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Dating a Virgo
Posted by kiirsttnae
Thank you for your response! It really made me realize a few things. Hopefully he and I will see each other soon and actually talk about what's going on. I felt bad that I didn't say something at the time (about how I really felt), I guess I was so thrown off by what he said that I was literally speechless.
Also, I'm a Gemini but I don't really act like one.
Yeah, I've been there (giving a guy a lot of time, because I liked him, and then having him kinda pull back to take care of things on his end, and feeling like...HE DOESN'T WANT ME ANYMORE!)
It's just basic insecurity over the beginning of a new relationship, perhaps even in the shadows of relationship past that were less than stellar, and the nightmares of said relationships that still haunt us...we're just afraid of rejection, and getting hurt, so we put that brick wall up there to protect ourselves when there's really no need.
The Virgos on the Titanic had their lifevests on before the boat even left the dock, I'm sure =))
We're just overly cautious. But yeah, talk to him--I'm sure he'll appreciate it.
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It's really hard for us to show vulnerability (I know I feel vulnerable when I open myself up to rejection by making myself too available for someone) and we're uber sensitive, so if someone suddenly pulls back, even just a little, it may feel like a slap in the face, when it's really just that--them needing to take care of other things.
I'd explain the situation just like you explained to us, and tell him what you'd like to be (it will give him more confidence in the relationship). If you assure him that you def. want more than friendship, and would like to continue (with instances here and there where both of you do your own thing, and then come back to reconnect once those chores are done) I think things would stand a better chance. Communication--we crave it.
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