7 Questions To Know If A Man Really Loves You

These are 7 questions to help you determine if your mate loves you by "Relationship Expert" Michael Fiore. With soo many people on here questioning their mates love, hopefully this will help give you guys some guidance!

1. Does He say I love you?
(If he's said in some way that he likes you, adores you, loves you this means a lot to a man, that he's giving something away and making an emotional commitment. BEWARE of hearing it too soon).

2. Does he make you a priority in his life?
(You will never be his top priority but you should at least be top 3 which will shift in importance from day to day. He will show this with small gestures like starting your car, making time for you etc.)

3. Does he tell his friends about you and show you off?
(A man in love wants to show his woman off)

4. Does he care about your pleasure during sex?
(Does he ever open his eyes and look at you during sex? Or does he feel closed and disconnected)

5. Does he respect and encourage you?
(Does he value your opinion and encourage your passions?)

6. Do your friends like the way he treats you?
(Your friends are a better impartial judge of your guy than you are.)

7. Does he look at you like he??d crawl over broken glass to get in your pants?
(If he's not looking; he's not physically attracted anymore)

Score Tab😢all question worth 1pts)
7pts = He thinks you're an angel and is showing it
5-6pts = He loves you. Focus on the good.
3-4pts = Mostly
1-2pts = Douchebag. RUN! He's using you or resents you.

Posted by neuroticvirgo
These are 7 questions to help you determine if your mate loves you by "Relationship Expert" Michael Fiore. With soo many people on here questioning their mates love, hopefully this will help give you guys some guidance!

1. Does He say I love you?
(If he's said in some way that he likes you, adores you, loves you this means a lot to a man, that he's giving something away and making an emotional commitment. BEWARE of hearing it too soon).

2. Does he make you a priority in his life?
(You will never be his top priority but you should at least be top 3 which will shift in importance from day to day. He will show this with small gestures like starting your car, making time for you etc.)

3. Does he tell his friends about you and show you off?
(A man in love wants to show his woman off)

4. Does he care about your pleasure during sex?
(Does he ever open his eyes and look at you during sex? Or does he feel closed and disconnected)

5. Does he respect and encourage you?
(Does he value your opinion and encourage your passions?)

6. Do your friends like the way he treats you?
(Your friends are a better impartial judge of your guy than you are.)

7. Does he look at you like he??d crawl over broken glass to get in your pants?
(If he's not looking; he's not physically attracted anymore)

Score Tab😢all question worth 1pts)
7pts = He thinks you're an angel and is showing it
5-6pts = He loves you. Focus on the good.
3-4pts = Mostly
1-2pts = Douchebag. RUN! He's using you or resents you.

ME GUSTA !!!! =D

Posted by tiziani
In the sense that (speaking as a man and I can only speak for myself)


Wanting to show your woman off in public does not equal being in love with her.

It will be for several other reasons, most of which women may even find complimentary, but not for being in love with her.

+1

Some men in love will react the other way around, thinking "she's mine and nobody else's" and be very possessive. It's still love, though.

Tbe bull gets a 6. I couldn't answer yee to number 6 as I haven't introduced him to my friends yet. I'm super private that way though.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by neuroticvirgo
Tbe bull gets a 6. I couldn't answer yee to number 6 as I haven't introduced him to my friends yet. I'm super private that way though.

So it's a Virgo thing, but everywhere on the internet it says if a man doesn't introduce you to his friends, he's really not into you. Later I found out through my own thoughts that he's just private and wanting to build first before putting us out there...


fuk i need to stop googling, it has messed up everything for me. If he doesn't call you in two days, he's just not into you...

sh!t like that ...its' ridiculous

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Yes it is. And sometimes listening to friends' advice is even worse. YOU only know what is best for YOU and you're the one who knows the guy in the end, not the Internet nor your friends.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Galyn

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by neuroticvirgo
Tbe bull gets a 6. I couldn't answer yee to number 6 as I haven't introduced him to my friends yet. I'm super private that way though.

So it's a Virgo thing, but everywhere on the internet it says if a man doesn't introduce you to his friends, he's really not into you. Later I found out through my own thoughts that he's just private and wanting to build first before putting us out there...


fuk i need to stop googling, it has messed up everything for me. If he doesn't call you in two days, he's just not into you...

sh!t like that ...its' ridiculous

Yes it is. And sometimes listening to friends' advice is even worse. YOU only know what is best for YOU and you're the one who knows the guy in the end, not the Internet nor your friends.

You're 22 years old and you have more a sense of self than I do, sheez, ashamed😢

I am looking for answers everywhere else, but not within, smh. If you can't trust yourself, who can you trust?

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Hahaha no but I understand! Sometimes you can be perfectly fine and feel like the guy likes you, then you read something stupid in an article written by a frustrated girl who thinks all men are rubbish because she has terrible taste or very bad luck... and boom, you start doubting stuff you were so certain of. You need to be able to trust yourself, sometimes! Listening to advice is great as long as you don't follow it to a tee.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by neuroticvirgo
Tbe bull gets a 6. I couldn't answer yee to number 6 as I haven't introduced him to my friends yet. I'm super private that way though.

So it's a Virgo thing, but everywhere on the internet it says if a man doesn't introduce you to his friends, he's really not into you. Later I found out through my own thoughts that he's just private and wanting to build first before putting us out there...


fuk i need to stop googling, it has messed up everything for me. If he doesn't call you in two days, he's just not into you...

sh!t like that ...its' ridiculous

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@CC I was doing stuff like this and where 1 site would say IGNORE HIM MAKE HIM CHASE YOU the next site would say DON'T PLAY GAMES OR MAKE IT TOO HARD. One site would say LEAVE HIM HE'S A DOUCHE the next would say BE PATIENT HE'S A MAN. Everyone has opinions about how they think you should handle your situation, trying to follow all these rules will drive you batty. At the end of the day do what feels right, don't lose yourself in the process, hope it works out and accept that it might not. This is really all any of us can do.

For me though yea I tend to keep my life segmented until I feel 100% comfortable blending things. It doesn't lessen my love for the guy. I'm just not ready to integrate him just yet. It's one of those things where we HATE having people in our emotional business, and if we don't work out I don't want to spend my time explaining to my friends why he's not around anymore and convincing them I'm ok...especially when I'm probably NOT ok and DON'T want to talk about it. He met my family (by accident) and now EVERY TIME I see my mom she ask where he is...as if we're joined at the hip. What is this the Spanish Inquisition?...I don't know...he's somewhere minding his own business...PLEASE DO THE SAME.

Fiercely private

When a man loves you, he SHOWS you. Men are more action oriented creatures, so don't go by what he says if he doesn't back it up with any action. Men are simple, you'll know when he loves you or not.

you know he loves you, if he starts taking interest in knowing more about your life. he wants to learn more and more about you - your past, present, future. he cares for your happiness. you can be at your ugliest best, and he brightens up on seeing you. he just plain simple loves you. it does not matter what you wear, what you do, he wants to be around you, with you. he wants to take care of you, wants to make your worries go. a girl senses these things, and wants these things above anything else. someone who loves you just the way you are.

Shit, Galyn...are you me? LOL I swear you & I think alike and +1 on what you said to CluelessCancer. It doesnt matter what people have experienced, it was their own shit to deal and has nothing to do with you or your situation. Most relationship advice out there is pure projection of personal experiences, it doesnt make it true for every situation. And even if it was true, its your own to deal with and you'll wake to it on your own alarm clock, so continue being "Sleeping Beauty" if it works for you, FOR NOW. Yeesh

*adds Galyn to favorite list*

You can still love someone who you neither respect nor prioritize in your life (Score = 5)? People's standards are slipping.

Let's add a #8. Does he seem to be giving any effort in getting to KNOW you ————?

For example, does he initiate communication (call, text, email) regularly?Or is the female doing most of the initiation?

This is an important question to help a woman determine if a guy is interested or just stringing her along.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by RealTalk
When a man loves you, he SHOWS you. Men are more action oriented creatures, so don't go by what he says if he doesn't back it up with any action. Men are simple, you'll know when he loves you or not.

+100000000000

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^ Amen

If a man truly loves you, you don't have to ask yourself if he does...You would feel it in your your soul. You feel it in your fingers. You feel it in your chest. People around you will notice you have a glow lol. You will FEEL born again ! There's no mistaking in REAL love. You can't miss it !!

Posted by WaterCup
Shit, Galyn...are you me? LOL I swear you & I think alike and +1 on what you said to CluelessCancer. It doesnt matter what people have experienced, it was their own shit to deal and has nothing to do with you or your situation. Most relationship advice out there is pure projection of personal experiences, it doesnt make it true for every situation. And even if it was true, its your own to deal with and you'll wake to it on your own alarm clock, so continue being "Sleeping Beauty" if it works for you, FOR NOW. Yeesh

*adds Galyn to favorite list*

Maybe we have similar charts, who knows 😄

I also think some men have a real difficulty using the word LOVE (for some reason, maybe a trauma in their past, who knows) but you can still feel their love and know that they love you. And then you also have those who tell you I LOVE YOU all the time but in the end it becomes a meaningless word...

Posted by Galyn
I also think some men have a real difficulty using the word LOVE (for some reason, maybe a trauma in their past, who knows) but you can still feel their love and know that they love you. And then you also have those who tell you I LOVE YOU all the time but in the end it becomes a meaningless word...

I don't much care for the latter. I'd rather you show me you love me ALL the time and say it some of the time than the reverse.

6 points because we're still early in the relationship, despite what is felt. I'd rather be positive than not.

Well then according to this...my friend is in love with me...
I wouldnt put to much emphasis on this score sheet.

Yes I believe that some things ring true...but this can go for anybody not just love relationships (minus the jumping over glass to get in your pants and the pleasure one during sex)

0pts = you are currently stress free

^^^ LOL

+1