Can I get some insight on a pisces/virgo relation?

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I met a virgo online. We had been texting for two weeks before he asked for us to meet. We met and chit chatted a little. He leaned over and kissed me. I asked him if that meant he liked me and he said yes. We talked some more and started making out. We ended up where he was leaning back with me laying on his chest. He stroked my arm with one hand and had the other arm around me. He even kissed me on my head. All the while he talked about his sport activities, work, and family. This meeting was supposed to be a short "hello, whats up" but ended up being a four hour meeting. We both knew he had to work in the morning, and he even told me to be on time because he couldnt stay out late. Since then he wont text for two or three days. I understand that virgos are into their own routine which he has with work, sports,etc. And I also know that they take their sweet time when deciding if they want to have a serious relationship or not. He told me beforehand that he doesnt like games, and that he is straight up and wants a girl to be straight up with him, too. Me being a pisces, I really want to start a serious relationship with this guy. But I know I cannot push it, because it can drive him away. My question is, should I give him lots of space and see if he asks me out? I just want to know if he is interested. Would he have not treated me like he did if he had no intentions of building something here? I just want to know is this normal behavior for virgo men? I would like advice because I really like him, but im still not sure if he likes me? How would I know? We have texted here and there, but the last time I saw him was two weeks ago.
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Posted by paranormalbadgirl

I just want to know if he is interested. Would he have not treated me like he did if he had no intentions of building something here? I just want to know is this normal behavior for virgo men? I would like advice because I really like him, but im still not sure if he likes me? How would I know? We have texted here and there, but the last time I saw him was two weeks ago.






The last time you saw him was 2 weeks ago, or the ONLY time you saw him was 2 weeks ago?

I think it's an illogical assumption to think that him cuddling you would equate to him wanting to build a relationship with you ... however, I do find it odd that he even did that. You said he was talking about his work and family and sports, and not about the two of you ...

why would he cuddle you to talk to you about his work .. none of it makes sense. Something must be missing here .... it seems like you are asking for some insight without giving enough information.
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yes, he will wait two or three days before texting me. If i had my way i would text him every day through out. But according to what i have read about virgo men, you cannot smother them. And that I cant constantly ask him for help for they like people who are independent. Yes, the last time I saw him was two weeks ago. As far as I know, he is constantly busy with work, house projects, and daily exercise routine. I just dont know. He is hard to figure out. He hasnt mentioned getting together again, yet he will text me to be careful (as my car was stolen a week ago) and he has been giving me leads to people who are selling cars. Should I give it more time? If i wait a month and he still hasnt asked me to get together with him, should I give an untimatum? Either he tells me where I stand, or I move on but still offer my friendship. I really like him and I can easily adapt to his ways, as long as I know he is in to me.
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Posted by strawberrybaby2241

... does the texting tells you anything positive relationship wise—?







Virgo's rarely, if ever, give off positive clues, relationship wise ... in fact, it's typical for the Virgo to leave the other feeling dejected.


Such as we see here with this situation ... this is a very typical topic, and the majority of women are left feeling hopeless about relationship potential, rather than hopeful.
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Posted by paranormalbadgirl

yes, he will wait two or three days before texting me.





that could be good or bad .. depending on what he talks about when he's texting you.

Posted by paranormalbadgirl

according to what i have read about virgo men, you cannot smother them. And that I cant constantly ask him for help for they like people who are independent.





Are you finding yourself asking people for assistance? What did you mean by constantly asking for help?

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He is hard to figure out. He hasnt mentioned getting together again ...

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Virgos are simple .. so simple that to the Pisces it will seem complex because our minds don't work so efficiently. Your Piscean mind is looking for what you have to manuever around, so his steadiness will appear confusing.

If he his contacting you has slowed down, and he hasn't mentioned getting together again, then you have to take the initiative and ask him out. He might actually be waiting to see if you are confident enough in your independence to take the lead.

Virgo are the followers in a relationship, not the leaders ... so, try to take the lead and see what his reaction is.
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strawberry, I have told him that I would like to date, but hopefully leading into something more. I have asked his what exactly is he looking for. Is he looking for just dating, a relationship, a fling, a friendship, etc. His only answer was "I want it all" so that can mean anything right? I told him if we were cool, and he said, yes. I told him that if he ever has second thoughts about me to let me know, and that im a big girl I can handle it. I also said I dont want him to waste his time, nor do I want to waste mine. He agreed. Besides him talking about his work, sports, family, he told me that I would look good in a dress which shows and emphasizes my bust. He told me to continue with my workouts. That's all I can remember of him talking about anything that has to do (if that) with a continuing relationship. It seems like hes not really trying. Im not really getting anything. Dont know if he wants to continue, or stop, or what? Angel, I havent been asking anyone for assistance. What i meant by that was, I havent been texting him for every little thing that happens to me. But what do you think I can do meanwhile? Should I put him in the back of my mind and do my own thing? Perhaps when he feels like it, he will text me? and if he does should i just keep it casual?
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Angel, I havent been asking anyone for assistance. What i meant by that was, I havent been texting him for every little thing that happens to me. But what do you think I can do meanwhile? Should I put him in the back of my mind and do my own thing? Perhaps when he feels like it, he will text me? and if he does should i just keep it casual?






No, you should do the opposite. What you are meaning, if I'm understanding this correctly, is for you to let him lead you, while you sit in waiting for him to decide whether he wants to ask you out ..... and I'm proposing the exact opposite.

Tell him you are going to (restaurant name) ... and you would like for him to join you. give him date and time, and then ask him if he wants you to pick him up or meet you there.


Take charge of the situation ....
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I told him that if he ever has second thoughts about me to let me know, and that im a big girl I can handle it. I also said I dont want him to waste his time, nor do I want to waste mine. He agreed. Besides him talking about his work, sports, family, he told me that I would look good in a dress which shows and emphasizes my bust. He told me to continue with my workouts.







I'm afraid you have given him the exact opposite impression than what you should have. By telling him that he can have second thoughts about you, is equivalent to telling him you aren't that into him because he can walk away at any time .. you are cool either way.

And you can't allow a man to be chauvenistic ... and it sounds like it's in his nature if he's telling you to work out and how your bust would look in certain clothes.

Judging by him telling you those things ..... he's a tosser, not a keeper.
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Angel, I thought that virgos give opinions like that about working out, etc. because they want one to better themselves. I found this guy on a dating website. He told me he hasnt had a gf for over a year. He gave me his number to text him after chatting on line for a while. I read that they have a routine. That somewhere along the line they have to accomodate people into their busy schedule. Ive been patient. I have showed independence. I have been affectionate. I have only been with him only once. Its been two weeks and he hasnt mentioned another get together. When he mentioned taking things slow, he wasnt kidding.
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I will take the initiative. He told me he had no problem me contacting him. If he did he would tell me. I will ask him out. The worse thing he can say is "no" or make an excuse that he will be busy. If this happens Im going to tell him that I like him, and that I wished we could hang out, but if its not his thing I will wish him luck, and if he ever wants to chat or go out, he will know where to find me. If its not too late, that is.
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Posted by zeoblade
dont assume with a virgo, be direct and just ask




exactly.

earth signs share "plainness" in this regard. you want me to know how you feel, tell me. you want to ask me out, ask me. give it to me straight, without all the fluff and bullshit.

this does not mean the earth sign will share your feelings or that we even feel like going out. so you may not get an immediate reciprocation of your feelings or request to go out. it does however let us know where you stand and if we're feeling you or don't have other shit going on, we'll behave accordingly. in essence, it doesn't hurt to be direct.

@OP, with that said, you also should not be over the top. you said that you were interested in pursuing a "serious relationship" with him. "serious?" does he even know your last name? you could sooooo be a crackhead. point being, just because you're direct, doesn't mean you need to lay it on thick. if you're too sappy with it early on, the earth sign will sense dis-ingeniousness in you and by virtue of that, you may not get a positive response.

overall, just be yourself and ask for what you want...in a non-annoying/needy/manipulative way.

as for THIS virgo, he's not calling you for 2-3 days? he either isn't sure if you're interested or more likely, he's not interested.

from my experience with virgo males, if they like you, if they want to spend time with you, they will be attentive and available.