Can Virgo men like someone for long & r they shy?

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He has a Sun/Mercury/Venus/Mars in Virgo, Scorpio rising, Moon in Capricorn. I'm a Sun/Venus Capricorn, Taurus rising, Moon/Mars Aries, Mercury in Aquarius.

Ok, I met him about 2 years ago at a school camp. He first caught my attention when I realised that whenever I was surveying the crowd, he's already have his eyes on me. This happened a couple of times so it was hard to ignore. And when our eyes locked, he'd maintain it for abit before looking away. I have to say, I didnt find myself very attractive-looking during this camp, I had no makeup on and wasn't at my best-dressed and looked really tired some days. Whenever we found ourselves standing in the same places, he'd be standing real close to me I never dared look at him. And whenever he left places I was at, he would turn around to second glance. But, at times, whenever I said hi to him he wouldnt respond. Or like once about a month after we met at the camp, I approached him to get him to join an activity I needed names for, he sort of rejected me by saying he was already a member.. zz. And when we happened to be clubbing at the same place once or twice, once he found himself dancing really near me, he immediately stopped and left the place. =/

And then there was this incident where he was really helpful. Basically, we were both alone in the corridor, not talking. He came and sat behind me while I was having my breakfast (this was at the camp), then one of my friends asked me to go get a few chairs. I got up to get them, and immediately this Virgo dude was all rushing forward to hold the door open and putting together all the chairs that I ended up carrying only one. So I did try to have a (really lame) conversation with him, asking him if he just arrived etc. and, he was really really quiet and subdued, didnt answer much. I thanked him and he didnt say anything.

I found him interesting, added him on facebook...and zilch, no interactions nothing. I thought at least he'd have tried something if he were interested. After awhile I deleted him off it. Until this year I met him again in the corridor, he was hanging around the place longer than usual and did turn back to look after he left... =/

He's in the popular crowd, is very into music/dance/arts and seems pretty extroverted. very intelligent. but ive heard from friends he's very quiet at times and does seem pretty shy when he gets too much attention from girls at any one time. what do you think?
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@virg_goki: yup I suspected it was a mastered trait/facade.

@moonman: I don't remember details, I recorded them down. There's such a thing called a personal diary these days. We were friends on Facebook for awhile So of course I do know his birthday. And there are thousands of freenatal chart things out there that can give anyone the information I've written down. I'm sure you've heard of them. I don't need to confide my level of interest, or lack thereof, in this guy to a stranger over the net. There is nothing wrong in being curious abt how someone feels about you.
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This sounds a lot like my experience with a Virgo a few years ago. Would walk by and keep his gaze focused on me the entire time. Would talk to someone, even a girl, and look at me while talking. Never got too close, but never too far at all. Then after months of us just looking at each-other he came out of class and asked my friend and I could one of us get him some tissue since the ladies restroom was right there. Of course, I wasn't getting up lol j/k, but she did and I tried to start a lame convo when she left and he didn't have much to say.

I've ran into him twice over the years, and still the stares.

I don't know what it is, maybe these type of Virgos want you to come to them??
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Possibly gay or just not into you....Do yourself a big big favor, pay attention to men whose displaying overt interest in you and/or returning interest in you, so far you've got nothing but a few brief stare downs and he's done zero per my understanding from you to acknowledge you as someone he's potentially into/attracted to, this dating thing goes so much smoother and easier when a man is displaying/demonstrating a high level of interest. It's so easy to misread a man, an over active imagination coupled with liking someone can really make a woman feel something is there when there is really is nothing there.
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Well, then, you need more than a birthday to get that info, u need place of birth and time. You need acurate birth time if you want the moon sign . . . I just think the comments you have made are too ambiguous and I'm having trouble with your integrity.


You also need birth time to establish the ascendant (there's a little more leeway with the moon sign, depending), so I wondered myself right off how she arrived at this information, and her response, quite frankly, seemed defensive and tart . . . which causes me to question her integrity likewise. Why the attitude over a couple harmless questions?

Evecap: I don't need to confide my level of interest, or lack thereof, in this guy to a stranger over the net.
Um, then why on Earth are you on DXP, "confiding" your level of interest in this guy to countless strangers over the Net?

Evecap: "what do you think?"
I think you sound like a lot like TL88 and Onix. Three times charm?
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Well, then, you need more than a birthday to get that info, u need place of birth and time. You need acurate birth time if you want the moon sign . . . I just think the comments you have made are too ambiguous and I'm having trouble with your integrity.


You also need birth time to establish the ascendant (there's a little more leeway with the moon sign, depending), so I wondered myself right off how she arrived at this information, and her response, quite frankly, seemed defensive and tart . . . which causes me to question her integrity likewise. Why the attitude over a couple harmless questions?

Evecap: I don't need to confide my level of interest, or lack thereof, in this guy to a stranger over the net.
Um, then why on Earth are you on DXP, "confiding" your level of interest in this guy to countless strangers over the Net?

Evecap: "what do you think?"
I think you sound like a lot like TL88 and Onix. Three times charm?
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LOL! You are still after 'What do u think?' hunt! 😄
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"Can Virgo men like someone for long & r they shy?"

Hi :-) To answer your questions: YES and YES!

1. My current boyfriend is a Virgo - we've been together over a year now. But there are two Virgos from my very distant past - we're talking 17 years and 12 years, respectively - who are still emotionally connected to me. So: yes, Virgo men can like someone for a VERY long time, even after the relationship is over.

2. I am generalizing but most Virgos I know, myself included, are quite shy and reserved. Even if we SEEM extroverted and sociable, the truth is that inside we are quite introverted. My boyfriend was assertive and chatty with me the first few times we met, but as I got to know him over time, I see that he is really quiet and picky about the company he keeps - like me, he prefers to either stay home or at most socialize with a small group of friends. We don't enjoy going to loud clubs where you have to yell at each toher to talk! 😉 Might sound boring to other signs but...I like him just the way he is.
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@moonman and stringsattached: let's see, gotta be two of the rudest people i've met on this site. let me get a few things off my chest.

so, instead of answering my question, the both of you came here to question my "integrity" based off what? a few paragraphs on a website? You think you are so above me you can actually make deductions about my "integrity" when you've never met me before? And then proceed to call me "defensive" Puh-lease. What makes you think anyone on this net owes you their "integrit"? the both are you are what, THE authority on integrity? gimme a break.

And in what ways have you attempted to answer the question? Maybe not from a horoscope pov - i concede that birth times have to be really accurate for an accurate chart and by no means do i have an accurate time here - but from a man's pov? NOTHING. and then moonman, proceeding to declare your affections for some lady on MY thread. go start your own thread to do so. no wonder your still single. at your age, im pretty sure your extremely out of touch with how the "youngens" work these days. and stringsattached: frankly, no one cares about what you think.

trolltastic. and insulting.
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Posted by tiki33
Possibly gay or just not into you....Do yourself a big big favor, pay attention to men whose displaying overt interest in you and/or returning interest in you, so far you've got nothing but a few brief stare downs and he's done zero per my understanding from you to acknowledge you as someone he's potentially into/attracted to, this dating thing goes so much smoother and easier when a man is displaying/demonstrating a high level of interest. It's so easy to misread a man, an over active imagination coupled with liking someone can really make a woman feel something is there when there is really is nothing there.



thanks for the answer. EXACTLY! it goes so much better if the other person is demonstrating a high level of interest. i totally agree, something i've been learning the past few years. thanks again!
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Posted by evecap
@moonman and stringsattached: let's see, gotta be two of the rudest people i've met on this site.



Seriously, get over yourself. You come on a Virgo board . . . where some of us have been "living" comfortably for years, pose a question as a newbie that's rife with inconsistencies and apparent fabrications (like, stating his moon sign and ascendant when you don't even know his birth time) and get spitefully rude with Moon Man for simply noting this and questioning your veracity.

Just so happens, Eve, that several imposters have taken some of us for a ride before. As a result, we're doubly wary about bothering to waste our time by spending untold moments/hours/weeks trying to "help" some new person who's story doesn't line up . . . . only to discover down the road that they're a total fraud with a fabricated tale who gets a rush off of stringing along innocent bystanders. We don't get it. Since your post contained blatant contradictions, it rang of pretension . . . or at the least fell suspect. (It didn't help matters any that your perspective painted you as a rather juvenile drama queen.)

This isn't the Pisces board where they're all into that . . . or the Leo board where, I'm guessing, they can't get enough drama. We're scrutinizers, analyzers, forensic experts, and pathological specialists, if you will. Doesn't sound right, it ain't right. We're happy to help the needy but have no use for con artists. So, pardon us if your post--the one where you listed two aspects of his "natal chart" as if they were the gospel truth when there's nothing to back them whatsoever--made you look like a phony. Our reaction was typical Virgo. If you can't handle that, you need to throw the towel in on your love interest before you take another step; he so much as catches a hint of your "harmless" coloring of the truth and you're history.

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Just think of the favor we've done you. You're hitting up true Virgos, they give you a taste of true Virgo, and you've got nothing good to say about them as a result. The funny thing is, your love interest may have done EXACTLY THE SAME THING TO YOU were he in our shoes. We're all about VERACITY, evecap, and your tale was found conspicuously wanting. As such, it stoked our vigilante fires . . . another inbred characteristic of the very wary, watchful analyst you find yourself attracted to. Just sayin'.

Any more questions about Virgos?

Fondly,
StringsAttached

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n, you put it in overdrive and hit the nail on the head!! Ditto on everything! She comes on this forum with an "innocent" pretext and heads for the jugular before our ink's even dry! This is all the more fishy to me. Where's the nasty attitude coming from? Is it any wonder her Virgo interest clearly wants nothing to do with her?

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Posted by evecap
no wonder your still single.


Can you imagine such a judgmental retort from someone who can't capture her interest's interest for love or money?

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Posted by evecap
. . . at your age, im pretty sure your extremely out of touch with how the "youngens" work these days.
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So . . . the young'uns . . . come on Internet forums to find out what to do since they're "working" stuff so successfully these days. . . and throw pie in the face of seasoned, resourceful respondents who take issue with the young'uns' obvious lack of honesty. On a VIRGO forum, nonetheless. **Scratching my head on that one**

Welcome to the Wonderful World of Virgos, evecap. You're gonna love us.
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Inana, he stares because we Caps are irresistible 🙂



-Taurus rising. Taurs men stare..like a bull ready to charge in...LOL
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Omg, their stare is just as intense as a Scorpios stare. I still remember it from a Taurus I use to work with. He saw me for the first time and it almost looked like he was looking straight through me he stared so hard.

Yall know what though? I went to a event about a month and a half ago and Tyrese(Cap) performed. In his opening he did this thing where he walked from one side of the stage to the next and just stared at the audience. When he got to the side I was on his stare towards my direction was so darn intense I had to look away LoL.

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^ I've not met Taurus menbut heard they are pretty wonderful , how are they like? I find the Virgo/Scorpio stares the most intense. Like they can see straight through you. Shudders.
Inana: do you Just find stares from the earth signs intense?

27 replies. Only 13 appearing on my page, 14 from the two snotty rude sycophants. Funnyhow two adults can be so upset by a thread n some random stranger on the forum they have to resort to so much of nasty talk. Yawns. Ignorance isbliss!😄
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^ I've not met Taurus menbut heard they are pretty wonderful , how are they like? I find the Virgo/Scorpio stares the most intense. Like they can see straight through you. Shudders.
Inana: do you Just find stares from the earth signs intense?

27 replies. Only 13 appearing on my page, 14 from the two snotty rude sycophants. Funnyhow two adults can be so upset by a thread n some random stranger on the forum they have to resort to so much of nasty talk. Yawns. Ignorance isbliss!😄



Taurus guys are nice as friends. I've never dated one, just had a a few attracted to me.

Virgos have a "I want you" stare. The Virgo I liked was so darn handsome *sigh* but his stare wasn't as intense and I wasn't afraid to look back at him. Taurus stare is like they are saying "You're mine" or at-least that's what I picked up from the knuckle-head staring at me. It's possessive. Scorpio's undress you with their eyes, which is fun lol. Too bad I interrupted him. I tried for weeks to try to get him to look at me like that again lol.

I've never had a Capricorn stare directly at me. If it was anything like Tyrese I wouldn't be able to handle it.
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Posted by evecap
27 replies. Only 13 appearing on my page, 14 from the two snotty rude sycophants. Funnyhow two adults can be so upset by a thread n some random stranger on the forum they have to resort to so much of nasty talk.


Quite the contrary. You're one of the most spiteful, misaligned people I've ever encountered on DXP, evecap. Two people merely question the veracity of your story because of blaring inconsistencies and you've all but lit the stake fires underneath them.

Upset by your thread? Hardly. I'm humoring myself.

And sycophant? Please . . . do consult a dictionary next time. A sycophant is someone who surreptitiously flatters in order to reap gain. A kowtow. Brown-noser. You've definitely got me mixed up with someone else!

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LOL @ capbaby who doesn't miss a lick in the conversation after I've "outed" evecap/virg_goki/20 other usernames. 😄



lol thanks mom... what have i done to deserve domestic punishment
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just ignore him, virg_goki. seriously what a troll. and who cares if he's outed anyone, his opinions are invalid anyway.

and thanks for your first post 🙂
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Virg_goki/evecap having conversations with himself again. ?? Or was that just a wormhole in the DXP machine?
Btw, I'm so female. Did the lady's body and the pink and lavendar in my avatar not give it away?

And FWIW, REPLYING TO SOMEONE'S POST/THREAD--WHETHER THEY LIKE YOUR ANSWER OR NOT--DOES NOT MAKE ONE A TROLL. IT MAKES ONE A DXP POSTER.

Oh Venuuuuuuusiannnnn . . . we've got another offendee, it looks like! 😛