My bull is giving me a spanking..

err I mean "lesson" and I believe he is enjoying himself immensely while playing a daddy role.

It's driving me crazy. How long will this cruel bullbutter punishment go on I wonder? Two weeks in so far. He's dropped several subtle hints that he's teaching me a lesson.

It's killing me. It's almost like he's put me in a friend-zone. I'm ashamed to admit this but, I'm chasing and throwing myself at his mercy. The worst part is his withholding. I don't like how this feels at all.

Any insight/advise would be greatly appreciated.

Masturbate in front of him.

Yup. Light some candles, play some grown and sexy, take a long bubble bath, spritz on that smooth and sensual and boom. Walk slowly round and slowly into another room. Wanna play dirty man? Well.
Let's get cracking, shall we?

I second Milky. I had a weird rollercoaster with a Bull. He tried that whole stubborn mind game bull crap with me so I ignored him hard. Then he started chasing me and obsessing hard but once I'm done I'm thoroughly through and won't go back.

Where's your Virgo spirit?! Lol

Ignore him n he will come running - take back the power!!

Posted by SamCancerGirl
Ignore him n he will come running - take back the power!!

kind of agree but to add. DO NOT CHASE this man. That give him all the power.

Yes, you love him and want to love him but none of that matters if there is a great disparity in in power. There has to be a balance.

Trust me if you don't gain your power back he will not respect you and how cand you love something you don't respect.

Posted by venusianbull
Yup. Light some candles, play some grown and sexy, take a long bubble bath, spritz on that smooth and sensual and boom. Walk slowly round and slowly into another room. Wanna play dirty man? Well.
Let's get cracking, shall we?

~snickers~ I like how you think woman ; )

Ignore him n tease the stubbornness right out of him... everything is fair in love and war right? Just don't give in!

Posted by venusianbull
Yup. Light some candles, play some grown and sexy, take a long bubble bath, spritz on that smooth and sensual and boom. Walk slowly round and slowly into another room. Wanna play dirty man? Well.
Let's get cracking, shall we?

+100...!

Time to get cracking! Agree with the others make him come to you n stop chasing... Even if u think he won't reply etc trust me once u stop playing his game n start taking the power back and ignore him he'll stop n wonder why you aren't messaging, calling etc... He'll come running and when he does don't answer or reply right away.. Go paint ur nails, watch a movie eat popcorn anything to keep busy... Trust me have dealt with a Taurus moon n he's stubborn he comes running when I ignore him.
Oh n be seductive n teasing infront of him - he won't be able to resist... Enjoy - n take the power back

Posted by venusianbull
Masturbate in front of him.

HAHAHAHAHA

Oh Yeah!!!

...and make sure he understands how much you enjoyed it! WITHOUT HIM!

~ evil laughter ~

😉 You already know.

Posted by cowpuncher

Posted by venusianbull
Masturbate in front of him.

Mars in Capricorn... strikes again. :p

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I'm a ninja. 😛

Hahaha! See this is why I love you Taurus people. Hope you all can read this as it's pretty hot-n-steamy in here. 😉

This is my second thread, and both are thick with sexy content. Love it!

VB, You're awesome. Enjoy reading you're feedbacks/comments.

One of you had asked where my Virgo spirit is. Well I'm quite sure she is lurking around in the midst of this challenging trial he's putting me through. 😉

I know that the sexual play/tease will work, but I just don't want to go that route. I did that with my Cappy Hubby way too many times it felt like a routine, and I had some subtle feelings of guilt.

I'm sure you all know about the P.P.(too graPHIC) a woman can have in a relationship. It doesn't feel like an honest tactic. Damn my Cancer in Venus!

So, Thank you all for your advise. Perhaps I should give you all the back story of our relationship in another thread because, I have several questions, some I already know (down deep) the answers to. But I guess I need that confirmation from the lovely Taurean people.

oh... P.P. = P.O.P. 😉

Posted by Carlikins

Posted by venusianbull
Yup. Light some candles, play some grown and sexy, take a long bubble bath, spritz on that smooth and sensual and boom. Walk slowly round and slowly into another room. Wanna play dirty man? Well.
Let's get cracking, shall we?

~snickers~ I like how you think woman ; )

Ignore him n tease the stubbornness right out of him... everything is fair in love and war right? Just don't give in!

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Carlikins, "Everything is fair in love and war." Very good point! and I have been teasing in a non-sexual way. Being a bit of a smarty pants. I think he thrives on that, because when I take that route he comes to his senses but, only for a moment then he's back to the tree-trunking bull butter. 😉 *sigh