@Adreamuponwaking
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Why would a woman not want to talk about her sexual history?
How many fully grown adult male fists can you fit in your asshole?
How many fully grown adult male fists can you fit in your asshole?
I can fit one more than you can sooooooo
It’s private
but why disclose earlier about all kinds of stuff?
especially graphic things ...unsolicited.
She probably remembered some details during the encounter that she'd rather not disclose. You know once you open that gate, some people will want to know the play by play. Would rather not go down that rabbit hole.
damn now i really want to know what happened.
i told her what happened to me when my friends approached me over Thanksgiving break....
but my story was maybe less incriminating /more funny ..at least the way I sidestepped them.
I told her that I concluded if I was approached by this particular couple again.... I think at most I'd offer to watch them get it on as a compromise lol
Don't T.I. her vagina
i don't know what this means
If I invited you for a threesome, I would hope that you keep it between us.
yeah BUT again weird. she told me this story the first time we hung out mind you.
Personal business is personal.
But yeah it’s weird that at one point she opened up to you then clammed up and now is not so open? Either she no longer trusts you with such topics or maybe she feels shame? Or maybe just a private person.
I actually had a couple of guy friends do that. One was a Scorpio, the other was a Pisces. Both incidences involved the girls breaking up with them, and in the Pisces case, one of the reasons was because the girlfriend was uncomfortable pegging him. When I brought up what they told me, both would say they don't remember telling me and subject would die there and then.
Maybe it's a water sign thing?
Personal business is personal. But yeah it’s weird that at one point she opened up to you then clammed up and now is not so open? Either she no longer trusts you with such topics or maybe she feels shame? Or maybe just a private person.
I actually had a couple of guy friends do that. One was a Scorpio, the other was a Pisces. Both incidences involved the girls breaking up with them, and in the Pisces case, one of the reasons was because the girlfriend was uncomfortable pegging him. When I brought up what they told me, both would say they don't remember telling me and subject would die there and then.
Maybe it's a water sign thing?
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an air sign did this to me lol
Personal business is personal. But yeah it’s weird that at one point she opened up to you then clammed up and now is not so open? Either she no longer trusts you with such topics or maybe she feels shame? Or maybe just a private person.
I actually had a couple of guy friends do that. One was a Scorpio, the other was a Pisces. Both incidences involved the girls breaking up with them, and in the Pisces case, one of the reasons was because the girlfriend was uncomfortable pegging him. When I brought up what they told me, both would say they don't remember telling me and subject would die there and then.
Maybe it's a water sign thing?
an air sign did this to me lol
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Hmm...I only know Aquarians to be extremely private about this sort of thing.
I asked a friend over VC about an experience she told me she had last semester in which she told me that a friend of hers and her boyfriend asked her to participate in a threesome with them. I assumed she said no because as she told it it seemed like it didn't happen...or at the very most that she was still weighing the pros and cons of participating in one with them but upon revisiting the topic
..in the context of asking how she politely turned them down.... she didn't respond.
The second time she pretended she didn't know what I was talking about and then claimed her mind went blank in thinking about her sexual history right before getting off of the video chat with me.
what's her deal?
"in the context of asking how she politely turned them down.... she didn't respond."
Fear of judgement. You already considered that yourself though right?
Personal business is personal. But yeah it’s weird that at one point she opened up to you then clammed up and now is not so open? Either she no longer trusts you with such topics or maybe she feels shame? Or maybe just a private person.
I actually had a couple of guy friends do that. One was a Scorpio, the other was a Pisces. Both incidences involved the girls breaking up with them, and in the Pisces case, one of the reasons was because the girlfriend was uncomfortable pegging him. When I brought up what they told me, both would say they don't remember telling me and subject would die there and then.
Maybe it's a water sign thing?
an air sign did this to me lol
Hmm...I only know Aquarians to be extremely private about this sort of thing.
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not an aqua
Personal business is personal. But yeah it’s weird that at one point she opened up to you then clammed up and now is not so open? Either she no longer trusts you with such topics or maybe she feels shame? Or maybe just a private person.
I actually had a couple of guy friends do that. One was a Scorpio, the other was a Pisces. Both incidences involved the girls breaking up with them, and in the Pisces case, one of the reasons was because the girlfriend was uncomfortable pegging him. When I brought up what they told me, both would say they don't remember telling me and subject would die there and then.
Maybe it's a water sign thing?
an air sign did this to me lol
Watery moon? Or Virgo venus?
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Libra moon and Taurus venus....
same as me.
If I invited you for a threesome, I would hope that you keep it between us.
yeah BUT again weird. she told me this story the first time we hung out mind you.
All that on first hangout? That'd be a red flag for me.
Especially if they claimed up a out it after and didnt address and got all weird.
That would be another red flag.
She is already showing you how she communicates, which does not seem to be well.
You didnt respond the 'right way' to something. and/or she overshared and is trying to separate herself from that.
Both very low imo...ways of communicating..
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hmm, it was in the context of talking about exploring her sexuality or rather trying to figure it out.
the girl who asked for a threesome I think was the same friend who had recently kissed her ..which she seemed to enjoy...
at least more so than my first kiss from another female.
so it didn't SEEM that far fetched...at the time.
I will agree with you though there were other things said by this same person during the same convo which were red flags to me....
at the very least I thought this person had issues with boundaries.
I asked a friend over VC about an experience she told me she had last semester in which she told me that a friend of hers and her boyfriend asked her to participate in a threesome with them. I assumed she said no because as she told it it seemed like it didn't happen...or at the very most that she was still weighing the pros and cons of participating in one with them but upon revisiting the topic
..in the context of asking how she politely turned them down.... she didn't respond.
The second time she pretended she didn't know what I was talking about and then claimed her mind went blank in thinking about her sexual history right before getting off of the video chat with me.
what's her deal?
"in the context of asking how she politely turned them down.... she didn't respond."
Fear of judgment. You already considered that yourself though right?
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yeah ... I'm thinking maybe she didn't turn them down as she never explicitly did tell me that she did.
I wouldn't care honestly. I'm a pretty open person.
It just seemed like she did..and so I thought it was something in common we shared and could talk about the whys and why nots , what was going through our mind ..as well as in general how the convo went.
I also assumed that she could have made it up....
If I invited you for a threesome, I would hope that you keep it between us.
yeah BUT again weird. she told me this story the first time we hung out mind you.
It's communication break down.
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still confused
Personal business is personal. But yeah it’s weird that at one point she opened up to you then clammed up and now is not so open? Either she no longer trusts you with such topics or maybe she feels shame? Or maybe just a private person.
I actually had a couple of guy friends do that. One was a Scorpio, the other was a Pisces. Both incidences involved the girls breaking up with them, and in the Pisces case, one of the reasons was because the girlfriend was uncomfortable pegging him. When I brought up what they told me, both would say they don't remember telling me and subject would die there and then.
Maybe it's a water sign thing?
an air sign did this to me lol
Watery moon? Or Virgo venus?
Libra moon and Taurus venus....
same as me.
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Taurus Venus.
You'd also need to look at the houses, because those are what would influence the placement.
I have a water moon and fire venus but my moon is in 6th house and venus in 11th, so I have a tendency to speak out for mostly self-education and exchange of ideas. Sometimes I overshare.
Personal business is personal. But yeah it’s weird that at one point she opened up to you then clammed up and now is not so open? Either she no longer trusts you with such topics or maybe she feels shame? Or maybe just a private person.
I actually had a couple of guy friends do that. One was a Scorpio, the other was a Pisces. Both incidences involved the girls breaking up with them, and in the Pisces case, one of the reasons was because the girlfriend was uncomfortable pegging him. When I brought up what they told me, both would say they don't remember telling me and subject would die there and then.
Maybe it's a water sign thing?
an air sign did this to me lol
Watery moon? Or Virgo venus?
Libra moon and Taurus venus....
same as me.
Taurus Venus.
You'd also need to look at the houses, because those are what would influence the placement.
I have a water moon and fire venus but my moon is in 6th house and venus in 11th, so I have a tendency to speak out for mostly self-education and exchange of ideas. Sometimes I overshare.
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i also have the same placement
and overshare is my middle name lol
I asked a friend over VC about an experience she told me she had last semester in which she told me that a friend of hers and her boyfriend asked her to participate in a threesome with them. I assumed she said no because as she told it it seemed like it didn't happen...or at the very most that she was still weighing the pros and cons of participating in one with them but upon revisiting the topic
..in the context of asking how she politely turned them down.... she didn't respond.
The second time she pretended she didn't know what I was talking about and then claimed her mind went blank in thinking about her sexual history right before getting off of the video chat with me.
what's her deal?
"in the context of asking how she politely turned them down.... she didn't respond."
Fear of judgment. You already considered that yourself though right?
yeah ... I'm thinking maybe she didn't turn them down as she never explicitly did tell me that she did.
I wouldn't care honestly. I'm a pretty open person.
It just seemed like she did..and so I thought it was something in common we shared and could talk about the whys and why nots , what was going through our mind ..as well as in general how the convo went.
I also assumed that she could have made it up....
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I am assuming you have and she knows? So it's something interesting to talk about?
Making it up to fit in with you or some kind of post misunderstanding?
Even I'm curious about what went though her mind with this lol.
Edit: I like the other posts reasoning then mine. Far more sound. I missed the part were you said she said all this and more in the first meeting. I just assumed you were already friends having a conversation like that.
I asked a friend over VC about an experience she told me she had last semester in which she told me that a friend of hers and her boyfriend asked her to participate in a threesome with them. I assumed she said no because as she told it it seemed like it didn't happen...or at the very most that she was still weighing the pros and cons of participating in one with them but upon revisiting the topic
..in the context of asking how she politely turned them down.... she didn't respond.
The second time she pretended she didn't know what I was talking about and then claimed her mind went blank in thinking about her sexual history right before getting off of the video chat with me.
what's her deal?
"in the context of asking how she politely turned them down.... she didn't respond."
Fear of judgment. You already considered that yourself though right?
yeah ... I'm thinking maybe she didn't turn them down as she never explicitly did tell me that she did.
I wouldn't care honestly. I'm a pretty open person.
It just seemed like she did..and so I thought it was something in common we shared and could talk about the whys and why nots , what was going through our mind ..as well as in general how the convo went.
I also assumed that she could have made it up....
I am assuming you have and she knows? So it's something interesting to talk about?
Making it up to fit in with you or some kind of post misunderstanding?
Even I'm curious about what went though her mind with this lol.
Edit: I like the other posts reasoning then mine. Far more sound. I missed the part were you said she said all this and more in the first meeting. I just assumed you were already friends having a conversation like that.
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yeah the first meeting she brings this up.
I've known this person for over two years and have been friends with this person for 6 months or so.....
and within the past 6 months I've brought this up twice. The first time again after I was propositioned by a couple who are friends of mine back in November and the other time a few days ago over videochat
If I invited you for a threesome, I would hope that you keep it between us.
yeah BUT again weird. she told me this story the first time we hung out mind you.
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Was alcohol or other substances consumed during this first hangout? Could be she over shared while lit and typically isn’t one to do so.
I asked a friend over VC about an experience she told me she had last semester in which she told me that a friend of hers and her boyfriend asked her to participate in a threesome with them. I assumed she said no because as she told it it seemed like it didn't happen...or at the very most that she was still weighing the pros and cons of participating in one with them but upon revisiting the topic
..in the context of asking how she politely turned them down.... she didn't respond.
The second time she pretended she didn't know what I was talking about and then claimed her mind went blank in thinking about her sexual history right before getting off of the video chat with me.
what's her deal?
She obviously went through with it but would rather bury the discussion, as she knows she'd be pressed to go into the seedy details... which, most certainly, would reflect badly on her...
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sad. I don't care. My bad for assuming and indirectly making her feel bad in the process.
If I invited you for a threesome, I would hope that you keep it between us.
yeah BUT again weird. she told me this story the first time we hung out mind you.
Was alcohol or other substances consumed during this first hangout? Could be she over shared while lit and typically isn’t one to do so.
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nope. she was stone-cold sober.
she doesn't drink or consume other substances.
why someone would want to talk about who he fugged
women do it all the time.
not necessarily in explicit details but there is usually a performance score/review given and then posted on yelp.
It's her business and she can choose to to open up to, seems like that person isn't you. Also, I'm getting vibes it makes her uncomfortable.
It's her business and she can choose to to open up to, seems like that person isn't you. Also, I'm getting vibes it makes her uncomfortable.
i asked her if she was and apologized for crossing a boundary.
she said no i didn't
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I asked a friend over VC about an experience she told me she had last semester in which she told me that a friend of hers and her boyfriend asked her to participate in a threesome with them. I assumed she said no because as she told it it seemed like it didn't happen...or at the very most that she was still weighing the pros and cons of participating in one with them but upon revisiting the topic
..in the context of asking how she politely turned them down.... she didn't respond.
The second time she pretended she didn't know what I was talking about and then claimed her mind went blank in thinking about her sexual history right before getting off of the video chat with me.
what's her deal?