Crush on Virgo coworker, who is not single

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by librak924 on Monday, July 8, 2019 and has 455 replies.

What Are Virgo Men Like in Romantic Relationships

Virgo men are often cautious and reserved in love. They value loyalty and tend to take time to open up emotionally. They appreciate practicality and kindness, often showing affection through acts of service. Understanding their need for stability can help build a deeper connection, even if they are initially standoffish.

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@librak924
7 Years

Hello folks. New story, new crush. So this isn't as cute as my previous post about a certain dude, but this dude surely is as cute!

So I work with this guy, always thought he was cute but held back because I thought things would be well with the Aquarius I came here for. Didn't work, and two days later I bumped into this dude smoking a cigarette. We shook hands, and introduced ourselves. Been goofily waving, and saying hi to each other since. We work at a car dealership. I'm BDC manager/sales/sales manager. He's a mechanic, so we do not see each other often. Naturally, I crept him on Facebook. He has not one, but two kids. And a girlfriend, who is not the mother to either kid. The girlfriend bugs me, not the kids. Obviously, (before you trolls even start) I'm not gonna try anything. His birthday is 12 days before mine, although he's a year younger. The other day, we talked about how hot it is outside, and what we want to do other than be in work. He wanted to go swimming. I wanted to go fishing. I think he shit himself with excitement to hear that I, a pretty, dainty little thing likes fishing. And kayaking. He's been a bit standoffish since. Why?!? He still gives a weak "hi (my name)" but no more of the overexaggerated wave. What are Virgo men like? They have been dating for a year this month.

Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.

Thank you lovely folks for the advice in advance

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@ELIGAB
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Cardinal women life style lol

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You're probably a very attractive libra lady, you're probably making him nervous as he may want to stay faithful to his lover

Virgos are nervous around people they find attractive

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by ELIGAB

Cardinal women life style lol

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You're probably a very attractive libra lady, you're probably making him nervous as he may want to stay faithful to his lover

Virgos are nervous around people they find attractive

Thank you and totally cardinal women life style ! Friends are like "oh forget him" I'm like "it's fun having a work crush" lol

But I was thinking that too kind of, like the being standoffish is like "oh shit, she's pretty cool gotta avoid her cause I gotta be a good boy"

I do think I see nervousness, but he was pretty straight up. he shook my hand and introduced myself before he did and was like "what do you do here? I see you everywhere" and just started talking like that. His lover is a Libra as well!

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by Gobby

Posted by librak924

Posted by Gobby

Get some professional help...

Get some friends, and get offline bro

Oh, silly me. Wrong thread...

Yeah, just fuck his brains out and ruin his relationship. Anyway, next month, you'll be swooning over someone new like a nymphomaniac on crystal meth...

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You seem to know a bit about nymphos on crystal meth, sorry your parents conceived you like that

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by Gobby

Posted by librak924

Posted by Gobby

Posted by librak924

Posted by Gobby

Get some professional help...

Get some friends, and get offline bro

Oh, silly me. Wrong thread...

Yeah, just fuck his brains out and ruin his relationship. Anyway, next month, you'll be swooning over someone new like a nymphomaniac on crystal meth...

You seem to know a bit about nymphos on crystal meth, sorry your parents conceived you like that

Carry on. Please continue to confirm why I said what I said in my original post. Using the adjective 'immature' would be wasted on you...

Ciao!

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Aww the crystal meth baby knows what "adjective" means, and can say "see ya" in a different language

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@sweetpea2977
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by librak924

Posted by Gobby

Posted by librak924

Posted by Gobby

Get some professional help...

Get some friends, and get offline bro

Oh, silly me. Wrong thread...

Yeah, just fuck his brains out and ruin his relationship. Anyway, next month, you'll be swooning over someone new like a nymphomaniac on crystal meth...

You seem to know a bit about nymphos on crystal meth, sorry your parents conceived you like that

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🤦🤦🤦😂😂😂

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by librak924

Posted by Gobby

Posted by librak924

Posted by Gobby

Get some professional help...

Get some friends, and get offline bro

Oh, silly me. Wrong thread...

Yeah, just fuck his brains out and ruin his relationship. Anyway, next month, you'll be swooning over someone new like a nymphomaniac on crystal meth...

You seem to know a bit about nymphos on crystal meth, sorry your parents conceived you like that

🤦🤦🤦😂😂😂

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Glad to be here for your entertainment, your name looks familiar and I can't remember whether or not I like you so use words please

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@sweetpea2977
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by librak924

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by librak924

Posted by Gobby

Posted by librak924

Posted by Gobby

Get some professional help...

Get some friends, and get offline bro

Oh, silly me. Wrong thread...

Yeah, just fuck his brains out and ruin his relationship. Anyway, next month, you'll be swooning over someone new like a nymphomaniac on crystal meth...

You seem to know a bit about nymphos on crystal meth, sorry your parents conceived you like that

🤦🤦🤦😂😂😂

Glad to be here for your entertainment, your name looks familiar and I can't remember whether or not I like you so use words please

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by mudra_

Of course you can have conversations with people at work. Just keep in mind how it might feel for your future boyfriend to be swayed by some chick at his work who doesn't give af if he's taken.

Did you even read the post, or are you one of the crazies out tonight as well? Like read the fucking post before assuming things, then commenting

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by mudra_

Posted by librak924

Posted by mudra_

Of course you can have conversations with people at work. Just keep in mind how it might feel for your future boyfriend to be swayed by some chick at his work who doesn't give af if he's taken.

Did you even read the post, or are you one of the crazies out tonight as well? Like read the fucking post before assuming things, then commenting

Yup 👍

Enjoy getting to know more about him... lol

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Will do, maybe even his gf too if we become friends. Wouldn't ever do anything to come between anything. I just don't like the ignorant comments, such as yours. My first sentence of this post, I literally explained that I always thought he was cute but didn't even know his name or care to meet him because I was "talking" to someone else so maybe you need reading comprehension leasons

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by Impulsv

Haha in same predicament

N we have great synastry

What a shame lol

I’m not flirting but since we work together sometimes we just talk.

Just curious about Virgo men, which is the thread I posted on

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by Impulsv

Haha in same predicament

N we have great synastry

What a shame lol

I’m not flirting but since we work together sometimes we just talk.

Ok lmao sorry I wasn't sure if you were another troll. But yea I guess we're not flirting either really, but def great synastry. But yea talk sometimes indeed. Just :where you live? What'd you do on the 4th?" and other things, but we'll see

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by Impulsv

Yeah he’s a hot Virgo with moon in Taurus and scorpio in mars n Venus just like me😢

I think this dude is moon in Pisces which scares me I cannnottt deal with Pisces. But rising is Scorpio so dammmmnnn. Moon is Taurus is awesome, super romantic

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why women love taken men? Do they see them as having more value? So strange.

And don't lie to yourself you'd love to replace her.

Why are Cancers' so judgemental and dumb? Obviously I'd like to replace her, but not on my own merit

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by Impulsv

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why women love taken men? Do they see them as having more value? So strange.

And don't lie to yourself you'd love to replace her.

Well it’s not love and didn’t know he was taken until 3 months later. But I agree wasted energy and only setting up for heartbreak so

I’m just being present no wishful thinking

But hell yeah id like to replace her haha

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These people just don't understand

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@aquatar1
7 Years

hes stand offish because hes not going to flirt with someone while hes taken, hes loyal. anything more than coworker small talk is to much for him.

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by aquatar1

hes stand offish because hes not going to flirt with someone while hes taken, hes loyal. anything more than coworker small talk is to much for him.

Does it matter if he started it?

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by LibraSupreme

If your truly a Libra, I would assume you could win him over with your charm. If they are not married means they are single. No ring or papers =green light.

Typical libra advice lacking in discipline, morals and boundaries. I hope another libra uses their charm to lure your partner from you. That would be fun. 😆😝

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why women love taken men? Do they see them as having more value? So strange.

And don't lie to yourself you'd love to replace her.

Why are Cancers' so judgemental and dumb? Obviously I'd like to replace her, but not on my own merit

Oh another Libra hating cancers. Lol. Having values make us judgemental eh.

My questions are actually great but the Libras can't comprehend it or see any interest in it, since you guys are known for being shallow and superficial.

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Another Cancer taking forever to reply to write up a board of rebuttals, then try to formulate it coherently and play victim

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by LibraSupreme

If your truly a Libra, I would assume you could win him over with your charm. If they are not married means they are single. No ring or papers =green light.

Typical libra advice lacking in discipline, morals and boundaries. I hope another libra uses their charm to lure your partner from you. That would be fun. 😆😝

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Sorry about all the Aqua in your chart, only you agree with your morals

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why women love taken men? Do they see them as having more value? So strange.

And don't lie to yourself you'd love to replace her.

Why are Cancers' so judgemental and dumb? Obviously I'd like to replace her, but not on my own merit

Oh another Libra hating cancers. Lol. Having values make us judgemental eh.

My questions are actually great but the Libras can't comprehend it or see any interest in it, since you guys are known for being shallow and superficial.

Another Cancer taking forever to reply to write up a board of rebuttals, then try to formulate it coherently and play victim

Whatever you say shallow bitch 🤣

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Shallow, and smart but at least I can admit it

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why women love taken men? Do they see them as having more value? So strange.

And don't lie to yourself you'd love to replace her.

Why are Cancers' so judgemental and dumb? Obviously I'd like to replace her, but not on my own merit

Oh another Libra hating cancers. Lol. Having values make us judgemental eh.

My questions are actually great but the Libras can't comprehend it or see any interest in it, since you guys are known for being shallow and superficial.

Another Cancer taking forever to reply to write up a board of rebuttals, then try to formulate it coherently and play victim

Whatever you say shallow bitch 🤣

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HUGE bitch too but hey you stepped in that direction all by yourself

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by librak924

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by LibraSupreme

If your truly a Libra, I would assume you could win him over with your charm. If they are not married means they are single. No ring or papers =green light.

Typical libra advice lacking in discipline, morals and boundaries. I hope another libra uses their charm to lure your partner from you. That would be fun. 😆😝

Sorry about all the Aqua in your chart, only you agree with your morals

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Sorry about all your immoral and degenerate placements 😏 It’s funny you mention in the OP that you aren’t planning on stealing but going by your response to me, you are. Puhleeze!!

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why women love taken men? Do they see them as having more value? So strange.

And don't lie to yourself you'd love to replace her.

Why are Cancers' so judgemental and dumb? Obviously I'd like to replace her, but not on my own merit

Oh another Libra hating cancers. Lol. Having values make us judgemental eh.

My questions are actually great but the Libras can't comprehend it or see any interest in it, since you guys are known for being shallow and superficial.

Another Cancer taking forever to reply to write up a board of rebuttals, then try to formulate it coherently and play victim

Whatever you say shallow bitch 🤣

Shallow, and smart but at least I can admit it

Lmao more like shallow and dumb. So sad.

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Aww so sad indeed. Do you need a tissue? I'd gladly get you one *hands over virtual handkerchief*

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by librak924

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by LibraSupreme

If your truly a Libra, I would assume you could win him over with your charm. If they are not married means they are single. No ring or papers =green light.

Typical libra advice lacking in discipline, morals and boundaries. I hope another libra uses their charm to lure your partner from you. That would be fun. 😆😝

Sorry about all the Aqua in your chart, only you agree with your morals

Sorry about all your immoral and degenerate placements 😏 It’s funny you mention in the OP that you aren’t planning on stealing but going by your response to me, you are. Puhleeze!!

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Life is fun 😉 Don't assume things by one thing you see. Maybe my natural charms will steal him

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why women love taken men? Do they see them as having more value? So strange.

And don't lie to yourself you'd love to replace her.

Why are Cancers' so judgemental and dumb? Obviously I'd like to replace her, but not on my own merit

Oh another Libra hating cancers. Lol. Having values make us judgemental eh.

My questions are actually great but the Libras can't comprehend it or see any interest in it, since you guys are known for being shallow and superficial.

Another Cancer taking forever to reply to write up a board of rebuttals, then try to formulate it coherently and play victim

Whatever you say shallow bitch 🤣

Shallow, and smart but at least I can admit it

Lmao more like shallow and dumb. So sad.

Aww so sad indeed. Do you need a tissue? I'd gladly get you one *hands over virtual handkerchief*

Your replies are lame too. The list never ends 🤣

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The list you wrote up because you're a psycho Cancer lmaoo. Was that comment in the top 3 for you to say? Are you gonna go to sleep at night and say to yourself "damn! I should have said *this* to the dumb lady on the internet instead of calling her comments lame" get a life kid lmao

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by librak924

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by LibraSupreme

If your truly a Libra, I would assume you could win him over with your charm. If they are not married means they are single. No ring or papers =green light.

Typical libra advice lacking in discipline, morals and boundaries. I hope another libra uses their charm to lure your partner from you. That would be fun. 😆😝

Sorry about all the Aqua in your chart, only you agree with your morals

Sorry about all your immoral and degenerate placements 😏 It’s funny you mention in the OP that you aren’t planning on stealing but going by your response to me, you are. Puhleeze!!

Degenerate placements 🤣lmaoo

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Makes life interesting, so much so that I don't care to insult strangers on the internet when they're looking for advice.

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why women love taken men? Do they see them as having more value? So strange.

And don't lie to yourself you'd love to replace her.

Why are Cancers' so judgemental and dumb? Obviously I'd like to replace her, but not on my own merit

Oh another Libra hating cancers. Lol. Having values make us judgemental eh.

My questions are actually great but the Libras can't comprehend it or see any interest in it, since you guys are known for being shallow and superficial.

Another Cancer taking forever to reply to write up a board of rebuttals, then try to formulate it coherently and play victim

Whatever you say shallow bitch 🤣

Shallow, and smart but at least I can admit it

Lmao more like shallow and dumb. So sad.

Aww so sad indeed. Do you need a tissue? I'd gladly get you one *hands over virtual handkerchief*

Your replies are lame too. The list never ends 🤣

The list you wrote up because you're a psycho Cancer lmaoo. Was that comment in the top 3 for you to say? Are you gonna go to sleep at night and say to yourself "damn! I should have said *this* to the dumb lady on the internet instead of calling her comments lame" get a life kid lmao

That took you hours to reply 🤣 triggered much?

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Where does it say "hours to reply"? Did you paraphrase me thinking you understood, or are you just a Cancer? lmaooo

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Posted by librak924

Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why women love taken men? Do they see them as having more value? So strange.

And don't lie to yourself you'd love to replace her.

Why are Cancers' so judgemental and dumb? Obviously I'd like to replace her, but not on my own merit

Oh another Libra hating cancers. Lol. Having values make us judgemental eh.

My questions are actually great but the Libras can't comprehend it or see any interest in it, since you guys are known for being shallow and superficial.

Another Cancer taking forever to reply to write up a board of rebuttals, then try to formulate it coherently and play victim

Whatever you say shallow bitch 🤣

Shallow, and smart but at least I can admit it

Lmao more like shallow and dumb. So sad.

Aww so sad indeed. Do you need a tissue? I'd gladly get you one *hands over virtual handkerchief*

Your replies are lame too. The list never ends 🤣

The list you wrote up because you're a psycho Cancer lmaoo. Was that comment in the top 3 for you to say? Are you gonna go to sleep at night and say to yourself "damn! I should have said *this* to the dumb lady on the internet instead of calling her comments lame" get a life kid lmao

That took you hours to reply 🤣 triggered much?

Where does it say "hours to reply"? Did you paraphrase me thinking you understood, or are you just a Cancer? lmaooo

you're so dumb lol.

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Kudos for the burn. Good at rebuttals. Yay for you. Have a good night

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by dilettante

Posted by librak924

Posted by dilettante

libra... do you have fire in yr chart?

whats yr moon, rising, & mars if you dont mind me asking

Moon Aires, Rising Sagittarius, Mars Libra

damn im getting so good at this shit. i was gonna narrow it down to aries &/or sag

aries me me me w/ sag idgaf blatancy 🎯

this whole thread makes so much sense now. thank youuu

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Plus the peaceful Libra is also igdaf 🙂

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@aquatar1
7 Years

Posted by librak924

Posted by aquatar1

hes stand offish because hes not going to flirt with someone while hes taken, hes loyal. anything more than coworker small talk is to much for him.

Does it matter if he started it?

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Virgos are very friendly. They try to be nice to everyone but theyre also awkward at times which may make you think they are into you or something. They're confusing. Truthfully, virgo men are not worth it girl...save yourself the heartache now. trust that his current gf will dump him sooner or later cause theyre insufferable and selfish lol.

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@LibraSupreme
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by LibraSupreme

If your truly a Libra, I would assume you could win him over with your charm. If they are not married means they are single. No ring or papers =green light.

Typical libra advice lacking in discipline, morals and boundaries. I hope another libra uses their charm to lure your partner from you. That would be fun. 😆😝

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It could happen the chances would be rare with my profile but it's very possible.

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by Arielle83

How do you seduce a greasy mechanic at work?

Is he covered in oil?

Is he like Joey Buttafuoco, and your his Amy Fisher?

Hot

As to your first comment, I like kids. As to your second comment, I have a thing for labor workers. They work hard for an honest living, he is not covered in oil, aaaand grow up

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by LibraSupreme

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by LibraSupreme

If your truly a Libra, I would assume you could win him over with your charm. If they are not married means they are single. No ring or papers =green light.

Typical libra advice lacking in discipline, morals and boundaries. I hope another libra uses their charm to lure your partner from you. That would be fun. 😆😝

It could happen the chances would be rare with my profile

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LOL @ rare! That’s what they all think😏

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by MyStarsShine

Maybe he's a bit scared of you or has gone off you?

Virgo men are looking for perfection, so they won't pursue unless you really wow them...

He's more friendly today, big waves and stuff. And I complimented his hair cut, he was thrilled at that

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by librak924

Posted by MyStarsShine

Maybe he's a bit scared of you or has gone off you?

Virgo men are looking for perfection, so they won't pursue unless you really wow them...

He's more friendly today, big waves and stuff. And I complimented his hair cut, he was thrilled at that

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Oh right. I was with one for years. After we split he dated a succession of women only to find there was something wrong with all of them. He said one was too orange 😆. In the end he tells me he’s not going to bother any longer as there’s no one perfect enough.

Yay

Lol

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@librak924
7 Years

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by librak924

Posted by MyStarsShine

Maybe he's a bit scared of you or has gone off you?

Virgo men are looking for perfection, so they won't pursue unless you really wow them...

He's more friendly today, big waves and stuff. And I complimented his hair cut, he was thrilled at that

Oh right. I was with one for years. After we split he dated a succession of women only to find there was something wrong with all of them. He said one was too orange 😆. In the end he tells me he’s not going to bother any longer as there’s no one perfect enough.

Yay

Lol

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Dually noted! Must have been something special about you

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by librak924

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by librak924

Posted by MyStarsShine

Maybe he's a bit scared of you or has gone off you?

Virgo men are looking for perfection, so they won't pursue unless you really wow them...

He's more friendly today, big waves and stuff. And I complimented his hair cut, he was thrilled at that

Oh right. I was with one for years. After we split he dated a succession of women only to find there was something wrong with all of them. He said one was too orange 😆. In the end he tells me he’s not going to bother any longer as there’s no one perfect enough.

Yay

Lol

Dually noted! Must have been something special about you

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....and be perfect 😛

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