sikkario
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Watcha think of Virguys?
I was married to a Virguy for 13 years. What attracted me to him initially was that smirk. His eyes that lit up when they watched me. How he was so calm and stalwart, kind. Very masculine. Quite sexy in my eyes.
What the turn offs for me over time was the control over money, when I wasn't a spendthrift. The tantrums, and again this was my own personal experience..and the verbal attacks and random hurtful things said. That and I never got any pat on the back for everything I did within the home or in the raising of the children. He and my eldest got on not at all. That was a huge bone of contention between us.
The chemistry in the bedroom was on point. Even at the end when things were falling apart. That was never a problem for he or I.
Communication degraded, he drifted off as a result and found someone he thought would better suit.
So, I would say talk, don't internalize and try to shoulder everything. Do not wall yourself off from a lady. Be there for her, make sure she knows her worth, and she'll give back tenfold.
What the turn offs for me over time was the control over money, when I wasn't a spendthrift. The tantrums, and again this was my own personal experience..and the verbal attacks and random hurtful things said. That and I never got any pat on the back for everything I did within the home or in the raising of the children. He and my eldest got on not at all. That was a huge bone of contention between us.
The chemistry in the bedroom was on point. Even at the end when things were falling apart. That was never a problem for he or I.
Communication degraded, he drifted off as a result and found someone he thought would better suit.
So, I would say talk, don't internalize and try to shoulder everything. Do not wall yourself off from a lady. Be there for her, make sure she knows her worth, and she'll give back tenfold.
Agreed above ^^^^
What I love about Virgo's is their - generally - strong and silent stance. The fact that they are all man, yet totally in touch with their feminine sides. I also like their vunerable side which is only reserved for you.
The things I like about my virgo are:
His ability to be playful
His gorgeous smile
The way his eyes lights up
His filthy flirting
His creative ability
His shrewdness
Intelligence
His acceptance of all people
His gentleness and calmin qualities
If I were to fix things before we got the ball rolling, that would be communication. Often we can both be emotional retards (especially him) and that can frequently lead to miscommunication. Also the lack of pda's in social situations could be eased by simple acknowledgement through the slightest of touches. that would satisfy me more, and keep me feeling secure.
His stony stares and subsequent detachment can be a little odd to handle as you know you don't have his attention.
With other virgo's I have come across, I do find that they can be really 'mental' in the bedroom which can lead to some droopy moments in the early days. Take your time, and make sure you're ready, as your Taurean lady will really really want everything to be exquisite!
What I love about Virgo's is their - generally - strong and silent stance. The fact that they are all man, yet totally in touch with their feminine sides. I also like their vunerable side which is only reserved for you.
The things I like about my virgo are:
His ability to be playful
His gorgeous smile
The way his eyes lights up
His filthy flirting
His creative ability
His shrewdness
Intelligence
His acceptance of all people
His gentleness and calmin qualities
If I were to fix things before we got the ball rolling, that would be communication. Often we can both be emotional retards (especially him) and that can frequently lead to miscommunication. Also the lack of pda's in social situations could be eased by simple acknowledgement through the slightest of touches. that would satisfy me more, and keep me feeling secure.
His stony stares and subsequent detachment can be a little odd to handle as you know you don't have his attention.
With other virgo's I have come across, I do find that they can be really 'mental' in the bedroom which can lead to some droopy moments in the early days. Take your time, and make sure you're ready, as your Taurean lady will really really want everything to be exquisite!
'make sure she knows her worth, and she'll give back tenfold.'
Really? Usually taurus chicks are probably the only ones in the zodiac who dont need any kind of validation regarding their efforts towards their loved ones. I thought this was the reason why so many virgo-taurus couples are a great success, because virgo is not too good with verbalizing their admiration for the ones they truly care for and taurus usually dont require any such gestures.
Really? Usually taurus chicks are probably the only ones in the zodiac who dont need any kind of validation regarding their efforts towards their loved ones. I thought this was the reason why so many virgo-taurus couples are a great success, because virgo is not too good with verbalizing their admiration for the ones they truly care for and taurus usually dont require any such gestures.
Taurus does indeed need such things. Everyone wants validation. If I do a good job, I'd like to hear about it. That might be more of a woman issue, not a sign. But it's deeper than that, it's being valued at the core. We are givers, but we fully expect to get back.
i have dated two other VM and what i didn't like about them was the silence. it's like there are two types of virgos. those that i can laugh and joke with non-stop and the other type that i find myself sitting next to thinking, "maybe i should check his pulse?" it's never an uncomfortable silence just...silence. odd creatures.
anyhoo, as for my bff, the improvements i'd make with him have nothing to do with virgo per se so i'll focus on the good...
he's very easy to talk to. we were friends the moment we met. NEVER have i felt an instant connection with anyone in the same way that i've felt it with him...and that goes for men and women.
he's silly and playful (when we're alone). in public, he's not the same. i don't like his public persona very much.
he thinks of me. never have i felt alone in our friendship. never have i sat and thought, when/if he's going to call/see me. he makes me feel so secure that in a lot of ways, i take his presence for granted. i know that we will be friends for life...no matter where i am.
he's health-conscious. he's a great workout partner and where we have occasional bad moments, he keeps me fit and vice versa.
he's open. he doesn't hide anything from me...anything.
we rarely have disagreements and when we do, we rationalize/joke/play our way out of it. if i get huffy, he will assert himself in a way that makes me think before i speak. sometimes it's as simple as him saying "why are you yelling?" or "take off your clothes." in the former, i calm down and in the latter, i laugh.
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in a lot of ways, this particular VM is my ideal mate. he's my best friend.vthe only thing we lack is passion. if i tell him no, he respects my no. those times when i've given in to him beyond friendship had little to do with him and more to do with me. this may seem like a good thing but in a way, it's not.
what i liked about my leo for example is that if he turned to me and said, "take off your clothes," if i laughed or said no, that wouldn't be jokey joke time. that would be take them off or have them ripped off time...in a tarzan jane way, not scary rapist sorta way.
anyhoo, as for my bff, the improvements i'd make with him have nothing to do with virgo per se so i'll focus on the good...
he's very easy to talk to. we were friends the moment we met. NEVER have i felt an instant connection with anyone in the same way that i've felt it with him...and that goes for men and women.
he's silly and playful (when we're alone). in public, he's not the same. i don't like his public persona very much.
he thinks of me. never have i felt alone in our friendship. never have i sat and thought, when/if he's going to call/see me. he makes me feel so secure that in a lot of ways, i take his presence for granted. i know that we will be friends for life...no matter where i am.
he's health-conscious. he's a great workout partner and where we have occasional bad moments, he keeps me fit and vice versa.
he's open. he doesn't hide anything from me...anything.
we rarely have disagreements and when we do, we rationalize/joke/play our way out of it. if i get huffy, he will assert himself in a way that makes me think before i speak. sometimes it's as simple as him saying "why are you yelling?" or "take off your clothes." in the former, i calm down and in the latter, i laugh.
---
in a lot of ways, this particular VM is my ideal mate. he's my best friend.vthe only thing we lack is passion. if i tell him no, he respects my no. those times when i've given in to him beyond friendship had little to do with him and more to do with me. this may seem like a good thing but in a way, it's not.
what i liked about my leo for example is that if he turned to me and said, "take off your clothes," if i laughed or said no, that wouldn't be jokey joke time. that would be take them off or have them ripped off time...in a tarzan jane way, not scary rapist sorta way.
Posted by Avalan32
'make sure she knows her worth, and she'll give back tenfold.'
Really? Usually taurus chicks are probably the only ones in the zodiac who dont need any kind of validation regarding their efforts towards their loved ones. I thought this was the reason why so many virgo-taurus couples are a great success, because virgo is not too good with verbalizing their admiration for the ones they truly care for and taurus usually dont require any such gestures.
in a way, i agree with VB. my virgo bff and myself have been friends for years and i'm in a constant state of "why?" i don't know "why" we're friends. i don't know "why" he enjoys my company. i just know that he does and where that would be enough, it'd be nice to know why he values our friendship. i know why i value his but i have never been clear on why he values mine.
where the validation should be obvious...it's not. not for me. the flowery words aren't necessarily needed but VB is right, we all need to be validation on occasion.
Jason just rocks. He should be a big reason why cloning research should press on. 😉
Posted by venusianbull
Jason just rocks. He should be a big reason why cloning research should press on. 😉
Awwww, sweet Jason 🙂 Just a babe in the woods, but wise beyond his years - by the corruption of some of us, no doubt...
Funny thing is, I think he digs it. Mwahahahaa.
^^Why wouldn't he? It is very entertaining - to say the least!
^ That's truth right there lady. 🙂
LOL It'll all be okay fine Jase. No one will clone you, promise.
Oh dear, can't have you doing that.
^^^LOL @ that giant smiley face (which isn't really smiling...)
Oh Jason, no one could ever take the place of you 🙂
Oh Jason, no one could ever take the place of you 🙂
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