We are selve absorbed, why don't we talk about other signs?
Water sign women

I am confused.
Are you a Taurus woman who finds water women to be self-absorbed?
Or what—
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Are you a Taurus woman who finds water women to be self-absorbed?
Or what—
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Pisces: these girls are like taking a bite from a sweet juicy fruit. I like them because they are never really insensitive or ruthless even if they're being bad. There's something child like and enigmatically vulnerable about them, I could never break their hearts. Cancer: there's a level of crazy about these girls, which I'm afraid to I love lol. They're fun but can be so boring as well. My sister is a crab, she's got a temper and gets very moody(stereotypical). Scorpio: the ones I know are kind of motherly in a way ie. They take care of you. I'm always in shock that my sister can never be single, i don't understand people who can't take a break from relationships. Like all women they can be shady. One woman was so sexually aggressive towards me, I didn'nt mind at all really :> I loved her passion though, which aroused my own passion.

Posted by Redbull
Other signs? you mean all those people zipping around at warp speed out there?
There are other signs? 😛
Posted by ScorpioFish
I am confused.
Are you a Taurus woman who finds water women to be self-absorbed?
Or what—
—
i'm just trying to put our spotlight on somebody else for a change.
Posted by venusianbullPosted by Redbull
Other signs? you mean all those people zipping around at warp speed out there?
There are other signs? 😛click to expand
yip believe it or not.
Posted by Redbull
Yeah, I have seen a few "interesting" looking Pisces women. Am i playing it off well enough? *tries to look inconspicuous like im not side eying Pisces woman*.
the 'playing it slow' method can backfire with these women, they are rarelly single I find.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Cancers are BORING? How? What do you find boring about us?
when you get all moody, this can last for days even weeks sometimes it's like walking on eggshells sometimes with cancers I know, this gets stale after a while.

This thread bores me.
Posted by LadyOfRebirthPosted by TumeloPosted by Redbull
Yeah, I have seen a few "interesting" looking Pisces women. Am i playing it off well enough? *tries to look inconspicuous like im not side eying Pisces woman*.
the 'playing it slow' method can backfire with these women, they are rarelly single I find.
It depends on the other placements.
There are many mermaids that like to take things slow. I'm personally not one that takes it slow but that's because I have Aries and Gemini personal placements.click to expand
yeah, sometimes there's no point in moving slowly.
On to my original question: pisces are just very light on the soul, scorpios ae emotional dare devils. I don't know how to characterize cancers... I'll have to think about that. I hope nobody finds all I've posted is creepy. I'm a scientist by nature and by profession so I will study a subject quite thoroughly down to the smallest detail.

I get along really well with Pisces women and Scorpio women. It can be hit or miss with Cancer women.
I do find Scorpio women quite fascinating and awesome. I only see their specific brand of crazy when it concerns their love lives. And I'm not a lesbian so I get to experience only the good parts.lol
I do find Scorpio women quite fascinating and awesome. I only see their specific brand of crazy when it concerns their love lives. And I'm not a lesbian so I get to experience only the good parts.lol
Posted by RoseTheTaurus
I get along really well with Pisces women and Scorpio women. It can be hit or miss with Cancer women.
I do find Scorpio women quite fascinating and awesome. I only see their specific brand of crazy when it concerns their love lives. And I'm not a lesbian so I get to experience only the good parts.lol
oh yeah a woman inlove is something to behold, now I wish I was inlove lol

Cancer Woman aren't boring. The ones i met are very funny, highly energetic, and extremely loyal. You have to be patient and gentle with a Crab before you can see the softness of her. Yes Cancers are emotional, can feel down some times, but gotta take the good with the bad with us Cancers. Its worth the work
Posted by Juicysbaby214
Wow i didnt even read your scienceist background n i picked up that u r very observant. Thats awesome. Ur really gifted.
I really hope I'm talented, thank you.
Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Cancer Woman aren't boring. The ones i met are very funny, highly energetic, and extremely loyal. You have to be patient and gentle with a Crab before you can see the softness of her. Yes Cancers are emotional, can feel down some times, but gotta take the good with the bad with us Cancers. Its worth the work
cancers are survivours though, I respect that.
Posted by TumeloPosted by 2BlackIndian3
Cancer Woman aren't boring. The ones i met are very funny, highly energetic, and extremely loyal. You have to be patient and gentle with a Crab before you can see the softness of her. Yes Cancers are emotional, can feel down some times, but gotta take the good with the bad with us Cancers. Its worth the work
cancers are survivours though, I respect that.click to expand
awww! 🙂

Posted by TumeloPosted by CluelessCancer
Cancers are BORING? How? What do you find boring about us?
when you get all moody, this can last for days even weeks sometimes it's like walking on eggshells sometimes with cancers I know, this gets stale after a while.click to expand
True! but why don't the non water signs figure out how to jolly us out of the mood? Water signs know how to deal with it in many ways for another water sign. If we're moody at a particular person then you had better find out what the hell you did to piss us off and then communicate on making amends. Ignoring it and pretending it didn't happen won't make a water sign forget....EVER. Until it's been resolved then we'll still act as though the problem still exists....because it does.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by TumeloPosted by CluelessCancer
Cancers are BORING? How? What do you find boring about us?
when you get all moody, this can last for days even weeks sometimes it's like walking on eggshells sometimes with cancers I know, this gets stale after a while.
True! but why don't the non water signs figure out how to jolly us out of the mood? Water signs know how to deal with it in many ways for another water sign. If we're moody at a particular person then you had better find out what the hell you did to piss us off and then communicate on making amends. Ignoring it and pretending it didn't happen won't make a water sign forget....EVER. Until it's been resolved then we'll still act as though the problem still exists....because it does.click to expand
what happens really when you get like that, it's like its all great and an hour later it's WW3.

Posted by Tumelo
On to my original question: pisces are just very light on the soul, scorpios ae emotional dare devils. I don't know how to characterize cancers... I'll have to think about that. I hope nobody finds all I've posted is creepy. I'm a scientist by nature and by profession so I will study a subject quite thoroughly down to the smallest detail.
Cancers are enigmas. We are all over the charts and most of it is beneath the surface until we feel comfortable with someone and let it all hang out.

Posted by TumeloPosted by MoonArtistPosted by TumeloPosted by CluelessCancer
Cancers are BORING? How? What do you find boring about us?
when you get all moody, this can last for days even weeks sometimes it's like walking on eggshells sometimes with cancers I know, this gets stale after a while.
True! but why don't the non water signs figure out how to jolly us out of the mood? Water signs know how to deal with it in many ways for another water sign. If we're moody at a particular person then you had better find out what the hell you did to piss us off and then communicate on making amends. Ignoring it and pretending it didn't happen won't make a water sign forget....EVER. Until it's been resolved then we'll still act as though the problem still exists....because it does.
what happens really when you get like that, it's like its all great and an hour later it's WW3.click to expand
Depends on the situation. It could be something as simple as being talked to in a condescending manner or treated like a child. If we care about the person who hurt our feelings but go quiet and moody it's because we don't want to show you how much we were hurt (too vulnerable) but we're still going to make you suffer for it (silent ice treatment). IF the people are both evolved and mature and trusting of each other then it's less likely to happen this way and there will be more open communication to resolve it faster.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Many Cancer women who dated Taurus say you guys are abusive. What's up with that?
I wish you would touch me. I'd like nothing better to do then run over a motherfuker.
Been with Cancers most my life. Never laid a hand on one other than to restrain one, when she was attacking me. Ex-wife was a Cancer (and a very tempermental scrapper in her youth) and would get in my face, scream at the top of her lungs and blow my hair back, clenching her fists. LOL.
I don't think moonartist every mentioned physical abuse.
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I don't think moonartist every mentioned physical abuse.
did i say physical abuse? no. i said she's the only one i've seen complaining about abuse from a taurus. and not all abuse is physical. smh.click to expand
CC mentioned physical abuse ("I wish you would touch me"), and you responded with moonartist as the only example. I wasn't actually responding to you, as you said you were going to ignore me if I responded to you last time (which I did), so I figured I was ignored. I was clarifying for the group that moonartist's situation wasn't physical abuse (AFAIK). I think its important an important distinction as Taurus men have a bad temper and can be prone to violence if they lose it, but I've seldom seen or heard it get physical with women.

Posted by scorchedearthPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I don't think moonartist every mentioned physical abuse.
did i say physical abuse? no. i said she's the only one i've seen complaining about abuse from a taurus. and not all abuse is physical. smh.click to expand
No, he didn't fully cross that line. He came close a few times with a cocked fist but he didn't actually follow through. I dared him to do it and I think the fact that he knew I have a volatile temper if pushed and cornered and he knows that if I'm properly pissed I honestly don't care about my own safety and will go all out to either protect myself or die trying made him hold it back long enough to divert it to hitting a wall instead. His abuse was always mental and verbal.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by scorchedearthPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I don't think moonartist every mentioned physical abuse.
did i say physical abuse? no. i said she's the only one i've seen complaining about abuse from a taurus. and not all abuse is physical. smh.
CC mentioned physical abuse ("I wish you would touch me"), and you responded with moonartist as the only example. I wasn't actually responding to you, as you said you were going to ignore me if I responded to you last time (which I did), so I figured I was ignored. I was clarifying for the group that moonartist's situation wasn't physical abuse (AFAIK). I think its important an important distinction as Taurus men have a bad temper and can be prone to violence if they lose it, but I've seldom seen or heard it get physical with women.click to expand
There's a new gal on the boards, Cancer gal, who was physically abused by her Taurus ex. I think that's what CC was talking about.
Posted by Tavrine
Cancer: The males with virgo moons I have met are seriously relax, sociable, but sensitive (in which I don't mind that), only cancer women with leo moons wants me to stay away..
Scorpio: As long they don't have mars conjuct pluto of both Scorpios on Decan 1, that I can able to hang out with them. Scorpio males I haven't got to know them.
Pisces: Pisces decan 3 who I met, except one with Aquarius moon, are not to be trusted.. The rest of Pisces are pretty much mature. (sorry for offending you, it's only in my experience)
I'll say it depends on there birth cart. I'm also a pisces in the third decan but with a gemini moon and am hearing lots of complaints about people with air moons. I think air moons detached and unemotional in marriage :/
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by CluelessCancer
Many Cancer women who dated Taurus say you guys are abusive. What's up with that?
I wish you would touch me. I'd like nothing better to do then run over a motherfuker.
Been with Cancers most my life. Never laid a hand on one other than to restrain one, when she was attacking me. Ex-wife was a Cancer (and a very tempermental scrapper in her youth) and would get in my face, scream at the top of her lungs and blow my hair back, clenching her fists. LOL.click to expand
Lol don't you just hate that? Sounds like she was looking for a fight. I know I'd be calm and blow up later. Friction is exciting now and then but drama is for me a relationship killer. For me if a woman does that I just can never look at her the same again,

Posted by TumeloPosted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by CluelessCancer
Many Cancer women who dated Taurus say you guys are abusive. What's up with that?
I wish you would touch me. I'd like nothing better to do then run over a motherfuker.
Been with Cancers most my life. Never laid a hand on one other than to restrain one, when she was attacking me. Ex-wife was a Cancer (and a very tempermental scrapper in her youth) and would get in my face, scream at the top of her lungs and blow my hair back, clenching her fists. LOL.
Lol don't you just hate that? Sounds like she was looking for a fight. I know I'd be calm and blow up later. Friction is exciting now and then but drama is for me a relationship killer. For me if a woman does that I just can never look at her the same again,click to expand
Unevolved and hasn't learned to control her emotional outbursts. Any sign that is unevolved will be a real pita to live with.
Posted by MoonArtist
Unevolved and hasn't learned to control her emotional outbursts. Any sign that is unevolved will be a real pita to live with.
She just has a bad anger problem. And I push buttons. 🙂

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by MoonArtist
Unevolved and hasn't learned to control her emotional outbursts. Any sign that is unevolved will be a real pita to live with.
She just has a bad anger problem. And I push buttons. 🙂click to expand
Oy! :S

I have high regards with Taurus people. But calling cancers devils are just plain mean and uneducated.
Posted by SanchoElMejor
This is sort of irrelevant, but its something I've always wanted to bring up. It seems like Taurus and Capricorn are always obsessed over not being able to fully land a Scorpio.... I and probably several other Virgos find this odd since Virgos are like Scorpio magnets. So much so that we don't even have to chase them. They're out there forcing us to commit on their own. I'm not trying to brag because honestly I don't see what the big deal is with them, but I do find it weird that the other earth signs have so much trouble.....
The big problem with Taurus and Scorpio doesn't seem to be chemistry or magnetism; its often so intense that its frightening. The problem seems to be the stubbornness - both being fixed, and also the fact that we're opposites. I know successful Scorpio/Virgo couples that have been together forever, still have a lot of passion, etc. I think its a good match.
Posted by SanchoElMejor
I think the intensity that a Taurus feels is often real, but I think the intensity that comes from Scorpio is faked most of the time. Maybe the intensity Scorpios feel with Taureans is real, but most of the time Scorpios use their eyes as a bait and switch. And I don't think Virgos feed into their fakeness which drives them crazy because they're used to being able to attract anyone easily....
Now *that* is an interesting statement. I've been seduced for sure and I know I was feeling it, but I've often wondered if she isn't role playing a little. I think what they feel most maybe is the *act* of seduction. They get off on the seducing itself.
Posted by SanchoElMejorPosted by TaurusLovesScorpio
I know successful Scorpio/Virgo couples that have been together forever, still have a lot of passion, etc. I think its a good match.
Are they passionate though? really?...or is the Virgo just going along with whatever the Scorpio wants?click to expand
Well, they are all over each other when we go out. Like the Scorp has her hands all over him, rubbing his back in a real sensual way. It was at a bar though so maybe she was just claiming him. I was like "wow, that looks nice. she seems so into him" lol.

I wouldn't underestimate a Cancer. You gotta have to patience to see all the good they can offer. Cancers don't just let any ol person in their life. It's worth the work if you keep a Cancer Woman or Man. We are extremely loyal & our love is something words can't describe. But hey people like who they want to. You can't force love 🙂

Posted by LadyOfRebirthPosted by MoonArtistPosted by TumeloPosted by CluelessCancer
Cancers are BORING? How? What do you find boring about us?
when you get all moody, this can last for days even weeks sometimes it's like walking on eggshells sometimes with cancers I know, this gets stale after a while.
True! but why don't the non water signs figure out how to jolly us out of the mood? Water signs know how to deal with it in many ways for another water sign. If we're moody at a particular person then you had better find out what the hell you did to piss us off and then communicate on making amends. Ignoring it and pretending it didn't happen won't make a water sign forget....EVER. Until it's been resolved then we'll still act as though the problem still exists....because it does.
I don't think it's fair to just expect a partner to put out and lift your moods every time. Especially without you trying to at least communicate your dissatisfaction and trying to analyse to yourself first why you feel a certain way. A caring partner will always try to keep your happy and talk things through but we have a responsibility also to control our moods and not take it out on our partners every time. Because it will get tiring, even to other water signs. As a fellow water sign I can relate to what you said but in my experience water signs can get carried away with their moods if their environment allows it. And that can become unhealthy.click to expand
I agree, but I was clarifying the behind the scenes inner thinking of why that scenario would happen with someone feeling like they have to walk on egg shells around their cancer partner. If they are unevolved or don't trust that person enough then they will be moody from the hurt feelings but won't talk about it and if you want to get to the bottom of it then you're going to have to try to get it out of them and if it really is a block on trust between them then good luck getting anything out of the cancer other than more moodiness.

Posted by PVandJellehPosted by 2BlackIndian3
I wouldn't underestimate a Cancer. You gotta have to patience to see all the good they can offer. Cancers don't just let any ol person in their life. It's worth the work if you keep a Cancer Woman or Man. We are extremely loyal & our love is something words can't describe. But hey people like who they want to. You can't force love 🙂
True. One of my bestfriends of nearly 20 years is a cancer. I love her like a sister. She's fairly loyal, and has been there for me as a friend at some very low points in my life. She has a good heart and is always thinking of others. The friendship does require a high degree of patience however, because even though she's an air crab, she's still super sensitive and can be very defensive.
She has been on and off with a Taurus over the last few years and I think it could have worked if they both would stop being so stubborn and moody. Taurus fixed and Cancer cardinal, neither wants to yield to the other. I don't know Taurus/Cancer is suppose to be the best match, but she's currently dating a Scorpio...and they seem more compatible. I noticed that Scorpios tend to yield more to cancers than Taurus, so maybe that's why this works.click to expand
Scorpio and cancer work easier than taurus and cancer despite both pairings being fixed/cardinal because of the water sign connection with scorpio/cancer. It's not so much that scorpio will give into cancer more than taurus but that scorpio completely understands the emotionalism and mood swings of cancer because they have some of this in them, too. The flip side is that so many think scorpio is hard to get along with and to understand but most of the time cancer has no problem with this because we do understand and we don't have a problem getting along with scorpios. From my own experience I can honestly say that I've gotten along fabulously with scorpios and the mutual understanding comes almost effortlessly.

@PVandJelleh Lol imagine if she was a full Cancer like me. But it depends on the individual at the end of the day. Just because astrology say we are a good match someone don't mean it's true. Some Taurus are a best match for a Cancer & some not. I promise you tho, patience with us Cancers is soo worth it because we'll make it up to you in every way possible. Yes we are sensitive & emotional sometimes, but we don't mean to. It's just who we are. To love someone, you gotta accept the flaws. With us Cancers, it's worth it. Plus your Cancer friend might have a better emotional bond with Scorpio. Well at least she's happy

@MoonArtist I agree with you on the Scorpios. I have gotten along greatly with the Scorpios i met too. They are protective & understanding. Sure i had 2 that didn't work out, but i do like em. My best love to date was with an Scorpio woman. But Taurus can be good too 🙂

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
* that's fair enough. Trust is indeed very important in order to have honest and open communication.
Trust, respect and maturity. Doesn't matter what the signs involved are....if those are lacking then it's going to be a mess.

@PVandJelleh I value your opinion. Regardless of placements, a Cancer can adapt to anyone, even an air sign. If we care for you, we'll try our best. But at least you got a Cancer as a true friend 🙂. It's best to be with people you don't have force your energies or things in general together with. You seem very mellow & kool too.

@Redbull i get where you are coming from, but i know for sure there's some sweet Cancers on this website. I usually mind my business & try to help out people on the Cancer board to understand my sign. I never insulted anyone here. I mean no harm. I do apologise if you think all Cancers are insulting or whatever. But you Can't say we are all like that. The typical Cancers aren't messy at all. I have no issue with anyone. Plus maybe it's the actual individuals who are insulting/drama seekers, not their sign. Cancers aren't about drama or favoritism. We love anyone who loves us. So sorry you feel that way

@Redbull So maybe you just met the wrong Cancer people. I have been hurt by different zodiac signs. But i would never blame their sign for their immaturity. I blame the person themself. Taurus are real good people to me. So i don't understand the hate. Like i said, some people just like drama. Im not into that crap

@RedBull That's kool, & i understand 🙂. I read an article on here on how to treat bulls. So i kinda understand you. Most of you hate drama & can love just as strong as a water sign. I know people have their experiences, but just know it's more of the individual than their sign. So we all gotta be patient & try to love the person for who they are. Plus if a Taurus Bull gets angry or stressed out, a Cancer Crab can easily calm them down with hugs & food lol 😉

Posted by RedbullPosted by Tumelo
We are selve absorbed, why don't we talk about other signs?
Going back to Taurus keeping to myself mode. Ahhhh! that feels good.click to expand
hehehe, sorry....this had to be done 😆

@RedBull It's ok man, your words makes sense to me. I'm ok

Posted by RedbullPosted by MoonArtistPosted by RedbullPosted by Tumelo
We are selve absorbed, why don't we talk about other signs?
Going back to Taurus keeping to myself mode. Ahhhh! that feels good.
hehehe, sorry....this had to be done 😆
I read JackNicholson-ok cool...fapping!Wha? I sense smart alleckery afoot.click to expand
Me? A smart Alec? Oh never! 😉
ps....you have to click on the link. The facial expressions are priceless.
I think that taurus men tend to get a little frustrated with water sign women-especially pisces girls. I am a pisces and we can be a bit flaky sometimes, but our hearts are in the right place most of the time. We don't like to be mean, or hurt people's feelings. But I do think we will tell you the truth, and sometimes we aren't very shy about it. Taurus guys tend to "bend" the truth a little, until they want something real with you, then they come clean. Am I anywhere close on this one?

Posted by piscesgirl18
I think that taurus men tend to get a little frustrated with water sign women-especially pisces girls. I am a pisces and we can be a bit flaky sometimes, but our hearts are in the right place most of the time. We don't like to be mean, or hurt people's feelings. But I do think we will tell you the truth, and sometimes we aren't very shy about it. Taurus guys tend to "bend" the truth a little, until they want something real with you, then they come clean. Am I anywhere close on this one?
Yes, they do bend the truth a little. It's something about never being wrong and stubbornly keeping it that way in their own minds no matter the facts. I'm NOT saying every single one does this but my ex did it and still does to a HUGE degree and I've caught by taurus brother doing it on a smaller scale now and then.
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