Had a Fight With My Girlfriend's Twin Sister

Physical.

I don't know what this means for me and my girlfriend's relationship. We seem to be fine now, but I know her sister will try me again and I'm not sure how to handle this woman.

Why are we fighting?

The girl told me to "watch out" and then moved my chair out the way like I was a chump - I politely and calmly asked her "why don't you just say excuse me, like I said excuse me when you were sitting in this same spot yesterday"



This bitch flies off the handle and starts cussing me out and calling me out my name like I'm some little bitch or something..

My girlfriend told me to leave and the sister said she'll call the police. I said "I don't give a fuck"

I go inside to pack my shit to get away from my girl and her sister...

I guess her sister had an attitude with me because she overheard us arguing.

I don't give a fuck what the reason is... Our fights are between me and my woman. Save the attitude. I've been nothing but sweet to her sister.

All that Sister Sister, Tia and Tamera shit is out the fuckin window.

If I got something to say to my woman, it will be said and I don't give a fuck if you hear it.

I have NEVER put my hands on my girlfriend, or called her out her name. I hardly ever cuss at her.

All I can recall saying to her is "watch your fuckin mouth, or you'll get checked around this bitch"

Next thing I know, I got her fuckin twin breathing down my neck trynna push me around.

I could have let it go, but I had to give her a chance to correct herself or was I taking it the wrong way...

Her cussing me out and then trynna get my face was definitely purposeful.

If I'm wrong for standing up for myself.. Then I'm wrong. I don't give a fuck. The first time I met my girlfriend's sister, she caught an attitude with me.

So how many times I gotta put up with this bitch attitude before I blow my damn self?

It's unfair and I have no regrets fighting this woman.

She pushed me, wasn't successful with her push and then her brother pulled her out the way... She was about to get a fucking beat down and I saw in her face that she knew she fucked up cause her eyes got wide when I charged at her.



Before this fight, me and her sister got along just fine. Even smoked together and talked about my relationship before... Despite the first time meeting her and her attitude.

Am I just an asshole?

Why everywhere I go, I fight with people?

I try....

My girlfriend cried and screamed like it was bloody murder when she saw us get physical... Almost stopped me, to be honest.



My girlfriend been acting real cold me with on and off too.. She cried so many tears after the fight, saying she's confused and she feels so many emotions when it comes to me.

Typical Aquarius chick don't know she has emotions...

These two twins are something else

Honestly, I have nothing else to say to her sister but my girlfriend insists I stop being mad if I want to be apart of her family.

We plan and agreed to get married if we make it 3 years in. Don't ask me how long we've been together, but long enough to consider marrying her. I want her to be my wife.

I love her father and her mother, and her brother. I want to love her sister.

She's just spicy and a total bitch sometimes.

Posted by Scheherazade

Why do people get into physical/ego pissing matches over literally nothing.

🙄

How fragile.

I don’t know how your girl will react but most of the time people pick their families especially twins. Even if they are toxic as hell.

Seriously need to learn how to de-escalate. It’s 100% better to go home for the night or take a walk then it is to get physical. It’s super gross to see people fight for such a stupid reason and I’d lose all respect and attraction.

Yeah, well.

I tried to "de-escalate"... She went flying off at the fuckin mouth like a typical black woman.

Said so much shit, you'd wish I had slapped her.

If I have any regrets..

My only regret is even thinking this girl had the maturity and the humanly respect to say "it's not like that.." when I only asked her why can't you say excuse me.

I guess it was totally like that.

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Posted by Emhendo

Posted by Scheherazade

Why do people get into physical/ego pissing matches over literally nothing.

🙄

How fragile.

I don’t know how your girl will react but most of the time people pick their families especially twins. Even if they are toxic as hell.

Seriously need to learn how to de-escalate. It’s 100% better to go home for the night or take a walk then it is to get physical. It’s super gross to see people fight for such a stupid reason and I’d lose all respect and attraction.

Yeah, well.

I tried to "de-escalate"... She went flying off at the fuckin mouth like a typical black woman.

Said so much shit, you'd wish I had slapped her.

If I have any regrets..

My only regret is even thinking this girl had the maturity and the humanly respect to say "it's not like that.." when I only asked her why can't you say excuse me.

I guess it was totally like that.

If this woman's twin sister doesn't like you, you're going to have to bail because she's going to choose her sister over you every time.

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Might have to bail then.

I'm not making her choose.

But our love is strong, because she could have dumped me. She told me to leave in the heat of the moment, but didn't want me to go once things calmed down.

Awww

She’s looking out for her twin sister.

I think you need to ask yourself what are your true intentions with her sister and her twin. It seems to be frivolous. I recall reading some comment about you wanting to Fvck your gf’s twin? How are you expecting to be apart of their family trying to pull this type of shit. It’s not a good look for a woman you are trying to marry.

Her twin is probably intuitively picking up on this shady behavior.

Posted by CreativeCap

She’s looking out for her twin sister.

I think you need to ask yourself what are your true intentions with her sister and her twin. It seems to be frivolous. I recall reading some comment about you wanting to Fvck your gf’s twin? How are you expecting to be apart of their family trying to pull this type of shit. It’s not a good look for a woman you are trying to marry.

Her twin is probably intuitively picking up on this shady behavior.

Well, I love the woman as I said before.

That's no lie....

And if the sister is identical to my girlfriend, why wouldn't I wanna fuck her?

That's unrealistic. They look exactly alike. I like how this woman looks, (talking as if they are one woman) that's why I'm dating one of them.

Would I actually act on it?

No.

But I will stare sometimes and even look at them both sometimes. It's not on purpose.

I just think they are beautiful.

I'm madly in love with the one I'm dating because shes sweeter, softer, and kinder. I have the good twin.

Posted by CreativeCap

She’s looking out for her twin sister.

I think you need to ask yourself what are your true intentions with her sister and her twin. It seems to be frivolous. I recall reading some comment about you wanting to Fvck your gf’s twin? How are you expecting to be apart of their family trying to pull this type of shit. It’s not a good look for a woman you are trying to marry.

Her twin is probably intuitively picking up on this shady behavior.

I also never touched or "came at" her sister. I have never. She might have only caught me staring.. But she has no idea that I'm attracted to her, I even hide it and act grossed out about things when it comes to her.

I'm not sorry for being attracted to them when they are identical.

Posted by Emhendo

Posted by CreativeCap

She’s looking out for her twin sister.

I think you need to ask yourself what are your true intentions with her sister and her twin. It seems to be frivolous. I recall reading some comment about you wanting to Fvck your gf’s twin? How are you expecting to be apart of their family trying to pull this type of shit. It’s not a good look for a woman you are trying to marry.

Her twin is probably intuitively picking up on this shady behavior.

Well, I love the woman as I said before.

That's no lie....

And if the sister is identical to my girlfriend, why wouldn't I wanna fuck her?

That's unrealistic. They look exactly alike. I like how this woman looks, (talking as if they are one woman) that's why I'm dating one of them.

Would I actually act on it?

No.

But I will stare sometimes and even look at them both sometimes. It's not on purpose.

I just think they are beautiful.

I'm madly in love with the one I'm dating because shes sweeter, softer, and kinder. I have the good twin.

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I guess I see your twisted reasoning in regards to the physical attraction. Her sister is on to you though and probably wants you exposed. You have to get your shit together or you are going to lose her. You will have to tone down and Learn to control your sexual and volatile impulses if you want to continue seeing her. Perhaps you should be the bigger person and apologize to the family for your behavior.

"Am I just an marker?"

Yes.

Posted by Emhendo

Posted by Scheherazade

Why do people get into physical/ego pissing matches over literally nothing.

🙄

How fragile.

I don’t know how your girl will react but most of the time people pick their families especially twins. Even if they are toxic as hell.

Seriously need to learn how to de-escalate. It’s 100% better to go home for the night or take a walk then it is to get physical. It’s super gross to see people fight for such a stupid reason and I’d lose all respect and attraction.

Yeah, well.

I tried to "de-escalate"... She went flying off at the fuckin mouth like a typical black woman.

Said so much shit, you'd wish I had slapped her.

If I have any regrets..

My only regret is even thinking this girl had the maturity and the humanly respect to say "it's not like that.." when I only asked her why can't you say excuse me.

I guess it was totally like that.

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AHT AHT AHT

Don't make ya psychotic killer cancer sun mixed with crazy ass air moon a black woman thing



🤣💅🏾

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Emhendo

Posted by CreativeCap

She’s looking out for her twin sister.

I think you need to ask yourself what are your true intentions with her sister and her twin. It seems to be frivolous. I recall reading some comment about you wanting to Fvck your gf’s twin? How are you expecting to be apart of their family trying to pull this type of shit. It’s not a good look for a woman you are trying to marry.

Her twin is probably intuitively picking up on this shady behavior.

I also never touched or "came at" her sister. I have never. She might have only caught me staring.. But she has no idea that I'm attracted to her, I even hide it and act grossed out about things when it comes to her.

I'm not sorry for being attracted to them when they are identical.

Aquarius know more than you think. You may think she doesn't know but she actually may know.

Twins have special bond from all siblings. The two of them can have telepathic understanding for each other. That means if one is in pain the other may feel this pain.

I wouldn't go between them but I would show your girlfriend you are serious about her enough to solve somehow this problem. In that situation she may not feel like you want her to choose between you two but she may help you and stand bit on your side.

It doesn't matter who's fault it is. Show you are mature enough to deal with this situation regarding if it's your fault or not

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Aqua have a special 6th sense

I tell ya....

Very underrated

Posted by Emhendo

My girlfriend told me to leave and the sister said she'll call the police. I said "I don't give a fuck"

This is problematic.

If you really love her and want a future with her...even thinking about marriage, then you definitely should gaf about what she’s saying.

Sisters talk. I tell my sister just about EVERYTHING that happens in my life and vice versa.

I’d imagine with twins it’s even more so with the sharing.

So why does her twin have it out for you?

Maybe she just doesn’t like you and thinks your not good enough for her sister.

Maybe your girl has been venting about your issues of control.

Or maybe it’s something else...

Either way you’d benefit by being the bigger person here and apologizing.

And next time she comes at you meet her anger and aggression with sweetness, not with your fists.

You’ll look like the rational righteous party and she’ll look the fool. Everyone would’ve been on your side. Now they are all talking shit about you and trying to convince her to leave you.

I know I’d be doing the same if I saw a siblings partner put their hands on family.

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Posted by CreativeCap

She’s looking out for her twin sister.

I think you need to ask yourself what are your true intentions with her sister and her twin. It seems to be frivolous. I recall reading some comment about you wanting to Fvck your gf’s twin? How are you expecting to be apart of their family trying to pull this type of shit. It’s not a good look for a woman you are trying to marry.

Her twin is probably intuitively picking up on this shady behavior.

i also recall repeated comments OP has made about how you sometimes have to hit your girl to get her to act right. or how you have to mistreat her to let her know how good she has it.

so... i dont really believe the sudden innocent angel card OP is tryna pull rn.

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Just give it the fuck up..

I never said no shit like that. I would love for you to find the comment..

I recall saying as a JOKE that "you gotta cheat on her at least one time".. But I said that when I was trolling