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Sex Question: Can you be with a woman that doesn't give oral?
yeah
No man should settle for that 😱
Posted by Librasetting
I been there with my high school gf,she was a Virgo she didn't want cock breath lol. i was fine with it just means I got to bang her more.
Eww wash your dick bro
As a Scorpio moon I'd never put a guy through that SMH
Posted by TomSawyer
Yeah.Most girls ive been with hype their bj game like they're some bj champions.
I gave up on finding the nawalt
find a gay man
I found out women don’t give bj to men they aren’t crazy about.
If you are getting goosebumps thinking of him - you getting them thinking of his dick!
No such crap like ‘I love him except his...feet’...gtfo!
Posted by Gemitati
I found out women don’t give bj to men they aren’t crazy about.If you are getting goosebumps thinking of him - you getting them thinking of his dick!
No such crap like ‘I love him except his...feet’...gtfo!
I’m guessing you’ve never given head to a dick bigger than 7”
Posted by TomSawyer
Yeah.Most girls ive been with hype their bj game like they're some bj champions.
I gave up on finding the nawalt
find a gay man
Maybe you are right.
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Fixed.
Posted by TomSawyer
Yeah.Most girls ive been with hype their bj game like they're some bj champions.
I gave up on finding the nawalt
find a gay man
Did a man hurt you?
I'm a gold star. Hate to break it to you. Blowjobs are gross. I've always liked kitty though.
Men who love men know how to please other men. It makes so much sense. You are right I should try it.
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I found this book when I was 12 in my mothers bookcase - the entire book was about how to give blow jobs written in the most excited enthusiastic way you could imagine. I think the last chapter was about orgy etiquette. I am an enthusiastic blow job giver. But it really depends on the dick. That said my guy now just cant believe his luck. We are in our 40's and he said no woman has ever given such regular head. He says most guys have no idea where their next blow job is coming from lol. When he was with his ex his main complaint was she never gave head. He actually tallied up the minutes she had spent doing it over the course of 8 months and it came to a whopping total of 4 min. The resentment he had towards her for not giving oral as much as he did was palpable. On the flip side I've only met two men in my whole life who were any good at oral, and I'm amazed at the number of men who brag about their kitty game but in reality have no idea what theyre doing down there.
The situation is so sad that women have resorted to shaving themselves entirely just to keep the men from getting lost down there - and they still cant figure it out.
Posted by Gemitati
I found out women don’t give bj to men they aren’t crazy about.If you are getting goosebumps thinking of him - you getting them thinking of his dick!
No such crap like ‘I love him except his...feet’...gtfo!
I’m guessing you’ve never given head to a dick bigger than 7”
Curious
Wat does size have to do with it🤨
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Sucking massive dick is hard work. Pun intended.
Posted by TomSawyer
Yeah.Most girls ive been with hype their bj game like they're some bj champions.
I gave up on finding the nawalt
find a gay man
Did a man hurt you?
I'm a gold star. Hate to break it to you. Blowjobs are gross. I've always liked kitty though.
So why you getting triggered over something that has nothing to do with you..at all?
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you're the one who didn't find my joke to be funny
i was just messing around.
but jokes aside
gay men do give the best blow jobs.
Posted by Librasetting
I been there with my high school gf,she was a Virgo she didn't want cock breath lol. i was fine with it just means I got to bang her more.Eww wash your dick bro
You got any tricks since you're a pro? I like to learn from the best.
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Soap. Works every time.
Posted by Librasetting
I been there with my high school gf,she was a Virgo she didn't want cock breath lol. i was fine with it just means I got to bang her more.Eww wash your dick bro
You got any tricks since you're a pro? I like to learn from the best.
Soap. Works every time.
I'd imagine you would need more than just soap to get the anus smell of yours,I didn't know soap could do that, I wouldn't know.
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I know dude, that’s the problem. No one wants to put their mouth on a stinky dick
I’ve always gotten head to the point where it’s just something regular. Size wise I don’t expect like all the deep throating and stuff but. I heard aqua girl tell me that she doesn’t like giving bjs to guys...we were drinking and she’s bisexual and mainly into women but she told me she could see herself having sex with me and she was curious about what I like. Then Before her a while back another girl said well we can do massages and kissing each other’s bodies but no go on oral. I’m like... I don’t know lol.
I heard a lot of women don’t want to go first bc guys don’t do it(at least black guys from what I’ve been told). I really only personally do it if we are somewhat serious. I would want to eat you and some dude came in you a couple hours/nights before?!? I ain’t on that type of time.
One night stands/first time I don’t expect oral... but if it’s our 3rd or 4th time ... mmmm yeah I want to lay back and watch you handle your business
I told y’all I had this one girl. She wanted to blow me right from gym/working out. I used to hate it.... I hate pre sex smells/tastes.
Unless we together and I’m drunk... at that point everything taste the same lol
Posted by Ravishing
I never understood this. Women who are straight and don't like giving blow jobs. Who doesn't want a hard cock in their mouths?Same for men. If you're a straight man, how on earth don't you like licking and satisfying a vagina with your mouth?
But meh. I over-think things.
What I don't understand is how some woman will suck dick but refuse to swallow. It's like....why do all the work without any of the payoff??
Posted by Ravishing
I never understood this. Women who are straight and don't like giving blow jobs. Who doesn't want a hard cock in their mouths?Same for men. If you're a straight man, how on earth don't you like licking and satisfying a vagina with your mouth?
But meh. I over-think things.
What I don't understand is how some woman will suck dick but refuse to swallow. It's like....why do all the work without any of the payoff??
Ewww
I’m not swallowing
I’ll hold it for u but them kids going down the drain
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Lmao I’m weak. Funny but not funny..
I think giving good head should be every requirement for a wife.
If a woman isn't excited about getting him off....then she's not sexually aroused by him.
She settled for him because he's a safer option, loyal, a good provider, a good father to his children, and the list is endless.
No offense,
I would never want a man to settle for me because I am the 'safest' option.
Look at me like you want to rip my clothes off.
Who wants to be looked through church goggles instead....
Let the mistress get a sweeter taste of his d% ck than I.
I THINK NOT!
I never understood couples who were restricted.
...and I'm actually conservative and monogamous....
And I would never oppose to giving my man head.
Posted by Ravishing
I never understood this. Women who are straight and don't like giving blow jobs. Who doesn't want a hard cock in their mouths?Same for men. If you're a straight man, how on earth don't you like licking and satisfying a vagina with your mouth?
But meh. I over-think things.
What I don't understand is how some woman will suck dick but refuse to swallow. It's like....why do all the work without any of the payoff??
Ewww
I’m not swallowing
I’ll hold it for u but them kids going down the drain
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Why not?
Cause watching your woman make a yuck face and then running for the sink isn't very sexy I'd imagine.
Posted by Ravishing
I never understood this. Women who are straight and don't like giving blow jobs. Who doesn't want a hard cock in their mouths?Same for men. If you're a straight man, how on earth don't you like licking and satisfying a vagina with your mouth?
But meh. I over-think things.
What I don't understand is how some woman will suck dick but refuse to swallow. It's like....why do all the work without any of the payoff??
If it's that time of the month, I'll go a few times so he's happy. It might seem stupid, but if it's like the third time for the evening, I'll spit it out because i don't know if too much is bad for you. So I'm like yep, 2 shots is enough today!
Can't believe I'm having this conversation with strangers....
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Anything more than 1x per day makes you a bj super hero. You win the thread.
Posted by Ravishing
I never understood this. Women who are straight and don't like giving blow jobs. Who doesn't want a hard cock in their mouths?Same for men. If you're a straight man, how on earth don't you like licking and satisfying a vagina with your mouth?
But meh. I over-think things.
What I don't understand is how some woman will suck dick but refuse to swallow. It's like....why do all the work without any of the payoff??
OMG LOL!!! I understand that though. Because bodily fluids are gross! But if your man likes to see you swallow, take one (or a few) for the team. lol!
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I don't find it gross...maybe I'm weird IDK.
Correct me if I'm wrong but doesn't it feel better to nut in a warm wet mouth as opposed to cold open air? And doesn't it feel good to get some light suction during/after you come?
Posted by Ravishing
I never understood this. Women who are straight and don't like giving blow jobs. Who doesn't want a hard cock in their mouths?Same for men. If you're a straight man, how on earth don't you like licking and satisfying a vagina with your mouth?
But meh. I over-think things.
What I don't understand is how some woman will suck dick but refuse to swallow. It's like....why do all the work without any of the payoff??
If it's that time of the month, I'll go a few times so he's happy. It might seem stupid, but if it's like the third time for the evening, I'll spit it out because i don't know if too much is bad for you. So I'm like yep, 2 shots is enough today!
Can't believe I'm having this conversation with strangers....
Anything more than 1x per day makes you a bj super hero. You win the thread.
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Yeah... tell me about it... other than special occasions, I’ve only had one woman make it her mission to blow me as many times as she could in a day. She got 5 out of me and I tapped out 🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️
I eat healthy,eat lots of fruit. And try to avoid alcohol before a bj to completion. I also won’t let her finish if I haven’t came in a day or the amount might be too much to handle unless I know she loves swallowing... there are women who love it!
Posted by Ravishing
I never understood this. Women who are straight and don't like giving blow jobs. Who doesn't want a hard cock in their mouths?Same for men. If you're a straight man, how on earth don't you like licking and satisfying a vagina with your mouth?
But meh. I over-think things.
What I don't understand is how some woman will suck dick but refuse to swallow. It's like....why do all the work without any of the payoff??
Ewww
I’m not swallowing
I’ll hold it for u but them kids going down the drain
Why not?
Cause watching your woman make a yuck face and then running for the sink isn't very sexy I'd imagine.
Kinda hot as long as she has thigh gap
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Lol only you 😂
Posted by Ravishing
I never understood this. Women who are straight and don't like giving blow jobs. Who doesn't want a hard cock in their mouths?Same for men. If you're a straight man, how on earth don't you like licking and satisfying a vagina with your mouth?
But meh. I over-think things.
What I don't understand is how some woman will suck dick but refuse to swallow. It's like....why do all the work without any of the payoff??
If it's that time of the month, I'll go a few times so he's happy. It might seem stupid, but if it's like the third time for the evening, I'll spit it out because i don't know if too much is bad for you. So I'm like yep, 2 shots is enough today!
Can't believe I'm having this conversation with strangers....
Anything more than 1x per day makes you a bj super hero. You win the thread.
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this does bring up a point - a pet peeve of mine when it comes to BJs - not a concern in my present "thing" - but in the past I've had some that once they got it that's all they wanted - no no no broken records here - kitty needs her O-time
I don’t like it anymore. And when I did it had to be someone I was really into.
I get bored with men tho, so once I get bored, I stop giving head, then less sex, then no sex, then the relationship is over.
Posted by Ravishing
I never understood this. Women who are straight and don't like giving blow jobs. Who doesn't want a hard cock in their mouths?Same for men. If you're a straight man, how on earth don't you like licking and satisfying a vagina with your mouth?
But meh. I over-think things.
What I don't understand is how some woman will suck dick but refuse to swallow. It's like....why do all the work without any of the payoff??
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because it’s nasty TO ME
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I think giving good head should be every requirement for a wife.If a woman isn't excited about getting him off....then she's not sexually aroused by him.
She settled for him because he's a safer option, loyal, a good provider, a good father to his children, and the list is endless.
No offense,
I would never want a man to settle for me because I am the 'safest' option.
Look at me like you want to rip my clothes off.
Who wants to be looked through church goggles instead....
Let the mistress get a sweeter taste of his d% ck than I.
I THINK NOT!
I never understood couples who were restricted.
...and I'm actually conservative and monogamous....
And I would never oppose to giving my man head.
But some men aren’t requiring that. Also men get pussy. They get to go inside of you. Typically it’s harder for women to orgasm vaginally. So you’re saying men should cum twice?
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