Too dreamy?

So,

I had a really explicit dream about my virguy. I was laying in bed, trying to remind myself to call him in the morning because I was worried about one of his kitties. I ended up dreaming about asking him in person about his cat, and in the dream me asking him ended up going down a very imtimate path. I have mentioned dreams of mine he's been in, and he seems to enjoy that, but nothing quite so 'erotic' as this. I emailed the condensed version to him, because it was rather interesting to me, and I thought he might enjoy it as well.

Now I'm all like uh oh, maybe that was too much. What would you think virguys? An attractive female friend, whom you didn't necessarily want to 'go there' with, sharing a dream involving serious shenanigans. Too much, or just something interesting to file away?

*snicker and smile*
You sure he doesn't want to go down that road? 😛

Posted by Cajunspirit
*snicker and smile*
You sure he doesn't want to go down that road? 😛

LOL Thanks for that Caj 😉

Really though, of all my guy friends, he's the least mackish. Almost no 'naughty' flirting/joking etc. Unless he's just being so subtle I'm not picking up on it. About the only hint of naughty I get is when he talks about his massage therapy, he jokes about 'with release'.

Oh well. It was a good dream, how could I not share 😛

So I finally got up enough nerve to call him since sending that email. He's off work this week & next, so no bumping into each other in the hall 😉 He seemed happy to hear from me, so I guess what I told him wasn't anything he didn't want to hear 😛 I said something about the full moon/eclipse/soltice making my mind go odd places and he laughed and agreed. I bet he'll never directly mention what i emailed him though.

He came in this afternoon to do some personal things with work tools, but only said hi & retreated to his locked office. If people see me going in, they'll start bugging him with work stuff, so no chatting today. Probably for the best, since his work area is where my dream took place, and I would probably do nothing but blush trying to talk.

Bummer part is we won't be able to hang out til New Year's eve or after. I know that's no time at all to a virgo, but we cancers are on moon time and I hate waiting 🙂

Posted by Kali

Will you two just make it happen already!?!?!?

But that might spoil all the fun 😉

Posted by sandyclaws

Posted by Kali

Will you two just make it happen already!?!?!?

But that might spoil all the fun 😉

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not to be nosy but dont u have a life partner.

Posted by Prince_Pisces
lol @ "life partner"

lmaooo i know rite lol.

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

Posted by sandyclaws

Posted by Kali

Will you two just make it happen already!?!?!?

But that might spoil all the fun 😉

not to be nosy but dont u have a life partner.

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Mmm hmmm....who has brought up some interesting concepts lately regarding what is or isn't permissible. Still pondering that, but lots of food for thought.

A little scary.
Do keep in mind that DXP is a good place to sort things out. I sure as hell don't intend to go screwing up any lives for my own entertainment and/or gratification. I have an excellent life as is. I love my partner & care very much for my friend.

That being said, it's very interesting to see where this all ends up 😉

AAHAHAHHHHHHRHGHRHGH!

Listening to Dan Savage podcasts and reading about bonobos has done some odd things to my relationship, and my state of mind. Not to mention the recent full moon and my raging libido.

And I've decided to make up a label for myself: ambisexual. Like ambidextrous.
I'm left handed, but somethings I can only do left handed, and some things only right handed. Somethings I prefer one way or the other, and some things I never know which hand until I start doing whatever it is (like hitting a baseball).

Sex & relationships are the same way. Reading all kinds of stuff about straight/gay/polyamorous/bisexual/etc. none of it ever made sense. I think my definition covers the fact that I still find some things about male 'energy' irreplaceable, no matter how much I enjoy the relationship I have with my partner.

Anyway. If all y'alls really want to 'educate' yourselves, read some Dan Savage. Fascinating. Frightening.

I'm glad virgos are so slow, relatively speaking. Even my virgo-influenced partner moves more at virgo speed than at her cancer-sun speed. Not that I move fast, it's that I run things through my head fast and make up my mind sooner than later.

But I'm glad I have time to think.

Oh yeah - and time to upload a couple of pics to my profile if anyone wants a peek at me painting my living room & hallway this weekend 😉