Do Virgo Men Lie About Other Woman (Page 2)

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by canerleo101

I scanned and emailed my landlord my information.

This wasn't a job transfer.

How did you show proof of income that you were currently working in NYC?
They ask for copies of recent paystubs.

Your paystubs from your last employer from the state that you were living in (with no job transfer) wouldn't have sufficed.

I'm curious.

Where are you from originally?

(unless you lived in NJ, CT) where the NJ transit and MetroNorth would have allowed you to commute to any of those states without making a grand move.

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I moved from California

Posted by canerleo101

I moved from California

Canerlo....
Consider this constructive criticism because I sincerely empathize with you. I believe you wear your heart on your sleeves and you quickly projected on a romantic relationship that never really existed. You allowed your emotions to dictate your actions in regards to this Virgo. I don't believe it was because your 15 yr old daughter wanted to attend a public school in the East Coast where she has no family members or friends. You wanted to make that move to be closer to him. You're residing with someone. You know people here in NYC despite that fact that you keep stating the contrary. You're currently living with someone.

There is no way you were approved for an apt without showing proof of income.

This would have been the only exceptions to the rule:
1. You already knew someone in NYC and took over a rent-controlled apt. Which is very difficult to find.
2. You had connections in NYC, and someone vouched for you, put you on to this landlord who didn't really do a credit, or an employment background check.

I think you have it real bad for this Virgo. My advice, admit you made a mistake, and relocate to Cali. Find someone who can reciprocate those romantic feelings. From what I've read, he has no intentions of being with you.

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Posted by canerleo101

I moved from California

Canerlo....
Consider this constructive criticism because I sincerely empathize with you. I believe you wear your heart on your sleeves and you quickly projected on a romantic relationship that never really existed. You allowed your emotions to dictate your actions in regards to this Virgo. I don't believe it was because your 15 yr old daughter wanted to attend a public school in the East Coast where she has no family members or friends. You wanted to make that move to be closer to him. You're residing with someone. You know people here in NYC despite that fact that you keep stating the contrary. You're currently living with someone.

There is no way you were approved for an apt without showing proof of income.

This would have been the only exceptions to the rule:
1. You already knew someone in NYC and took over a rent-controlled apt. Which is very difficult to find.
2. You had connections in NYC, and someone vouched for you, put you on to this landlord who didn't really do a credit, or an employment background check.

I think you have it real bad for this Virgo. My advice, admit you made a mistake, and relocate to Cali. Find someone who can reciprocate those romantic feelings. From what I've read, he has no intentions of being with you.

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It's funny because what you are telling me I have heard from so many people and I do have one cousin who lives out here he works at Rikers Island. I met him for the first time when I first got out here but he wanted me to end my friendship with this Virgo guy, and since I did not end the friendship he refused to talk to me. But you are right about one thing I do have it real bad for this Virgo I never said that I didn't. But I was planning on moving out here before I ever met him. This guy and I stopped talking for 6 weeks before I moved out here so I honestly thought that we were not going to be friends when I moved out here. However a couple of weeks before I moved out we spoke to each other and his whole outlook changed he was super excited that I was moving out here and would always call and ask if I was out here yet and he would get mad and question why I have left yet. He's not the last man on earth. Men come a dime a dozen it's just that like I

Posted by TaurusBull1977

I think you have it real bad for this Virgo. My advice, admit you made a mistake, and relocate to Cali. Find someone who can reciprocate those romantic feelings. From what I've read, he has no intentions of being with you.

If it was that serous I could just find another guy in NY. But as I said before I did't move out here for a man.

Posted by canerleo101

If it was that serous I could just find another guy in NY. But as I said before I did't move out here for a man.

OK.

"Do Virgos lie about other women?"

Some do.

Some don't.

Something tells me that your Virgo has been very forthright with you from the beginning.

Anything that transpired after, in regards for any hopes for progress (a potential relationship) was all YOUR idea, and your idea only.

See... where he verbalized everything that didn't allude to a relationship...

You, on the other hand, have been very dishonest about your intentions from the beginning to the end.

Manipulating your way into a relationship will be a great disservice to you.

Please don't use your daughter as an excuse to do so.

I can't vouch for all Virgos, but I DO know New Yorkers...

If he isn't attempting to hold you down, it 'aint' happening.


Good to luck to you!

Posted by TaurusBull1977
"Do Virgos lie about other women?"

Some do.

Some don't.

Something tells me that your Virgo has been very forthright with you from the beginning.

Anything that transpired after, in regards for any hopes for progress (a potential relationship) was all YOUR idea, and your idea only.

See... where he verbalized everything that didn't allude to a relationship...

You, on the other hand, have been very dishonest about your intentions from the beginning to the end.

Manipulating your way into a relationship will be a great disservice to you.

Please don't use your daughter as an excuse to do so.

I can't vouch for all Virgos, but I DO know New Yorkers...

If he isn't attempting to hold you down, it 'aint' happening.


Good to luck to you!

When this guy and i first started talking and he told me about his situation I told him twice that I am looking for a serous relationship that will eventually lead to marriage. When he told me about his situation I am the one who told him that I think that we should just be friends and that he should not be in any kind of serous relationship right now. I told him this twice. He is the one that said he want to try to pursue a relationship with me even after I explained this to him. As far as me being manipulative, I am from Oakland, CA, you can't make it too far where I'm from if your fake.

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Okay but you said lets be friends yet you transfer to his city because he told you to. You never let him prove he was into you and got out of his "situation" you just up and move because he stated lets "try" a relationship that wasn't a relationship in the first place. He is playing you. He wanted to see how far he could get you to jump. You jumped now he doesn't want you. If you had forced him to show how serious he was by coming out to see you and proving by actions his situation was finished and you went to see him and so forth then he may have changed his ways. But for you to joke and say you would come by his house and he threaten you shows right there you have been played. He is still with a woman or women and he doesn't want you. You are a conquest. You lost. He won. The end. I know because I did the same thing with a Virgo man. They are manipulative and onl

I was already going to move to NY before I ever met him.

Posted by honeejr
But for you to joke and say you would come by his house and he threaten you shows right there you have been played. He is still with a woman or women and he doesn't want you. You are a conquest. You lost. He won. The end. I know because I did the same thing with a Virgo man. They are manipulative and onl

Well maybe I just like the trill of the chase, because I get bored with men quickly so maybe it's a good thing that he isn't jumping through hoops for me, like most men that I have dated. Plus I haven't given him any pu $ $ y so I really don't feel played.

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Posted by honeejr
But for you to joke and say you would come by his house and he threaten you shows right there you have been played. He is still with a woman or women and he doesn't want you. You are a conquest. You lost. He won. The end. I know because I did the same thing with a Virgo man. They are manipulative and onl

Well maybe I just like the trill of the chase, because I get bored with men quickly so maybe it's a good thing that he isn't jumping through hoops for me, like most men that I have dated. Plus I haven't given him any pu $ $ y so I really don't feel played.

Giving up some behind doesn't erase the fact that you have been played. But if you feel like that that is fine. Sounds to me your trying to clean up your initial post to make is seem like you just wanted to move to NY regardless if he was there or not. Yet your whole post started asking about Virgo men lying due to the fact he got you move over there and then did a 360 degree turn around on you. You didn't like that and confused at being manipulated by him. He is unavailable to you. You are chasing nothing. And he is not jumping through hoops because he doesn't want you. He has what he wants. SMH...But if you want to keep on this ride do so. Stop whining about the outcome.

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Yes I have to agree I guess I like being played and chasing after men who don't want me. But my initial question was do Virgo men Lie about other women not if I am getting played. I'm not really tripping too hard I can walk down the street and have men falling at my feet, I know this and he knows this.

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Posted by canerleo101

Posted by honeejr
But for you to joke and say you would come by his house and he threaten you shows right there you have been played. He is still with a woman or women and he doesn't want you. You are a conquest. You lost. He won. The end. I know because I did the same thing with a Virgo man. They are manipulative and onl

Well maybe I just like the trill of the chase, because I get bored with men quickly so maybe it's a good thing that he isn't jumping through hoops for me, like most men that I have dated. Plus I haven't given him any pu $ $ y so I really don't feel played.

Giving up some behind doesn't erase the fact that you have been played. But if you feel like that that is fine. Sounds to me your trying to clean up your initial post to make is seem like you just wanted to move to NY regardless if he was there or not. Yet your whole post started asking about Virgo men lying due to the fact he got you move over there and then did a 360 degree turn around on you. You didn't like that and confused at being manipulated by him. He is unavailable to you. You are chasing nothing. And he is not jumping through hoops because he doesn't want you. He has what he wants. SMH...But if you want to keep on this ride do so. Stop whining about the outcome.

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And he gave me money a few times after I moved out here, so I'm not mad at that.

Posted by honeejr

LOL and we see where that gets you. It's one thing to have men falling at your feet it's another to love yourself enough to want better than to be played and chasing men. If you can hold off intimacy then stand with confidence and walk in such a way the right men will come your way. Want more than these twats..who are manipulative..it is a waste of life and you only have one. Make it matter.

Maybe your definition of being played is different than what mine is. It didn't seem like I was getting played when he was putting money in pocket.

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Posted by canerleo101

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LOL and we see where that gets you. It's one thing to have men falling at your feet it's another to love yourself enough to want better than to be played and chasing men. If you can hold off intimacy then stand with confidence and walk in such a way the right men will come your way. Want more than these twats..who are manipulative..it is a waste of life and you only have one. Make it matter.

Maybe your definition of being played is different than what mine is. It didn't seem like I was getting played when he was putting money in pocket.

SMH....you win...you're the brightest crayon in the box and he is the one who got played.

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Well, we still talk every day so I guess you can say that he is being played.

Posted by canerleo101
So I talked to my Virgo male friend

Posted by canerleo101
We were in a long distance relationship for the first seven months of our relationship i flew out to NY to see him twice. I moved to NY three months ago and he is never able to spend time with me because he says that he works 6 days a week and sometimes 12 hour shifts.

Posted by canerleo101
He threatened to call the police on me a couple of days ago, so I figured that since the situation got that serous, he would at least start telling the truth.

Posted by canerleo101
Because I threatened to come to his house and start mess with him.

Posted by canerleo101
When I asked him today if he was talking to any other women he said that I am still the only one who he is talking to. So basically he has no other female friends which in turn makes it to were I don't want to talk to any other men.

Posted by canerleo101
Well maybe I just like the trill of the chase, because I get bored with men quickly so maybe it's a good thing that he isn't jumping through hoops for me, like most men that I have dated. Plus I haven't given him any pu $ $ y so I really don't feel played.

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Hopefully he's documenting all of this bullshit, because when he does call the police, he has what he needs to make you disappear. MOVE THE HELL ON and leave this guy alone.

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Just my daughter and myself have been living together since I first move to NY.

Posted by canerleo101

.... because he is the only person that I know in NY.

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..... and I do have one cousin who lives out here ...

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oh, so you're the liar

Posted by canerleo101

And he gave me money a few times after I moved out here, so I'm not mad at that.

Delusional much?

He never asked you to move to NYC.
He isn't sleeping with you.
You're not his girlfriend.
He threatened to call the cops if you did a 'roll through.'
He isn't coming by to 'check' you....and you're in his city.

Canerleo---
There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Don't use one lie to cover up another lie. You were really feeling him, allowed your emotions to dictate your actions, moved your daughter (took her out of school in the middle of the school year) to be closer to this dude. No one is judging you. Shit happens.

It's life. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.

But don't continue to dig a deeper hole for yourself by being in denial. He doesn't want you.

I don't believe he's playing you with other women. This would require the solidification of a relationship...and you're not in one.

You're a long way from Cali.

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Posted by canerleo101

Just my daughter and myself have been living together since I first move to NY.

Posted by canerleo101

.... because he is the only person that I know in NY.

Posted by canerleo101

..... and I do have one cousin who lives out here ...

oh, so you're the liar

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I feel sorry for the daughter .... her parental example to follow is fucked up.

She is learning to react instead of think.

That's fucking sad.

This female had another account, in which she deleted and came back with this one. But, it's the same profile, same picture, same person.

She boasted about how she lured him in proclaiming how virtuous she is, while presenting herself promiscuous .... I mean, how can you constantly talk about no sex before marriage and then prounce around with half of your tits hanging out?

I realize it isn't her pic ... but, in her other account, she talked about how she used the promise of sex to lure him in.

Then when he gave a second look at her, she zeroed in on him and then chased him hard. When she was talking about moving to NY, she never mentioned her child wanting to move there ... no! she talked about HER wanting to move there to be closer to him, because noticed her.


How fucking sad is it that a woman is so insecure, and so lacking in self esteem that she follows a man who never indicated interest other than her tits she was pushing in his face ...


What the hell happened to our people? And now, we have a 15 year old female who is being taught the exact same thing ... if the kid even exists. because she never mentioned having a kid in her other account.

And there seems to be so many delusional females out there ... what the fuck happened? Females used to be Ladies, with honor.

Now they're just fucking cunts, man.

She did mention a daughter in her very last thread before deleting her account. She was verbally ripped a new assh*le by several members when she shared vile and explicit details of how she was abused and and the way her daughter was sexually abused at a very young age by a partner. If I recall, she stated she was powerless to stop it from happening again and again.

Many were extremely offended because of the nonchalant manner in which she disclosed the information and proceeded to flirt with the various men on the board while talking about the abuse her daughter endured---but everyone deals with abuse differently I suppose. The thread was deleted a few hours later. She deleted her account shortly after that.

Same Virgo, same story about the Libra ex she was seeing while talking to the Virgo (which I am suspecting is why he's too busy with work all of a sudden), same discussion about him taking care of her financially and saving sex (for religious reasons is what she stated at that time) and the same story about moving to NY. The Virgo was non committal at that time as well. Soon she will be talking about how amazing her sex is, ("snap back pussy") was the term she used that had me LOL and spit out my tea.

From the moment she dodged the Bull's very clear questions like she couldn't comprehend english I knew, yet again it would be more of the same. Meh.

I find the whole thread is funny since she states herself in the OP they are not in a relationship:

Posted by canerleo101
So I talked to my Virgo male friend who I have been arguing with all week, and today when a spoke with him, when the question was asked, about him having any other female friends that he talks to he says that he doesn't. So I always thought that Virgo men where honest until i read some of the post on this board. My question is when he tells me that he is not talking to any other woman besides me should I believe him or are most Virgo men liars.

So why should it matter who he is talking to, or how much time they spend together?

#RhetoricalBecauseIDon'tReallyCare

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by canerleo101

And he gave me money a few times after I moved out here, so I'm not mad at that.

Delusional much?

He never asked you to move to NYC.
He isn't sleeping with you.
You're not his girlfriend.
He threatened to call the cops if you did a 'roll through.'
He isn't coming by to 'check' you....and you're in his city.

Canerleo---
There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Don't use one lie to cover up another lie. You were really feeling him, allowed your emotions to dictate your actions, moved your daughter (took her out of school in the middle of the school year) to be closer to this dude. No one is judging you. Shit happens.

It's life. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't.

But don't continue to dig a deeper hole for yourself by being in denial. He doesn't want you.

I don't believe he's playing you with other women. This would require the solidification of a relationship...and you're not in one.

You're a long way from Cali.

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I'm the one who told you that I agree with you that He Doesn't Want Me. Like I said before I can walk down the street and have men falling at their feet for me, and he has given me money four different times when he got paid, he has come to my apartment and given me money and I have come to his job and got money from him. And your a long way from Cali also.

Posted by PhoenixRising
She did mention a daughter in her very last thread before deleting her account. She was verbally ripped a new assh*le by several members when she shared vile and explicit details of how she was abused and and the way her daughter was sexually abused at a very young age by a partner. If I recall, she stated she was powerless to stop it from happening again and again.

Many were extremely offended because of the nonchalant manner in which she disclosed the information and proceeded to flirt with the various men on the board while talking about the abuse her daughter endured---but everyone deals with abuse differently I suppose. The thread was deleted a few hours later. She deleted her account shortly after that.

Same Virgo, same story about the Libra ex she was seeing while talking to the Virgo (which I am suspecting is why he's too busy with work all of a sudden), same discussion about him taking care of her financially and saving sex (for religious reasons is what she stated at that time) and the same story about moving to NY. The Virgo was non committal at that time as well. Soon she will be talking about how amazing her sex is, ("snap back pussy") was the term she used that had me LOL and spit out my tea.

From the moment she dodged the Bull's very clear questions like she couldn't comprehend english I knew, yet again it would be more of the same. Meh.

I already told people that I am the same person but I had to use a different user name because dxp deleted my account. If i was trying to hide who I was I wouldn't be using the same profile picture. Does it make you feel good to put people down,what i went through with my daughter almost being killed by my ex-husband is very painful and I would wish that on my worst enemy.

Posted by PhoenixRising
I find the whole thread is funny since she states herself in the OP they are not in a relationship:

Posted by canerleo101
So I talked to my Virgo male friend who I have been arguing with all week, and today when a spoke with him, when the question was asked, about him having any other female friends that he talks to he says that he doesn't. So I always thought that Virgo men where honest until i read some of the post on this board. My question is when he tells me that he is not talking to any other woman besides me should I believe him or are most Virgo men liars.

So why should it matter who he is talking to, or how much time they spend together?

#RhetoricalBecauseIDon'tReallyCare

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I just wanted to get other peoples opinion on if they think that Virgo men lie or do they tend to be the more honest type. Dam is that a crime. I may have other Virgo men who are trying to take me out and I maybe wanted to know this for future reference.

Posted by P-Angel

This female had another account, in which she deleted and came back with this one. But, it's the same profile, same picture, same person.

She boasted about how she lured him in proclaiming how virtuous she is, while presenting herself promiscuous .... I mean, how can you constantly talk about no sex before marriage and then prounce around with half of your tits hanging out?

I realize it isn't her pic ... but, in her other account, she talked about how she used the promise of sex to lure him in.

Then when he gave a second look at her, she zeroed in on him and then chased him hard. When she was talking about moving to NY, she never mentioned her child wanting to move there ... no! she talked about HER wanting to move there to be closer to him, because noticed her.


How fucking sad is it that a woman is so insecure, and so lacking in self esteem that she follows a man who never indicated interest other than her tits she was pushing in his face ...


What the hell happened to our people? And now, we have a 15 year old female who is being taught the exact same thing ... if the kid even exists. because she never mentioned having a kid in her other account.

And there seems to be so many delusional females out there ... what the fuck happened? Females used to be Ladies, with honor.

Now they're just fucking cunts, man.

Its my picture from Halloween I was a Raiderette. Its not like I dress like this on a daily basis.

Posted by P-Angel


Then when he gave a second look at her, she zeroed in on him and then chased him hard. When she was talking about moving to NY, she never mentioned her child wanting to move there ... no! she talked about HER wanting to move there to be closer to him, because noticed her.


How fucking sad is it that a woman is so insecure, and so lacking in self esteem that she follows a man who never indicated interest other than her tits she was pushing in his face ...


What the hell happened to our people? And now, we have a 15 year old female who is being taught the exact same thing ... if the kid even exists. because she never mentioned having a kid in her other account.

And there seems to be so many delusional females out there ... what the fuck happened? Females used to be Ladies, with honor.

Now they're just fucking cunts, man.

I was already planning to move to NY before I ever met this guy. Why would I even start talking to a man who is half way on the other side of the country if I wasn't already going to move to NY to begin with. Also, since the fourth grade up until this year my daughter has attended private Christian schools that I have paid for. For the past 10 years I have resided in my home with my daughter and myself. It's not like I lived with or had a whole bunch of men coming in and out of my home, and I have raised my child in the Church her whole life.

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I feel sorry for the daughter .... her parental example to follow is fucked up.

She is learning to react instead of think.

That's fucking sad.

No need to feel sorry for my daughter she has been baptize in the name of Jesus Christ, living for Christ and since she was 3 years old she has been in the Church. I am so happy that I invested so much into my child, meaning I made sure that we made it to service four times a week constantly year after year since she was 3 years old, and I can say that it has paid off.

Posted by canerleo101

I already told people that I am the same person but I had to use a different user name because dxp deleted my account. If i was trying to hide who I was I wouldn't be using the same profile picture. Does it make you feel good to put people down,what i went through with my daughter almost being killed by my ex-husband is very painful and I would wish that on my worst enemy.

Please point out in my post where I stated you were hiding who you were under this new account. Where did I put you down exactly? I stated facts about what you posted. I didn't call you a derogatory name or insult you. Did you not state you had the "snap back pussy" to validate to a bunch of strangers when the Ram challenged the truth of your story? Did you not disclose you were involved with a Leeb while talking to the Virgo long distance, whom he asked you to leave? Were you not the one questioning his financial status back then and mentioning it now?

As for your daughter. Are you kidding me? Seriously? You put the very private situation about your daughter on this board in a very detailed and distasteful way--which I did not repeat by the way, which I am sure was very painful and private for her. You had no problem what so ever sharing that bit of information and when others asked you to hide it, you refused. But since you've deleted you think all is forgotten and I am not supposed to mention it? GTFOH! You do not know who the hell is floating around these boards. There are people who are member approximately her age on here. Information is shared so easily passed around. So while you did not mention her name, you have your face plastered all over the place and anyone with two brain cells could make the connection between you and your child's traumatic past child if they happened know you.

I take no pleasure in seeing/discussing the issue of abuse. You can believe that. You also have no idea how many children I have witnessed hurt because of the thoughtless actions of their parents, prior to, during and after they experienced an abuse.

Seriously, try that sh*t with someone else.

Let me clarify he is the only person that I know in NYC (besides my cousin who I just met for the first time, but refused to talk to me anymore. I have family in Albany but that is like three hour from NYC and I have never been to Albany.

Posted by PhoenixRising

I take no pleasure in seeing/discussing the issue of abuse. You can believe that. You also have no idea how many children I have witnessed hurt because of the thoughtless actions of their parents, prior to, during and after they experienced an abuse.

Seriously, try that sh*t with someone else.

No I think you get a lot of pleasure for making people feel bad. As far as the comment about "I have witnessed hurt because of the thoughtless actions of their parents" myself and the person who molested my daughter was in the Church faithfully living for Christ I had no idea that he was a fake.

Posted by canerleo101

Posted by PhoenixRising
I find the whole thread is funny since she states herself in the OP they are not in a relationship:

Posted by canerleo101
So I talked to my Virgo male friend who I have been arguing with all week, and today when a spoke with him, when the question was asked, about him having any other female friends that he talks to he says that he doesn't. So I always thought that Virgo men where honest until i read some of the post on this board. My question is when he tells me that he is not talking to any other woman besides me should I believe him or are most Virgo men liars.

So why should it matter who he is talking to, or how much time they spend together?

#RhetoricalBecauseIDon'tReallyCare

I just wanted to get other peoples opinion on if they think that Virgo men lie or do they tend to be the more honest type. Dam is that a crime. I may have other Virgo men who are trying to take me out and I maybe wanted to know this for future reference.

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No, it's not a crime at all to. I'm not seeing where I posted that. More to the point, I don't understand how you misunderstood my post. You have identified that he is NOT your man. So why were you arguing with him about the other women he may or may not be talking to? If he is your friends how many women he is talking to, having sex with, taking out to dinner and sharing all his money on is irrelevant, now isn't it? Do you not see how you have created a situation for yourself--the situation that another poster has pointed out to you I believe. That was the point.

I thought you were completing school and pursuing your own business. Why did you give up on that?

Posted by PhoenixRising

As for your daughter. Are you kidding me? Seriously? You put the very private situation about your daughter on this board in a very detailed and distasteful way--which I did not repeat by the way, which I am sure was very painful and private for her. You had no problem what so ever sharing that bit of information and when others asked you to hide it, you refused. But since you've deleted you think all is forgotten and I am not supposed to mention it? GTFOH! You do not know who the hell is floating around these boards. There are people who are member approximately her age on here. Information is shared so easily passed around. So while you did not mention her name, you have your face plastered all over the place and anyone with two brain cells could make the connection between you and your child's traumatic past child if they happened know you.

I take no pleasure in seeing/discussing the issue of abuse. You can believe that. You also have no idea how many children I have witnessed hurt because of the thoughtless actions of their parents, prior to, during and after they experienced an abuse.

Seriously, try that sh*t with someone else.

Why are you bringing it up a second time? Is it pleasureful for you?

Posted by PhoenixRising

No, it's not a crime at all to. I'm not seeing where I posted that. More to the point, I don't understand how you misunderstood my post. You have identified that he is NOT your man. So why were you arguing with him about the other women he may or may not be talking to? If he is your friends how many women he is talking to, having sex with, taking out to dinner and sharing all his money on is irrelevant, now isn't it? Do you not see how you have created a situation for yourself--the situation that another poster has pointed out to you I believe. That was the point.

I thought you were completing school and pursuing your own business. Why did you give up on that?

Do you have something against me?

Posted by PhoenixRising

... she shared vile and explicit details of how she was abused and and the way her daughter was sexually abused at a very young age by a partner. If I recall, she stated she was powerless to stop it from happening again and again.

Many were extremely offended because of the nonchalant manner in which she disclosed the information and proceeded to flirt with the various men on the board while talking about the abuse her daughter endured---

omg

I do remember reading something similar to this ... but, associate with someone else. Guess I'm mistaken, and it was actually her.

Posted by PhoenixRising

I thought you were completing school and pursuing your own business. Why did you give up on that?

Everythings going quite well I have been truly bless and I'm happy that I was able to move to NYC.

Damn, what an ass-talker ... no wonder the Virgo is trying to get away from you.


And I do remember the snap-back-pussy that she bragged about having. And now she's trying to talk about being a Christian.


lol ... you just can't pay for entertainment like this.

Posted by PhoenixRising

... she shared vile and explicit details of how she was abused and and the way her daughter was sexually abused at a very young age by a partner. If I recall, she stated she was powerless to stop it from happening again and again.

Many were extremely offended because of the nonchalant manner in which she disclosed the information and proceeded to flirt with the various men on the board while talking about the abuse her daughter endured---

I never said that I was powerless to stop it happening again and again where the fuck did that come from. I am the one who called the police and pressed charges on my daughters abuser.

@Canerleo----

You have a very brilliant, methodical way at being evasive to direct questions.
Your ability to play the role of 'martyr' is uncanny.

Which means you will hold on to a beautiful lie until the audience disperses.

Posted by canerleo101

No I think you get a lot of pleasure for making people feel bad.

Smh. I'm not going to explain my post or reasons for posting what I did. Take it for what it's worth. I did noticed you didn't address my question about how exactly I put you down or my post being facts about what you posted though. Nice deflection 😉. Again, try that on someone else.

Posted by canerleo101

As far as the comment about "I have witnessed hurt because of the thoughtless actions of their parents" myself and the person who molested my daughter was in the Church faithfully living for Christ I had no idea that he was a fake.

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Really not my point. You forgot to add, "prior to, during and after they experience abuse". The fact that you posted it in detail at all and have your face on the boards has the potential of causing her additional harm. Why? Because people apparently screen shot the hell of these boards. Because I have seen a young girl have something in her past plastered all over twitter and vine by a thoughtless individual to shame and humiliate her. That was my point.

Also, from what I recall, what you've posted above is not what you stated before.

Anyway, I'm not gonna go back and forth with you. If I recall from your last account that is what you do. Deflect, go back and forth with posters, provide vague answers. Meeeeh.

I am truly sorry that this has happened to your daughter and you. Be mindful of the information you share and how.

Posted by P-Angel

Damn, what an ass-talker ... no wonder the Virgo is trying to get away from you.


And I do remember the snap-back-pussy that she bragged about having. And now she's trying to talk about being a Christian.


lol ... you just can't pay for entertainment like this.

My pastor is the one who told the us that if a woman continuously misuses her body than her goods will be of no good. I never said that I was I Christian I said that I love the Lord and that I have sent my daughter to Christian school for the majority of her life.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Canerleo----

You have a very brilliant, methodical way at being evasive to direct questions.
Your ability to play the role of 'martyr' is uncanny.

Which means you will hold on to a beautiful lie until the audience disperses.

OMG Yes, and she thinks she being clever about it.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Canerleo----

You have a very brilliant, methodical way at being evasive to direct questions.
Your ability to play the role of 'martyr' is uncanny.

Which means you will hold on to a beautiful lie until the audience disperses.

How am I playing the role of a martyr I haven't even disclosed half of the stuff that has happened to me in my life. Please this is not my whole life story. But I am used to women disliking me.

Posted by honeejr

Thank you P. Then the cousin told her if she spoke to the Virgo they would stop talking to her...I mean really? Sigh...

True, I was very surprised that my cousin refused to speak to me just because I still talk to this guy but, oh well.

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Posted by PhoenixRising

No, it's not a crime at all to. I'm not seeing where I posted that. More to the point, I don't understand how you misunderstood my post. You have identified that he is NOT your man. So why were you arguing with him about the other women he may or may not be talking to? If he is your friends how many women he is talking to, having sex with, taking out to dinner and sharing all his money on is irrelevant, now isn't it? Do you not see how you have created a situation for yourself--the situation that another poster has pointed out to you I believe. That was the point.

I thought you were completing school and pursuing your own business. Why did you give up on that?

Do you have something against me?

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I don't even know you. It saddens me to see women play themselves and not have someone tell you to stop, so you can actually get your self together and achieve what you want. Especially if your reasons are due to what I think is going on (given the info you shared when you had last account). The one person I trust the most doesn't allow me to fool myself into false ideas about any of the situations I am in. She will tell me straight up "_____, just stop. Get your head out of your ass." and I am grateful that she does.

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Posted by canerleo101

No I think you get a lot of pleasure for making people feel bad.

Smh. I'm not going to explain my post or reasons for posting what I did. Take it for what it's worth. I did noticed you didn't address my question about how exactly I put you down or my post being facts about what you posted though. Nice deflection 😉. Again, try that on someone else.

Posted by canerleo101

As far as the comment about "I have witnessed hurt because of the thoughtless actions of their parents" myself and the person who molested my daughter was in the Church faithfully living for Christ I had no idea that he was a fake.

Really not my point. You forgot to add, "prior to, during and after they experience abuse". The fact that you posted it in detail at all and have your face on the boards has the potential of causing her additional harm. Why? Because people apparently screen shot the hell of these boards. Because I have seen a young girl have something in her past plastered all over twitter and vine by a thoughtless individual to shame and humiliate her. That was my point.

Also, from what I recall, what you've posted above is not what you stated before.

Anyway, I'm not gonna go back and forth with you. If I recall from your last account that is what you do. Deflect, go back and forth with posters, provide vague answers. Meeeeh.

I am truly sorry that this has happened to your daughter and you. Be mindful of the information you share and how.

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No it's fine, I need this it makes me a stronger person plus I think that it is a good thing that I disclosed info about what happened to my daughter I would rather you guys comment about it rather than my family in friends. And my daughter is open about what happened to her it is no secret. And I apologize for indicating that you were putting me down if that is not what you were trying to do. But regardless like I said it just makes me a stronger person.

Posted by PhoenixRising

I don't even know you. It saddens me to see women play themselves and not have someone tell you to stop, so you can actually get your self together and achieve what you want. Especially if your reasons are due to what I think is going on (given the info you shared when you had last account). The one person I trust the most doesn't allow me to fool myself into false ideas about any of the situations I am in. She will tell me straight up "_____, just stop. Get your head out of your ass." and I am grateful that she does.

Exactly, you don't know me, and that shit happened to my daughter when she was four she is now fifteen how much time do I need to heal life goes own.

Posted by canerleo101

Posted by PhoenixRising

As for your daughter. Are you kidding me? Seriously? You put the very private situation about your daughter on this board in a very detailed and distasteful way--which I did not repeat by the way, which I am sure was very painful and private for her. You had no problem what so ever sharing that bit of information and when others asked you to hide it, you refused. But since you've deleted you think all is forgotten and I am not supposed to mention it? GTFOH! You do not know who the hell is floating around these boards. There are people who are member approximately her age on here. Information is shared so easily passed around. So while you did not mention her name, you have your face plastered all over the place and anyone with two brain cells could make the connection between you and your child's traumatic past child if they happened know you.

I take no pleasure in seeing/discussing the issue of abuse. You can believe that. You also have no idea how many children I have witnessed hurt because of the thoughtless actions of their parents, prior to, during and after they experienced an abuse.

Seriously, try that sh*t with someone else.

Why are you bringing it up a second time? Is it pleasureful for you?

Because you asked me this:

Posted by canerleo101
Does it make you feel good to put people down what i went through with my daughter almost being killed by my ex-husband is very painful and I would wish that on my worst enemy.

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If you ask me a question (and passively try to deflect your stuff onto me), believe I will answer you. Just know you will not be able to determine how I choose to answer it. And quoting me out of context isn't going to fly either. No I take no pleasure in it. You asked a question and now I'm done with the topic. Just don't try to spin anything onto me and we're good.

Posted by canerleo101

Posted by PhoenixRising

I thought you were completing school and pursuing your own business. Why did you give up on that?

Everythings going quite well I have been truly bless and I'm happy that I was able to move to NYC.

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Well then focus on that and leave that man alone. If he's not being straight with you, leave him alone. If you're spending more time arguing then spending time together enjoying each other, move on. You stated you can meet men anywhere, so do that and be happy.

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Posted by canerleo101

Posted by PhoenixRising

As for your daughter. Are you kidding me? Seriously? You put the very private situation about your daughter on this board in a very detailed and distasteful way--which I did not repeat by the way, which I am sure was very painful and private for her. You had no problem what so ever sharing that bit of information and when others asked you to hide it, you refused. But since you've deleted you think all is forgotten and I am not supposed to mention it? GTFOH! You do not know who the hell is floating around these boards. There are people who are member approximately her age on here. Information is shared so easily passed around. So while you did not mention her name, you have your face plastered all over the place and anyone with two brain cells could make the connection between you and your child's traumatic past child if they happened know you.

I take no pleasure in seeing/discussing the issue of abuse. You can believe that. You also have no idea how many children I have witnessed hurt because of the thoughtless actions of their parents, prior to, during and after they experienced an abuse.

Seriously, try that sh*t with someone else.

Why are you bringing it up a second time? Is it pleasureful for you?

Because you asked me this:

Posted by canerleo101
Does it make you feel good to put people down what i went through with my daughter almost being killed by my ex-husband is very painful and I would wish that on my worst enemy.

If you ask me a question (and passively try to deflect your stuff onto me), believe I will answer you. Just know you will not be able to determine how I choose to answer it. And quoting me out of context isn't going to fly either. No I take no pleasure in it. You asked a question and now I'm done with the topic. Just don't try to spin anything onto me and we're good.

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You are the one who initially brought up my daughter being molested. You are the one who choose to bring it up on this post.

Posted by canerleo101

Posted by PhoenixRising

I don't even know you. It saddens me to see women play themselves and not have someone tell you to stop, so you can actually get your self together and achieve what you want. Especially if your reasons are due to what I think is going on (given the info you shared when you had last account). The one person I trust the most doesn't allow me to fool myself into false ideas about any of the situations I am in. She will tell me straight up "_____, just stop. Get your head out of your ass." and I am grateful that she does.

Exactly, you don't know me, and that shit happened to my daughter when she was four she is now fifteen how much time do I need to heal life goes own.

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*sigh* stop taking my words out of context (aka cutting and pasting) to suit your flip flopping agenda. You asked me if I had something personal against you, right? How can I have something against someone I never met? Now you're talking about your daughter and how much you need to heal...what? What does that have to do with what I wrote above in response to you're question? Lawd....okay...

Best of luck to you. Sincerely.