What's wrong if I took sexy photos of myself?

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Posted by LilliLou
Okay team, I want to know whats wrong with this outfit...?

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I swear the only person in the pub who hit on me was a creepy old man...?

leeb venus sobs 😭


you could pass this picture as angelina jolie taking a selfie o.o
Anyway, there's nothing wrong with the outfit it looks very nice 🙂
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Posted by Linhnguyen
I'm sure I'm not the only woman take sexy photos of herself (like just wear bra and underwear) what's wrong with it?



There's nothing wrong with admiring your body & being comfortable in your own skin. The question is why do you need to take a picture of yourself...something you can already see and admire in the mirror?

I mean what is there to do with the picture, other than send it (which can lead to a host of other problems, especially if it ends up in the hands of strangers who admire your goods too)? eeeeh do you look at the pics every day? Do they symbolize some kind of shrine of yourself? Are you that into yourself that you need to snap pictures to prove to yourself that you're good looking or worth a look? I mean do you delete the pic right after, or...?

I seriously don't understand the psychology behind taking nude or erotic photos of yourself that you never intend on showing someone else.

Besides, nowadays your phone doesn't even have to be lost or stolen in order for some creep to see/steal your pics & distribute them or use them against you. People have lost jobs, partners and reputations over that.

If you wanna see yourself naked, look in the mirror. Otherwise, you take the not so worth it chance of giving strangers the opportunity to see you naked too. And if that's not something you know good and damn well you couldn't handle, don't do the 1 thing that is almost certain to end up in the wrong hands if you get careless with the device that the pics are in.
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Nothings wrong with a sexy picture I guess, but that's only one step from a nude pic.

Some of you may wonder how so many self shot pics end up on the Internet. Some are probably sibling revenge, other SO revenge. In fact most are hacked right from your phone. Your phone company can see everything on your phone, giving them the chance to do what they want with your pictures. The government can see everything on your phone, also giving them the chance to do whatever they want, along with 3rd party hackers.

Anything you say, or every picture you virtually own is being seen by God knows who.

Some women committed suicide over all of it. They couldn't live with the fact thousands of perverts and potentially rapists are seeing every private thing they documented through the Internet.

All in all it adds more corruption to the world, so is it wrong to take a sexy picture? Probably so. Will this open the eyes of women and men and make them change for the better? Probably not, but there's always a chance.
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Hahaha been a long time I did not come here and was surprise for the comments,thanks guys!
- I'm asking this in man cave because I want to hear men's opinions 🙂) because my bf just saw it and he got insane and think I took those sexy pics to send to someone else (he is Scorpio 11/11) - for me it's nothing wrong to took sexy photos of yourself so u can take a look back when u 90year old and say"oh damn it, I was not too bad!" 🙂) why my bf take it so seriously and insane way.
@lillli... : your dress is gorgeous btw ^^
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Posted by Linhnguyen
One of the reason I took those pic CUZ I want to see the result of my workout 🙂 No I delete them after .yes agree that it's kind of dangerous and not safe at all.
But I mean I still wearing my bra and underwear so it's nothjng nearly nude or too much @.@



Be honest. If you saw an album of his d***ck, ripped body & smiling face, would the 1st thing your mind resorts to be that he's just taking them for himself? Or would your imagination & street smarts immediately assume that he's taking such pics for someone else?

There are certain situations when it is absolutely fair for your partner to question your loyalty or not be ok with what you're doing. And I'll tell you what, if I ever saw random pics of my husband in his underwear, we'd have a problem. And I'd dare that mf to tell me that I'm being insecure or that I have no right to even slightly consider that to be a huge NO/NO.

Some things just cause unnecessary insecurity, distrust & fear...fear that the pics may be leaked (what seems like harmless pics to you may be financial gold to someone else)...and distrust for your partner b/c your story about taking them stricly for yourself sounds too unbelievable.

The simple way to get around even having such a tense discussion with your partner would be to just look in the mirror & trust what your eyes are seeing lol If the mirror shows that you're ripped, or 2 inches smaller or lookin good, trust that! Your own eyes are much more honest & valuable than a camera lens.