Virgo XY: Is he worth the trouble?

Wow, there's so much good info on this board; I really have gotten an education about the enigmatic Virgo male.

Lemme see if I've got this right:

* Virgo men don't give compliments, so don't hold your breath waiting for him to tell you you're beautiful.

* Expect a very long (5 to 12 years) "platonic phase" while he sizes you up before asking you out.

* He is prone to disappear for days, weeks, even months at a time, for no apparent reason and with no explanation. You're supposed to wait patiently, not ask questions, and act normally when he does get around to calling again.

* Don't expect chocolates and roses for Valentine's Day; you won't be getting any from this man.

* He's not demonstrative, so if you wind up marrying him he won't be affectionate with your children.

Did I miss anything—

With all of those "attributes," is it any wonder that Virgo men are "unlucky in love?!!"

Wow, the virgo I spent years with, was the exact opposite of everything you have stated. He was extremely romantic, complimentary, loved my as well as his own children, never disapeared, was love at first sight, and showered me with lovely gifts. We still have a great love and respect for each other. Virgo is his sun sign, with his moon also in Virgo. I have never understood some of the things Ive read on this board, it contradicts every virgo Ive ever known.

Sunshine...

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I wonder too.... need to find the nature of this kind of stupid claims someday in the future..!

Certainly none of them are true.!

Virgo fe/males are great communicators. They liek people whom they love/like to be "correctly" informed abotu their mind & heart status. They are definitely expressive on this.

They are perfectionists and do the needful to enrich the relationship thta htye are in. They figure out the needs of their close ones and strive to fulfill them as best as they can.This certainly means indulging in people they love and care for.

Never seen a virgo with a long platonic phase.

If at all there is a category of people the virgos will never be reserved with and be totally demonstative with is the Kids. They are too good with children.

Virgo doesnt mince his words..whether he is complimenting or speakign out the most painful truth. They definitely wont try to please you with any iron hands in velvet gloves technique.

I can attest to some of this, but not all. I've been seeing a Virgo for almost four years - and yes I have gone through pretty much all of this. We did spend the first 5 years being friends - lol. And Branh summed it up pretty well. I did get a compliment about a week ago after all of this time. I was shocked, but didnt make a big deal about it. Just continued on talking and I gave him a little peck on the cheek.

I think a Virgo wants to be understood more than anything. And if you just calm down - accept him as is and just kind of know how he feels instinctivly that is half the battle. I do think they are somewhat testy but if you stand up to them, they see how far they can go. But I would say a lot of patience is requires to deal with one. To me the male Virgo is sometimes like a little boy, a rebellious teenager and an old man rolled all into one.

I am a Scorpio and with Virgo I can say hes' been one of my better matches.

"To me the male Virgo is sometimes like a little boy, a rebellious teenager and an old man rolled all into one."

Yes, and that I find extremely hot! *W*

Im noticing that at first my Virgo man communicated with me about everything and now he got upset with me about something i said and i have not spoken to him on the phone for about 5 days now....but he has text me here and there...what's up with that ?.....im a Virgo myself so i understand when people go through things they shy away from people....but once he said he loved me i thought that he would continue to share his thoughts with me....& im always demonstarting to him that im there for him no matter what...i dont understand

HSD,

As one of my favorite Virgo's to read, I must say, I dont understand where you got that for one minute I thought you could be my Virgo? WOW. okay, anyway, you can put away the avie if you feel the need, my Virgo male is a bit of a darker skined man and very much w/out the kids you have and many other things that set the two of you very very much apart. Wow, what do i learn from this, Virgo's are defensive, quick to jump to conclusions that are far fetched as well as paranoid? hmmmmmmm........possible, its possible.......

GOOD HAD, I was like "wow" that you thought you needed to show me your pic, all is good, and thank you for considering me to set me "at ease" really.

You having me on edge was any thoughts, input, etc that what i share here brings to your mind, as i see so many similarities in even the way you express yourself, very much the gentleman he is, and is expressed in your writing and wording.

I see some similarity with others here, but not so many as you, and it does humor me, i get most of your humor.
thanks again
I need to learn those smiley things too

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