Posted by VirgoChyld
That depends on the person. Has he been honest with you? Is the question I want to know. Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see.....
Posted by canerleo101Posted by VirgoChyld
That depends on the person. Has he been honest with you? Is the question I want to know. Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see.....
I don't know if he has been honest or not. We were in a long distance relationship for the first seven months of our relationship i flew out to NY to see him twice. I moved to NY three months ago and he is never able to spend time with me because he says that he works 6 days a week and sometimes 12 hour shifts.click to expand
Posted by AVG
All men lie about other women!! Duh..🙂
Posted by canerleo101Posted by AVG
All men lie about other women!! Duh..🙂
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.click to expand
Posted by AVGPosted by canerleo101Posted by AVG
All men lie about other women!! Duh..🙂
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
Why??click to expand
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Posted by canerleo101Posted by AVGPosted by canerleo101Posted by AVG
All men lie about other women!! Duh..🙂
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
Why??
Because I threatened to come to his house and start mess with him.click to expand
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Don't hide!!!! 🙂click to expand
Posted by AVG
Well he might have a criminal record..but I bet it ain't for hitting a women's..🙂
Posted by canerleo101Posted by AVG
Well he might have a criminal record..but I bet it ain't for hitting a women's..🙂
True, but his criminal record is for something much worse. And it's funny because at times he acts as if he is too good for me and that he can't accept my faults but I accept his.click to expand
Posted by AVGPosted by canerleo101Posted by AVG
Well he might have a criminal record..but I bet it ain't for hitting a women's..🙂
True, but his criminal record is for something much worse. And it's funny because at times he acts as if he is too good for me and that he can't accept my faults but I accept his.
That's how we do,no matter how bad we use to be back in the day...we always turn into mother Teresa or father terry at some point!! Hahahahahahahaha..🙂click to expand
Posted by canerleo101Posted by AVGPosted by canerleo101Posted by AVG
Well he might have a criminal record..but I bet it ain't for hitting a women's..🙂
True, but his criminal record is for something much worse. And it's funny because at times he acts as if he is too good for me and that he can't accept my faults but I accept his.
That's how we do,no matter how bad we use to be back in the day...we always turn into mother Teresa or father terry at some point!! Hahahahahahahaha..🙂
I guess your right because of all of the men that I have ever dated he is the only one that I would consider having children with.click to expand
Posted by AVG
Tell ya what,I'll tell you a way too find out if he's got other women on the side. Ok, tell him you wanna have a open relationship,and that some dude at work has been trying to push up on you,and told you about open relationships and how there ain't no strings attached,and you kinda liked the way it sounded..and be serious about it no smiling..I know y'all cancer Leo's are silly so you might have to do it over the phone or texting...might work,might not..😉
Posted by canerleo101Posted by AVG
Tell ya what,I'll tell you a way too find out if he's got other women on the side. Ok, tell him you wanna have a open relationship,and that some dude at work has been trying to push up on you,and told you about open relationships and how there ain't no strings attached,and you kinda liked the way it sounded..and be serious about it no smiling..I know y'all cancer Leo's are silly so you might have to do it over the phone or texting...might work,might not..😉
He already told me that he wants me to start talking to other guys. But whats funny is that in the beginning of our relationship he begged me not to go back to my Libra ex-boyfriend but once I started to have deep feelings for him everything changed. He now says he wants me to talk to other men, I'm so confused and mind you that he is the only person that I know in NY.click to expand
Posted by AVG
Really? We are the best dads..😉
Posted by canerleo101Posted by AVG
Really? We are the best dads..😉
If I didn't believe in no sex before marriage I would definitely be trying to have a child with this man. Funny because if I wasn't a spiritual person I would be lying saying that i was on the pill just so he could get me pregnant. Which is crazy because i could never imagine doing anything like this ever before in life.click to expand
Posted by AVGPosted by canerleo101Posted by AVG
Really? We are the best dads..😉
If I didn't believe in no sex before marriage I would definitely be trying to have a child with this man. Funny because if I wasn't a spiritual person I would be lying saying that i was on the pill just so he could get me pregnant. Which is crazy because i could never imagine doing anything like this ever before in life.
My wife did..😉click to expand
Posted by AVG
Ok,if you been knew,why make this thread?
Posted by canerleo101Posted by AVG
Ok,if you been knew,why make this thread?
When I asked him today if he was talking to any other women he said that I am still the only one who he is talking to. So basically he has no other female friends which in turn makes it to were I don't want to talk to any other men.click to expand
Posted by canerleo101
He already told me that he wants me to start talking to other guys.
Posted by canerleo101
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
Posted by canerleo101
I moved to NY three months ago and he is never able to spend time with me because he says that he works 6 days a week and sometimes 12 hour shifts.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by canerleo101
He already told me that he wants me to start talking to other guys.
Posted by canerleo101
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
Posted by canerleo101
I moved to NY three months ago and he is never able to spend time with me because he says that he works 6 days a week and sometimes 12 hour shifts.
Canerlo,
If he's working 12 hour shifts, 6 days a week, I doubt there are other women he's talking to.
Honestly, my gut instinct tells me there is no one else.
He's just not that into YOU, really.
He's been telling you the truth.
You're just not listening.
He's not interested.
You're projecting on a faux relationship that doesn't exist.
Not attacking you...am I missing something here?
Question(s).
Why did you really move to NY?
I live in this city, and this quite an expensive city to live in.
He's the only person you know in NYC, who are you living with?click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977
What is it exactly you think he's lying about?
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by canerleo101
He already told me that he wants me to start talking to other guys.
Posted by canerleo101
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.
Posted by canerleo101
I moved to NY three months ago and he is never able to spend time with me because he says that he works 6 days a week and sometimes 12 hour shifts.
Canerlo,
If he's working 12 hour shifts, 6 days a week, I doubt there are other women he's talking to.
Honestly, my gut instinct tells me there is no one else.
He's just not that into YOU, really.
He's been telling you the truth.
You're just not listening.
He's not interested.
You're projecting on a faux relationship that doesn't exist.
Not attacking you...am I missing something here?
Question(s).
Why did you really move to NY?
I live in this city, and this quite an expensive city to live in.
He's the only person you know in NYC, who are you living with?click to expand
Posted by canerleo101
I think that he is lying about having other women in his life because he doesn't want me to mirror his actions.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by canerleo101
I think that he is lying about having other women in his life because he doesn't want me to mirror his actions.
You wouldn't have to 'mirror' his actions, he has already set it in motion.
He told you verbatim he wants you to see other men.
No mystery here.click to expand
Posted by canerleo101Posted by TaurusBull1977
How old is your daughter?
She's fifteen.click to expand
Posted by canerleo101
One minute he says that then the next he says something different.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by canerleo101Posted by TaurusBull1977
How old is your daughter?
She's fifteen.
When you first moved to NYC, who were you living with?
This obviously wasn't a job transfer.
In NYC, proof of income is required, and most brokers ask for three ways. (deposit, and first two months rent)...90 days is required to evict a tenant in NYC.
Your fifteen year old daughter (possibly 9th or 10th grade) wanted you to move to NYC to attend the public schools there? Is this correct?click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by canerleo101
One minute he says that then the next he says something different.
When he told you something different....
Was if after you moved to NYC?
What did he tell you verbatim when he asserted at something different that contradicted his initial comments (suggesting you see other people when you moved to NYC).click to expand
Posted by canerleo101
Just my daughter and myself have been living together since I first move to NY. And yes I had to pay three months rent to move in, and my daughter is in the 9th grade and she wanted to go to high school in NYC.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by canerleo101
Just my daughter and myself have been living together since I first move to NY. And yes I had to pay three months rent to move in, and my daughter is in the 9th grade and she wanted to go to high school in NYC.
How did you show proof of income?
This wasn't a job transfer.click to expand
Posted by canerleo101Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by canerleo101
One minute he says that then the next he says something different.
When he told you something different....
Was if after you moved to NYC?
What did he tell you verbatim when he asserted at something different that contradicted his initial comments (suggesting you see other people when you moved to NYC).
He's been doing this behavior for a while now so I'm confused. But I guess I still deal with him because he is the only person that I know in NY.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by canerleo101
Just my daughter and myself have been living together since I first move to NY. And yes I had to pay three months rent to move in, and my daughter is in the 9th grade and she wanted to go to high school in NYC.
How did you show proof of income?
This wasn't a job transfer.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by canerleo101Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by canerleo101
One minute he says that then the next he says something different.
When he told you something different....
Was if after you moved to NYC?
What did he tell you verbatim when he asserted at something different that contradicted his initial comments (suggesting you see other people when you moved to NYC).
He's been doing this behavior for a while now so I'm confused. But I guess I still deal with him because he is the only person that I know in NY.
I wasn't referring to his behavior. My question was...
What did he tell you verbatim when he asserted at something different that contradicted his initial comments.click to expand
Posted by canerleo101
I scanned and emailed my landlord my information.
Posted by canerleo101
He told me that he didn't want me to talk to other guys and that he wanted me to basically wait for him.
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