To chase or not to chase??

Do you Taurus like to be chased?? Or would you rather do the chasing??


Once you start dealing with someone do you want them to chase you?

Chase me like you'll never see me again.

me? Too tired to chase *yawns*
My closest friends are lucky if they get a text back within 2-5 hours.

Me?

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Me?

When's your birthday?

Posted by DamnatBunny
chase until you don't need to

That's not annoying??

I'm a May baby. 2nd decan.

In general, Taurus is more of an attractor than a chaser. Wouldn't hurt to check the Venus/Mars combo though.

Taurus don't like to chase but what about the taurus men who do the chasing?? Im so lost

Yeah that's right girls go after guys who chase women that's real smart wth makes you think that he will stop chasing girls when he has hooked you? And girls wonder why there bf's cheat it's plain and simple their chasers they will chase anything that has two legs that catches their attention. When the smart girls will hook a non skirt chaser who won't chase or even look twice at females or even give them the time of day because all he wants/needs is you and he knows this which will make him more passive to other girls advances. Continue going after chasers and see how long they go before they chase the next meal.

Shiiiiiid....I'm not chasing nothin but them checks lol

you gotta chase a little and then let him chase a little and then chase him back and so on and so forth.

you can't be putting ALL the hard yards in but you also can't expect him to read your mind.

I prefer to be chased.

However, I do flirt and beckon men to me.

Eye contact is important.

but in nearly every relationship the woman has initiated. guys, and especially taurus men, are not going to put themselves forward if they are unlikely to fail.

you may have thought they initiated but you do. you flirted. you laughed at his jokes and touched his arm. women have all the power in deciding what goes forward and what doesn't. every woman chases in her own small way at the start.

(sorry, i realise i am speaking in very hetero terms. sorry, it's my only frame of reference i can speak to.).

Posted by jeane
but in nearly every relationship the woman has initiated. guys, and especially taurus men, are not going to put themselves forward if they are unlikely to fail.

you may have thought they initiated but you do. you flirted. you laughed at his jokes and touched his arm. women have all the power in deciding what goes forward and what doesn't. every woman chases in her own small way at the start.

(sorry, i realise i am speaking in very hetero terms. sorry, it's my only frame of reference i can speak to.).

so do you think flirting can be a form of chasing?

Posted by LadyGem86

Posted by jeane
but in nearly every relationship the woman has initiated. guys, and especially taurus men, are not going to put themselves forward if they are unlikely to fail.

you may have thought they initiated but you do. you flirted. you laughed at his jokes and touched his arm. women have all the power in deciding what goes forward and what doesn't. every woman chases in her own small way at the start.

(sorry, i realise i am speaking in very hetero terms. sorry, it's my only frame of reference i can speak to.).

so do you think flirting can be a form of chasing?

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absolutely!

and i should have written *not going to put themselves forward if they are likely to fail....

Posted by impulsv
When the male is the aggressor I'm comfortable n know what to do but if I initiate it's too confusing.
^^^^^^^^ this is something that the Taurus and Scorpio energies share I believe.Taurus don't feel comfortable being the initiater because were not used to it plus we don't like the risk of you turning us down especially if we feel you are too good for us or too good to be true. I've read that both Taurus and Scorpio are negative feminine energies and those energies are not the chasing type their an attracting type energy which is why I think both Taurus and Scorpio feel out of place when they are not the ones attracting but instead chasing.

Posted by LentoBull91
Posted by impulsv
When the male is the aggressor I'm comfortable n know what to do but if I initiate it's too confusing.
^^^^^^^^ this is something that the Taurus and Scorpio energies share I believe.Taurus don't feel comfortable being the initiater because were not used to it plus we don't like the risk of you turning us down especially if we feel you are too good for us or too good to be true. I've read that both Taurus and Scorpio are negative feminine energies and those energies are not the chasing type their an attracting type energy which is why I think both Taurus and Scorpio feel out of place when they are not the ones attracting but instead chasing.

i don't know lento. my bull chased me...hard. once he had made his mind up, i couldn't escape. his persistence wore me down.

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Posted by LentoBull91
Posted by impulsv
When the male is the aggressor I'm comfortable n know what to do but if I initiate it's too confusing.
^^^^^^^^ this is something that the Taurus and Scorpio energies share I believe.Taurus don't feel comfortable being the initiater because were not used to it plus we don't like the risk of you turning us down especially if we feel you are too good for us or too good to be true. I've read that both Taurus and Scorpio are negative feminine energies and those energies are not the chasing type their an attracting type energy which is why I think both Taurus and Scorpio feel out of place when they are not the ones attracting but instead chasing.

i don't know lento. my bull chased me...hard. once he had made his mind up, i couldn't escape. his persistence wore me down.

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same here...my taurus definitely did the persuing for the most part...but I did play a part by flirting lol

Posted by jeane
but in nearly every relationship the woman has initiated. guys, and especially taurus men, are not going to put themselves forward if they are unlikely to fail.

you may have thought they initiated but you do. you flirted. you laughed at his jokes and touched his arm. women have all the power in deciding what goes forward and what doesn't. every woman chases in her own small way at the start.

(sorry, i realise i am speaking in very hetero terms. sorry, it's my only frame of reference i can speak to.).

This is very accurate....^^^

You must be Venusian, too....🙂

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by jeane

Posted by LentoBull91
Posted by impulsv
When the male is the aggressor I'm comfortable n know what to do but if I initiate it's too confusing.
^^^^^^^^ this is something that the Taurus and Scorpio energies share I believe.Taurus don't feel comfortable being the initiater because were not used to it plus we don't like the risk of you turning us down especially if we feel you are too good for us or too good to be true. I've read that both Taurus and Scorpio are negative feminine energies and those energies are not the chasing type their an attracting type energy which is why I think both Taurus and Scorpio feel out of place when they are not the ones attracting but instead chasing.

i don't know lento. my bull chased me...hard. once he had made his mind up, i couldn't escape. his persistence wore me down.

This is correct.

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i still chased him though busy - at the start. i made sure i never let things go cold between us however it was equal. i reached out, then he reached out. if one of us wanted to make contact, we did. it wasn't one sided.

right, right, right in the beginning? all me. i flirted with him. i chose the parameters of our friendship. then when the moment was right, i was the one that ramped it up to the next level...then i totally cooled off (not intentionally, i was having a libra moment) but by then he wouldn't take any other answer but yes from me. and when he finally got the yes, he didn't believe me! lol 😆

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by jeane
but in nearly every relationship the woman has initiated. guys, and especially taurus men, are not going to put themselves forward if they are unlikely to fail.

you may have thought they initiated but you do. you flirted. you laughed at his jokes and touched his arm. women have all the power in deciding what goes forward and what doesn't. every woman chases in her own small way at the start.

(sorry, i realise i am speaking in very hetero terms. sorry, it's my only frame of reference i can speak to.).

This is very accurate....^^^

You must be Venusian, too....🙂

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cut me and i bleed libra TB 🙂

apologies that earlier message wasn't directed to you specifically TB. i think you and i posted at the same time. the "but" was in response to Impulsv saying she is never comfortable unless the man initiates.

So it's safe to say that taurus' will chase you but only if you gave them some sort of "green light" to do so?

makes sense...

idk tho...I just remembered I dated a taurus guy in highschool. He persued the ish outta me and I never flirted, hinted or anything with him until one day I said what the hell and gave him my number. He later told me he liked me because I look like I would f*** the sh*t outta him...like really? lol smh

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by HoneyD1
Do you Taurus like to be chased?? Or would you rather do the chasing??


Once you start dealing with someone do you want them to chase you?

Taurus is reactionary!

A taurus man in the beginning with chase and show interest but this is a really really slow process. And I mean SLOW.

I am a taurus female and I don't chase a man... If I am "dinner" then the man had better come and get it or he will starve!!!

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HAHA.. THAT!!

Posted by jeane
cut me and i bleed libra TB 🙂

apologies that earlier message wasn't directed to you specifically TB. i think you and i posted at the same time. the "but" was in response to Impulsv saying she is never comfortable unless the man initiates.

Your comment was very informative.
A woman does have a great deal of power in certain situations.
Being Venusian does have its rewards.
I had to learn to master this when dealing with Virgos (apparently Tauruses are not the only signs in the 'caution' department, so are Cappies and Virgos)...LOL

Being proactive in reeling them in can be both challenging and rewarding at the same time.
Flirting, and eye contact can be a form of chasing...
(although I hated chasing).

The men are truly worth it!

I have dated other signs in the past when I was younger, of course for the fun and excitement and the way I was chased. I felt loved and desired, but this was just an illusion....a smokescreen. Reality set it in, I came off my 'high', and they exposed their real intentions, which was never genuine. A real man doesn't chase 'skirts' for the ego boost, a real man uses caution when he seeks out a potential partner for longevity, and can take or leave the undesirables.

I had to learn this lesson the hard way.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Your comment was very informative.
A woman does have a great deal of power in certain situations.
Being Venusian does have its rewards.
I had to learn to master this when dealing with Virgos (apparently Tauruses are not the only signs in the 'caution' department, so are Cappies and Virgos)...LOL

Being proactive in reeling them in can be both challenging and rewarding at the same time.
Flirting, and eye contact can be a form of chasing...
(although I hated chasing).

The men are truly worth it!

I have dated other signs in the past when I was younger, of course for the fun and excitement and the way I was chased. I felt loved and desired, but this was just an illusion....a smokescreen. Reality set it in, I came off my 'high', and they exposed their real intentions, which was never genuine. A real man doesn't chase 'skirts' for the ego boost, a real man uses caution when he seeks out a potential partner for longevity, and can take or leave the undesirables.

I had to learn this lesson the hard way.

i think there is chasing and there is chasing. to me flirting is chasing but i wouldn't advocate throwing myself at someone especially if i am not getting signals back. i have to say, i'm falling victim to my own sign here but i love a meaningless flirt. ain't nothing like honing those skills with a bit of banter and playfulness. now i am with someone i wouldn't dream of doing it with anyone else but it was fun while it lasted! 😄

busy talks about becoming a masculine woman. my recommended chasing wouldn't be so overt or brash to even come close to changing gender roles. but yes, you are right, men who are worth the subtle 'chase' are the ones that take their time, just as women should take theirs. anyone rushing to determinedly chase another should pause with concern of their own intentions.