Do Virgo men have emotions—

Hi everyone! I was wondering if I could get some answers to this one....

We've been married for 6 months now...me Capricorn Woman and him Virgo Man...it's a match truly made in heaven!! (Sorry for being so senti!) Okay, now here's the issue....I'll be going abroad....new job and all...he'll join me in a couple of months cause of some work restrictions...Anyhow, we both know that being apart for even two months is going to be really tough!! But when we even get anywhere near this topic he just switches off, changes the topic or really seems bored and disinterested. Once after a few pegs he disclosed that it's going to be too tough for him but that was ages ago.....as the days grow nearer for me to leave...he seem less and less bothered! Why is this? I KNOW he loves me...then why doesn't show it here?? He's never been gushy with words, but his actions always speak volumes! Am I missing something here??

Yeah? why do you want to speak about this issue with him..??

He knows it already and you are married with him?why do you want to make a drama..??

I don't take it as drama at all. More than that, it is a part of trust building therefore a part of problem solving. Virgos like this womans husband and Qbone, thinks that world revoles around them and everyone should learn to telepathically read their minds. Surely such thing is not possible and giving answers are needed (even thought you think that there is no logically room left to explain it again and again) because when you give answer you also ask "We have talked that before and solved it, why do you ask this again?" and if it wasn't enough again then "We have talked that before and solved it, why do you ask it again and then again?" which will ultimately bring the situation to trust building which at the end will make the communication much and far easier for both parties. I also can say that this method works with 90% of people and by just being a little bit more tolerant and not bringing your "Majesty complex" in front of people, Qbone, you could lead a far more happier life rather than being such an anal like yourself.

Emotional is good? unrealistic is not good..(for your reference)?.

Men also have their emotions too.. but why should anyone count the women emotions at first..??

What I meant in my post was don?t take an aspirin if you don?t have headache..!

You think anything wrong with this advice..??

Yes it's wrong.

A person could be in different mind than you are right now. By just ignoring them you just prove to them that the world should be revolving around them. This pisses alot of people off, because nobody knows what you have on your mind. And reassurance leads them to know what's on your mind and live in peace with it.

them = you.

Ahh?. Sensitive haffool..??.....I am touched?I mean.. What you said is GREAT? WONDERFUL...

I wonder? why cant we all being like you?

(I would rather be dead thou)? fish philosophies are like gulp.. Gulp and some bubbles..

"I would rather be dead thou"

And what is so difference from what you have today? You're 45 years old prick and live alone far from your family. If you're not dead, then what are you?

Hey Strings Attached!! Thanks for the special support! Yeah, I think it has to do with being a woman..this constant need to communicate and understand each others feelings. I believe that it's right to assume that he just doesn't want to face those feelings at the moment cause it'll be difficult when it comes to it! We've never had any communication problems at all...so suddenly when he didn't want to confront it I wondered why. Guess it's more difficult for men to bring out their emotions. P.s. I'm definitely not the drama queen type!:-)

Some people do think about issues alot and come up with new ways which needs to be answered. If they don't trust their partners alot, they might come up with need for reassurance and I find this normal. If this Virgo guy said one thing and then act like he should not do anything more than he did, this is just a sign of being insensitive and behaving like the world should turn around them and their logic. Damn pepople, humans are not logical beings, forget about it, especially when it comes to women. If she needs for reassurance then she does not trust him % 100. And if this guy keeps flip away from her, then he proves her suspections and that she should not trust him. If this really bothers after a while, I'm sure she will shut up, of course if you tell this to her.

Miriam
Sorry if i come across as rude. You have been talkign right form the begining in vey unsure terms abotu your virgo's communicative abilites. and yet you both are amrried.And as far as i knwo about cappy women have this amazing capacity to decipher the silent/unsaid meassages of people around them. These feamles though very complicated are very unruffled about such situations htat u described above. And your match canot be made in heaven if his behaviour recently is bothering you.

My own virgo senses my need for reassurance and provides me that even without me askign for it. He is always there whenever i want to spill my guts out. In this one and half year ther ewas never ever a time when he went into silence for more than 5 hrs to be precise. If he is upset abotu soemthing, he may get quite for few hrs..but he is back quicker than i expect. and so full of love.

My dear virgo or no virgo it is matter of personal chemistry and understnadign between the two that decides the communication level between them.

It is quite simple to understand..

We've got this haffool (the fish) who can speak of Virgos.. then who need Virgos..??..
My another advise for Miriam would be like?. Get a FISH.. preferably FOOL? err.. sorry Haffool type..!!

Then your life will be like??heaven?. You get both Virgo and the Fool? err.. FISH I meant? in one shot..!

I Guess?

Bubbles and gulp.. gulp? very interesting life? good luck with it..

Yeah,

That perfectly explain why a fool like Qbone lives alone. Yeah, pretty clear. I guess if he had more brain cells to understand what I say here, he still would live with his family.

Pretty clear.

I've said several times before.. and I guess I am still going to do this..

You want to keep Virgo alive in your love life..? Keep communicating with..........no communications makes him/her paranoid..

Simple as that I can not explain better..... and lovely looneybird is most accurate in her statement.

"That perfectly explain why a fool like Bone lives alone."

Now haffool? being single doesn't mean being alone?. You sure your personal vacuum cleaner is working..??

BOY?lol?.

Your family definetly showed you finger and left you. And now you think that this same way could work with someone else? Good riddance. Go try, maybe you will learn before your death that being a fool like you and self centered does not makes your way easier.

Oh and yes, my personal vacuum cleaner is working and is working right on this forum.

Next time haffool.. go and visit the mirror in your rat hole (if you ever have one) and press your zits? it is a great job and makes you feel better..(practice makes you master)..

Do it boy?.

NOW? shut up for things that you have no ideas about..!

Thanks for the welcome Brahn

Been around as usual? but "observing" not "engaging"?thanks again?glad to see you too.

" NOW? shut up for things that you have no ideas about..!"

I know that your family left you and that's all I need to know. And this all happens because nobody is as fool as you to stay with you for more than 10 minutes.

I guess it's time for you to go back to your own rat hole where your family told you stay in. And yes, continue to do your thing that you are trying to show me as advise since I do not require to live in a rathole as you do.

Press the zits? makes you feel better

No thanks I have people to communicate for this.

Thanks for advice anyway. I don't need it.

There you go? people that communicating with your zits? how lovely?

You are goddamn lucky man? you know that..??

Shaka2

Really, I didn't come here for fight. Just look at the first page.

"Ahh?. Sensitive haffool..??.....I am touched?I mean.. What you said is GREAT? WONDERFUL... "

I mean, we are here to share our ideas, right? Why he does need to attack me? It's okay to say your opinion and since this is open board everyone is allowed to criticise each other, but why he needs to attack?

It comes to one and only conclusion:

He hates me. He can't stand what I say because probably I'm right.

" You are goddamn lucky man? you know that..??"

I don't think it's about luck. You are coming and attacking me from out of nowhere and what expect me to do? And when I get defencive becaseu YOU have attacked me, I become a player? How wonderful you are playing. But no thanks, I'm not going to accept your games here.

YES!!!!! WE AREN'T HEARTLESS, UNEMOTIONAL MACHINES!!!!!. We are just reluctant to open our feelings to JUST ANYONE becuase we are afraid you will use them against us to harm us some way; and anyway we are usually up on someone trying that; we intuitively feel the abuse a person may bring our way. Virgo men take their emotions very seriously, and want to share with a partner who will allow them to be human, and to understand how deeply they feel....