When I will have a bf?

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Leolagna
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Hello everyone,

I just really wonder when I will have finally love someone and be with him.Til this time I have loved a guy 4 years ago.in between I talked with an online guy but it did not last long,so in total I had no bf til that guy.

The problem is also I can not find anyone worth to date.

Birth details:28Jan 1994 Turkey istanbul 7 20 pm

My Lagna is Leo,moon in 12th house,Saturn and mercury both in 7th house.Saturn in mool trikona,mercury is in friend sign,problem is my d9 is not good.I have 12 house venus there,also Saturn and Sun opposes to each other.

In d9 Saturn sits in 5th house also in natal chart jupiter aspects to Saturn and mercury so I though it could be a love match?

When I will find him at the end?I know you will say I am young enough at 23 well but I don't want to be single,I just want to love someone and be loved.

I am going through mercury antardasha and venus mahadasha,last one was Saturn but nothing happened.Though venus mercury has 2 12 position but I don't think Sun MD would be good for love.

Plus in this September jupiter will skip Libra and it will conjunct my own natal jupiter and will make trine to Saturn and mercury so what u say about this?And Saturn is in 5th house ....unfortunately...

I wrote so much,Thank you all
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You're an Aqua with high standards....tell me something new. These people can relate:

@aquarius09 @nepteranus @bumblokatt @aerazo



We're all the same. Picky AF
"Dyingalonesquad" ?


#wereok #wereaquarius #werenotpickywerejustselective #bachelorsandbachelorettesforlife #whoneedsthemanyway #wegoteachother LMAO
#loveit #wheresthesinglespartyat? #lagunabeach? #singledontcare #lifesfun #gotravel #meetnewpeople #dontexpectit

#societyspatheticexpectations

LOL


#aquariusthenomad #thegypsiesdontcarewheretheyland #wegowherethewindtakesus #singlesforlife #singlesreadytomingleforeternity #itsokwereaquarius #wereawesome
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Now, that you used the word nomad, I'll tell you something I realized last year. This is the peak of self-awareness for me.

All my life I grew up hearing and seeing women getting married and having children. That was/is the thing to do. Deep down I didn't like this concept of marriage and children being be all, end all for women. I wanted to travel, go places whenever I felt like it without informing anyone. I didn't like anything that constrains me. At 22, I got into my first exclusive relationship with a really needy and clingy Libra. I felt suffocated and a part of me didn't like that I had to tell him about my whereabouts all the time or that I couldn't have solitude anymore. The moment my relationship ended, I felt free even if a part of me was sad for two yrs. I didn't get into an exclusive relationship after that. I do casual dating only.

So last year I realized that as much as the feminine part of me wants to get married and have kids/adopt some day, my ACTIONS/behaviour are of someone who really doesn't give a shit for the routine life that marriage presents. In essence, I'm someone who says I want to get married and have children, but I have nothing to show for it.
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Now, that you used the word nomad, I'll tell you something I realized last year. This is the peak of self-awareness for me.

All my life I grew up hearing and seeing women getting married and having children. That was/is the thing to do. Deep down I didn't like this concept of marriage and children being be all, end all for women. I wanted to travel, go places whenever I felt like it without informing anyone. I didn't like anything that constrains me. At 22, I got into my first exclusive relationship with a really needy and clingy Libra. I felt suffocated and a part of me didn't like that I had to tell him about my whereabouts all the time or that I couldn't have solitude anymore. The moment my relationship ended, I felt free even if a part of me was sad for two yrs. I didn't get into an exclusive relationship after that. I do casual dating only.

So last year I realized that as much as the feminine part of me wants to get married and have kids/adopt some day, my ACTIONS/behaviour are of someone who really doesn't give a shit for the routine life that marriage presents. In essence, I'm someone who says I want to get married and have children, but I have nothing to show for it.


Honestly I can relate. If I wouldn't have been a young mom, I would have spent my money and energy into traveling and seeing people around the world. If I had to chose a life style in another life before modernization, I'd probably be a bohemian/nomad. lol
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My dad was an Aqua and he was a nomad who travelled a lot. I did a lot of travelling in my childhood thanks to him! To this day I'm a nomad.

Wait a min! You have a child? Really?!!! How old?
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Your not alone,i've been single for almost a year now and if my ex who wants to come back to me doesnt prove anything then my single status is going to be their for a very long tym coz i only found one that i want but is not available at the moment so im moving on if there is no one then its fine,i can live being single and being alone is kinda refreshing to me ☺i dont know if its my aqua talking or my pentadruple cappy placement talking?
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by aquarius_beauty
Posted by aquarius09
Posted by aquarius_beauty
You're an Aqua with high standards....tell me something new. These people can relate:

@aquarius09 @nepteranus @bumblokatt @aerazo



We're all the same. Picky AF
"Dyingalonesquad" ?


#wereok #wereaquarius #werenotpickywerejustselective #bachelorsandbachelorettesforlife #whoneedsthemanyway #wegoteachother LMAO
#loveit #wheresthesinglespartyat? #lagunabeach? #singledontcare #lifesfun #gotravel #meetnewpeople #dontexpectit

#societyspatheticexpectations

LOL


#aquariusthenomad #thegypsiesdontcarewheretheyland #wegowherethewindtakesus #singlesforlife #singlesreadytomingleforeternity #itsokwereaquarius #wereawesome
Now, that you used the word nomad, I'll tell you something I realized last year. This is the peak of self-awareness for me.

All my life I grew up hearing and seeing women getting married and having children. That was/is the thing to do. Deep down I didn't like this concept of marriage and children being be all, end all for women. I wanted to travel, go places whenever I felt like it without informing anyone. I didn't like anything that constrains me. At 22, I got into my first exclusive relationship with a really needy and clingy Libra. I felt suffocated and a part of me didn't like that I had to tell him about my whereabouts all the time or that I couldn't have solitude anymore. The moment my relationship ended, I felt free even if a part of me was sad for two yrs. I didn't get into an exclusive relationship after that. I do casual dating only.

So last year I realized that as much as the feminine part of me wants to get married and have kids/adopt some day, my ACTIONS/behaviour are of someone who really doesn't give a shit for the routine life that marriage presents. In essence, I'm someone who says I want to get married and have children, but I have nothing to show for it.

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i feel the same way its like when a woman marries the society,her husband,her family just wants a woman to stay home to take care of the children and her husband,and you cant live anymore of your dreams and i hear many woman complain that they didnt get to have their dreams,i said why dont you do both? They were like my husband doesnt want me to blah di da!?yeah right your husband who says he loves you but cant support your dreams and ambition,but for how long?its time to be practical women its not like he can support you forever it doesnt work like that and its not like your children wont grow up to do chores on their own we are fighting against TIME,its how fast you can give your family their dreams and yours as well before you expire and the fastest way to get there is to WORK together,i hate it when a person cant decide on their own and keep asking for my damn advice over and over again but they wont do what they say?
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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by aquarius_beauty
You're an Aqua with high standards....tell me something new. These people can relate:

@aquarius09 @nepteranus @bumblokatt @aerazo



We're all the same. Picky AF
"Dyingalonesquad" ?


#wereok #wereaquarius #werenotpickywerejustselective #bachelorsandbachelorettesforlife #whoneedsthemanyway #wegoteachother LMAO
#loveit #wheresthesinglespartyat? #lagunabeach? #singledontcare #lifesfun #gotravel #meetnewpeople #dontexpectit

#societyspatheticexpectations

LOL


#aquariusthenomad #thegypsiesdontcarewheretheyland #wegowherethewindtakesus #singlesforlife #singlesreadytomingleforeternity #itsokwereaquarius #wereawesome
Now, that you used the word nomad, I'll tell you something I realized last year. This is the peak of self-awareness for me.

All my life I grew up hearing and seeing women getting married and having children. That was/is the thing to do. Deep down I didn't like this concept of marriage and children being be all, end all for women. I wanted to travel, go places whenever I felt like it without informing anyone. I didn't like anything that constrains me. At 22, I got into my first exclusive relationship with a really needy and clingy Libra. I felt suffocated and a part of me didn't like that I had to tell him about my whereabouts all the time or that I couldn't have solitude anymore. The moment my relationship ended, I felt free even if a part of me was sad for two yrs. I didn't get into an exclusive relationship after that. I do casual dating only.

So last year I realized that as much as the feminine part of me wants to get married and have kids/adopt some day, my ACTIONS/behaviour are of someone who really doesn't give a shit for the routine life that marriage presents. In essence, I'm someone who says I want to get married and have children, but I have nothing to show for it.



i feel the same way its like when a woman marries the society,her husband,her family just wants a woman to stay home to take care of the children and her husband,and you cant live anymore of your dreams and i hear many woman complain that they didnt get to have their dreams,i said why dont you do both? They were like my husband doesnt want me to blah di da!?yeah right your husband who says he loves you but cant support your dreams and ambition,but for how long?its time to be practical women its not like he can support you forever it doesnt work like that and its not like your children wont grow up to do chores on their own we are fighting against TIME,its how fast you can give your family their dreams and yours as well before you expire and the fastest way to get there is to WORK together,i hate it when a person cant decide on their own and keep asking for my damn advice over and over again but they wont do what they say?

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Exactly this ?% You totally get it! I want the family life without forfeiting my dreams and aspirations. I want to build something of my own as well that my kids can inherit from me.

The guy whose life style really appeals to me as an alternative is Christiano Ronaldo. This guy paid off the woman, who had his first child, of her parental rights. Similar to surrogacy. Time to time you see him travelling about with his kid and just enjoying himself. Yesterday I heard that he's now asked a surrogate to have his twins. Go Ronaldo! Fulfilling dreams of having his own kids + enjoying his independent life like a true Aquarius that he is. That is ideal if I can't sustain a traditional family structure. My kid and me travelling the world.

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Posted by aquarius09
Posted by aquarius_beauty
You're an Aqua with high standards....tell me something new. These people can relate:

@aquarius09 @nepteranus @bumblokatt @aerazo



We're all the same. Picky AF
"Dyingalonesquad" ?


#wereok #wereaquarius #werenotpickywerejustselective #bachelorsandbachelorettesforlife #whoneedsthemanyway #wegoteachother LMAO
#loveit #wheresthesinglespartyat? #lagunabeach? #singledontcare #lifesfun #gotravel #meetnewpeople #dontexpectit

#societyspatheticexpectations

LOL


#aquariusthenomad #thegypsiesdontcarewheretheyland #wegowherethewindtakesus #singlesforlife #singlesreadytomingleforeternity #itsokwereaquarius #wereawesome
Now, that you used the word nomad, I'll tell you something I realized last year. This is the peak of self-awareness for me.

All my life I grew up hearing and seeing women getting married and having children. That was/is the thing to do. Deep down I didn't like this concept of marriage and children being be all, end all for women. I wanted to travel, go places whenever I felt like it without informing anyone. I didn't like anything that constrains me. At 22, I got into my first exclusive relationship with a really needy and clingy Libra. I felt suffocated and a part of me didn't like that I had to tell him about my whereabouts all the time or that I couldn't have solitude anymore. The moment my relationship ended, I felt free even if a part of me was sad for two yrs. I didn't get into an exclusive relationship after that. I do casual dating only.

So last year I realized that as much as the feminine part of me wants to get married and have kids/adopt some day, my ACTIONS/behaviour are of someone who really doesn't give a shit for the routine life that marriage presents. In essence, I'm someone who says I want to get married and have children, but I have nothing to show for it.



i feel the same way its like when a woman marries the society,her husband,her family just wants a woman to stay home to take care of the children and her husband,and you cant live anymore of your dreams and i hear many woman complain that they didnt get to have their dreams,i said why dont you do both? They were like my husband doesnt want me to blah di da!?yeah right your husband who says he loves you but cant support your dreams and ambition,but for how long?its time to be practical women its not like he can support you forever it doesnt work like that and its not like your children wont grow up to do chores on their own we are fighting against TIME,its how fast you can give your family their dreams and yours as well before you expire and the fastest way to get there is to WORK together,i hate it when a person cant decide on their own and keep asking for my damn advice over and over again but they wont do what they say?


Exactly this ?% You totally get it! I want the family life without forfeiting my dreams and aspirations. I want to build something of my own as well that my kids can inherit from me.

The guy whose life style really appeals to me as an alternative is Christiano Ronaldo. This guy paid off the woman, who had his first child, of her parental rights. Similar to surrogacy. Time to time you see him travelling about with his kid and just enjoying himself. Yesterday I heard that he's now asked a surrogate to have his twins. Go Ronaldo! Fulfilling dreams of having his own kids + enjoying his independent life like a true Aquarius that he is. That is ideal if I can't sustain a traditional family structure. My kid and me travelling the world.

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i totally like his idea? infact if i dont find a man interesting enough that can bring down my walls and sadly i havent found one that can excite me enough to have sex with him to impregnate me then imma go with insemination,my mother keeps on bothering me until she gave up and let me be with my idea to just do that coz my reason I dont need a man in my life and have migraine just to have a baby with him,the man that always show their interest in me dissapoints me even before they can impress me(pigs usually,cant handle their liquor thats when it gets ugly,have ulterior motives,a playboy,a mama or a papas boy ugh!)im really not lucky with men,i guess my luck in love is in the women side
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You're an Aqua with high standards....tell me something new. These people can relate:

@aquarius09 @nepteranus @bumblokatt @aerazo



We're all the same. Picky AF
"Dyingalonesquad" ?


Me included
na goofyasssquad
Shadowcat said she'll host a mafia during springbreak ?

Why did you make a new account?
i wanted to erase and never come again. when is the pring break ?


Don't leave me here!

Idk when her Spring break is

It should be soon
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june 21st-ish
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Now, that you used the word nomad, I'll tell you something I realized last year. This is the peak of self-awareness for me.

All my life I grew up hearing and seeing women getting married and having children. That was/is the thing to do. Deep down I didn't like this concept of marriage and children being be all, end all for women. I wanted to travel, go places whenever I felt like it without informing anyone. I didn't like anything that constrains me. At 22, I got into my first exclusive relationship with a really needy and clingy Libra. I felt suffocated and a part of me didn't like that I had to tell him about my whereabouts all the time or that I couldn't have solitude anymore. The moment my relationship ended, I felt free even if a part of me was sad for two yrs. I didn't get into an exclusive relationship after that. I do casual dating only.

So last year I realized that as much as the feminine part of me wants to get married and have kids/adopt some day, my ACTIONS/behaviour are of someone who really doesn't give a shit for the routine life that marriage presents. In essence, I'm someone who says I want to get married and have children, but I have nothing to show for it.


Honestly I can relate. If I wouldn't have been a young mom, I would have spent my money and energy into traveling and seeing people around the world. If I had to chose a life style in another life before modernization, I'd probably be a bohemian/nomad. lol



My dad was an Aqua and he was a nomad who travelled a lot. I did a lot of travelling in my childhood thanks to him! To this day I'm a nomad.

Wait a min! You have a child? Really?!!! How old?


I have two. Boy and a girl 9,7
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Lucky you!! Good for you! You got that aspect done and over with. With the Aries?

I'm just shocked because you don't look like a mom of a 9 or 7 yr old. You must've been young when you had them.
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Leolagna
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Hello everyone,

I am young enough at 23 well but I don't want to be single,I just want to love someone and be loved.



I wrote so much,Thank you all


You have learnt perhaps the most important thing in life at the age of 23 ...you are a motherfucking genius. So I would say you have a better chance than most of finding it.

How to find love?

Hmmm

I think you keep reminding yourself everyday ..love is important. Live life like love is more important than most of the other stuff in it.

Open your heart to every kind of love and kindness...i can't make promises but i think you will be happier than most.

Start with being kind to yourself.

Hugs 🙂 xx
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Hello Seraphlight,

Thank you for your comment really,thanks God ,finally someone understood what i really meant,also as an answer to other comments i want to write somethings.First of all i am not coming from a traditional family,my mother never impressed and tried to convinced me about having a family and kids(She got married at 28,this is late age for olden times in turkey!).I have never dreamt myself while cooking and taking care of babies,sitting at kitchen bla bla.

I am an intern doctor,I can never think to leave my job(If God gives me enough health to survive)I have always wanted to become a doctor since my childhood.Why everyone see having a partner to give up your dreams?Here we have lots of doctor couples and they do lots of amazing researches,they are going together foreign countries to add knowledge to themselves...

Having a lover is almost same thing like having a friend as,but a close,intimate friend.You don't have to give up your hopes and dreams,if two person think in same way you can .I just want LOVE.This is all.I see many female friends and guy friends of me have partners just because of loneliness or any other things(money sex statue..)So in these days i can not trust the love of people that is why i say i don't see anyone to worth.There are lots of people who has friends for only passing time,if i dont love someone i dont make friendship with her,but if i love her i would do many things for her(i have a childhood friend for whom i have been spending more than 13 years🙂 )

Here i asked the question because i kind of lost my hope,well yeah here as aquarian people all said i can be selective(in my western chart i have 5 planets vertex and part of fortuna in aqua).For a while i thought if i greedy,if i look so much things in a man,maybe that can be another problem.But i don't know how i will learn to compromise.