Women and giving oral

I was having a frank conversation with aqua where I told her. Look I enjoy sex with you but it’s wash, rinse, and repeat... tons of intercourse nothing else and I’m kind of tired of not having variety.

She said. Is this about oral. Don’t ask me, if I want to give it to you I will.

I’m like. How would you know I want it if I don’t ask for it?

Her reply was... you always want it and I know it.

She said she can’t give oral unless extremely turned on. Just walking into the house and getting on her knees and just the thought of it turns her off.

How many women just love doing it?

I met a Virgo two weeks ago, that told me she absolutely enjoys it and it gets her turned on.... to which I am intrigued lol

Oral sex increases risk of HPV and oral cancers. And you’re a hoe. I say she’s smart.

Posted by hippiecrite

Oral sex increases risk of HPV and oral cancers.

I was just about to say something about this. Scared me from doing it anymore.

Yea maybe she doesn’t want to go down on you because she’s scared of getting an std. not saying you have one but maybe she’s had scary moments in the past? That could be a reason too.

It’s about trust really. I wouldn’t go down on a guy i didn’t trust...

Eh I don’t love it to be honest.

You guys are rude lol... I’ve had my hpv shots. We’ve also been tested together and she had an iud put in. I haven’t had sex with anybody other than her for 9 months.

Her oral skills are amazing. Very top notch, But seriously if we have sex 20 times in a month ... 19 is just purely intercourse. It’s pretty boring. Even if I offer to do oral on her, she’s like no I don’t need it . I’ll get myself ready for you and whips out a vibrator.

She likes sex a little aggressive mostly penetration... anytime I try to do something else. It’s why... I really just want you to take me. It’s gotten old

You guys are fucking 5xs per week. That’s like double/triple? what most couples have. Count your blessings.

And if she’s not into getting oral sex herself, ask her if there’s something else she needs/wants from you. Relationships are about compromise right.

Maybe your dick smells? Maybe she don't like the way you taste? Maybe you should have another discussion with her?

Personally I enjoy giving and receiving 🤷

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Posted by LadyNeptune

You guys are fucking 5xs per week. That’s like double/triple? what most couples have. Count your blessings.

And if she’s not into getting oral sex herself, ask her if there’s something else she needs/wants from you. Relationships are about compromise right.

Treetrunking 5x per week is for rookies!

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Lol

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Maybe your dick smells? Maybe she don't like the way you taste? Maybe you should have another discussion with her?

Personally I enjoy giving and receiving 🤷

Lmao

“She said she can’t give oral unless extremely turned on”

Then stop thinking about how many bjs you aren’t getting. And start thinking about how to turn her on, extremely. After 9months you should know...if you were paying attention.

THROAT CANCER! AHHHHHHHH

Posted by Arachnophobia

Lmao. It doesn’t smell. Well she’s more lesbian on the sexual identity spectrum. She says even with oral on women in past she couldn’t just jump on the carpet.

She wants a massage. I don’t mind maybe once or twice a week but after working 14 hours. I don’t feel like I should have to massage her for a half hour.

Just from a relationship dynamic... she doesn’t pay for anything. I let her keep all her money. I cook clean and take care of her pets, I’m just looking for some oral.... geez

Posted by hippiecrite

Oral sex increases risk of HPV and oral cancers. And you’re a hoe. I say she’s smart.

You are STUPID!

Posted by hellosaggy

You guys are rude lol... I’ve had my hpv shots. We’ve also been tested together and she had an iud put in. I haven’t had sex with anybody other than her for 9 months.

Her oral skills are amazing. Very top notch, But seriously if we have sex 20 times in a month ... 19 is just purely intercourse. It’s pretty boring. Even if I offer to do oral on her, she’s like no I don’t need it . I’ll get myself ready for you and whips out a vibrator.

She likes sex a little aggressive mostly penetration... anytime I try to do something else. It’s why... I really just want you to take me. It’s gotten old

Change the partner!

Boring now? How long do you think it can last until you are just...whatever...

Posted by Ganon

Posted by hellosaggy

Lmao. It doesn’t smell. Well she’s more lesbian on the sexual identity spectrum. She says even with oral on women in past she couldn’t just jump on the carpet.

She wants a massage. I don’t mind maybe once or twice a week but after working 14 hours. I don’t feel like I should have to massage her for a half hour.

Just from a relationship dynamic... she doesn’t pay for anything. I let her keep all her money. I cook clean and take care of her pets, I’m just looking for some oral.... geez

So you work 14 hours a day, then come home and still have to cook, clean the house, take care of HER pets and have to beg for some quality sex?

Wow! You MUST be in love with this one.

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Nope. Lol. Sex is very frequent just mediocre. We have a good friendship and I really don’t have time to date at moment. I’m not happy sexually, so I couldn’t imagine being long term when my schedule gets normal again.

It’s like eating baked chicken everyday. Can I get it fried or bbq sometime? Geez

Posted by LadyNeptune

You guys are fucking 5xs per week. That’s like double/triple? what most couples have. Count your blessings.

And if she’s not into getting oral sex herself, ask her if there’s something else she needs/wants from you. Relationships are about compromise right.

Relationships are about compromise after 35, i.e., the older you get.

16 and 23 and 28... no compromise. You have time to explore and figure and and actually get what you want.

You start compromising before 30, you are a damned fool.

Posted by Arielle83

Just put it in a glory hole at the bath house.

LOL!

Mean, but you on point.

Forrealz, if it's that damn serious, put ya dick n a hole. It's guaranteed to get sucked.

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Posted by hellosaggy

Lmao. It doesn’t smell. Well she’s more lesbian on the sexual identity spectrum. She says even with oral on women in past she couldn’t just jump on the carpet.

She wants a massage. I don’t mind maybe once or twice a week but after working 14 hours. I don’t feel like I should have to massage her for a half hour.

Just from a relationship dynamic... she doesn’t pay for anything. I let her keep all her money. I cook clean and take care of her pets, I’m just looking for some oral.... geez

So you work 14 hours a day, then come home and still have to cook, clean the house, take care of HER pets and have to beg for some quality sex?

Wow! You MUST be in love with this one.

Nope. Lol. Sex is very frequent just mediocre. We have a good friendship and I really don’t have time to date at moment. I’m not happy sexually, so I couldn’t imagine being long term when my schedule gets normal again.

It’s like eating baked chicken everyday. Can I get it fried or bbq sometime? Geez

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I often question the skills, skill level of those claiming mediocre sex. I always have good sex. I getter done.

Watcha need to do is increase your skills to the skill level of never having bad sex. Increasing the skill level for sex is #1 psychological (what your Aqua is hinting at whether she even knows it herself). You get in a muthafickas head if you want head.

Sex isn't about equality or deserving or what either of you two do for each other in the bedroom or out. It's about doing what you feel comfortable with. If you're not getting enough oral and she's not willing to give and it's bugging you you're not sexually compatible.

I don't do oral on men it's a major turn off, sorry not sorry. Can't do a strap on a woman either.

And hey if thing's don't work out you can always point your aqua friend in my direction muahaha 😈

It’s okay if your in love 😂😂

Posted by i-xy

The only oral I like is at the dentist.

Say ahhh

LOL

Posted by hellosaggy

Lmao. It doesn’t smell. Well she’s more lesbian on the sexual identity spectrum. She says even with oral on women in past she couldn’t just jump on the carpet.

She wants a massage. I don’t mind maybe once or twice a week but after working 14 hours. I don’t feel like I should have to massage her for a half hour.

Just from a relationship dynamic... she doesn’t pay for anything. I let her keep all her money. I cook clean and take care of her pets, I’m just looking for some oral.... geez

You need another partner!

Posted by Black-Mamba

Damn this thread ruined oral sex for me

Damn nothing like sucking on a clean circumcised beautiful penis

Fuk

Throat CANCER

Shiet

Hell

Gad damn

Wait are gay men dying of throat cancer—

well, throat cancer is more prevalent in men than women, but that might be cuz men smoke more than women.

It is believed that the way spermatozoid work can be a factor in cancer development, but it requires DNA testing and understanding that medical science lacks, all the "studies" are empirical evidence.

also cases of throat and colon cancer are decreasing yearly, and I doubt it is because gays are having less sex 😆

so you can go down on a man with confidence, don't swallow if you're way too scared Lmao

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Posted by Black-Mamba

Damn this thread ruined oral sex for me

Damn nothing like sucking on a clean circumcised beautiful penis

Fuk

Throat CANCER

Shiet

Hell

Gad damn

Wait are gay men dying of throat cancer—

well, throat cancer is more prevalent in men than women, but that might be cuz men smoke more than women.

It is believed that the way spermatozoid work can be a factor in cancer development, but it requires DNA testing and understanding that medical science lacks, all the "studies" are empirical evidence.

also cases of throat and colon cancer are decreasing yearly, and I doubt it is because gays are having less sex 😆

so you can go down on a man with confidence, don't swallow if you're way too scared Lmao

I never swallow gross

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made me think of this lmao 😆

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by LadyNeptune

You guys are fucking 5xs per week. That’s like double/triple? what most couples have. Count your blessings.

And if she’s not into getting oral sex herself, ask her if there’s something else she needs/wants from you. Relationships are about compromise right.

Relationships are about compromise after 35, i.e., the older you get.

16 and 23 and 28... no compromise. You have time to explore and figure and and actually get what you want.

You start compromising before 30, you are a damned fool.

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I think op has reached that expiration date. Time to settle. If sex 5xs a week can be considered settling...

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by LadyNeptune

You guys are fucking 5xs per week. That’s like double/triple? what most couples have. Count your blessings.

And if she’s not into getting oral sex herself, ask her if there’s something else she needs/wants from you. Relationships are about compromise right.

Relationships are about compromise after 35, i.e., the older you get.

16 and 23 and 28... no compromise. You have time to explore and figure and and actually get what you want.

You start compromising before 30, you are a damned fool.

I think op has reached that expiration date. Time to settle. If sex 5xs a week can be considered settling...

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So, he gets wat he gets, ha? Lol

I'm not speaking on "compromise" in necessarily the same sense that you are... not using "comprimise" as a euphemism for settling.

It's natural to compromise more as you get older. However, even when finding what you want in your youth, people naturally change and compromise/ adjustments will be needed as years go by... either way. I married at 20. 24 years later, we have adjusted to each other's changes... evolutions and devolution.

Sags (males) can be rather dogmatic, rather black/white, cause and effect about sex.

Like one of my favorite Robot Chicken clips...

But, this is what happens to Sag men once they have done more than their fair share of laps around the track. He dan passed over a couple bitches that gave bomb ass head.. trust.

Now, he ready for the stables and gotta get it how 'em livin... LOL!

Who better to show him than an Aqua. It's trine for a reason. Now he cookn and clean'n and giving her poodle a bath with no head.

Lesson to all you young Sag men. Ya keep runnin 'til ya run out.

Posted by LethalFantasia

Don't settle.

If you guys aren't good friends, kick her out.

Find another FWB.

He betta learn the psych of sex. Bitches ain't dropp'n to dem knees or dem drawers like they used to. And, if ya fine one that do, she probably ain't gonna be cleanly. Haha

MFs is swiping left in right in rapid speed these dayz.

I watch my Taurus son and he be swilp'n while brusing hiz teeth and already on the phone wit one of 'em.

She is an fwb not a girlfriend? so get rid of her quickly.

Posted by VenusAquarius

But, this is what happens to Sag men once they have done more than their fair share of laps around the track. He dan passed over a couple bitches that gave bomb ass head.. trust.

Now, he ready for the stables and gotta get it how 'em livin... LOL!

Who better to show him than an Aqua. It's trine for a reason. Now he cookn and clean'n and giving her poodle a bath with no head.

Lesson to all you young Sag men. Ya keep runnin 'til ya run out.

From the bottom of me heart stfu woman for shaming people for affairs and casual sex.

That is a valid life style there is nothing wrong with that he doesnt need to be subservient or to be straightened out. Are you religious?

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Posted by hellosaggy

She wants a massage. I don’t feel like I should have to massage her for a half hour.

... she doesn’t pay for anything. I let her keep all her money. I cook clean and take care of her pets, I’m just looking for some oral.... geez

So you will pay her bills and feed her pets but can’t be bothered by rubbing her back and stimulating her physically.

But you expect some head....

I can understand why she’s bored and not turned on. 🤔

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Well it’s because I get home between midnight and 1. She told me last night. And she’s never gotten off on oral and she says it would take too long to have sex and she’s sleepy.

I am up from 6 - about 1:30 m-f ...

I told her ok. You contribute 750 to household (what I make at night job) and I’ll quit then I’ll be home at 4:30 during week and I’ll have night time. She said ok... and never has. Every time I remind her of it when she complains is. I have bills to catch up on, or when I’m at work she’s hanging out with girlfriends at movies or shopping.

She complains I’m never home, I offer an option to rectify and she doesn’t comply.

Technically I don’t need the night job, but I like to save money too.

The funny thing is if I told her to find her own place, the aqua would probably treat me better.

I don’t MIND paying the bills. I would have to pay them anyway. Even the pets. I like animals.

Yeah I’ve had casual relationships and yes quite a few of them give/gave great oral.

Like I said I will probably reassess this coming year. Venus is in retrograde in a few days so it’s reflection time

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Posted by VenusAquarius

But, this is what happens to Sag men once they have done more than their fair share of laps around the track. He dan passed over a couple bitches that gave bomb ass head.. trust.

Now, he ready for the stables and gotta get it how 'em livin... LOL!

Who better to show him than an Aqua. It's trine for a reason. Now he cookn and clean'n and giving her poodle a bath with no head.

Lesson to all you young Sag men. Ya keep runnin 'til ya run out.

From the bottom of me heart stfu woman for shaming people for affairs and casual sex.

That is a valid life style there is nothing wrong with that he doesnt need to be subservient or to be straightened out. Are you religious?

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Yo Dumbass, where tha fuc you read that? Where the fuc am I shaming on casual sex when I have had plenty of casual sex and post about my affairs on these here DXP boards? And, give bomb ass head? You MUST be in your feels, punkbitch, to read something that

Just

Isn't

There...

If the sex were more engaging for her, she might feel more compelled to give head. BUT it's also true some women just do not like doing it. And you shouldn't expect her to do something she doesn't want to be doing in bed for your benefit only if you actually care about her.

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Posted by Parkourler

Posted by VenusAquarius

But, this is what happens to Sag men once they have done more than their fair share of laps around the track. He dan passed over a couple bitches that gave bomb ass head.. trust.

Now, he ready for the stables and gotta get it how 'em livin... LOL!

Who better to show him than an Aqua. It's trine for a reason. Now he cookn and clean'n and giving her poodle a bath with no head.

Lesson to all you young Sag men. Ya keep runnin 'til ya run out.

From the bottom of me heart stfu woman for shaming people for affairs and casual sex.

That is a valid life style there is nothing wrong with that he doesnt need to be subservient or to be straightened out. Are you religious?

Yo Dumbass, where tha fuc you read that? Where the fuc am I shaming on casual sex when I have had plenty of casual sex and post about my affairs on these here DXP boards? And, give bomb ass head? You MUST be in your feels, punkbitch, to read something that

Just

Isn't

There...

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You talked in a deragotary way about sleeping aroind i stick to facts fellow donkey but okay deny it

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Posted by Parkourler

Posted by VenusAquarius

But, this is what happens to Sag men once they have done more than their fair share of laps around the track. He dan passed over a couple bitches that gave bomb ass head.. trust.

Now, he ready for the stables and gotta get it how 'em livin... LOL!

Who better to show him than an Aqua. It's trine for a reason. Now he cookn and clean'n and giving her poodle a bath with no head.

Lesson to all you young Sag men. Ya keep runnin 'til ya run out.

From the bottom of me heart stfu woman for shaming people for affairs and casual sex.

That is a valid life style there is nothing wrong with that he doesnt need to be subservient or to be straightened out. Are you religious?

Yo Dumbass, where tha fuc you read that? Where the fuc am I shaming on casual sex when I have had plenty of casual sex and post about my affairs on these here DXP boards? And, give bomb ass head? You MUST be in your feels, punkbitch, to read something that

Just

Isn't

There...

You talked in a deragotary way about sleeping aroind i stick to facts fellow donkey but okay deny it

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Let's find the sentence in my post that is the main idea. Can you find the main idea?

You are unable to stay within context.

Find the main idea...

I enjoy giving head because he loves it and I am a pleaser. So it's just part of our foreplay which makes me wet seeing him so excited makes the rest of the interaction awesome! He says there's nothing better than sitting down to watch football and getting pleased although then we don't get to see the end of the game.

Posted by tctaap

I enjoy giving head because he loves it and I am a pleaser. So it's just part of our foreplay which makes me wet seeing him so excited makes the rest of the interaction awesome! He says there's nothing better than sitting down to watch football and getting pleased although then we don't get to see the end of the game.

Lol, you teasing him. He gone pack him bags tonite and he takin the dog.

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Posted by tctaap

I enjoy giving head because he loves it and I am a pleaser. So it's just part of our foreplay which makes me wet seeing him so excited makes the rest of the interaction awesome! He says there's nothing better than sitting down to watch football and getting pleased although then we don't get to see the end of the game.

Lol, you teasing him. He gone pack him bags tonite and he takin the dog.

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no madame - he is all in lol

lol. I think I’m being tested... lord knows I’m trying my hardest not to go back to my old casual ways...

No I give good massages but that don’t mean it’s all about her and it’s not even like she massages me back. Just a selfish aqua.

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Good luck finding a woman that wants to give head to a whiny ass dude. Give her a back massage and stfu

Hahaha. Fuck that, get a wand and let THAT do all the back massaging.

Oh yeah, fugoff

She should get him a pencil sharpener for Christmas and let THAT do all the work

Skedootz Damoots

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staaap lol I encountered a pencil dick a few years ago and for the life of me I truly felt bad for the guy but dumped him anyway for other reasons

on the contrary @op I have encountered men who love head so much that is all they want and that's a big fat NO - so in that case should I have considered them lazy ? or something else ? I just flew and didn't look back lol

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by hippiecrite

Oral sex increases risk of HPV and oral cancers. And you’re a hoe. I say she’s smart.

You are STUPID!

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You don’t know me or what I do or don’t in the bedroom. My first sentence was straight up facts. Go fuck yourself.

And btw... go fuck yourself.

Posted by hellosaggy

lol. I think I’m being tested... lord knows I’m trying my hardest not to go back to my old casual ways...

No I give good massages but that don’t mean it’s all about her and it’s not even like she massages me back. Just a selfish aqua.

Poor Sag...

When u finally ready for the stables... you gets no head.

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Posted by hippiecrite

Oral sex increases risk of HPV and oral cancers. And you’re a hoe. I say she’s smart.

You are STUPID!

You don’t know me or what I do or don’t in the bedroom. My first sentence was straight up facts. Go fuck yourself.

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It increases nothing unless you suck dirty dick!

And thank for your suggestion...

Posted by LaMadrina

After sticking your verga in countless women, you think putting that tainted thing in the mouth is appealing. You're just flat out whorish and nasty. No man is entitled to oral sex. Especially if you make it a chore. And if you have Virgo who wants to do it, you slut, then why are you complaining here? Remind me to never read nor comment on anything you post ever again. There are much bigger and more important issues in life than you being huffy over constant penis attention.

Do you ever get some? Any? Not even a bit? That shown...

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Posted by HeartofTopazz

Good luck finding a woman that wants to give head to a whiny ass dude. Give her a back massage and stfu

Hahaha. Fuck that, get a wand and let THAT do all the back massaging.

Oh yeah, fugoff

She should get him a pencil sharpener for Christmas and let THAT do all the work

Skedootz Damoots

staaap lol I encountered a pencil dick a few years ago and for the life of me I truly felt bad for the guy but dumped him anyway for other reasons

Lmao! He must have been a descendant from ETs phalange

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pretty much!