
I just don't know what to do. He's 33 and I'm a 27 year old Aqua woman and we get along great. He calls me everyday and when we aren't on the phone we are texting or messaging through fb. Once and a while I will message him first, but 98% of the time he is the one who initiates contact. He also does the sweetest things for me; cooks me food, gives me massages & back scratches, fixes my bike, changes my car's headlights, gives me simple gifts like a fan & portable charger, etc, but he says he isn't ready for a relationship. He says he enjoys having me in his life, but he's already 33 and needs to get things done, for example, graduate & find his career. (which is great by the way because so am I! I am a nursing student, but it's not turning me away from a relationship) Although he seems genuine, I just can't help but feel he likes me, but he doesn't like me enough to be with me. I feel as though he is waiting for someone better to come along, and I'm just here to entertain his time now. I don't want to pressure him, especially because I wouldn't want to be with anyone if it isn't real, but what do I do? Do I continue to be in his life and act as though I'm all right, when in reality I feel a little hurt? Do I cut off contact completely and hope he realizes he doesn't want to lose me...ever?






