ugh... testing my scorpio patience... seriously.

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by sweetscorpio84 on Thursday, December 30, 2010 and has 13 replies.

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My virgo bf is totally testing the waters right now. Seems we've been having some communication problems... and though i've tried to control my natural jealousy over stupid things... for example: stupid girl he's been friends for years... it seems to be super hard right now. My feelings are hurt. There really is no other way to put it. 😢 Stupid virgo... you're being an ass. small rant, that's all.

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Posted by ellessque
male virgo's are going to have female friends. you need to leash your jealousy. It's petty and usually due to an insecurity you are feeling within yourself.

if it's really an issue of communication...pull both of your charts and look for ways to polish those skills. If it isn't, find out what is bothering you. This is not his issue, this is yours.

It bothers me because its something he hasnt been completely open with.

Had he said before how frequently they talk... etc, then i would be ok with it, just as i am with his other female relationships.

Fact of the matter is, last night we had an arguement and he cussed at me 😢 he's never done that before, nor have i. Needless to say, neither one of us gave in and text/called each other last night. I'm still hurt. I'm honest about everything.

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Yea I can understand what you're saying. I suppose it was out of frustration. Figured giving him time was all I could do. I wasnt asking him to drop her, but I did want to know if it was soley a friendship. Anyhow, this sucks... we never fight... and this one just blows big time.

He knows I wouldnt cheat... I'm loyal, even when I'm feeling insecure. 😢

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I cant stop wondering what he's thinking about... and if this one arguement will make him want to break up with me... etc. Its normal that we think this way right? blah... 😢

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Is it best just to say that it is all forgotten and I will just accept what he says...? I hope he calls 😢 we've been together for about 10 months... and have talked every day.. except for one day when he was deployed on a mission. this is the second time we've never talked.

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Posted by 25thDecan
Florida's cajun food might not be seasoned right for my tastes. LOL my Christmas has been a good wholesome one. Disfrutando mucho. Did I say that right? Perdon mi senora de Peru, como se dice "I enjoyed my holiday a lot"? LOL lo siento, no hablo muy bien espanol...todavia. que sera una dia....

nothing in Florida is seasoned right lol

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Posted by ellessque
awe. 😢

crawling in bed, wrapped in covers is sometimes some of the best new years ever!!!!!!

I did this too 😆 Passed out around 11:40 due to no sleep previously, a hangover, and being sick. Oh what a great way to bring in the new year while everyone is partying it up else where 😛