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what about us...? the virgo female?
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I posted in the Big Virgo Book Of Virgoness
last pages 😄
Also..
Posted by Damnata
Also..
ugh dammit that smiley was supposed to be a devilish grin. see i clearly can't play dirty.
😈 = ( 6 )
Smiles are different in dxp.
Why assume it's a bad thing to *not* have a bunch of *negative* posts about us?
Maybe we're just that awesome. 😄
Posted by bloodflood
perplexed to see how many posts there are about the enigma of the virgo MALE, i.e. how he's confusing, what's going on in his head, hot/cold, etc... but rarely do i see anything about the virgo female. even on the other boards, there's probably an 80 to 20 ratio of posts about the male vs. their female counterparts. so are we virgo females not mysterious enough to inspire any posts that raises such questions? are we that clear cut in what we want or is it maybe because we're just dull? or do we just not make that great of an impact on our romantic partners/pursuers/admirers/etc? any personal stories of the virgo femme fatales (so to speak) in your life/history?
Oh I've dated a few, not dated a few ( because I knew just a little too much about them ).
They're always a little hard to read at first in terms of where they have filed you in their mental relationship library.
Posted by TMV
Why assume it's a bad thing to *not* have a bunch of *negative* posts about us?Maybe we're just that awesome. 😄
definitely not saying it's bad! just want to know about all the juicy stuff about our evil sisters because i have annoying, nosy little sister syndrome 😉
but also on the flip side, i do always wonder what kind of footprint i leave my partners during/post relationship. is it the kind of footprint that stays lovingly/traumatically/permanently/intensely/etc? the lack of posts about virgo females makes me suspect it's maybe a light tread (but obvs i know dxp is not comprising of all experiences.)
Posted by djbuck1
Virgo females usually leave us -- the survivors -- so dazed and traumatized that a coherent narrative is barely possible even years after the event. There's an "Apocalypse Now" quality to it . . .(This is the clip I wanted!)
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by bloodflood
perplexed to see how many posts there are about the enigma of the virgo MALE, i.e. how he's confusing, what's going on in his head, hot/cold, etc... but rarely do i see anything about the virgo female. even on the other boards, there's probably an 80 to 20 ratio of posts about the male vs. their female counterparts. so are we virgo females not mysterious enough to inspire any posts that raises such questions? are we that clear cut in what we want or is it maybe because we're just dull? or do we just not make that great of an impact on our romantic partners/pursuers/admirers/etc? any personal stories of the virgo femme fatales (so to speak) in your life/history?
Oh I've dated a few, not dated a few ( because I knew just a little too much about them ).
They're always a little hard to read at first in terms of where they have filed you in their mental relationship library.
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i think that could be the thing... maybe the virgo female never truly allows anyone to enter and never fully participates in the reciprocity required in human relationships to truly make an impact on the other. in essence, why bother to post a thread on dxp about a girl who barely talks to you, so to speak.
also @tizani. i get this outside reading a lot from men, which is actually a bit frustrating. because along with the "innocent" image, there are connotations like inexperienced, naive, dull, or rigid, etc. which is definitely not the case for me once i'm comfortable with you. at the same time, i won't be trying to throw myself at you and flashing my lady bits at you to prove otherwise.
Posted by tiziani
If a Virgo Woman ever appeared in a Ray J Hit It 1st video I'd be devastated!
Posted by bloodflood
...maybe the virgo female never truly allows anyone to enter and never fully participates in the reciprocity required in human relationships to truly make an impact on the other...click to expand
Posted by tiziani
Cowpuncher tells me all Virgo Women would like the guy to make the first move and once you've methodically earned a Virgo woman's trust, she feels comfortable enough to want you to throw her around the bedroom and all sorts of things I refuse to believe.
Posted by TMV
Posted by tiziani
If a Virgo Woman ever appeared in a Ray J Hit It 1st video I'd be devastated!
Posted by bloodflood
...maybe the virgo female never truly allows anyone to enter and never fully participates in the reciprocity required in human relationships to truly make an impact on the other...
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wahhh i can't view your GIFS!! but i can read... "eyebrow arch... spock??" am intrigued.
Posted by bloodfloodwahhh i can't view your GIFS!! but i can read... "eyebrow arch... spock??" am intrigued.
"eyebrow arch spock" =/= *Vulcan eyebrow raise*
Posted by bloodflood
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by bloodflood
perplexed to see how many posts there are about the enigma of the virgo MALE, i.e. how he's confusing, what's going on in his head, hot/cold, etc... but rarely do i see anything about the virgo female. even on the other boards, there's probably an 80 to 20 ratio of posts about the male vs. their female counterparts. so are we virgo females not mysterious enough to inspire any posts that raises such questions? are we that clear cut in what we want or is it maybe because we're just dull? or do we just not make that great of an impact on our romantic partners/pursuers/admirers/etc? any personal stories of the virgo femme fatales (so to speak) in your life/history?
Oh I've dated a few, not dated a few ( because I knew just a little too much about them ).
They're always a little hard to read at first in terms of where they have filed you in their mental relationship library.i think that could be the thing... maybe the virgo female never truly allows anyone to enter and never fully participates in the reciprocity required in human relationships to truly make an impact on the other. in essence, why bother to post a thread on dxp about a girl who barely talks to you, so to speak.
also @tizani. i get this outside reading a lot from men, which is actually a bit frustrating. because along with the "innocent" image, there are connotations like inexperienced, naive, dull, or rigid, etc. which is definitely not the case for me once i'm comfortable with you. at the same time, i won't be trying to throw myself at you and flashing my lady bits at you to prove otherwise.
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Trust me, innocent is the last thing.
Virgo gal for me, if you want a mental image, can be summed up as the librarian you just know is wearing garters and crotchless panties under that dull grey calf long skirt
Posted by tiziani
I'm just teasing about the innocent thing. It's just the kind of relationship I have with Virgo women. It's been sibling like so far. Cowpuncher tells me all Virgo Women would like the guy to make the first move and once you've methodically earned a Virgo woman's trust, she feels comfortable enough to want you to throw her around the bedroom and all sorts of things I refuse to believe.
it's quite true. actually i've been with a libra man who was a big part of the first leg of this crazy romantic journey i'm trekking on (actually not crazy currently.. now it's more like.. sitting inside my blanket fort drinking tea shunning outside advances cat lady crazy). he definitely methodically earned my trust. took him about 6 months to do it, all the while i was just.. a complete nut to him... but he was also an ox sign in the chinese zodiac so perseverance was his forte. after that i would say i was the grass and he was a lazy ox grazing in my sunny meadows.
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspTrust me, innocent is the last thing.
Virgo gal for me, if you want a mental image, can be summed up as the librarian you just know is wearing garters and crotchless panties under that dull grey calf long skirt
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by bloodflood
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by bloodflood
perplexed to see how many posts there are about the enigma of the virgo MALE, i.e. how he's confusing, what's going on in his head, hot/cold, etc... but rarely do i see anything about the virgo female. even on the other boards, there's probably an 80 to 20 ratio of posts about the male vs. their female counterparts. so are we virgo females not mysterious enough to inspire any posts that raises such questions? are we that clear cut in what we want or is it maybe because we're just dull? or do we just not make that great of an impact on our romantic partners/pursuers/admirers/etc? any personal stories of the virgo femme fatales (so to speak) in your life/history?
Oh I've dated a few, not dated a few ( because I knew just a little too much about them ).
They're always a little hard to read at first in terms of where they have filed you in their mental relationship library.i think that could be the thing... maybe the virgo female never truly allows anyone to enter and never fully participates in the reciprocity required in human relationships to truly make an impact on the other. in essence, why bother to post a thread on dxp about a girl who barely talks to you, so to speak.
also @tizani. i get this outside reading a lot from men, which is actually a bit frustrating. because along with the "innocent" image, there are connotations like inexperienced, naive, dull, or rigid, etc. which is definitely not the case for me once i'm comfortable with you. at the same time, i won't be trying to throw myself at you and flashing my lady bits at you to prove otherwise.
Trust me, innocent is the last thing.
Virgo gal for me, if you want a mental image, can be summed up as the librarian you just know is wearing garters and crotchless panties under that dull grey calf long skirtclick to expand
haha! i will say.. i DO own one of the three articles of clothing you've mentioned. which one exactly is up to your imagination.
Posted by tiziani
Don't worry TMV, I'll protect you!
Probably the gray skirt.
You Virgo females are just the best!
Wat?
It's all about ratios man! Women vs. men on the site. Pretty sure if this site was dominantly men than it would be flipped 80/20 of the posts being about the women! 😛
Plus the women folk seem pretty darn cool in my humble opinion 🙂
Posted by justagirl
It's all about ratios man! Women vs. men on the site. Pretty sure if this site was dominantly men than it would be flipped 80/20 of the posts being about the women! 😛
^^^this!
People, don't wake up Tiziani from his illusion of innocent Virgo chicks!.
Who'd have the heart to do that smh.
Posted by bloodflood
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by bloodflood
perplexed to see how many posts there are about the enigma of the virgo MALE, i.e. how he's confusing, what's going on in his head, hot/cold, etc... but rarely do i see anything about the virgo female. even on the other boards, there's probably an 80 to 20 ratio of posts about the male vs. their female counterparts. so are we virgo females not mysterious enough to inspire any posts that raises such questions? are we that clear cut in what we want or is it maybe because we're just dull? or do we just not make that great of an impact on our romantic partners/pursuers/admirers/etc? any personal stories of the virgo femme fatales (so to speak) in your life/history?
Oh I've dated a few, not dated a few ( because I knew just a little too much about them ).
They're always a little hard to read at first in terms of where they have filed you in their mental relationship library.i think that could be the thing... maybe the virgo female never truly allows anyone to enter and never fully participates in the reciprocity required in human relationships to truly make an impact on the other. in essence, why bother to post a thread on dxp about a girl who barely talks to you, so to speak.
also @tizani. i get this outside reading a lot from men, which is actually a bit frustrating. because along with the "innocent" image, there are connotations like inexperienced, naive, dull, or rigid, etc. which is definitely not the case for me once i'm comfortable with you. at the same time, i won't be trying to throw myself at you and flashing my lady bits at you to prove otherwise.
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Seriously, I've always "clicked" with Virgo women.
More often as friends because of the reciprocity thing, or in the case of the few I've dated, fate had a way of interfering.
I always get the sense they would be good match for Mr.
*blows innocent pecks at tiziani*
The women are easy to figure out. just dont believe anything they say and youre halfway there.
Posted by HungVirgo
The women are easy to figure out. just dont believe anything they say and youre halfway there.
You know, there is a grain of truth there.
I noticed a tendency for them to throw stuff out there just to gage the reaction.
When they trust you, I think that stops.
I think it's funny HungVirgo and me have the same chart, minus ascendant and he's not fond of virgo woman, while i'm not fond of virgo men.
There truly is a balance in the world.
So glad the OP posted this... I mean, I always wondered how is Virgals where thought of... She hit on the nail saying that maybe we don't allow ppl in enough to leave a lasting impression sometimes...
Mostly with me it becomes a power struggle with me because as the Virgo I am, I like to be pursued first and THEN I will purse like crazy. Many men become confused with me quickly saying they can't figure me out... And I want to say to them, I'm just as confused as you!!! LoL.
I think I think too much. Lol. How crazy does that sound. My relationships never seem to get off the ground let alone last... But the men always seem to linger around my life... Never completely leaving and with that yearning look in their eyes...
I'm convinced I'll be misunderstood and alone forever _—_—_—_—
People either really like me or cannot stand me off the bat.
Posted by cowpuncher
Posted by Damnata
People, don't wake up Tiziani from his illusion of innocent Virgo chicks!.Who'd have the heart to do that smh.
*raises hand*
Remember, I'm a Cap sun, Scorpio moon/mars. Eeeeevil is more than just a fun hobby here.
Try it just once Tiz. I dare ya. Pack lunch.
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Posted by Damnata
I think it's funny HungVirgo and me have the same chart, minus ascendant and he's not fond of virgo woman, while i'm not fond of virgo men.There truly is a balance in the world.
lol. I'm not fond of virgo men either.
Posted by TMV
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspTrust me, innocent is the last thing.
Virgo gal for me, if you want a mental image, can be summed up as the librarian you just know is wearing garters and crotchless panties under that dull grey calf long skirt
^^^^That. Except for maybe the last 30 seconds. LOL
Posted by HungVirgo
Posted by Damnata
I think it's funny HungVirgo and me have the same chart, minus ascendant and he's not fond of virgo woman, while i'm not fond of virgo men.There truly is a balance in the world.
lol. I'm not fond of virgo men either.
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Me and HungVirgo hang out at 5 o'clock, drink Haterade tea and discuss Virgos.
Posted by cowpuncher
Posted by TMV
Posted by tiziani
Cowpuncher tells me all Virgo Women would like the guy to make the first move and once you've methodically earned a Virgo woman's trust, she feels comfortable enough to want you to throw her around the bedroom and all sorts of things I refuse to believe.
Try it *just* once, if you dare, and see if you still think I'm wrong. :p
They are absolutely, positively the naughtiest of the whole bunch. They just can't get the ball rolling, to do so would offend their precious sensibilities (which are kinda cute). You have to do that part and initiate.
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That's pretty much it. Kinda like a rocket launch-really slow in the beginning until the thrust takes over.
😛
No one here knows how Virgo Women come across in a sensual way so I need to educate you all:
Posted by HungVirgo
The women are easy to figure out. just dont believe anything they say and youre halfway there.
i really do think i'm VERY simple and it boggles my mind when guys say they don't get me. the last one, for instance, said "you say you're simple, but it's hard to read you." WHYYYYYYYYYYYY
You can't argue with an virgo female.. they just get mad at you and starts to blame you for everything.
Posted by BadGalVirgo
So glad the OP posted this... I mean, I always wondered how is Virgals where thought of... She hit on the nail saying that maybe we don't allow ppl in enough to leave a lasting impression sometimes...Mostly with me it becomes a power struggle with me because as the Virgo I am, I like to be pursued first and THEN I will purse like crazy. Many men become confused with me quickly saying they can't figure me out... And I want to say to them, I'm just as confused as you!!! LoL.
I think I think too much. Lol. How crazy does that sound. My relationships never seem to get off the ground let alone last... But the men always seem to linger around my life... Never completely leaving and with that yearning look in their eyes...
I'm convinced I'll be misunderstood and alone forever _—_—_—_—
yes! the last guy i had something with said i worry too much.. thought too much about where all of it was going... to let go of my self-control and to just dive in.. but how was i supposed to do that blindly? i think above all, we need affirmation and reassurance... kind of like coaxing a furry little creature out from its comfortable nest from the ground. breadcrumbs of reassurance, in other words... and once at that safety point, we will love fully and wholeheartedly. i know no other way to love than that. strangely enough, at this point i've never truly loved anyone that way because along with that kind of love, it's really all or nothing. and so far.. nothing but a quiet fire burning inside... waiting.
like you, all my former lovers are still in my lives in some way as well. i think they see the potential in us.. the potential that we are afraid of.. or rather the potential that will come to fruition with the right one.
HOWEVER, i read someone on here said we tend to throw a pity party for ourselves so i'm just going to soak it in, brush it off, and move on. one day someone will come along and understand us before we even know what's going on in our little overthinking virgo brains. don't worry 🙂
Posted by cowpuncher
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Posted by cowpuncher
Posted by TMV
Posted by tiziani
Cowpuncher tells me all Virgo Women would like the guy to make the first move and once you've methodically earned a Virgo woman's trust, she feels comfortable enough to want you to throw her around the bedroom and all sorts of things I refuse to believe.
Try it *just* once, if you dare, and see if you still think I'm wrong. :p
They are absolutely, positively the naughtiest of the whole bunch. They just can't get the ball rolling, to do so would offend their precious sensibilities (which are kinda cute). You have to do that part and initiate.
That's pretty much it. Kinda like a rocket launch-really slow in the beginning until the thrust takes over.
😛
Exactly!
Finally! The poor Virgals have had to make-do with just one admirer for much of my 2+ years on dxp, nice to see they have another who knows what's up now 😄
see that ladies? 100% increase in your positives for first quarter of 2014! Sure that sounds a lot bigger than "Oh boy we have two whole fans woohoo!" but let's just take what we can get for now and work on it, and the Crab and I will keep trying to spread the word and convince the world at large that you don't really think sex is icky and tedious.
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YAY! things are looking up for 2014 i know it!
on another note, the universal theme of the outside image and the conscious feeling of being seen, which usually pervades my thoughts, has made me actively make an effort to NOT make an effort to influence in some way or another how others think of me. because i can usually intuitively know what others think about me and it's almost always not correct... c.f. "innocent image". the fun in that is their surprise when they finally do know. and this goes for both platonic and
** and romantic relationships.
Just bumping this because I liked this thread.
^Just had a mental image of you grabbing this thread with your pincers and refusing to let go.
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perplexed to see how many posts there are about the enigma of the virgo MALE, i.e. how he's confusing, what's going on in his head, hot/cold, etc... but rarely do i see anything about the virgo female. even on the other boards, there's probably an 80 to 20 ratio of posts about the male vs. their female counterparts. so are we virgo females not mysterious enough to inspire any posts that raises such questions? are we that clear cut in what we want or is it maybe because we're just dull? or do we just not make that great of an impact on our romantic partners/pursuers/admirers/etc? any personal stories of the virgo femme fatales (so to speak) in your life/history?