So as I have said before we both have a crazy schedule between work and school. But my ex taurus gf(that I'm trying to get back) is always so stressed about school and work. She always says there's just not enough hours in the day. She's angry a lot and very irritable. I ask if there's anything I can do to help and she always says no and that she just wants to be left alone, her phone is constantly blowing up every day. So by the time I call she's pissed.. does stress do this to all taurus ladies? I try to help it doesn't seem to make anything better and taking a step back doesn't seem to help either. I'm at a loss. She's been very snappy for about a week, stressed about exams and work, but now exams are over for a couple weeks and she's still cranky.
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So as I have said before we both have a crazy schedule between work and school. But my ex taurus gf(that I'm trying to get back) is always so stressed about school and work. She always says there's just not enough hours in the day. She's angry a lot and very irritable. I ask if there's anything I can do to help and she always says no and that she just wants to be left alone, her phone is constantly blowing up every day. So by the time I call she's pissed.. does stress do this to all taurus ladies? I try to help it doesn't seem to make anything better and taking a step back doesn't seem to help either. I'm at a loss. She's been very snappy for about a week, stressed about exams and work, but now exams are over for a couple weeks and she's still cranky.
So as I have said before we both have a crazy schedule between work and school. But my ex taurus gf(that I'm trying to get back) is always so stressed about school and work. She always says there's just not enough hours in the day. She's angry a lot and very irritable. I ask if there's anything I can do to help and she always says no and that she just wants to be left alone, her phone is constantly blowing up every day. So by the time I call she's pissed.. does stress do this to all taurus ladies? I try to help it doesn't seem to make anything better and taking a step back doesn't seem to help either. I'm at a loss. She's been very snappy for about a week, stressed about exams and work, but now exams are over for a couple weeks and she's still cranky.
Thank you that's helpful. I just feel like such a negative person in her life. Like I can never do anything right or anything good enough.
Give her space and quit stressing about her every move. Did you buy her flowers like we previously talked about??
You are overanalyzing her every move, give yourself peace of mind and get a hobby.
You are overanalyzing her every move, give yourself peace of mind and get a hobby.

I totally agree with wildflower, you need to chill
I did buy her flowers yesterday.
Posted by Ace2009Aww! and?! how did it go?
I did buy her flowers yesterday.

Next time you spend some face to face time together talk about having set times to call/FaceTime etc.
Tell her she doesn't need to respond back to good Morning/good night texts, your just sending them to put a smile on your face.
It may help with her stress levels if she doesn't bombarded by you or obligated to answer back right away.
Remember this is temporary. Once she finishes school she will have more time for you and for herself. Be patient, be supportive.
Tell her she doesn't need to respond back to good Morning/good night texts, your just sending them to put a smile on your face.
It may help with her stress levels if she doesn't bombarded by you or obligated to answer back right away.
Remember this is temporary. Once she finishes school she will have more time for you and for herself. Be patient, be supportive.
Well she seemed surprised by flowers and said they were very pretty and thank you. She said it was very nice of me. But I don't feel it helped any. I always sent her flowers pretty regularly so it's not out of the ordinary. We live together still so she sees me everyday. We're both off work and home together today but I feel she's treating me more like a friend than anything.

Keep doing the little small things that may have annoyed her in the past and let her see that you're doing them and trying... we Taurus women are stubborn but it takes awhile to access and come around because we make up our minds and hold it... she's still with you so that says a lot... keep her there no matter what don't make her move out or it will be harder. Good luck to you.

take the bull by the horns and get her away for the weekend - get some alcohol in her to relax her and/or a spa day away from phone, tv, work, everything ... the woods would be good - a few days to relax would do wonders for her right now
I don't think now is the right time for a getaway weekend. Since we're both in school right now, weekends is where we make most of our money and to take off work and not focus on school for a weekend.. I could just see it now.. She would be pissed when we got back and make it my fault for taking her away from work/school..
I don't think now is the right time for a getaway weekend. Since we're both in school right now, weekends is where we make most of our money and to take off work and not focus on school for a weekend.. I could just see it now.. She would be pissed when we got back and make it my fault for taking her away from work/school..
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