@aftershine
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Posted by aftershine
if the person you liked (you dont know if they like you) changed you as a person, without you realizing it. Taurus people dont like changes and like stay in that comfy place. But all of a sudden this person pops up in your life, steals your heart and changes you for the better.
It means that we trust their judgement.
We can be flexible to changes, just as long as the other person's intentions are NOT:
1. Flighty or inconsistent
2. Dishonorable or disingenuous.
3 Self-Serving
4. Impractical or intangible.
Hmmm, I don't think it happens like you are mentioning it. Every single encounter with people changes us everyday. At ever point we are faced with a decision or experience that inevitably changes us from who are to something else.
Even a steadfast bull is susceptible to this whether we are aware of it or not, whether we agree or like it or not.
@Taurusbull1977: what causes the trust to form tho?
@omagaiii: by "this person changes you" i mean that your views have changed on how you preceive love, relationships in general and other life changing matters. Kind of like enlightenment, and this person also has your (taurus) heart. So how a taurean feel?
I think that when we follow suite we are mostly lying to ourselves in any case. Every encounter has the effect of changing us, yet when we are in this state of 'love' or 'in love' we think we might be changing for the better because of this person. I really think it rarely if ever happens that way. Nobody feels the same way I do, and a cheetah doesn't change his spots.
I understand what you are trying to get at but I think it is a lie we sometimes tell ourselves. I think that in most cases we have had these experiences before and the 'enlightenment' is only seen or understood once we can find someone else to validate what we already feel and hope to be true. I mean, just think for yourself; How many times have you felt like you'll die alone for feeling what you feel or looking for what you want and not finding it in any person that you meet. And then, suddenly out of nowhere this one in a billion person comes and 'changes' all that. It was there to start off with. Changing for/because of someone else is being untrue to yourself and possibly a lie to them. However, if you shared those views before and now meet, then no change is required, it is mutual, it is validated and therefore true. And now we think we might have found someone worth changing for when the feeling or the concept has been there since forever.
You only need to read a few Scorp\Taurus forums for example to see that this is the case. Most start with these type of WTH scenarios and later on you see that the thread actually revolves around a mutual knowledge and sensation that the OP only realizes now is being shared, most likely long before the 2 people even met those feelings and thoughts and values existed and now suddenly there is someone to share it with, it is validated.
I don't see it as life changing when it already existed. It becomes life changing when we have someone to share it with without ever requiring that you change a single thing about who and what you are, and neither do they change anything about who and what they are.
@omagaiii: THAT is a complex answer to a complex question 😛 hows your scorp doing?
She still has my heart. She seems to be coming around and then just like that she falls away again.
Had a function tonight and I swear that I have never seen a woman so so beautiful as she. But even my taurus heart wants to give up. She is worth more than my life, but I love her too much to let her go, especially now that she tries. Trying just isn't enough any more.
So I am so lost... 😢 ;(
@Omagaiii: soooo....her trying isnt enough anymore you want her to straight commit to you? Confess to you, ask you if you want to be hers?
Posted by aftershine
if the person you liked (you dont know if they like you) changed you as a person, without you realizing it. Taurus people dont like changes and like stay in that comfy place. But all of a sudden this person pops up in your life, steals your heart and changes you for the better.
Taurus' are stubborn to change when it does not benefit them mentally/spiritually/physically. We're naturally selfish/stubborn. If the change is for the better we stick with it. If it's something we are not ready for nor see the positive benefit it in most likely we will not want to follow through with that particular "change".
Posted by aftershine
@Taurusbull1977: what causes the trust to form tho?
The response may vary from Taurus to Taurus depending on the other placements.
The best way to get to the core of my heart?
My Venus is in Aries (so the initial attraction has to be intense, unexplainable).
However, I do not chase, move, or make any premature decisions to navigate a relationship that I may be uncertain about.
Instead, I prefer to allow the intense intital attraction to burn slowly...but gradually.
During this phase, I'm quietly observing and actively listening (My Moon is in Gemini) so I'm always mentally alert.
I move at my own pace. I expect the other party to fall back and respect it.
I'm checking for consistencies, reliability, ethical standards, and a true genuine personality. I detest phonies, fakes and liars.
To get me more enlightened, and observing the world from a different persepctive?
Well, it depends on the other individual.
Are their views realistic? beneficial? practical? consistent?
Do they practice what they preach? Are their views 'fixed?' Or is it changeable?
If I respect their way of handling situations, I respect their judgement.
If I trust them, I trust their judgement.
I'm checking for consistencies, reliability, ethical standards, and a true genuine personality. I detest phonies, fakes and liars.
This.
This I think forms part of the Taurus approach because I am exactly like this. Again, it boils down to this spontaneous 'change' for the better. Now like I mentioned before, this is mostly a lie. Which means that unless their is solid consistencies, reliability, standards and personality after this lie, I won't feel a single thing. I immediately shutdown, because I see it as phony and fake, and I hate that with an overwhelming passion.
This I think forms part of the Taurus approach because I am exactly like this. Again, it boils down to this spontaneous 'change' for the better. Now like I mentioned before, this is mostly a lie. Which means that unless their is solid consistencies, reliability, standards and personality after this lie, I won't feel a single thing. I immediately shutdown, because I see it as phony and fake, and I hate that with an overwhelming passion.
+1000
To persuade a Taurus individual to take a leap of faith from a pretentious or flighty individual is like moving mountains.
I don't see it as life changing when it already existed. It becomes life changing when we have someone to share it with without ever requiring that you change a single thing about who and what you are, and neither do they change anything about who and what they are.
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We really do admire true 'authenticity' in an individual. The zodiac does not stress this important aspect of a Bull, in my opinion.
The Venusian aspect is usually highlighted instead.
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if the person you liked (you dont know if they like you) changed you as a person, without you realizing it. Taurus people dont like changes and like stay in that comfy place. But all of a sudden this person pops up in your life, steals your heart and changes you for the better.