Virgo man is confusing the living hell out of me

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by LizzyKitty on Tuesday, October 10, 2017 and has 9 replies.

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@LizzyKitty
8 Years

Posted by edgelord
you didn't need to include every moment that you guys spent together.

you slapped him what exactly did you expect? if you had a long relationship and you knew he was okay with playing around like that that's one thing. just slapping someone randomly out of nowhere when you don't know them... what did you think was gonna happen? "oh i love how you slap me. it's so sexy." ?

also paragraphs please. if you post again. no one but me has responded in 10 hours and that's probably why.

No. We were playing. He pinned my arms down behind my back, and playfully hit me, and I hit his stomach with my head, he carried me while still pinning my arms and legs so I can't move. We were fighting playfully. The slap was playful, a joke. But it ticked him.

That is not my question anyway. I asked why would we have this perfect emotional moment and then he goes missing for a while after it?

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@LizzyKitty
8 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
Why did you slap him??

We were fighting playfully. Read my previous comments. He actually bruised my arm with his playful fighting. My slap was NOTHING. But he took it personally. Tho he almost freakin broke my arm.

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@LizzyKitty
8 Years

Posted by edgelord

Posted by LizzyKitty

Posted by edgelord
you didn't need to include every moment that you guys spent together.

you slapped him what exactly did you expect? if you had a long relationship and you knew he was okay with playing around like that that's one thing. just slapping someone randomly out of nowhere when you don't know them... what did you think was gonna happen? "oh i love how you slap me. it's so sexy." ?

also paragraphs please. if you post again. no one but me has responded in 10 hours and that's probably why.

No. We were playing. He pinned my arms down behind my back, and playfully hit me, and I hit his stomach with my head, he carried me while still pinning my arms and legs so I can't move. We were fighting playfully. The slap was playful, a joke. But it ticked him.

That is not my question anyway. I asked why would we have this perfect emotional moment and then he goes missing for a while after it?

yeah, okay. whatever. you don't explain that part and then wonder why normal people (as i'm not the only one to comment on it) are like WTF? yeah okay.

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Uhh..I did say "we started a fun fight"

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@SpreadLies
9 Years

I'm a Virgo

He sounds sensitive & stupid

If he can't talk to you & get over it don't sweat him

Sometimes virgos get caught up in the moment & don't really have those feelings for that person

Just continue doing you. Don't text him. Don't bother him. If he likes you he'll come back, but when he does, make him pay by doing what he did to you.

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@nikkistar
9 Years10,000+ Posts

So much unnecessary detail.

The one thing I have noticed about Virgos, is they will hang back and analyze the person for a bit. During their analysis of the person, they my seem aloof. Just keep going on with life, it's not like you guys were super serious anyways.

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@glutton4punishment
8 Years

Applying to his store and working there was a bad idea. Virgo like to keep their professional lives separate from pleasure. They will incorporate pleasure into work and vice versa, but always NEED those boundaries to be there. That's usually the case with most men though.

He probably is rethinking the entire situation now, and keeping you at a distance.

Don't push him, or he will completely shut down on you.

I understand wanting to be close to the object of your affection... maybe getting a job where he worked was the only way you knew to get close to him. Understandable.

I would reccommend toning your behavior towards him down at work. Be non-chalant and professional.

After he trusts that you don't go crazy at work for him, he might approach you outside of work.

Idk this is just my take on your situation.