Will we ever be more?

I have been "seeing" my Taurus for just over 4 months now. We dated about 14 years ago and I cut it off and we just reconnected 4 months ago. Both of us are divorced, he has a daughter, his divorce was supposedly horrible. The first night we met up, we both said no more relationships, just fun. Well he was pursuing me pretty hard that night and we hooked up. WE have been seeing eachother every since and the more I get to know him, the more caring and open he is. I have met his brother and all his friends and we get along great. He took me on a real date 3 months into it, opened the doors for me, acted like a complete gentleman. I then realized I had feelings for him. That this just wasn't about "fun". So of course I bring it up and he says he is not looking for a relationship but has feelings for me and doesn't know what the future holds for us. He says he is still dealing with the pain from his divorce and has trust issues. He said we are still "young" in this relationship and should just be getting to know each other right now.

Ok, cool, so I decide to hold on to see what happens. We get even closer, have talked everyday for 4 months, most of it initiated by him and get along great. We are def buddies and can talk for hours on end and we know everything about each other. So last week I go out with him and all his friends for his birthday. His friends call me his girlfriend and he at one point even said he was taken and made sure I heard it. His room mate joked around saying we should get married. We kinda laughed it off and his room mate pulled me aside and asked what was going on with us. I said I really like him but he doesn't want a relationship. His room mate told me that he talks about me all the time, all good things and to just hang in there.

He acts like we are in a relationship, talks about future plans, contacts me all the time, but a month ago said he wasn't ready for a relationship. I heard Taurus is very slow moving. I am a Sag so I have no patience. LOL He is such a sweet, caring guy and I am falling for him. I have never got along with a guy this well before. Should I wait around and see what happens or is this a lost cause?

He is also the most affectionate guy I have ever been with. Always has to be touching me somehow and bear hugs me all night long! LOL For his birthday, he was actually affectionate with me in front of his friends which is unusual for him. He always said he was against PDA but was very touchy feely that night.

Just be present now... Enjoy all the moments you're having together - which seem like there are many- and stop stressing over the future. What will be will be but no matter what comes its the moments NOW that should be enjoyed. Patience. 😉

I agree with Scorpchick.

Dont ask about the label.

You probably already are more than you know.

I really hope so. I am not going to get to see him this week due to his crazy work schedule and he gets his daughter all weekend.

It has been brought up in the past that I was worried this was just about sex for him and he assures me it is not. But last night I was kinda joking around and said, bummer, no nookie for you or I this week! LOL He replied saying he was looking at it from a different perspective and that he was bummed he wouldn't get to see me and the nookie was an after thought. Not sure if he was just saying that or not. I said I was kidding and that I did miss him. He said good answer, the miss me part but never really said he missed me. Didn't hear from him much the rest of the night and he never texted me good night. I hope I didn't say something wrong.

Oh well, I will just wait to hear from him. He is really reliable and I hear from him everyday but he seems to only want to hang out maybe once a week. Wouldn't he want to see me more? WE both are real busy but I just feel like he is not REALLY into me yet. Never dealt with a Taurus before so I am pretty confused.

Wowee! Nevermind. This guy has definately starting really pursuing me this past week. Texting me all the time and he even told me he misses me. He never talks about his feelings for me so that was huge. He said work has been crazy and as long as I didn't forget about him and miss him, all is good. He is taking me out on his wave runner tomorrow and said he is really looking forward to it since it seems like we haven't seen each other in forever. It has been two weeks.
He also told me we are spending all next weekend together out on the water and that he is excited! So I am really not too worried anymore. I think the two weeks apart made him miss me and he seems really anxious to see me now and wanted to make sure I missed him. 🙂