assessing a virgo mans words- break up

this virgo man of mine has ended our relationship, in a text message he sent, he was fairly clear in his own way, he stated he feels awful this has happened, but he knows it's the right decision. He also has a dig at me for going travelling next year and that it wouldn't work cos of that anyway and how amazing and compatible we are, but its over.

Does this make any sense? i need help in analysing!

Just don't fall to his manipulation...ie. Forgo the desire to go travelling in an attempt to win him back. That's probably the ONLY thing that stands out to me that looks like he's trying to do.

He has made his decision but knows that things between you two have good possibility were it in a different context.

He doesn't want you to feel rejected/disliked, so he acknowledges the good.
Yet he must affirm his disconnection by telling you it is over.

as he did this through a text, after a year, and due to other reasons we were unable to see each other for a few weeks, do you think there's still a chance? and that i should try and see him? if not to save the relationship but for my own sanity and peace of mind. Thanks

a year? and he texts to break up? coward.

i would call him, talk things out. you owe yourself that closure. on your terms, not him texting to dump you, then going on his merry way with no feedback from you. it seems like he's manipulating you into not travelling...don't fall for it.

Here is something anyone trying to help should keep in mind.

Posted by tonyalvavirgo
Been going out with a virgo man for a year, we argued then didin't see each other for 3 weeks due to, work, moving, trips, while sorting the argument out. We arranged to meet then he said he was too busy, being angry i never replied to him, a week later its my birthday, i get a "happy birthday" message, that's it. He's not telling me what's going on or why he's not talking to me/wanting to meet up/ignoring some of my texts. It's been over a month now so i just ended it via text as he wouldn't even answer my calls..

any opinions or advice?

Whats done is done. Its over Tonya. You can't be with him anymore. 😢

A text is no form of way to break up with a woman...Whats done is done but I think you owe it to yourself to have proper closure too...but in all honesty not everytime you will get this...my advice move on try to find things that will make you happy e.g. extra ciriculum activites with gf's , a woman must be strong and be able to empower herself even when the person you love walks away without a reason.... it is very obvious he doesn't care no real man as was said before if he respects and have true found love and care for you will break up via text messaging...he is just a sisi

Jebus, what are we? In High School? I'm thinking he did you a big ol' favor tonya. Cripes.

Thank you Jason for posting that ... it looks like nobody except you kept that in mind, and repsonded here as if this guy was all in the wrong.


She ignores him at her convenience .. and she broke up with him via text ........ gooses and ganders, you know



Tonya, you participate in this game with him, by treating him the same way he treats you ... how dare you come in here acting like a victim, and trying to make people think you are innocent in this.

thanks to those who gave useful advice haha..