This Taurus Guy Thinks He's Slick

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I met a Taurus guy a few months ago through a classmate while at a conference. We briefly chatted, nothing major. He shared with me that he does personal training and sells herbalife as a part time job. I figured he was trying to sucker me into buying his product, I told him I was not interested and moved on with life. A few days later he finds me on instagram and sends me a direct message and re-introduces himself. He asked me a couple questions about working out because I have pictures of me working out on my page then he offers to send me free shakes to try out. He does and they are delicious by the way. After he sent the shake I did not hear from him for a while. Now all of a sudden he has started texting me. Making small talk. He knows I am in relationship. I have told him I am and there are pictures of my boyfriend and I on my page. He disclosed that he is in a relationship as well. But I get a funny feeling from him. Like he is trying to game me up...

He has made comments about Taurus men having excellent taste in women and made a comment saying something like I am the total package. Mind you, he is never been disrespectful and his contact until this week has been rather infrequent and not very suspicious. My male friend thinks this was the Taurus' plan all along. To creep in slowly. I guess it doesn't matter because I am in a relationship and I am not going anywhere, but I just think its funny/interesting that this guy thinks he is slick. Or, maybe not. Maybe he is just being nice. Lol.
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He has made comments about Taurus men having excellent taste in women and made a comment saying something like I am the total package. Mind you, he is never been disrespectful and his contact until this week has been rather infrequent and not very suspicious. My male friend thinks this was the Taurus' plan all along. To creep in slowly. I guess it doesn't matter because I am in a relationship and I am not going anywhere, but I just think its funny/interesting that this guy thinks he is slick. Or, maybe not. Maybe he is just being nice. Lol.




Yeah, we are good at being ambiguous like that. Its clear he likes what he sees. Sometimes I just meet a woman who is beautiful, or intelligent, charismatic, or just stands out in some way, and I feel this strong urge to express that to her somehow. We have a strong aesthetic sense and appreciate nice things; they arouse our passion, and sometimes we just want that person to hear the truth about how we perceive them (in a strictly platonic sort of way). Oddly, I'm more assertive in that than I am in pursuing someone I am *actually* interested in in a real way. Maybe it is more than that though and you'll need to put him in his place if you feel he oversteps his bounds.
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Hmmmm.... I see. Well, I am going to keep my distance from him. I am very social and I love to talk. Most of the time at least. I don't want him to get the wrong idea. He is younger than me. So, I told him last night that I can be like his big sister. I figured that would let him know there is nothing going down. LOL.



LOL. I'm sure you will be fine. I think its a great match for friendship actually, as long as the lines are drawn.
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It just goes to show how men can plot and wait for the right moment to pounce on their prey! LOL. A little dramatic, yes. But you catch my drift. Coming to me asking me for advice about his girlfriend. Boy bye! He barely knows me. Why on God's green earth would he trust me for advice. Out of all his family and friends.

LOL!! Men are funny.



Yeah, Taurus men don't really take advice anyway. LOL. He may be feeling you out or just want to vent. Sometimes its helpful to vent to women because they are more emotionally in tune, better listeners, etc. If you already took on the role of "big sister", expect more of this...lol.
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Whelp, he came out with it. He sent me a text last night about a work out he suggested I try, I thanked him. Then he said I should be glad that he is behaving now because he would have definitely tried to talk to me and that he feels a warm magnetic energy from me. Then he went onto say that he is glad he is in love with his gf and did not try anything with me because he saved himself from rejection. I just laughed and said, "indeed". I wrapped up the text convo and went to bed. Smh.