I am a Pisces (March 10th) and have been chatting with this Taurus guy (May 18th) whom I met online for 3-4 weeks now from the town where I grew up. We've chatted on the phone a few times as well, for an hour or two each time. I happen to be flying home this weekend to see family for two days so asked him if he was interested in grabbing drinks while I was there. He said of course, so we met Friday and had a blast chatting all night like we were old friends. The next day, I reached out, told him I had a great time and asked if he was interested in grabbing one last drink that night after he got off work, before I left town this morning. He replied and said he also had a great time, he was working until 11pm or so but would love to hang out and that he'd be in touch to make plans. I have heard nothing since, even after I finally text him at 11:30pm to see if we were still on or if he got caught up at work. What's the deal, should I just leave it be and wait to see if he reaches out? Men, why even say yes in the first place though if you're just going to blow a girl off?
What happened here— Taurus Man/Pisces Woman

Posted by chick4chap
I am a Pisces (March 10th) and have been chatting with this Taurus guy (May 18th) whom I met online for 3-4 weeks now from the town where I grew up. We've chatted on the phone a few times as well, for an hour or two each time. I happen to be flying home this weekend to see family for two days so asked him if he was interested in grabbing drinks while I was there. He said of course, so we met Friday and had a blast chatting all night like we were old friends. The next day, I reached out, told him I had a great time and asked if he was interested in grabbing one last drink that night after he got off work, before I left town this morning. He replied and said he also had a great time, he was working until 11pm or so but would love to hang out and that he'd be in touch to make plans. I have heard nothing since, even after I finally text him at 11:30pm to see if we were still on or if he got caught up at work. What's the deal, should I just leave it be and wait to see if he reaches out? Men, why even say yes in the first place though if you're just going to blow a girl off?
Then that's it. Don't throw yourself at his mercy. Sometimes, we have to value ourselves and stop putting a man
first in our life. You'll be fine soon. blow him off too.

Yeah, the old 'be in touch' or 'soon' chestnuts... Then all you get is tumbleweed...

Sounds like he didn't see himself getting drinks so often with his ideal women and thinks its a waste of time.
Let it be for a while. I agree with M143, don't put him first.
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