Posted by djbuck1
.... at the start that was not very evident. It was only after the ex decided she didn't want "the deal" she had made that things went screeching downhill.
Posted by Herself
.... the woes of single mothers having to be fathers as well.
I can't help but not feel the pity I think these mothers are looking for.
The way I see it is they picked that low life scum as their children's fathers, deal with it. Why the extra praise for their bad choices? I don't get it. When I said it, I was called a heartless bitch. I can't be the only one that thinks like this....
Posted by Herself
Regarding Father's Day yesterday... I can't tell you how many posts around the Internet I read about the woes of single mothers having to be fathers as well. I can't help but not feel the pity I think these mothers are looking for. The way I see it is they picked that low life scum as their children's fathers, deal with it. Why the extra praise for their bad choices? I don't get it. When I said it, I was called a heartless bitch. I can't be the only one that thinks like this....
wow wish I could see your world with rose colored glasses...I am a single mother and I have not looked for pity. You will never see things in a different light as you have not experienced the harsh reality that some people face. Keep living your blissful life being oblivious..
Posted by P-AngelPosted by Herself
.... the woes of single mothers having to be fathers as well.
I can't help but not feel the pity I think these mothers are looking for.
The way I see it is they picked that low life scum as their children's fathers, deal with it. Why the extra praise for their bad choices? I don't get it. When I said it, I was called a heartless bitch. I can't be the only one that thinks like this....
I agree with you, so you're not the only one.
That day was for fathers ... all mothers should have been focused on their children's daddy, regardless of their feelings.
I just said in another thread that people generally consider themselves, then others as an afterthought .... and here you found it to be true. Those woman were only considering their own feelings.
If a person breaks up with the father/mother of their children .... that doesn't mean their bad feelings for the ex is how the children are suppose to feel. The children love their parents, and a mature and responsible parent would recognize this for the sake of their childs best interest.click to expand
Posted by Neurotoxin
Sorry, but you're a self absorbed fool at best.
You're applying your idealistic views of parenthood and relationships to everyone else.
Until you live it, you have no room to criticize.
Posted by FishyPisces
The only thing that I find hypocrite is how on Fathers day single mothers get a shout out, but on Mothers day single fathers don't get a shout out.
Posted by FishyPisces
The only thing that I find hypocrite is how on Fathers day single mothers get a shout out, but on Mothers day single fathers don't get a shout out.
Posted by FishyPiscesPosted by jessgoogooPosted by FishyPisces
The only thing that I find hypocrite is how on Fathers day single mothers get a shout out, but on Mothers day single fathers don't get a shout out.
awe but they do, at least i know i give props for single men doing mommy duty as well, on both days
If you do then kudos to you.
My observations and experiences growing up are that in general, society doesn't rate single fathers the way they should.click to expand
Posted by CluelessCancer
I just want to add this is so typical of a Virgo, to judge others, yet acting as someone perfect. For instance this Virgo i know the other day was saying "I don't know why women chase men who don't want them." I looked at her incredulous, like who the fuck is she talking too? This chick all she does is chase men. She never even allows herself to be approached by a man, why it never goes well for her. It was boggling, how fucked up her brain was, but the more I see her, the less i want to engage her. I hate false prophets.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Men generally are more selfish and less oriented towards responsibility towards their kids. It's rare to find a very good dad, so i say your premise is bs, a woman has to procreate and statistically she'll end up with a moron who is unable to take care of his kids in a well rounded manner and i'm not just talking finances. For instance I think Virgo men are probably terrible fathers. They can't relate to women emotionally, how can they relate to a child? Would it be correct of me to say than don't ever date/marry a Virgo, because 9 times out of 10 they'll be horrible fathers?
Posted by starlover
My kid's dad left ~~ we had been together years. He is a nice man, a good father and respectful of me. He just needed to live alone. Now he does, we all get on very well. In fact we are good friends.
When we married, i hoped it would last. He and i grew apart.
On fathers' day i bought him wine and chocs and sent a card from myself thanking him for being a good dad. Our son baked a choc cake with *dad* on it
Its all very functional, far more than when we lived together
Posted by P-AngelPosted by Herself
.... the woes of single mothers having to be fathers as well.
I can't help but not feel the pity I think these mothers are looking for.
The way I see it is they picked that low life scum as their children's fathers, deal with it. Why the extra praise for their bad choices? I don't get it. When I said it, I was called a heartless bitch. I can't be the only one that thinks like this....
I agree with you, so you're not the only one.
That day was for fathers ... all mothers should have been focused on their children's daddy, regardless of their feelings.
I just said in another thread that people generally consider themselves, then others as an afterthought .... and here you found it to be true. Those woman were only considering their own feelings.
If a person breaks up with the father/mother of their children .... that doesn't mean their bad feelings for the ex is how the children are suppose to feel. The children love their parents, and a mature and responsible parent would recognize this for the sake of their childs best interest.click to expand
Posted by Herself
Regarding Father's Day yesterday... I can't tell you how many posts around the Internet I read about the woes of single mothers having to be fathers as well. I can't help but not feel the pity I think these mothers are looking for. The way I see it is they picked that low life scum as their children's fathers, deal with it. Why the extra praise for their bad choices? I don't get it. When I said it, I was called a heartless bitch. I can't be the only one that thinks like this....
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