Are you stalkers—

I've got one - a verrrrrry subtle one, after a kind of break-up.

Is this true—? And if so why—?

You're saying your ex virgo is stalking?
Sometimes Virgo need answers as to why it ended and if It can be fixed by what ever means. they can beat a dead horse at times. some might even go creeper with obsesstion about it. how about the full story on your situation otherwise i'm throwing broad answers.

I cyberstalk if something happens with someone and I don't get closure - I guess I try to find my own answers hidden in public Facebook or Twitter posts. But I don't contact them or follow them or hang around their houses hiding in the bushes lol.

I swear sometimes I truly cannot stand my Virgo "need for closure" attribute! However, I have never "stalked" anyone that decided to end the relationship with me though because for some reason, there was always that feeling (and signs) of it being over before it was "really" over and in the final days/weeks/months, I had already analyzed and came to a conclusion as to why things weren't working anymore. Hence no need for stalking, but still the need to sorta "close the door" on the way out via communicating it verbally where everyone is on same page with understanding that it's over. I would say that the "stalking" aspect though is a result of some other planet in the Virgo's chart that would make him/her actually act it out, coupled with the "need for closure". Some signs though just don't need the closure and I can easily see how this could frustrate a Virgo...lol! Sometimes we just don't get everything we want in life...and have to learn to move on...lol!

Mmmm interesting!

We seem to have a severe lack of understanding about what we want from eachother. He asks me what I want and I tell him but it never happens. He keeps asking for another chance and we try but there is so much mis-communication plus words don't match actions.
I blocked him coz he went silent on me, then he contacts me from a new number. Then having giving him one last chance at his request coz he said he was going to try harder - which again doesn't work out, I tell him clearly but politely please do not contact me again.
Now he appearing in my "space" every fucking day. I feel like coz he knows I dont want him to contact he now wants me to "see" him.

One time I caught him peering over his computer at me and when I saw him he ducked down lmao!

Im not sure what he is trying to achieve here.. but hey Im an Aries and very self absorbed so if anyone can enlighten me... 😄

Sorry for the bad grammar - I am English - honestly! Just a fast typer lol

Posted by dontgetmewrong
That's funny, I've always thought it was very easy for virgo to move on, or maybe it just appears that way..

Virgos tend to "internalize" their emotions very well...masking sort of thing we're sometimes really good at. So even though it may very well "appear" that we are "detached"....truth is, we're attached as all HELL! The old saying "suffer in silence" is our MOTTO that we often live by...lol! Doesn't mean that we can't detach though, we are very adept at compartmentalizing and good at separating our feelings from what MUST be done or NEED to be done to make things better mainly for ourselves and everyone involved no matter how strongly we feel for the other person - the "practical/logical aspect of us meets the "serve to make things better/perfection" side of us where our mind rules over our heart ultimately" Bottom line....when they say Virgos are the best at being "aloof" ...we take that word to heart...even if it kills us emotionally....sadly sometimes...lawd...smh...lol!!!

Posted by Lovelyisis

Posted by dontgetmewrong
That's funny, I've always thought it was very easy for virgo to move on, or maybe it just appears that way..

Virgos tend to "internalize" their emotions very well...masking sort of thing we're sometimes really good at. So even though it may very well "appear" that we are "detached"....truth is, we're attached as all HELL! The old saying "suffer in silence" is our MOTTO that we often live by...lol! Doesn't mean that we can't detach though, we are very adept at compartmentalizing and good at separating our feelings from what MUST be done or NEED to be done to make things better mainly for ourselves and everyone involved no matter how strongly we feel for the other person - the "practical/logical aspect of us meets the "serve to make things better/perfection" side of us where our mind rules over our heart ultimately" Bottom line....when they say Virgos are the best at being "aloof" ...we take that word to heart...even if it kills us emotionally....sadly sometimes...lawd...smh...lol!!!

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I have to +1 this, nicely put.

Right... The closure thing is interesting as our mis-communication has shown he doesn't understand when I end it.
Well while I have moved on then it would appear that I have to expect him to "go through his stuff" and process this until he then moves on?

Posted by AriesGirl74
Right... The closure thing is interesting as our mis-communication has shown he doesn't understand when I end it.
Well while I have moved on then it would appear that I have to expect him to "go through his stuff" and process this until he then moves on?

Right AriesGirl! See I was thinking along the same lines as Busy stated earlier....maybe his Venus in Scorpio or some Scorpio placements....lol! They don't easily walk away from something/someone they still have an interest in or become somewhat "obsessed" with.....even if it's apparently known to them that what they're in is "toxic" and "not healthy"! It could simply be him just battling these two aspects of what dominates his astrology chart of "letting go for all the right reasons" and "holding on to familiarity regardless of toxicity". Not sure since we don't have his placements....so I'm saying all of this with caution of what he "seems" like just from the info you've provided us.

Thank u lovelyisis - he has Mars in Scorp (yummy!)

He's certainly an intriguing character but I just can't give him any more chances
Hey ho!