Dealing with Virgo men

I’m a taurus woman who has been attracting several Virgo men over the past two years and I have had enough. I hear that Taurus and Virgo are a good match but I honestly do not believe that to be true. Taurus is sensual, affectionate, gentle and requires consistency so the hot and cold, repressed, perfectionist nature of Virgos drive me insane and leads to explosive fights. I find them to be very hypocritical too, demanding honesty and fidelity from women while being secretive and always giving off the vibe that they are still entertaining numerous women behind the scenes. I feel I keep attracting this sign for a reason, so I want to learn how to deal with them better so hopefully I can attract men who are better suited to me.

You have to learn to just give on controlling them. They will rebel against controlling women.

When you do that....you have virgo.

...there are no secrets when they really like you.

It’s just so frustrating because I hate being controlled too and I find them to be incredibly controlling and overbearing. They make me feel like I’m not good enough yet they pursue me more than any sign these days. I’m at my wits end haha!

Dont date them if they are causing u grief. Most earth signs get along, but there are always exceptions.

Post ur whole chart if u have it

Time to break the cycle maybe?

Virgos will entertain until they've found the right project. If you're too confident, they either try to knock you down a peg or they find someone they can work on.

If you do like virgos, maybe find a project that the 2 of you can work on together instead of them being focused on you.

Yeah I have noticed that they try to take me down a peg. They are initially attracted to my confidence but then try to tear it down. That is actually really good advice! Thank you, I will take that on board 🙂

You may be taking the criticism the wrong way. Maybe you should ask them to clarify.

And what exactly do you mean by "entertaining"? Vibes can be misleading.

Not saying I'm denying these vibes could be accurate, but sometimes it could be jealousy or insecurity over petty incidents.

I'm not usually a fan of the Taurus sun sign, but I usually love the other placements.

And I've never tried to tear a confident woman down unless she's doing me that way, unconstructively.

I think you'd be better off with someone who is more emotional than mental. You've got both venus sun & moon. Sun & mercury in 12th.

Do u like romantic guys?

What are ur hobbies?

By entertaining I feel like they are flirting, pursuing and maybe even sleeping with other women. The Virgo I just fell out with did not like me interacting with men (even platonically) despite us not being a couple yet I didn’t believe that he wasn’t keeping his options open.

That’s ok, I honestly think that Taurus and Virgo is a difficult pairing.

I agree, the trouble is I’m extremely attracted to intelligence too so that’s part of the reason why Virgos can be a bit of a weakness for me. I would love to find someone who is both intelligent and emotionally expressive. I love romance! I’m into music, writing, gaming, drawing and science.

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I agree, the trouble is I’m extremely attracted to intelligence too so that’s part of the reason why Virgos can be a bit of a weakness for me. I would love to find someone who is both intelligent and emotionally expressive. I love romance! I’m into music, writing, gaming, drawing and science.

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By entertaining I feel like they are flirting, pursuing and maybe even sleeping with other women. The Virgo I just fell out with did not like me interacting with men (even platonically) despite us not being a couple yet I didn’t believe that he wasn’t keeping his options open.

That’s ok, I honestly think that Taurus and Virgo is a difficult pairing.

They could just make you feel insecure about being involved without actually engaging in anything due to flirting. That could possibly make them jealous of you actually talking to other men when they are only flirting. They may not really be keeping their options open, but since you perceive it that way, you'll react accordingly which seems to bug them. Not saying you're wrong from your POV either.



I used to be a huge flirter until I realized how it came off especially while with someone else. They may just not see how it effects you and even if they could, it's hard to stop on the dime.

So unless you plan on figuring them out or trying to change that, you may wanna just move on to another sign lol. Your accusations could be true though, but there are different types of Virgos and you seem to be only attracting one type. That should be your main issue here. It could also be a vibe you're giving off yourself which attracts them to you.

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I agree, the trouble is I’m extremely attracted to intelligence too so that’s part of the reason why Virgos can be a bit of a weakness for me. I would love to find someone who is both intelligent and emotionally expressive. I love romance! I’m into music, writing, gaming, drawing and science.

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Aw thanks! I’ve just joined this site so still getting used to it!

And I think it’s something you either are or you aren’t. Personally I like dinner dates, flowers, compliments and chivalry etc. Things like that. 🙂