Update from letting go

Update. The Taurus male has contacted me back but why would he tell me that he’s not looking for sex and if he was it’s his business I think that’s kinda weird for him to say. He’s been asking me what I been up to. I told him I was going out with a friend to go shopping and get food. I got home I seen him riding by my house. I don’t understand what does he want us to be when he says we are just friends I been treating him like a friend. It’s hard to read him.

If I were you I'd ignore him and move on with my life. Nobody's got time for games.

Riding past your house? As in like a stalker?

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
You’ll only get an answer if you ask him directly.

He’s probably saying he doesn’t want sex so you’ll feel comfortable to be around him.

But he talks sexually but he doesn’t throw himself on me at all which is weird. I have been on a date now and I told him bout the date he asked me bout the date who is it where we went and blah blah. But he says I hope he treats you right you a cool chick. But then he says he won’t treat you like I do. Smh. That to me is confusion.

Posted by AriesJo
Riding past your house? As in like a stalker?

I don’t know but this isn’t the first time he had done it. I just don’t want to bother trying to entertain it. I haven’t confronted on it cause he’ll deny it.

He says we are cool we are friends but it seems like he comes on more than friends. Than he says he was joking calling us friends with benefits. I just don’t get it. He admit he likes me then he ignores me if I asked him was he actually meaning what he says ? He says we wouldn’t be together but then he acts jealous of my male friend ? I just don’t know I guess I’ll move along and pretend none of this happened. It’s just weird to me that’s all.

Why he doesn’t want a relationship he says so that’s what I’m confused about.

I told to stop with the sexual talk. He says I started it but it seems like that is all he wants and he says no he doesn’t. But I don’t get him.

He mad bout my male friend. I told him I was moving forward I need more than just sex. He doesn’t try to have sex with me but he does say sexual things.

He says he was joking he said he never said he wants to have sex with me but he says he was talking crap which makes no sense. But you guys are right.

aren't you bored? because i am bored.

Posted by jeane
aren't you bored? because i am bored.

Why comment ? Are you bored then go elsewhere 😂😂😂😂

Posted by FantasticLyfe_89

Posted by jeane
aren't you bored? because i am bored.

Why comment ? Are you bored then go elsewhere 😂😂😂😂

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then with that response you've proven that you like the drama this guy provides you.

there's no point to this thread since this is just an means to indulge yourself. stop taking advantage of people who are genuinely trying to help you.

Posted by jeane

Posted by FantasticLyfe_89

Posted by jeane
aren't you bored? because i am bored.

Why comment ? Are you bored then go elsewhere 😂😂😂😂

then with that response you've proven that you like the drama this guy provides you.

there's no point to this thread since this is just an means to indulge yourself. stop taking advantage of people who are genuinely trying to help you.

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No you trying to flip the script by being a smart ass by saying aren’t you bored so you too simple minded you belittled no advice taken hon.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by FantasticLyfe_89

Posted by jeane
aren't you bored? because i am bored.

Why comment ? Are you bored then go elsewhere 😂😂😂😂

then with that response you've proven that you like the drama this guy provides you.

there's no point to this thread since this is just an means to indulge yourself. stop taking advantage of people who are genuinely trying to help you.

No you trying to flip the script by being a smart ass by saying aren’t you bored so you too simple minded you belittled no advice taken hon.

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you're the one in this situation.

i don't expect you to take my advice. i don't expect you to take the advice of anyone here.

you're here for the drama and to make yourself feel good. this is not a genuine inquiry. it's virtual masturbation.

if you had any desire to resolve this you would but you're entertained by the to-ing and fro-ing with guy.

it takes all kinds i suppose.

Everyone’s advice here says he is just playing with you, he only wants to sleep with you. He is not looking for a relationship with you. I also agree with everyone here. What you can do now is either give him what he wants so that you wont be ‘confused’ OR ignore him and tell him to eff off because you want a real relationship not an fwb. You only have 2 options here honestly...

*hint* choose the 2nd option.

Goodluck