Any taurus guys in the house feel free to comment for sure too! So I'm a Leo- rawrr and my guy is a bull. ALL. THE. WAY. lol well he is moving in two months and he didn't want to get involved with me because he was afraid to like me too much then have to leave and yadayada ok so that didn't work out too well for him. I had my sights on him 3 years ago and fate had it so I got my chance, and I dug my little Leo claws in! Man am I glad too! I adore him! and I can definitely tell he has it for me. He doesn't do ALL the typical taurus things, he doesn't blow my phone up and he works a LOT I know, because I watch him lol (I live on a farm and he is my sexy cowboy)so we don't get to spend too much physical time together. But so lately he's been acting out, being a testy torro and I blew up on him but i plead my reprieve and he quickly acquiesced. (I wrote him a letter and gave him a cute little 'inside joke' gift that was meaningful but silly) so today, he goes off on ME for something he really shouldn't have, I know he is testing because he has let his emotions slip a little about his fears of me cheating when he leaves- basically all the logical worries that go along w/ LD relationships. Well this man today proceeds to get IRATE with me, blessed me out on facebook and everything! (I feel kinda special!) then i text him and im like "ok, you are overreacting and I think I'm going to give you some space to think about it. I'll be here when you are ready to talk..." and his response— Im sitting here thinking, he's brooding, ok. wont hear from him for a few days, couple weeks- i will deal. Hell come around, but no...little bit later he texts me back and tells me "not gonna happen, I have better things to do like hand scrub my underwear" ROTFLMAO now you KNOW I had to come back with that...I'm not sure if he was TRYING to hurt my feelings, but he knows even if he was- that aint gonna do it. lol we have a very "playful-smartass-banter-kind of relationship" so I bat one right back saying "yes you should do that get rid of the fart marks- woolite works best!" I'm still hysterical laughing right now and it's been over an hour since my response. I don't think he was expecting that- even though he left himself open for it. So basically- I'ma teach this man that I'm not leaving but, dang. that's so funny! Who thinks he's genuinely mad and who thinks hes just doing that good old taurean brood but is laughing cuz he got had? (I vote the latter. he wants me to THI
This is too FUNNY TAURUS!!!! by: his Leo

Where is his MOOOON?
I'm not sure what his moon sign is. But I can give you observed personality traits. ?would that help? I am just trying to figure out exactly which way to go at this. I know he's just trying to push me away because he thinks it's going to happen anyway and it's not if I have anything to do with it. I genuinely care about him. But if it helps a little background info:
-2 long term marriages both cheated so those are the only real relationships hes had so far.
-Hes old school cowboy/country "mama raised me right" type
-Hes very patient
-He's possessive but he tries to hide it
-He's a bit insecure but he tries to hide it
-He didn't have much "fun" in the bedroom w/ the other two- so he has gotten to experience a few "firsts" he's always wanted with me
-He's very funny in private but quiet if he doesn't know you
-He doesn't talk a lot about how he is feeling but he does open up with me and he seems to be opening up more and more, but the repercussions of that seem to be he's getting more and more testy with me
-He is very frank, when he says something it's to the point.
-Typically it seems that if he doesn't want anything to do with you he just won't talk to you
and he can't help but seem to stop talking all the way to me.
(I'm not a game player and he know's I am going to respond to him in a way he isn't used to... so him giving me the silent treatment I think may be his only defense w/ me because I refuse to get angry and leave)
He's told me he was looking for a "forever" type relationship, He and I have many personal past experience/issues and a lot of personal things in common to the degree that it is weird. It's like talking to myself but with different personality traits and I know he sees a lot of that too.
I trust wholeheartedly that isn't using me, he wouldn't do that. I have faith in him. He is kind and wonderful but, something I have never dealt with before. He is a good person and he deserves the best so I want to do good for him. I am just not entirely sure how to respond after the last texts, although I made light and joked, and even if it did make him laugh (which it probably did a little)he's still a taurus so I know he's going to brood for a while. I am just not sure how long I should give him what to say next, what he needs.
He's also been under a ton of stress. (Don't know if this matters but, I've met his son a couple times now too and I too have a child but his is the 8-10 range mines the 3-5 range)
K if it helps to
-2 long term marriages both cheated so those are the only real relationships hes had so far.
-Hes old school cowboy/country "mama raised me right" type
-Hes very patient
-He's possessive but he tries to hide it
-He's a bit insecure but he tries to hide it
-He didn't have much "fun" in the bedroom w/ the other two- so he has gotten to experience a few "firsts" he's always wanted with me
-He's very funny in private but quiet if he doesn't know you
-He doesn't talk a lot about how he is feeling but he does open up with me and he seems to be opening up more and more, but the repercussions of that seem to be he's getting more and more testy with me
-He is very frank, when he says something it's to the point.
-Typically it seems that if he doesn't want anything to do with you he just won't talk to you
and he can't help but seem to stop talking all the way to me.
(I'm not a game player and he know's I am going to respond to him in a way he isn't used to... so him giving me the silent treatment I think may be his only defense w/ me because I refuse to get angry and leave)
He's told me he was looking for a "forever" type relationship, He and I have many personal past experience/issues and a lot of personal things in common to the degree that it is weird. It's like talking to myself but with different personality traits and I know he sees a lot of that too.
I trust wholeheartedly that isn't using me, he wouldn't do that. I have faith in him. He is kind and wonderful but, something I have never dealt with before. He is a good person and he deserves the best so I want to do good for him. I am just not entirely sure how to respond after the last texts, although I made light and joked, and even if it did make him laugh (which it probably did a little)he's still a taurus so I know he's going to brood for a while. I am just not sure how long I should give him what to say next, what he needs.
He's also been under a ton of stress. (Don't know if this matters but, I've met his son a couple times now too and I too have a child but his is the 8-10 range mines the 3-5 range)
K if it helps to
oh- and his b-day is 4/21
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