Earth signs.. Who do you get along with?

SO earth people are...Virgo, Capricorn and Taurus

Who is your best friend or lover?
I am a Taurus female with Venus in Taurus, and cancer rising...

My friends are Cancer, Libra, and Aquarius,

My male friends are Aries, Gemini, Sagittarius, and Aquarius.. but always open for more

I'm a Cap.

My only real close friend is a Cap male, and I'm so/so with my Taurus male friend, although the Taurus probably knows more about me.

I'm extremely suspicious about everybody though. I get along with everyone, but I don't trust people enough to develop real friendships.

I never look at the signs in friendship because I seem to get along with all of them at some level But...Capricorn, Cancer, Leo, Taurus, Aries, Scorpio, Sagittarius

Leo are always fun for me, it's always a spectacle between us, like we're always amused with one another's behavior.

Cancers always give off a family,homely vibe like they're a long lost cousin, sister or brother

Aries are easy, maybe it's because the energy from my pops, but we always seem to easily respect each other. It might be my Scorpio rising who knows.

Capricorn and Taurus, we just bounce our energy off one another. It's just comfortable with Cap and Taurus and I had a convo with a Taurus girl the other day about this, not speaking in astrological terms.

...know what I bump heads with my Pisces friends more than anything.

Posted by PEITHO
I would say Virgo too but nah.

Haha, Virgos too you just feel some type of way about us right now. If we weren't you wouldn't of threw that in there.

I get along with everyone

Posted by VirgoSvengali
I get along with everyone

I don't know if there's a sign that's difficult to get along with, but Virgos tend to get along easily with people if they want to. But I tend to see the diplomacy better with Virgo women and more at-ease or mature Virgo guys. Virgo guys not as much as the women.

Posted by PEITHO
I really don't know how I feel about Virgos anymore. I use to think Taurus and Virgo made good friends. Not anymore I'm trying to replace the Virgo guy with another Virgo guy but it's not working. I'll stick to Cancers or water signs for now on. Seems like those are the only signs that get along with earth signs besides other earth signs.

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Posted by PEITHO
I would say Virgo too but nah.

Haha, Virgos too you just feel some type of way about us right now. If we weren't you wouldn't of threw that in there.

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The last one you dealt with was a weird situation to me, I got the impression you wanted to be his girlfriend, but you said you wanted to be friends. Mixed signals might be your problem. You may be coming on too strong. It only works when we're moving into an intimate relationship. Keep it cool and we'll come around. Don't give us your phone number. Keep the convos on a casual base, like if you guys are classmates. Talk on campus and only campus. Wanting to "hang" and "giving your phone number" really puts us on guard, like "what does she want from me?" and friendship isn't one of the things queuing through as a possible in our thought process.

Again, keep it cool. We'll come around.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by lnana04
I'm a Cap.

My only real close friend is a Cap male, and I'm so/so with my Taurus male friend, although the Taurus probably knows more about me.

I'm extremely suspicious about everybody though. I get along with everyone, but I don't trust people enough to develop real friendships.

My cap friend is the same way, i can't even call her a friend, she's way too suspicious, live life a little. you're not that important. Caps take themselves way too serious

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Ha! But we desire to do important things, and honestly....people are way too much of a distraction and not nearly worth the analyzing and headaches they cause.

I honestly do get along with everyone but experience has taught me to keep a distance from everyone at the same time. My male Cap friend, my sisters best friend who is a Cap, and my dad are not at all like I am. Just a few of us are built a bit on edge.

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Posted by lnana04
I'm a Cap.

My only real close friend is a Cap male, and I'm so/so with my Taurus male friend, although the Taurus probably knows more about me.

I'm extremely suspicious about everybody though. I get along with everyone, but I don't trust people enough to develop real friendships.

My cap friend is the same way, i can't even call her a friend, she's way too suspicious, live life a little. you're not that important. Caps take themselves way too serious

Ha! But we desire to do important things, and honestly....people are way too much of a distraction and not nearly worth the analyzing and headaches they cause.

I honestly do get along with everyone but experience has taught me to keep a distance from everyone at the same time. My male Cap friend, my sisters best friend who is a Cap, and my dad are not at all like I am. Just a few of us are built a bit on edge.

rolls eyes on your deathbed you'll be hugging to memories of accomplishments instead of people

sounds fuking boring.

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Negative. I'll try to explain it as best as I can, but my desires are for my accomplishments to put me in a position where I can help people in general. I think my dilemma is, I love people...I just don't like individuals as much, if that makes sense. Individuals try to get too close, and become too distracting, and I can't find the balance to branch out if I'm focusing on one person. I think I'd have many memories of people, but maybe no close memories of that one person, or the few people, that I really shared myself with.

Posted by scorchedearth
cap your life sounds lonely.

i don't have a lot of really close friends myself but the ones who are close to me are the most important things to me. my handful are really the things that keep me going. i wouldn't want to not have them. or to be mostly alone. i can't even imagine that.

It's what I'm use to. I think I'll lose my mind if my Taurus disappears...like it will truly break my heart, but I find myself pushing him further away for some reason, and I think he's losing patience...I actually think he wants to tackle my @ss. I think there's a resentment in him that I can't reach to help him release, which is frustrating because I'm trying to avoid an explosion. I haven't talked to my Cap friend in nearly two months, and I have no desires to talk to him, so... I almost feel like I'm seconds away from losing those two. It's sad, but at the same time they've both been so stressful.

Im surrounded by my family, but I find them to even be somewhat distracting and stressful. It's like I'm in need of a serious recharge, and complete silence, to find myself again. It only feels lonely when a birthday rolls around.

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Posted by VirgoSvengali
I get along with everyone

basically.

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Lol, k.

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Posted by scorchedearth
cap your life sounds lonely.

i don't have a lot of really close friends myself but the ones who are close to me are the most important things to me. my handful are really the things that keep me going. i wouldn't want to not have them. or to be mostly alone. i can't even imagine that.

It's what I'm use to. I think I'll lose my mind if my Taurus disappears...like it will truly break my heart, but I find myself pushing him further away for some reason, and I think he's losing patience...I actually think he wants to tackle my @ss. I think there's a resentment in him that I can't reach to help him release, which is frustrating because I'm trying to avoid an explosion. I haven't talked to my Cap friend in nearly two months, and I have no desires to talk to him, so... I almost feel like I'm seconds away from losing those two. It's sad, but at the same time they've both been so stressful.

Im surrounded by my family, but I find them to even be somewhat distracting and stressful. It's like I'm in need of a serious recharge, and complete silence, to find myself again. It only feels lonely when a birthday rolls around.

You're doing the exact opposite of what makes relationships work, which is communication. Running away won't get you what you want.

you have to communicate your desires bro.

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I think I've tried communicating, with everybody. I don't feel people hear me, so it kind of makes me withdraw. My sister knows what I'm bothered by when it comes to her, the Taurus knows what I'm bothered by when it comes to him, the Capricorn knows that I don't like how he constantly questions our friendship. It's like the more I talk about the same things the angrier I get, and resentment builds to the point where I don't care what happens to the relationship. Then, on top of that, I don't think anybody is honest with me and telling me the issues they have, especially not the Taurus. This is a big ole earth sign mess...nobody likes to talk.

I'm the problem to them, and they are the problem to me smh.

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Posted by VirgoSvengali
I get along with everyone

I don't know if there's a sign that's difficult to get along with, but Virgos tend to get along easily with people if they want to. But I tend to see the diplomacy better with Virgo women and more at-ease or mature Virgo guys. Virgo guys not as much as the women.

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I think that it doesn't depend on the sun sign but more of the education, the story behind each people you met, the way they are. Virguys are slightly different that Virgo girl in my experience, but "if they want to..", lol personally i'm trying ti stay neutral with the people I dn't know, unless they are disrespectful or rude anything that 🙂

Yeah, I probably do. It's been really tough dealing with earth signs. I definitely have my "ways" so I feel guilty in thinking a lot of the treatment I get from them was initiated by myself. I feel like I'm dealing with people reacting to how I naturally am, so it's like constant payback(virgo) and punishment(Taurus) and just war(Cap). It seems non of my close personal relationships are good, so I do feel like the common denominator, which causes me to look within. Just the other day my sis told me I need to reprogram my negative mind, which is true...guess it's law of attraction. I need that silence to do that...to really work on me.

It's crazy, but I don't have any close water sign friends. I've had water sign coworkers, and looking back, I've always been extremely giddy and expressive with them. Cancer and I are so silly...they bring out my childish side, Scorps and I can't control our laughter...I mean this scorp and I were so unprofessional at work one day with the giggles, and I find myself wanting to cling to Pisces. I've never been on edge with water signs. With earth, I laugh, but I just feel like under-neath it all, we really want to clear the space and just fight our frustrations out. Its like it gets to a point where we want to release physically since we can't emotionally. I'm not a fighter, but that's what the energy feels like.

lol, yeah, I love Sags too. They make me happy.

I agree. Diversity is needed lol.

virgos and scorpios are really good together

Posted by CluelessCancer
.water is too..but not emotionally..

Water is absolutely selfish emotionally

Their feelings > Yours
All of them think they can cater to someone better than someone can cater to themselves. *that's Virgo too in a way.

But yeah, water signs are selfish emotionally. Not that it's anything wrong with it but let's not be clueless here.

Earth is selfish about the systems we live in. Do not disturb that or you will see the selfishness tied with the controlling aspect. We generally don't go there though.

Also, Virgos are healers (same with Scorpios) but with us, we really leave ego out of the picture with the people we care for. It's like we don't even want it to happen that way.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
.water is too..but not emotionally..

Water is absolutely selfish emotionally

Their feelings > Yours
All of them think they can cater to someone better than someone can cater to themselves. *that's Virgo too in a way.

But yeah, water signs are selfish emotionally. Not that it's anything wrong with it but let's not be clueless here.

Earth is selfish about the systems we live in. Do not disturb that or you will see the selfishness tied with the controlling aspect. We generally don't go there though.

Also, Virgos are healers (same with Scorpios) but with us, we really leave ego out of the picture with the people we care for. It's like we don't even want it to happen that way.

You're into Pisces anyways, why are you talking to me about Emotions for. I'm a crab

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I have crabs friends and I like water signs in general.

What, I can't play with you cool watery kids? 😢

Posted by CluelessCancer
I don't like how people take CRABS for granted and prefer the other two over us.

Well be gone then.

I prefer Pisces and Cancer over Scorpio.

I struggle a lot with fixed signs.

But I know awesome people from all 3 signs.

Posted by PEITHO
How am I projecting? If Virgos prefer Capricorn over Taurus then why should a Taurus waste her time on a Virgo? It doesn't make any sense when he prefers Capricorn.

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Posted by PEITHO
Yeah see that's what I mean Virgos prefer Capricorns over Taurus. So why even waste time with Virgos when they don't even like Taurus? It's pointless.

Posted by scorchedearth
for taurus the sextile matches are cancer and pisces. our opposite sign is scorpio.

our trine matches are virgo and capricorn.

and lots of things are deeper than feelings. or just feelings. virgos make us feel more than anyone else does. but... that deep soul level connection beyond even feelings... that's virgo. and cap. but i'm personally more drawn to virgos.

mutable likes cardinal, cardinal likes fixed. fixed likes mutable.

meaning virgo likes capricorn. capricorn likes taurus and taurus likes virgo.

You're projecting!

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Dont take astrology so seriously, it is not written in stone, if you like a Virgo, go for it. Personally Im way more into Taurus women than Cap women.

Posted by PEITHO
You like the Gemini more than the Taurus lol.

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Posted by PEITHO
How am I projecting? If Virgos prefer Capricorn over Taurus then why should a Taurus waste her time on a Virgo? It doesn't make any sense when he prefers Capricorn.

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Posted by PEITHO
Yeah see that's what I mean Virgos prefer Capricorns over Taurus. So why even waste time with Virgos when they don't even like Taurus? It's pointless.

Posted by scorchedearth
for taurus the sextile matches are cancer and pisces. our opposite sign is scorpio.

our trine matches are virgo and capricorn.

and lots of things are deeper than feelings. or just feelings. virgos make us feel more than anyone else does. but... that deep soul level connection beyond even feelings... that's virgo. and cap. but i'm personally more drawn to virgos.

mutable likes cardinal, cardinal likes fixed. fixed likes mutable.

meaning virgo likes capricorn. capricorn likes taurus and taurus likes virgo.

You're projecting!

Dont take astrology so seriously, it is not written in stone, if you like a Virgo, go for it. Personally Im way more into Taurus women than Cap women.

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Not at all 😛 I adore Taurus women, maybe too much for my own good. I simply just met this really beautiful Gemini/Taurus cusp girl, beautiful from the inside as well as the outside, shes the best Gemini girl Ive ever met. She really has the best of both worlds, loves to talk, but usually about meaningful stuff. Sometimes she reminds me more of a Pisces, which kind of makes sense considering her Mars is in Pisces. Shes really sensitive.

hey scorchy, you forgot: "good morning Evil Taurus" 😛

Soul = sun sign is still influenced by its (tight) aspects with other planets, so your "soul" in astrology is still coloured by other influences. Someone with Sun in Gemini with a tight Sun opposition with Neptune is going to have very Neptunian undertones, so will probably relate more soul-wise to Pisceans or other Neptunians, than their fellow air signs.

Im referring specifically to aspects that are tight in orbit and compelling like the conjunction and opposition, the sextile and trine dont really count.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
I don't like how people take CRABS for granted and prefer the other two over us.

Well be gone then.

I prefer Pisces and Cancer over Scorpio.

I struggle a lot with fixed signs.

But I know awesome people from all 3 signs.

you're better with fixed signs than you think you are.

you've just known a really EBIL scorp. he's not every fixed sign though. so don't worry. 🙂

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I blame it on his libra stellium not his fixedness. I think the sun is the only fixed sign in his chart.

I really hope I don't aggravate fixed signs in general. Just poking fun and stuff. 🙂

loll

All I want for christmas..

Is a threesome with scorchy, damnata and moi

Evil Taurus aka PEITHO can join in too.

CC can film it, but not join.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
All I want for christmas..

Is a threesome with scorchy, damnata and moi

quoting this forever and ever.

you give virgals so much grief, douche! 😛

but you did date a virgo with an aries moon so you're partially forgiven 😛

Boom, you scoundrel..

I have a Virgo man friend. He's venus and mars in leo with an aries moon.

He will not give up on the idea of threesome with me and his long term aqua gf. Or sex with me at some point in this life. And the aqua is ok with it, she approached me once. @.@ Peculiar fellow.

But other than this, he's a great friend. He just has to tell me this from time to time. I think he assumes he is slowly erroding my resistance lol.

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
All I want for christmas..

Is a threesome with scorchy, damnata and moi

quoting this forever and ever.

you give virgals so much grief, douche! 😛

but you did date a virgo with an aries moon so you're partially forgiven 😛

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she was your astro twin dude!!!!!!

Her cancer venus wanted babies after the first night we spent together..

*Leo Venus/Mars exits the stage*

^I don't want babies from you dude. Ewww

I have better taste.

SHUTUP!

Posted by Damnata
Boom, you scoundrel..

I have a Virgo man friend. He's venus and mars in leo with an aries moon.

He will not give up on the idea of threesome with me and his long term aqua gf. Or sex with me at some point in this life. And the aqua is ok with it, she approached me once. @.@ Peculiar fellow.

But other than this, he's a great friend. He just has to tell me this from time to time. I think he assumes he is slowly erroding my resistance lol.

Nothing's gonna stop him, so you better give in 😉 Mars in Leo never gives up if it smells even the slightiest chance of success. You are dead meat, you just dont know it yet, he smelled the blood already, raawwrrrr!

Posted by Damnata
^I don't want babies from you dude. Ewww

I have better taste.

SHUTUP!

Pff, you'd try and rape me like all Virgo women tried with me, stop playing the Immaculate Virgin card on me, Im a Virgo too.

Posted by scorchedearth
you guys have fun with that.

You can give your long-ass "I love virgo" speeches during the foreplay, hmkay?

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Posted by Damnata
Boom, you scoundrel..

I have a Virgo man friend. He's venus and mars in leo with an aries moon.

He will not give up on the idea of threesome with me and his long term aqua gf. Or sex with me at some point in this life. And the aqua is ok with it, she approached me once. @.@ Peculiar fellow.

But other than this, he's a great friend. He just has to tell me this from time to time. I think he assumes he is slowly erroding my resistance lol.

Nothing's gonna stop him, so you better give in 😉 Mars in Leo never gives up if it smells even the slightiest chance of success. You are dead meat, you just dont know it yet, he smelled the blood already, raawwrrrr!

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I figured as much.

lol@ rawwwwrrr

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Posted by Damnata
^I don't want babies from you dude. Ewww

I have better taste.

SHUTUP!

Pff, you'd try and rape me like all Virgo women tried with me, stop playing the Immaculate Virgin card on me, Im a Virgo too.

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The nerve you have of saying that as a whorebag virgo man!

I didn't go "dude I'm a virgin", just said babies are out of the question.

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Posted by Damnata
Boom, you scoundrel..

I have a Virgo man friend. He's venus and mars in leo with an aries moon.

He will not give up on the idea of threesome with me and his long term aqua gf. Or sex with me at some point in this life. And the aqua is ok with it, she approached me once. @.@ Peculiar fellow.

But other than this, he's a great friend. He just has to tell me this from time to time. I think he assumes he is slowly erroding my resistance lol.

Nothing's gonna stop him, so you better give in 😉 Mars in Leo never gives up if it smells even the slightiest chance of success. You are dead meat, you just dont know it yet, he smelled the blood already, raawwrrrr!

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ugh why is it it's always a freaking aquarius woman who is into that stupid threesome shit. *smh*
many of them must have some pooooor self esteem about men and like sharing. I'd KILL the motherfucker who wanted that and go on Lorenna Bobbitt on him.

i wouldn't even be with that kind of man. Plenty of men out there who are into monogamy big time.

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Posted by Damnata
^I don't want babies from you dude. Ewww

I have better taste.

SHUTUP!

Pff, you'd try and rape me like all Virgo women tried with me, stop playing the Immaculate Virgin card on me, Im a Virgo too.

The nerve you have of saying that as a whorebag virgo man!

I didn't go "dude I'm a virgin", just said babies are out of the question.

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Me too! I was just mentioning since your astro twin was so clingy so fast 😛

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Posted by Damnata
Boom, you scoundrel..

I have a Virgo man friend. He's venus and mars in leo with an aries moon.

He will not give up on the idea of threesome with me and his long term aqua gf. Or sex with me at some point in this life. And the aqua is ok with it, she approached me once. @.@ Peculiar fellow.

But other than this, he's a great friend. He just has to tell me this from time to time. I think he assumes he is slowly erroding my resistance lol.

Nothing's gonna stop him, so you better give in 😉 Mars in Leo never gives up if it smells even the slightiest chance of success. You are dead meat, you just dont know it yet, he smelled the blood already, raawwrrrr!

ugh why is it it's always a freaking aquarius woman who is into that stupid threesome shit. *smh*
many of them must have some pooooor self esteem about men and like sharing. I'd KILL the motherfucker who wanted that and go on Lorenna Bobbitt on him.

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I like aqua women every time more and more, I like that I have always been able to be just awesome friends with them without the sex, very often I have ruined potentially good friendships with women by sleeping with them..

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Posted by Damnata
Boom, you scoundrel..

I have a Virgo man friend. He's venus and mars in leo with an aries moon.

He will not give up on the idea of threesome with me and his long term aqua gf. Or sex with me at some point in this life. And the aqua is ok with it, she approached me once. @.@ Peculiar fellow.

But other than this, he's a great friend. He just has to tell me this from time to time. I think he assumes he is slowly erroding my resistance lol.

Nothing's gonna stop him, so you better give in 😉 Mars in Leo never gives up if it smells even the slightiest chance of success. You are dead meat, you just dont know it yet, he smelled the blood already, raawwrrrr!

ugh why is it it's always a freaking aquarius woman who is into that stupid threesome shit. *smh*
many of them must have some pooooor self esteem about men and like sharing. I'd KILL the motherfucker who wanted that and go on Lorenna Bobbitt on him.

I like aqua women every time more and more, I like that I have always been able to be just awesome friends with them without the sex, very often I have ruined potentially good friendships with women by sleeping with them..

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yeah i am getting the feeling friendship is the ONLY way with you long term. 😆 😆 😆 😛 😛

Impossible to be just friends with Taurus women, they are too sexy not to wanting to sleep with them, cant think of a Taurus female friend that I havent slept with :/

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Posted by Damnata
Boom, you scoundrel..

I have a Virgo man friend. He's venus and mars in leo with an aries moon.

He will not give up on the idea of threesome with me and his long term aqua gf. Or sex with me at some point in this life. And the aqua is ok with it, she approached me once. @.@ Peculiar fellow.

But other than this, he's a great friend. He just has to tell me this from time to time. I think he assumes he is slowly erroding my resistance lol.

Nothing's gonna stop him, so you better give in 😉 Mars in Leo never gives up if it smells even the slightiest chance of success. You are dead meat, you just dont know it yet, he smelled the blood already, raawwrrrr!

ugh why is it it's always a freaking aquarius woman who is into that stupid threesome shit. *smh*
many of them must have some pooooor self esteem about men and like sharing. I'd KILL the motherfucker who wanted that and go on Lorenna Bobbitt on him.

I like aqua women every time more and more, I like that I have always been able to be just awesome friends with them without the sex, very often I have ruined potentially good friendships with women by sleeping with them..

yeah i am getting the feeling friendship is the ONLY way with you long term. 😆 😆 😆 😛 😛

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My love life has been complex..friends that become short-affairs, then back to friends, then back to sleeping with them and being more serious with them, then back to friends.

Sun, moon and Venus in the 11th house FTW!

So no threesome? :/ you could dress up as a sexy Santa helper..

Oops

Posted by scorchedearth
i hate being called sexy. easiest way into my friends zone.

I can just imagine you on a date.

Person: This is so awesome. You're sexy, do you know that?
*scorched picking up and leaving*
"Well it's been fun. Good luck in your quest for sexiness"

lol

Posted by scorchedearth
the question you're really asking me is if i would agree to sleep with you to get at damnata. 😛

She has nice bewbs, face them!

I mean face it!

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Sun, moon and Venus in the 11th house FTW!

Oh!! O_O Noooo wonder.

11th stellium house opposite your venus/mars leo.

and all your sagittarius.

Women that know astrology would see you and RUN! 😆

Luckily the Taurus/Gem knows nothing about astrology 😄 Im teaching her heheheh