Taurus Wont Take No For an Answer

I hate to keep rehashing the back story but it will give more insight. I was in fwb type of thing with this taurus guy. After a few months his child's mother moves in with him. He said it was nothing between them. I gave the benefit of the doubt but his actions were similar to a married man. Fast forward: I told him not to contact me anymore. He insists that he loves me. After a few posts and advice I ignored him hoping to rid myself of him. He still called and texted on a regular basis. Recently, I answered a call from him. I told him I had a boyfriend hoping to deter him. His response was "naw I know u wouldn't leave me like that". He said he wasn't too far and could he stop by. I go to his car. He's telling me how much he misses me and says he needs me. He asked me to be patient with him and his situation and I shouldn't give up on him.

First I thought taurus don't cheat on people they really love.
Second I don't understand the persistence with me and I have clearly told him where I stood regarding his situation.

Even if the woman leaves I don't want him in that way. If he cheated on her he could do the same to me.

Posted by schneaky
Are they living together as a couple?

If not, then he is making an akward situation but is hardly a villian.

Have you sat and had a chat with him about it all?

What actions were similar to a married mans?

He says she lives in his finished basement.

He doesn't say a whole lot about her or their relationship. He said he preferred them to stay with him as opposed to other people.

He seems like he has to go home at a certain time. He can't tell her he's dating anybody. He says it keeps down the drama. He mostly calls from work now. He calls me his future wife yet I have never met a family member or close friend.

I can't live like that. I don't like being a secret.