hellome
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Distant and not communicating
Do you want him though?
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Posted by hellomeI guess this thread would matter if you actually had a relationship going on. You don't. It comes across as worrying about something that doesn't even exist. 😕
Hello ladies and gents,
I have had a short term flirtation with a guy who is a Virgo with Scorpio rising. During a conversation I suggested that it'd be better to meet face to face more, and he somehow thought (and told me) felt that as if he wasn't enough for me. I tried talking to him twice and he responds back, but he doesn't do anything to keep conversation going or he is not initiating any conversation. However, at the same time he keep clicking on the "Going" button for most of the events I state attending. In most of these event we see each other, but we pretend we haven't and we don't talk. Just two days ago I was at a small conference, and he happened to be there. He tried to stay in my field of view, and checked me out many times, but still no move.
In addition, we have many mutual friends, and he doesn't come to any of those small dinner/house parties even though they are his friends, too. Plus, couple of my friends caught him stalking me on Facebook. He is confusing...
PS. Btw, I am a cancer with gemini rising.
Cheers.
Posted by MetaphoricBliss....most people who want something typically will GO AFTER IT. She can observe all day, it's not going to jack shit.
But she's "worrying about something that she (wants) to exist." Nothing wrong with that. She seems interested and curious.
*do jack shit
I am just curious as to why someone could ditch a possible relationship when it was going so well and why he would just keep quiet.
Another thing i'm curious about is if he's not interested in me, why doesn't he talk to me at least as friends? He keeps quiet as if we had the relationship and broke up. Any thoughts?
So this is not a question about whether we will have a relationship or not. I'm just questioning the situation.
Another thing i'm curious about is if he's not interested in me, why doesn't he talk to me at least as friends? He keeps quiet as if we had the relationship and broke up. Any thoughts?
So this is not a question about whether we will have a relationship or not. I'm just questioning the situation.
You make a lot of assumptions..
I tried twice. Had a short conversation in each, but he doesn't do anything to keep conversation going.
Posted by MetaphoricBliss
He needs reassurance. It doesnt seem like he will reach out or make the first move, therefore it's on you to take the initiative.
Yes, and I don't claim them to be 100% true. However when you're left with many question marks, you either think of possible reasons or you simply don't care. At this point, I am thinking. And maybe too much🙂
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Posted by Damnata
You make a lot of assumptions..
you think he doesn't talk at all? I understand if he is not interested, but why not even say "hello" as if i have done wrong to him?
Posted by MetaphoricBlissPosted by hellomeWell.. There's your sign,
I tried twice. Had a short conversation in each, but he doesn't do anything to keep conversation going.
Posted by MetaphoricBliss
He needs reassurance. It doesnt seem like he will reach out or make the first move, therefore it's on you to take the initiative.
If he was interested as well I'm pretty sure he would continue the conversation, not ignore or drop it.
Trust actions, not words.click to expand
nt. I just thought he could at least say hi once in a while as we have known each other for 5 years.
Thanks.
Posted by MetaphoricBlissPosted by hellomeYou two aren't in a relationship.. He doesnt feel the need to say hi.
Then, why do you think he doesn't talk at all? I understand if he is not interested, but why not even say "hello" as if i have done wrong to him?
Posted by MetaphoricBlissPosted by hellomeWell.. There's your sign,
I tried twice. Had a short conversation in each, but he doesn't do anything to keep conversation going.
Posted by MetaphoricBliss
He needs reassurance. It doesnt seem like he will reach out or make the first move, therefore it's on you to take the initiative.
If he was interested as well I'm pretty sure he would continue the conversation, not ignore or drop it.
Trust actions, not words.click to expand
This is what you should do. Reach out whenever you feel the need to say hi or whatever. Keep it light, don't get emotional, and then continue on living life no matter what his response is. I don't know a ton about Virgos, but I've heard they value consistency and friendship.
Posted by hellomeNow it's a possible relationship??
I am just curious as to why someone could ditch a possible relationship when it was going so well and why he would just keep quiet.
Another thing i'm curious about is if he's not interested in me, why doesn't he talk to me at least as friends? He keeps quiet as if we had the relationship and broke up. Any thoughts?
So this is not a question about whether we will have a relationship or not. I'm just questioning the situation.
You initially said it was a flirtation. Married men flirt..it means nothing.
Posted by hellomeAre you blaming him because you have an active imagination? You are the one questioning something that does not exist.
Yes, and I don't claim them to be 100% true. However when you're left with many question marks, you either think of possible reasons or you simply don't care. At this point, I am thinking. And maybe too much🙂
!Posted by Damnata
You make a lot of assumptions..click to expand
Either do something about it or stop thinking about it. Another words...
Am I reading this right?
So, you have boyfriend type expectations on a friend?
Or, not even a friend ..... it's a person who clicks the same button as you.
wtf does that mean anyway?
I would imagine that people run when they see you heading toward them .. because you suck the life out of a person just because you like him. He can even look at you, or your head is spinning some kind irrational fantasy involving how he's suppose to cater to your feelings. And you're so deluded in this fantasy that you believe he has an obligation to you, to interact with you in a way to satisfy this severely fucked up insecurity you have.
wow
I thank my lucky stars every fucking day for my Virgo, because I just wouldn't be able to handle this kind of stupid from a partner.
My advice to you is to openly discuss with him what you've said in here ... tell him word for word.
He needs to grasp this sooner rather than later, so he can put up a warning beacon in his mind.
Posted by P-AngelLmao!!!! She said warning beacon †††â€
My advice to you is to openly discuss with him what you've said in here ... tell him word for word.
He needs to grasp this sooner rather than later, so he can put up a warning beacon in his mind.
Hilarious!!!
Even a shy introverted Virgo will go after the girl of his dreams but she has to be the GIRL of he wants. He is just not that into you.
Posted by hellomeI also have scorpio rising and my best advice it to approach him and initiate conversation. If you are really interested in him, find out what he likes or is passionate about. I assure you he will have no issues carrying on a conversation about his interests, especially if you can find a common ground. Try not to be critical of him or things he enjoys, we are very quiet and reserved but will attack with sarcasm if we are offended and we are very sensitive. The "stalking" behavior is him "admiring you from a far", he just does not have the confidence to approach you
Hello ladies and gents,
I have had a short term flirtation with a guy who is a Virgo with Scorpio rising. During a conversation I suggested that it'd be better to meet face to face more, and he somehow thought (and told me) felt that as if he wasn't enough for me. I tried talking to him twice and he responds back, but he doesn't do anything to keep conversation going or he is not initiating any conversation. However, at the same time he keep clicking on the "Going" button for most of the events I state attending. In most of these event we see each other, but we pretend we haven't and we don't talk. Just two days ago I was at a small conference, and he happened to be there. He tried to stay in my field of view, and checked me out many times, but still no move.
In addition, we have many mutual friends, and he doesn't come to any of those small dinner/house parties even though they are his friends, too. Plus, couple of my friends caught him stalking me on Facebook. He is confusing...
PS. Btw, I am a cancer with gemini rising.
Cheers.
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I have had a short term flirtation with a guy who is a Virgo with Scorpio rising. During a conversation I suggested that it'd be better to meet face to face more, and he somehow thought (and told me) felt that as if he wasn't enough for me. I tried talking to him twice and he responds back, but he doesn't do anything to keep conversation going or he is not initiating any conversation. However, at the same time he keep clicking on the "Going" button for most of the events I state attending. In most of these event we see each other, but we pretend we haven't and we don't talk. Just two days ago I was at a small conference, and he happened to be there. He tried to stay in my field of view, and checked me out many times, but still no move.
In addition, we have many mutual friends, and he doesn't come to any of those small dinner/house parties even though they are his friends, too. Plus, couple of my friends caught him stalking me on Facebook. He is confusing...
PS. Btw, I am a cancer with gemini rising.
Cheers.