Capricorn as romantic partner: Experiences

I have been dating a really cute Virgo girl for the past two months and this week we finally turned it into something official for the outside world though we have been behaving like a couple for a while now. For the sake of my curiosity and entertainment of others I would like to hear your stories.

Any juicy stories you want to share? Eternal heartache? Or potential pitfalls I should be aware of. 😛

P.s. I am a Cap, chart is in profile but I am looking for general experiences of you people. 🙂

Yes, ask away.

Was with a Cap for 3 years..engaged for one. It ended badly but to this day it's the best relationship I've been in...on a lot of levels.

He had Cap Sun, Venus Sagittarius, Mars Aries like you have..

Taurus Moon though.

Hey Damnata, care to tell us what happened that made it end?

And what made it so great?

With mine I feel less raw passion than I felt with other women. It was even a bit awkward at first. She didn't know what my deal was and I couldn't read her either. So we were both hesitant at first. I am usually really good at reading women, Cancer Moon, but she was a puzzle at first.
It can be hard to make her share her innermost feelings. But I am getting there.
I really like how it goes fast and slow at the same time and that I can talk about anything with her. Even the difficult stuff that might hurt the other person.

And she is a great deal of fun. 🙂

Posted by CluelessCancer
I don't know you that well, but you seem like a great guy, that cancer moon serves you well, so lucky her!

Cancer Moon, Venus in Sag; Understand women and party like you just don't care! 😛

i've found caps attractive and dated one... but we never even got past holding hands. i just couldn't find that intense, delicious connection with caps as i have in water signs, generally. i would say though when i do get settled down, i feel it would be with a capricorn but more out of stability than out of passion.

It ended due to his cheating. In his defense, he told me the same week he started cheating so he didn't keep at it for long. No ill feelings towards him though.

It was my first serious relationship...us against the world type of thing. We grew up together, experienced sex for the first time together..we did a lot of crazy shit. The passion was out of this world..passion/intensity.

Only time in my life until now I felt understood without saying a word, felt at peace, felt comforted. Same ideals in life, same wavelength. It all developped extremely naturally. The awkwardness also...but somehow it made us feel even more genuine through that...it didn't feel like a game, it didn't feel like dating. It felt like one of those situations in primary school when you pass a note with "do you like me? yes/no..will you be my girlfriend?"..followed by both of us laughing.

I have a lot of great memories...too hard to narrow it down.

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Posted by bloodflood
i've found caps attractive and dated one... but we never even got past holding hands. i just couldn't find that intense, delicious connection with caps as i have in water signs, generally. i would say though when i do get settled down, i feel it would be with a capricorn but more out of stability than out of passion.

Caps with water/fire moon signs seem ridiculously passionate tho...

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i don't see it... my close cap friend has a scorp moon and he just ends up lecturing me like he's my dad ALL THE TIME.

I'm currently in a relationship with a capricorn guy. It is amazing, I love capricorn both man & woman. All my favorite people are capricorns, you are just so amazing!

I love my boyfriend verY much. He is amazing and unique, dedicated and committed to the relationship. He is also very caring and understanding with me.

And I'm glad to have him in my life 🙂 I'm a pisces by the way

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Y DO YOU DISAPPOINT?

I was waiting for a whole novel from you 😄

I dated 2 Capricorns,such a great connection with both of them!
Awkward moments in first dates(was like them hurry up,somewhere,me holding back a bit).Holding back from my part was because my way of analyzing everything and he took that as a bit of rejection.Uff!
The first Cap ,still in my mind and heart,and probably will be there for quite a long time.
The second Cap,i think/hope we broke up,few days ago(he drinks quite a bit and he is quite pessimistic;also he said he loves me at the second date,which i dont believe it).
I think to be with a Virgo ,there needs to be respect of both sides,lots of fun(which is easy between both of signs),loyalty,trust.Old fashion is very trendy with virgo girls(open the door,hold her hand,listen what she says,flowers(something unique,not like roses,maybe lilly of the valley?-)useful gifts(pens,agendas?),poems,sending her your favourite music.Virgo is very romantic sign,but it takes a bit of time to open up!
I hope you will be together for long long time,iknow there is such a strong conection between a Virgo and a Cap( kind of out of this world-).

As Cowpuncher said- when a Capman kiss a Virgo girl is like all her defensive walls fall down instantly( she becomes putty,indeed in her man arms).She doesnt kiss men,easily(a kiss is truly something special for her with a lot of meaning).
Good luck!!

HUMPH!

Posted by TigerCap
I have been dating a really cute Virgo girl for the past two months and this week we finally turned it into something official for the outside world though we have been behaving like a couple for a while now. For the sake of my curiosity and entertainment of others I would like to hear your stories.

Any juicy stories you want to share? Eternal heartache? Or potential pitfalls I should be aware of. 😛

P.s. I am a Cap, chart is in profile but I am looking for general experiences of you people. 🙂

IMO...Virgo female and Cap male are better than Virgo male/Cap female.

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Posted by Damnata
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Y DO YOU DISAPPOINT?

I was waiting for a whole novel from you 😄

*SPANK* Don't make me go all Saturnian Disciplinarian on you here....

If Tigercap wants a novel, I'll write a novel, it's his thread :p Been busy with work 24/7 this week though, so what I posted above is all I had time for. Deal!

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Hahaha, I like the wall of text approach. MOAR! 😛

Spanking and biteing is quite common for Cap men??I heard that several times from both Caps,jokingly.
I think bottom is high up on the likey list,after brain of course!

Yes on the spanking and biting and bruising..rough play in the sheets is encouraged.

IME

For me Caps are the best. You guys will have alot to talk about. Share many interests and your perceptions will be enough dissimilar that it will add a unique perspective you wouldn't have thought about.

You both should enjoy doing things for each and fights should only a short while as they get in the way of the fun you to will have together.

all in all if your new Virgo is at all a typical virgo you are in for one of the best relationships possible.

Careful though these Cap Virgo relationships will stay with you if you two break up.

Good Luck.

Yes,when a relationship with a Cap ,breaks ,it does hunt you,quite a bit of time!
I hope i dont ever see my ex Cap, because i might go and kiss him ,just for the sake of old good times-)!

My sisters Virgo friend is with a Cap male. She told my sister that sometimes she wakes up and pinches herself to make sure it's real. He loves her a whole lot aswell. They make a very nice couple from what I see.

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Thats so sweet!!my friends brother,a Cap man asked his Virgo gf to marry him,in two months time!That was quick,they have a small ,cute as a button child,now-).

I'm happy for you TigerCap!

My relationship with a virgo was short lived. However, the fault was all mine. I was was too young to appreciate it. The connection was too strong, it scared me and I ran. Chalk that mistake up to immaturity. 🙂

Posted by xvll27
Sensational and you know it buddy 😛
Sorry for interruption at your thread 🙂

Exactly and no problem. 😉 High Five!

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Posted by CluelessCancer
I don't know you that well, but you seem like a great guy, that cancer moon serves you well, so lucky her!

Cancer Moon, Venus in Sag; Understand women and party like you just don't care! 😛

fun. fun. fun. wags eyebrows.
you forgot wears "cashmere" sweaters.

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Only because I didn't realize yet how good Alpaca can be... and those are usually hideous. 😆
Cancer Moon can be difficult to deal with in the beginning but it has a lot of really good sides when you get more confident.

Thanks everyone. 🙂

Well it seems I am on the right track then.
I love cooking and that's what I have been doing a lot for her. It keeps me inspired to keep trying new stuff as well.

And in bed? Well, let's just say that I am pretty sure I am a hell of a lot kinkier than she is but since we are both very open in talking about what we like, dislike and listen carefully she is slowly but surely following my lead. She actually prefers it when I do so.
Biting, spanking and other light torture...

Most of the stories thus far told me:
- Deep connection
- Lots of similar interests

- Some guys are jerks and cheat
- Sometimes love is scary
- If it ever ends it will scorch a crater in your heart for a long time...

I was with a Cap guy for about a year once. He was a good guy. We had a good solid connection, a lot in common, and it was generally easy flowing. Not much in the way of passion though. We functioned more like really good friends with additional benefits. And sometimes he could be a little selfish with those benefits... and a bit of a philanderer.

The separation was pretty amicable. No major dramas. We've managed to maintain a casual friendship since then albeit with a lot of teasing.

Congratz to you! Enjoy TigerCap🙂

enthrallng intro.i got lost for a minute but the details come 2gether now

Posted by cowpuncher
Virgals aren't all that hard to figure out and keep happy as long as you are willing to just try.

Posted by cowpuncher
They can have a lot of mischief and humor under that cool exterior.

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Mercury influence. Something we have in common with our Gemini cousins. 😈

@ Cowpuncher (lol I almost typed cowpounder and caught it..)

I note:

1.) You know the female Virgo species as well as I know the Male Virgo species. Don't know your background with one, but I venture to say it was a LTR to come up with such great detail. Mine was life long. Not to mention the handful of male virgo's in my life.

2.) For a female who feels Valentines Day is as fake as half the orgasms women in the world fake, I am most impressed with the "from the heart hand made Valentine" which dissuades the sentiments that someone else wrote and making it your own. Very impressed.

3.) I hope to God I don't end up with a man who cooks (although it would be a grand treat from time to time), because the way I cook it would be a Hells Kitchen kinda thing..lol. More men should learn how to cook..it's easier than draining a transmission pan and changing the seal & filter. 😉

@ Tiger Cap...didn't mean to derail, was endorsing cow's knowledge.

You sound happy, I wish you much luck!

I could kiss you,platonically,of course,Cowpuncher!(you said it so well about virgo girls).
What about the badpoints?(i presume there are quite a few,if you dont have a queen Virgo in your kingdom,now-).I dont want to sound off topic,but iam curious whats anoying Caps about Virgos?I went out with few Caps(only one date), but with 2 of them ,more dates and they left quite a mark in my heart!One very reserved,one very extrovert!both very touchy!
But what you said,you nail it!about baking too(i love that)!

Thank you!
The Cap iam talking now,was married for 10 years,10 years ago also with a Cap woman(she cheated on him).He is 42 y/o,he is very good person,big heart,but he got tipsy both times when we saw eachother(so i think we will be just friends).The funny stuff is i lost my boot heel in the snow and he managed to fix it,in a bar,even if he was tipsy!-).
Iam a bit of iceberg with him,now,but i cant help it!
He appopogies a lot,but iam a bit of health nut,him not!Beer and cigarretes are no no for me,yes-yes for him-))

Is so hard to find Caps,honestly!
He was drinking like 3 beers and got tipsy!My brother said ,maybe he was just nervous,thats why he drank 3 beers in 3 hours!-).And smokes like one package of 20 cigarretes/daily(iam nagging,isnt?)
Yes,he has a demanding job,in Army,working in shifts(actually his last shift was for 24 h,continuously).He sleeps now ,iam sure!
He said from beggining to not try to change him,so iam not.
His life/his choices!
Good luck ,Cowpuncher with Virgo girl!

Oh the achilles heel of relationships for Virgos and Caps and vice versa the dynamic is uncanny.

Only we in these signs will know.

The rest can only watch from the outside and scratch their head and ask the immortal question. "Huh?"

Now I know other signs have their equivalent partner dynamics but if you ever want to shut a Virgo up or humble a cap its best to involve one these signs as we always got each others' number.

*wink* *wink*

Yes,he said when appologised ,his limit is 3 beers!
Why he want it to see if is still the same,on the second date, does confuse me!-)
Will see!though he wrote me ,5 poems in 2days!(not copied ,made by him,from our story)!
Oh,dont tell me about Virgo girls,we are funny creatures-i gave him 2 tea bags from the best tea in the world,at the second date,as a gift!haha
good luck with the girl,she likes you!

Also, to the first Cap i gave him some bio letucce from my own garden!is true after he insisted so much,making fun of me,not keeping promises!
So there you go,3 letucces in a plastic bag,on the bus,going in downtown as a gift!
We broke up in same day!maybe he didnt aprecciated the gift,so much-)).No,the reason was a different one..

Posted by cowpuncher
3) Sometimes I can share my kitchen, and sometimes I can't. It really depends on the lady, and whether or not she's as good in the kitchen as me. Sometimes the arrangement has been she makes sides, I make the main course, with a few. It all depends, what works with one won't necessarily work with another. Where *I* would go Gordon Ramsay on someone is with the grill. The grills (I have 6), and the firepit, are MY domain. If I ever met a woman who could keep up with me on a grill I'd either propose on the spot, or have a stroke. My achilles heel is baking though, I can't ba

That^^^reminds me of something. Another Virgo (very good male friend of mine) and I whipped up a Thanksgiving feast one year. He is the only one I allow in my kitchen with me.. Talk about in sync...
people were just amazed at how well we worked together preparing this feast. The grill..he's a master..he usually throws a huge end of summer feast from the grill. (I stay in his kitchen and do my thing..and I'm the only friend allowed in there)..it's an understanding to say the least!!

Posted by cowpuncher
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My achilles heel is baking though, I can't bake to save my life. I learned to cook because mom is a great cook, and moving away as a young goat... hot dogs, ramen, and carryout got really old really fast.

If Tigercap makes his girl a Valentine's card from scratch... I guarantee great results. 🙂 I've also found that most of my Virgals like dark chocolate if they like chocolate at all (some didn't). Hope it helps you man, but it sounds like you have things well in hand so i bet you don't need the help in the first place!

I am master at baking breads. Especially around the holidays. It's a lot of work..but so worth it! I am teaching my son the basics..but I believe when he goes throught the ramen, mac & cheese phase after a while..he may pay closer attention. We shall see.

Posted by cowpuncher
Congrats man. Virgals are awesome 🙂

Do little things for her, and old fashioned things. Lots of women claim the love that sort of thing (opening doors, being good about saying please/thank you, etc) but with Virgals it's especially appreciated, and important I've found.

If you're a good enough kisser you can reduce a Virgal to being putty in your hands, on command, any time.

If you haven't yet, cook for her. My Virgals always loved that, and they will reach a point when they are comfortable where they start showing up early as possible without being inappropriate, so that they can watch you cook. They get as much (and maybe more) pleasure out of watching you cook for them as actually eating the dinner.

Good luck! Cap male + Virgal is a fine match.

I need to find me a Virgo woman....

I need to find me a Virgo man lol.

Within the elements there's always a trine that works better than the other IMO. And when a trine works..it's heaven.

Speaking for myself:

Virgo & Taurus - Never tried, have no clue

Virgo & Virgo - I'd assume we'd get into lots of kinky sex but out neuroses combined would prove to be too much

Virgo & Cap - Phenomenal understanding...it took us both by surprise.

Posted by TigerCap
Hey Damnata, care to tell us what happened that made it end?

And what made it so great?

With mine I feel less raw passion than I felt with other women. It was even a bit awkward at first. She didn't know what my deal was and I couldn't read her either. So we were both hesitant at first. I am usually really good at reading women, Cancer Moon, but she was a puzzle at first.
It can be hard to make her share her innermost feelings. But I am getting there.
I really like how it goes fast and slow at the same time and that I can talk about anything with her. Even the difficult stuff that might hurt the other person.

And she is a great deal of fun. 🙂

What got you guys from the awkward stage to now? My cap and I have been dating 3 weeks, i haven't kissed him yet, and am wondering if we will always be this awkward n shy—

Posted by cowpuncher
Remember when I said they can surprise you sometimes, and try to do so with little things?

I'm working from my home office today, and will be back on the road tomorrow. Ms. Virgo/Libra cusp, who I mentioned above, just dropped by for a quick sec to bring me a Valentine's gift. It's nothing big, something small and appropriate which tends to be their nature, but just screams Virgal.

It's a Whitmans chocolate bar, with a puppy on the wrapper (she loves dogs as much as I do), and she went to the trouble to get a little red gift bag to deliver it in.

Being very, very shy, she addressed the bag: To: Cowpuncher, from: Daisy... Daisy being my dog, who she also likes quite a bit.

I refer to that one as "The most confusing girl in the world" for various reasons. She's a sweetheart though.

I confuse my Cap alot and have those placements 😢... I told him he could just call instead of text but he said he fears the awkward silences...

He's super shy.

I had my first kiss at my first date with Capman(we already talked online for one month,previously).It was awkward,because he was tipsy,i was cross because he got tipsy and we had a funny kiss.
We had a rough starting for few dates(after every date,i was cross with him,because his wondering hands).
We have 3 months of relationship,no sex yet,because i didnt give in.
I think he started to respect me a lot now.Make him work for you!
He gave up on cigarettes since meeting me,went to the doctor eye to have his glasses done and he doesnt get tipsy anymore,just drinks a beer when we go for a pizza.
He loves to text,not so much calling(maybe once at few days).

p.s.I get red cheeks when iam seeing him,thats aq bit annoying for me-).

okay i want a capricorn man now. enough crazy water sign men.

On Valentine s day i made a heart from chocolate and he still keeps it(small gifts and thoughtfull goes extra mile with a Cap man,not big,expensive gifts).

p.s.Tigercap ,how is going with virgal?-)

All the people who dislike this are non Cap's and Virgo's

Wow nobody likes us to be happy.

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Posted by miamivirgo
All the people who dislike this are non Cap's and Virgo's

Wow nobody likes us to be happy.

Don't you think that's a little bit exaggerated?

What is it with Virguys and being negative?? I've been seeing it on the boards for a long time now..

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Ask yesterdayaftertomorrow or whaever his name is. He thinks this is a competition.

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Posted by miamivirgo
All the people who dislike this are non Cap's and Virgo's

Wow nobody likes us to be happy.

Don't you think that's a little bit exaggerated?

What is it with Virguys and being negative?? I've been seeing it on the boards for a long time now..

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Virgos are notorious for dismissing any positive energy and drowning in all the negative ones.

We also eat puppies for breakfast but since you never wake up early in the morning, you've probably never witnessed that with your Virgo.