Confused

Posted by Koni

Sounds like some sort of awkward weirdo

Posted by Damous

Posted by Sagicorn

He likes your brain but not the rest. As it seems. No guy refuses sex with a woman he likes.

I dunno, I can definitely hold off if I feel like they think I want them solely for their vagina or just feel like it should be done. I’m not a Virgo tho

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Posted by saggurl88

He may just be trying to respect you. I am currently talking to a Virgo and we talk a lot about sex but aren't doing it either. He says he like our conversations though. He's actually asked me some of the same questions that yours asked. Guess it's a typical man thing. lol

I'm not in a rush though. He also didn't kiss me on the first date, which I was relieved and thankful for. It makes me trust him more for the next time. How many times have you met up? And is your body language standoffish?

The Virgo I went on a date with said he couldn't read me and I told him I do that on purpose lol He's a man and needs to make the first move, so now he knows.

Posted by Gemtogether

Posted by saggurl88

He may just be trying to respect you. I am currently talking to a Virgo and we talk a lot about sex but aren't doing it either. He says he like our conversations though. He's actually asked me some of the same questions that yours asked. Guess it's a typical man thing. lol

I'm not in a rush though. He also didn't kiss me on the first date, which I was relieved and thankful for. It makes me trust him more for the next time. How many times have you met up? And is your body language standoffish?

The Virgo I went on a date with said he couldn't read me and I told him I do that on purpose lol He's a man and needs to make the first move, so now he knows.

We have been meeting past 5 weeks about 15 hrs so far.

Yes first meeting he just asked for a hug. As i neither hand shaked or gave a casual hug when we met.

We have hugged about 10 times so far and kissed a few times. Not french though. Just a quick peck.lol

None of these times his had wandered anywhere😉

He is actually seperated from his alcholic wife and initially when we hugged his bosy used to shake up. Thst showed how much pain he has gone through trying to get her out of alcholism.

I thought about his situation a lot and realise hes very scared to get in love again. Hes devastated. Once i realised i am lettting him initiate anything. But showing that i am happy when i am with him and eager to be with him. Not at all standoffish. He has told many times that he feels better after talkingh to me. About his wife.



I am in no rush but just surprised hes so different from any other man. Lol. Mystery guy.

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Posted by Gemtogether

Posted by saggurl88

He may just be trying to respect you. I am currently talking to a Virgo and we talk a lot about sex but aren't doing it either. He says he like our conversations though. He's actually asked me some of the same questions that yours asked. Guess it's a typical man thing. lol

I'm not in a rush though. He also didn't kiss me on the first date, which I was relieved and thankful for. It makes me trust him more for the next time. How many times have you met up? And is your body language standoffish?

The Virgo I went on a date with said he couldn't read me and I told him I do that on purpose lol He's a man and needs to make the first move, so now he knows.

We have been meeting past 5 weeks about 15 hrs so far.

Yes first meeting he just asked for a hug. As i neither hand shaked or gave a casual hug when we met.

We have hugged about 10 times so far and kissed a few times. Not french though. Just a quick peck.lol

None of these times his had wandered anywhere😉

He is actually seperated from his alcholic wife and initially when we hugged his bosy used to shake up. Thst showed how much pain he has gone through trying to get her out of alcholism.

I thought about his situation a lot and realise hes very scared to get in love again. Hes devastated. Once i realised i am lettting him initiate anything. But showing that i am happy when i am with him and eager to be with him. Not at all standoffish. He has told many times that he feels better after talkingh to me. About his wife.



I am in no rush but just surprised hes so different from any other man. Lol. Mystery guy.

Awww. make sure you stay out of the friend zone. Talking about his wife who has issues that he can't solve is a touchy subject.

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Posted by saggurl88

He may just be trying to respect you. I am currently talking to a Virgo and we talk a lot about sex but aren't doing it either. He says he like our conversations though. He's actually asked me some of the same questions that yours asked. Guess it's a typical man thing. lol

I'm not in a rush though. He also didn't kiss me on the first date, which I was relieved and thankful for. It makes me trust him more for the next time. How many times have you met up? And is your body language standoffish?

The Virgo I went on a date with said he couldn't read me and I told him I do that on purpose lol He's a man and needs to make the first move, so now he knows.

i am also seeing a virgo male that has been doing this. we’ve been hanging every week for 3 months & finally started sleep overs ~3 weeks ago. the first sleep over he flat out asked me what my turns ons were. we only kissed & cuddled.

my virgo is sexually submissive & we are establishing a D/s relationship so my situation may be different... but i think this is just how some virgo dudes are? i tried getting him to have sex w/ me one night & he responded w/ “but i havent even taken you out on a real date, dont you want to wait?”. then responded that he likes teasing me.

a few nights ago i demanded he have sex w/ me & about 2 minutes in he stopped & asked if it was the only thing i wanted from him & continued by saying he didnt want me to have sex w/ him once & then never speak to him again.... then when i tried to top him again, he asked me to stop & expressed that he wanted to cuddle & talk.

otherwise he is very consistent, helpful, playful, etc... from my experience & a recent dxp thread (another scorpio w/ a virgo male), i am gleaning that virgo males may like to tease.... have a slow build up, push you to make the first move bc you cant take the wait anymore.... see: “topping from the bottom”.

i say be patient or bite the bullet & take control.

do you know his other placements? moon, mercury, venus, mars, & jupiter?

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Posted by saggurl88

He may just be trying to respect you. I am currently talking to a Virgo and we talk a lot about sex but aren't doing it either. He says he like our conversations though. He's actually asked me some of the same questions that yours asked. Guess it's a typical man thing. lol

I'm not in a rush though. He also didn't kiss me on the first date, which I was relieved and thankful for. It makes me trust him more for the next time. How many times have you met up? And is your body language standoffish?

The Virgo I went on a date with said he couldn't read me and I told him I do that on purpose lol He's a man and needs to make the first move, so now he knows.

i am also seeing a virgo male that has been doing this. we’ve been hanging every week for 3 months & finally started sleep overs ~3 weeks ago. the first sleep over he flat out asked me what my turns ons were. we only kissed & cuddled.

my virgo is sexually submissive & we are establishing a D/s relationship so my situation may be different... but i think this is just how some virgo dudes are? i tried getting him to have sex w/ me one night & he responded w/ “but i havent even taken you out on a real date, dont you want to wait?”. then responded that he likes teasing me.

a few nights ago i demanded he have sex w/ me & about 2 minutes in he stopped & asked if it was the only thing i wanted from him & continued by saying he didnt want me to have sex w/ him once & then never speak to him again.... then when i tried to top him again, he asked me to stop & expressed that he wanted to cuddle & talk.

otherwise he is very consistent, helpful, playful, etc... from my experience & a recent dxp thread (another scorpio w/ a virgo male), i am gleaning that virgo males may like to tease.... have a slow build up, push you to make the first move bc you cant take the wait anymore.... see: “topping from the bottom”.

i say be patient or bite the bullet & take control.

do you know his other placements? moon, mercury, venus, mars, & jupiter?

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Posted by dilettante

Posted by saggurl88

He may just be trying to respect you. I am currently talking to a Virgo and we talk a lot about sex but aren't doing it either. He says he like our conversations though. He's actually asked me some of the same questions that yours asked. Guess it's a typical man thing. lol

I'm not in a rush though. He also didn't kiss me on the first date, which I was relieved and thankful for. It makes me trust him more for the next time. How many times have you met up? And is your body language standoffish?

The Virgo I went on a date with said he couldn't read me and I told him I do that on purpose lol He's a man and needs to make the first move, so now he knows.

i am also seeing a virgo male that has been doing this. we’ve been hanging every week for 3 months & finally started sleep overs ~3 weeks ago. the first sleep over he flat out asked me what my turns ons were. we only kissed & cuddled.

my virgo is sexually submissive & we are establishing a D/s relationship so my situation may be different... but i think this is just how some virgo dudes are? i tried getting him to have sex w/ me one night & he responded w/ “but i havent even taken you out on a real date, dont you want to wait?”. then responded that he likes teasing me.

a few nights ago i demanded he have sex w/ me & about 2 minutes in he stopped & asked if it was the only thing i wanted from him & continued by saying he didnt want me to have sex w/ him once & then never speak to him again.... then when i tried to top him again, he asked me to stop & expressed that he wanted to cuddle & talk.

otherwise he is very consistent, helpful, playful, etc... from my experience & a recent dxp thread (another scorpio w/ a virgo male), i am gleaning that virgo males may like to tease.... have a slow build up, push you to make the first move bc you cant take the wait anymore.... see: “topping from the bottom”.

i say be patient or bite the bullet & take control.

do you know his other placements? moon, mercury, venus, mars, & jupiter?

Wow i totally understand what you mean. Lol. They are so confusing when they refuse sex. Given his nature of ex relationship i am going to be extra patient. I need to either be patient or force him to speed up. But ia m sure if i rush things which i dont want to, i will lose him. Right now he needs an emotional friend more than a sex mate.

I do not know his other placements.

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Posted by dilettante

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by dilettante

Posted by saggurl88

He may just be trying to respect you. I am currently talking to a Virgo and we talk a lot about sex but aren't doing it either. He says he like our conversations though. He's actually asked me some of the same questions that yours asked. Guess it's a typical man thing. lol

I'm not in a rush though. He also didn't kiss me on the first date, which I was relieved and thankful for. It makes me trust him more for the next time. How many times have you met up? And is your body language standoffish?

The Virgo I went on a date with said he couldn't read me and I told him I do that on purpose lol He's a man and needs to make the first move, so now he knows.

i am also seeing a virgo male that has been doing this. we’ve been hanging every week for 3 months & finally started sleep overs ~3 weeks ago. the first sleep over he flat out asked me what my turns ons were. we only kissed & cuddled.

my virgo is sexually submissive & we are establishing a D/s relationship so my situation may be different... but i think this is just how some virgo dudes are? i tried getting him to have sex w/ me one night & he responded w/ “but i havent even taken you out on a real date, dont you want to wait?”. then responded that he likes teasing me.

a few nights ago i demanded he have sex w/ me & about 2 minutes in he stopped & asked if it was the only thing i wanted from him & continued by saying he didnt want me to have sex w/ him once & then never speak to him again.... then when i tried to top him again, he asked me to stop & expressed that he wanted to cuddle & talk.

otherwise he is very consistent, helpful, playful, etc... from my experience & a recent dxp thread (another scorpio w/ a virgo male), i am gleaning that virgo males may like to tease.... have a slow build up, push you to make the first move bc you cant take the wait anymore.... see: “topping from the bottom”.

i say be patient or bite the bullet & take control.

do you know his other placements? moon, mercury, venus, mars, & jupiter?

The Virgo I'm seeing doesn't seem like he's submissive. But I don't know. He seems to say all the right things. We are planning on hooking up next week, so I will find out lol I can be either way, I will take control if he doesn't.

He's into Shibari rope play 😄 So I think he likes being in control, which is fine. I told him that some of the rope ties look too restrictive and he said some women deserved to be punished. lol Right up my ally, things are moving along just fine for me 😆

We both have Cancer Moons, I think this is a highly sexual placement. Every cancer moon I come across is into some weird shit and we get each other pretty good lol

His Mercury is Libra, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Virgo, Jupiter in Pisces

His sun and Mars are in my 12th house and we both like secret, hidden relationships and being weird in private 😄

What does Jupiter have an affect on?

i like seeing jupiter placements bc it expands whatever it touches... in either good or bad ways... jupiter can be indulgent af

my virgo has sag moon / leo venus & ascendant / aries mars rx / & gemini jupiter.... he is uranus/sag dom. he has a sag stellium in 5th house

i am uranus/scorpio dom w/ a sag stellium in 10th house. my cap venus & jupiter is 11th house w/ aqua mars & ascendant.

i am the dominant in this relationship but he def baits me into taking control when he feels like i am dragging my feet. he is exhibiting what is called brat behavior, attempting to dom me from the bottom.

yr virgo has 3 strong virgo placements so he prob likes u to tell him what u want so he can be in total control of yr desires. from what i have gathered... virgos like pleasing but teasing allows them to exhibit control that makes it seem less aggressive.

i dunno though... this is my first virgo male that i have dated so this style of power & control, bait & switch is new to me. i have predominantly dated caps, scorps, & pisceans... all different style s of power & control.

im gonna follow this thread bc i am v v v interested in knowing more about yalls virgo antics

thanks for sharing!

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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by dilettante

Posted by saggurl88

He may just be trying to respect you. I am currently talking to a Virgo and we talk a lot about sex but aren't doing it either. He says he like our conversations though. He's actually asked me some of the same questions that yours asked. Guess it's a typical man thing. lol

I'm not in a rush though. He also didn't kiss me on the first date, which I was relieved and thankful for. It makes me trust him more for the next time. How many times have you met up? And is your body language standoffish?

The Virgo I went on a date with said he couldn't read me and I told him I do that on purpose lol He's a man and needs to make the first move, so now he knows.

i am also seeing a virgo male that has been doing this. we’ve been hanging every week for 3 months & finally started sleep overs ~3 weeks ago. the first sleep over he flat out asked me what my turns ons were. we only kissed & cuddled.

my virgo is sexually submissive & we are establishing a D/s relationship so my situation may be different... but i think this is just how some virgo dudes are? i tried getting him to have sex w/ me one night & he responded w/ “but i havent even taken you out on a real date, dont you want to wait?”. then responded that he likes teasing me.

a few nights ago i demanded he have sex w/ me & about 2 minutes in he stopped & asked if it was the only thing i wanted from him & continued by saying he didnt want me to have sex w/ him once & then never speak to him again.... then when i tried to top him again, he asked me to stop & expressed that he wanted to cuddle & talk.

otherwise he is very consistent, helpful, playful, etc... from my experience & a recent dxp thread (another scorpio w/ a virgo male), i am gleaning that virgo males may like to tease.... have a slow build up, push you to make the first move bc you cant take the wait anymore.... see: “topping from the bottom”.

i say be patient or bite the bullet & take control.

do you know his other placements? moon, mercury, venus, mars, & jupiter?

The Virgo I'm seeing doesn't seem like he's submissive. But I don't know. He seems to say all the right things. We are planning on hooking up next week, so I will find out lol I can be either way, I will take control if he doesn't.

He's into Shibari rope play 😄 So I think he likes being in control, which is fine. I told him that some of the rope ties look too restrictive and he said some women deserved to be punished. lol Right up my ally, things are moving along just fine for me 😆

We both have Cancer Moons, I think this is a highly sexual placement. Every cancer moon I come across is into some weird shit and we get each other pretty good lol

His Mercury is Libra, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Virgo, Jupiter in Pisces

His sun and Mars are in my 12th house and we both like secret, hidden relationships and being weird in private 😄

What does Jupiter have an affect on?

i like seeing jupiter placements bc it expands whatever it touches... in either good or bad ways... jupiter can be indulgent af

my virgo has sag moon / leo venus & ascendant / aries mars rx / & gemini jupiter.... he is uranus/sag dom. he has a sag stellium in 5th house

i am uranus/scorpio dom w/ a sag stellium in 10th house. my cap venus & jupiter is 11th house w/ aqua mars & ascendant.

i am the dominant in this relationship but he def baits me into taking control when he feels like i am dragging my feet. he is exhibiting what is called brat behavior, attempting to dom me from the bottom.

yr virgo has 3 strong virgo placements so he prob likes u to tell him what u want so he can be in total control of yr desires. from what i have gathered... virgos like pleasing but teasing allows them to exhibit control that makes it seem less aggressive.

i dunno though... this is my first virgo male that i have dated so this style of power & control, bait & switch is new to me. i have predominantly dated caps, scorps, & pisceans... all different style s of power & control.

im gonna follow this thread bc i am v v v interested in knowing more about yalls virgo antics

thanks for sharing!

This is actually the first Virgo I've ever dated as well. I have no clue what I'm doing lol But I am very vocal with him and told him already that I'm not shy and that I'm sexually demanding. He's fine with it. We will see about that once the sex starts happening.

cheers for firsts! am very keen to see how yr situation plays out 🙂 good luck! x

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Update:

My virgo guy today met me, we hugged and talked. And he said his wife is coming back this thursday. He does not want her but for son and family forcing him, he had to say ok.

He repeatedly told me he will never leave me no matter what. Although we did not go physical yet, he told me twice that even if there is sex betwwen him and his wife it would be mechanical just like it was past 2 or 3 yrs.

I still feel very insecured. I see how much stressed he gets when he talks about her.

Posted by Gemtogether

Update:

My virgo guy today met me, we hugged and talked. And he said his wife is coming back this thursday. He does not want her but for son and family forcing him, he had to say ok.

He repeatedly told me he will never leave me no matter what. Although we did not go physical yet, he told me twice that even if there is sex betwwen him and his wife it would be mechanical just like it was past 2 or 3 yrs.

I still feel very insecured. I see how much stressed he gets when he talks about her.

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Posted by Gemtogether

Update:

My virgo guy today met me, we hugged and talked. And he said his wife is coming back this thursday. He does not want her but for son and family forcing him, he had to say ok.

He repeatedly told me he will never leave me no matter what. Although we did not go physical yet, he told me twice that even if there is sex betwwen him and his wife it would be mechanical just like it was past 2 or 3 yrs.

I still feel very insecured. I see how much stressed he gets when he talks about her.

Wait, what?! 🛑 he’s still married, he is having sex with his WIFE! You are just a side dish, please you deserve more. This is going nowhere! 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Gemtogether

Update:

My virgo guy today met me, we hugged and talked. And he said his wife is coming back this thursday. He does not want her but for son and family forcing him, he had to say ok.

He repeatedly told me he will never leave me no matter what. Although we did not go physical yet, he told me twice that even if there is sex betwwen him and his wife it would be mechanical just like it was past 2 or 3 yrs.

I still feel very insecured. I see how much stressed he gets when he talks about her.

Wait, what?! 🛑 he’s still married, he is having sex with his WIFE! You are just a side dish, please you deserve more. This is going nowhere! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Yes he was seperated from alcholic wife.. now shes back since he refused to give their son to her. He is sure she will start binge drinking in no time. He always told the truth.

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Posted by Gemtogether

Update:

My virgo guy today met me, we hugged and talked. And he said his wife is coming back this thursday. He does not want her but for son and family forcing him, he had to say ok.

He repeatedly told me he will never leave me no matter what. Although we did not go physical yet, he told me twice that even if there is sex betwwen him and his wife it would be mechanical just like it was past 2 or 3 yrs.

I still feel very insecured. I see how much stressed he gets when he talks about her.

Are you serious? I can't help but wonder, do you people, who are side pieces ever think that karma will catch you later? That one day you'll pay for your deeds? That someone will do exact same thing to you as well? How do you know what's between them. He cpuld tell you any lie he wants about hia marriage as he already did, and you'll fall for it cause you have no way of finding out the truth. But most important thing is how can you not have guilt tripa for chasing married man? And don't say he's chasing you, you're chasing him from the moment he tells you he's matried and you're ok with it still being around, you're chasing him

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Posted by Gemtogether

Update:

My virgo guy today met me, we hugged and talked. And he said his wife is coming back this thursday. He does not want her but for son and family forcing him, he had to say ok.

He repeatedly told me he will never leave me no matter what. Although we did not go physical yet, he told me twice that even if there is sex betwwen him and his wife it would be mechanical just like it was past 2 or 3 yrs.

I still feel very insecured. I see how much stressed he gets when he talks about her.

Wait, what?! 🛑 he’s still married, he is having sex with his WIFE! You are just a side dish, please you deserve more. This is going nowhere! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Yes he was seperated from alcholic wife.. now shes back since he refused to give their son to her. He is sure she will start binge drinking in no time. He always told the truth.

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