not looking at you while talking in a group

how do you feel about this. it happened to me twice and both times i casually walked away from the group. and i am not talking about a BIG group. it was a small group and second time even three people group and the person was explaining something to us but only looking at the other person and talking. i found it very disrespectful so i just sat for a bit and then got up and left. i think it is just group ethic to look at everyone in the group when you are talking. i am not sure if i have been guilty of this myself - don't remember, but i sure did feel anger. and also what do you do in this case, do you look at the person talking who won't look at you. i tried to look outside the window and my hands while they were talking at the other person 🙂

Posted by clooneyyears
you shout... BOH-RING!

couldn't do that it was related to their project. but damn haha.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
Or say something complimentary to the conversation... if people don't invite you in, invite ya self🙂

the irony is that i had walked down to the person asking about their project (because we had to cut short our earlier conversation) and he said sure i will tell to both (another person) of you and then rest is history haha. i am beating more myself up now since i went there to continue the prior discussion.

update - we had a one to one work meeting the next day so eye contact was unavoidable 😆

Posted by dontgetmewrong
Nobody likes to feel like they're not seen or like they're dismissed. I'd be bothered too, it's rude.

What I particularly cannot stand is when you'return in a group and you ask someone a question, and they just ignore you knowing damn well that they heard you, but then answer someone else's question right after. The first time, I can forgive, second time, you're on my shit list.

In my mind, let's see if you'll get any attention from me when you need anything. I'll show you the mirror. I had a virgo mom, and learned from the best!! 🙂

and another think i hate is people who talk to you when alone, but when in a group ignore you. BULL 😐

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Posted by virgorillaa
staring while talking is something that i find really important. even if i felt like people wanna break i contact...i dont lol

anyway, if i was you i'd feel the same way. call him out not in your witty virgo way! you'd feel better and not awkward at all 🙂

or just ignore him for the rest of your life

i tried to call out by walking away 🙂. but then decided to keep it cool since next day meeting went okay.