐

move on. im really sorry she hurt you like that but dont let it happen again. taurus and virgo can be a good combo but it always depends on the individual.
Yeah xoxoRain I agree. And I do love myself. I'm not self centered, but I am hurt that this happened. Sexually, she and I were almost polar opposites. She was nearly addicted to sex. I wasn't even looking for anyone when she popped up and did whatever she did to make me fall head over heals for her. I was planning, and hoping, to be alone the rest of my life. I hate depending on other people for anything, and that includes romance. I want a woman that I will genuinely fall in love with, and who will treat me with mutual respect and love. I don't care how she looks. I want to come across the woman that will pierce into my soul with no effort, and steal my heart without shattering it. Until then, I'm just going to go about taking care of me and mine. When that wonderful woman comes into my life, I will know it...although, knowing me, I'll likely deny it and fight it at first lol.
Posted by Dellon9990
It normally takes me about 2-3 days to get over a woman after I break it off with them. But it's been over two weeks and I STILL can't stop thinking of her!
For real? 2 weeks? And you want sympathy on the Taurus board?
Seriously though, she has no class. Move on. I've seen Virgo males get trapped with cheaters. They take them back, and it happens again eventually the next time there's a communication breakdown, etc. Do the work, put in the remaining week or so that it will take for the gears in your tiny mechanical heart to resume their maximally efficient velocity, and start sheltering homeless dogs, doing other peoples' taxes, resumes, divorce paperwork, and other things that Virgos do....

Red flag @ 2 - 3 days.
Did you know that very few humans actually know what the word "Love" means? And even fewer will ever really experience it in their lifetime? So many people confuse Lust with Love that it's downright tragic.
Did you know that very few humans actually know what the word "Love" means? And even fewer will ever really experience it in their lifetime? So many people confuse Lust with Love that it's downright tragic.

Posted by AnomalousBull
Red flag @ 2 - 3 days.
Did you know that very few humans actually know what the word "Love" means? And even fewer will ever really experience it in their lifetime? So many people confuse Lust with Love that it's downright tragic.
same with Love and infatuation...

s sketchy....
Posted by Dellon9990
But then she stopped talking to me out of nowhere.
1. How long were the both of you involved?
2. When she stopped speaking to you suddenly, did you confront her about it? If so, was it via text, email or in person?
Posted by Dellon9990
I discovered that she had been seeing another guy and had gotten engaged to him. She tried to tell me she was pregnant with twins, but she sent me an ultrasound that she got off the web. From my speculation, she is further along than she says, and it happened before we ever slept together.click to expand
Let me get this straight.
1. She's currently engaged to someone else.
2. States that you're the father of her unborn babies.
3. But is really pregnant for someone other than you or her current fiance.
...And your only source of proof is the ultrasound that she got off a web?
I doubt that she's this unstable....
There has to be more to this story.

Crae-Crae will run a Virgo man out the door!
Is there something you're not telling us Mr Virgo?
Is there something you're not telling us Mr Virgo?

Virgo men get so hung up and hurt over Taurus women.
And these women pretty much just run through them.
I like seeing the trine dynamic but they are rare sight.
But when you see them together it's pretty special to behold.
Not surprised by OP's experience seems common for there to be frustration between these two.
And these women pretty much just run through them.
I like seeing the trine dynamic but they are rare sight.
But when you see them together it's pretty special to behold.
Not surprised by OP's experience seems common for there to be frustration between these two.

Taurus are faithfully loyal..

Love and infatuation is different.
.I will always be direct and upfront with my intentions with someone. Sorry you are going through drama.... but move on and find another Taurus..
.I will always be direct and upfront with my intentions with someone. Sorry you are going through drama.... but move on and find another Taurus..

Posted by PEITHO
What do you mean by just run through them?
Posted by LunarMaiden
Virgo men get so hung up and hurt over Taurus women.
And these women pretty much just run through them.
I like seeing the trine dynamic but they are rare sight.
But when you see them together it's pretty special to behold.
Not surprised by OP's experience seems common for there to be frustration between these two.click to expand
Meaning the Bull will be inconsiderate of Virgo.
Virgo's tend to be highly infatuated with Taurus and will let it slide.
Seeing it with my Virgo brother and saw it with my Virgo girlfriend and our Bullet friend literally punch the Virgo in the face. No respect.
But then again Virgo's can be highly self centered and stubborn too.
It's an interesting dynamic because these two are very close, straight forward with each other but there is a lot unsaid and frustrations do build.

Hm Taurus will only let shit slide because we don't want to waste our breathe. what can happen though is everything you do or say is stored in our brains forever and when the time comes usually after the communication has seized..I will unleash the beast(temper)...if you are critical, too judgemental, and no respect..think logic equals balance..
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